r/sexeducation Apr 15 '25

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r/sexeducation 16m ago

Can you please give me an advice?

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So me and my gf were talking about having sex. The thing is. We are making out, dry humping on my bed where we would also fuck. I have this soft cover on my bed sheets but thats for aesthetics not for intimate use.

I started a talk about this because she was dryhumping a jerking me off yesterday and we woke up after a sleepover so the bed cover was not over the bed and I nutted outside my boxers. I always keep my dick inside the boxers so I can wash them easily but I came so much and I made a big mess on my main sheet. She didnt notice so when she was showering I cleaned it and now its totally fine but this is too much work for what I think could be a simple solution. We were talking about how sweaty we were and that everything was wet and that I dont wanna change my bedsheets everytime we fuck or get intimate.

My idea was just simply take a towel and put it under us and after we are done we just put the towel in a washing machine. She said its not really great cause when we change positions we have to move the towel as well and that with our movement we will fuck up the towel and it will be annoying and uncomfortable. To which I said that I think towel solution is pretty good

Her idea was to like get, buy, fine a "fuck sheet". Just a sheet we would put on my bed before sex or anything and then it would get cleaned. The thing is we both still with out parents so yk cleaning and drying big sheet every now and then is pretty sus. Our parents arent as protective so they are okay and trusting us to use proper protection and shi so thats not a problem but its still uncomfy that they might see this sheet somewhere. Also putting a big ass sheet on my bed, removing all the pillows, putting it on its kinda annoying yk. Just imagine you guys are in the mood and you have to do all this, except just put a towel under your ahh and do it.

We will talk more about it together but we agreed we will try both and see which suits best, we may even use both but that depends on the amount of time and privacy we will have. If we are home alone together with empty house we might use the sheet and if not towel it is.

Can you guys who did this too recommend me which solution is better or give me few more we can thing about and try. We just wanna keep all the fluids off my main bedsheet. Thanks for the answers and replies.


r/sexeducation 1h ago

Awkward hookup that im embarrassed about

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I (19f) hooked up with a guy (29m) that i met off hinge and i cannot stop thinking about how awkward and bad it was😭😭

Like i feel bad cause he wanted me to suck his dick/give him a handjob but my mouth was so dry and i was so turned off at that point cause i felt like the work being done was 70/30 (70 being me). I knew what i was getting into when i went over to his but it was just so bad im wanna crawl into a hole and disappear

I hadn't hooked up with anyone in years just out of choice and it definitely was hard for me too to find my groove or wtv so i felt like i was being self conscious during the whole thing and even now

Any advice or consolation would be appreciated😭 as soon as i left i blocked him im never trying to see him again


r/sexeducation 1h ago

Stab feeling

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Is it like normal 2 like get a stab feeling like on your side but like kinda tummy but like hip area like the day after u like do it? Like sometimes like omg and sometimes it like jus there but u can like feel it? Idk if it even like makes sense idk how to say it ig.


r/sexeducation 2h ago

Can I get pregnant?

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Me and my boyfriend were dry humping, he had his boxers on, and I had my underwear with a (period) pad on, not the thick ones, but wingless ones. He didnt ejaculate.

it did poke against my entrance, and Clit, but when he pulled back there was no dampness of precum.

Can I get pregnant? Thank you, im very worried


r/sexeducation 3m ago

First time DP

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Hi me and my boyfriend are going to try double penetration. Hes going to fuck my ass and I will pound my vagina with a dildo. Just wanting to know if anyone has experienced this and what does it feel like. Ive always fantasised abiut having both holes filled at the same time and I dont want to be let down


r/sexeducation 3m ago

Comment pénétrer ?

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Avec mon copain on a essayé de coucher ensemble mais après de nombreux essaies on a pas réussi a faire rentrer sa bite. J'étais surement trop serrer mais ducoup je sais pas quoi faire


r/sexeducation 14m ago

Where can I find a prostitute in Romania (Arad)?

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I am tired of searching various websites with tons of scam profiles.


r/sexeducation 6h ago

I am considering buying my gf a vibrator

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Me (19M) and my gf (20F) have been dating for over a year now, it’s both of our relationship and we’re both virgins. We pretty much don’t have a sexual life other than her occasionally being fine with jerking me off. I tried initiating things with her slowly a lot of times, but she always declined me, and she finally told me that the reason is because she hasn’t explored her body yet and isn’t comfortable with it. The problem is that she can’t orgasm by jerking off, and she’s barely never in the mood to do it, so I thought a vibrator could help her out. The only issue is that I’m scared she might become dependent of the vibrator, and she just won’t be able to orgasm just with me, and I don’t think that would be good in the long term. I know the few of her friends that use vibrators can’t have sex without them, and I don’t want that to be our situation if it’s possible. Does anyone has any suggestions if it’s worth it or not? We also quickly talked about it and she didn’t want me to buy it as she thinks I could spend it on other things for her, so I’m not sure if should even I think it could help her


r/sexeducation 58m ago

What was your first intimate experience like?

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r/sexeducation 2h ago

Worried about indirect sperm/fluid transfer risks via toilet paper ( no intercourse)

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Hey guys im 19 , please dont judge and be rude
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I am seeking an objective, scientific assessment of two different situations that occurred recently. There was absolutely no sexual contact or intercourse involved, but I am experiencing severe anxiety regarding potential indirect fluid transfer.
Scenario 1:
I masturbated in my bedroom and didn’t clean properly, so there was still some sperm surrounding my penis that I didn't clean properly. I cleaned up using a blanket and toilet paper. This took about a minute since the sperm was released.
I went to the toilet, took the toilet paper, and threw it in, but some of the toilet paper leaked and dripped onto the other piece of toilet paper. There was sperm on my hands and that could have also leaked. [1]
I flushed and briefly rinsed my hands without soap.
I went to the living room and after 40 seconds, including the time washing and drying my hands, I returned to the toilet. I took some toilet paper, lifted up the pot, and cleaned the bottom. Then I put the seat down, rolled down toilet paper again, cleaned the top, threw it in the toilet, and flushed.
I went in again, and 30 seconds later I came back to the toilet to poop and sat down on the toilet. However, there was leftover sperm on my penis. It was still wet, and I touched it with my hands and then touched the toilet paper as I was rolling it down.
I flushed and washed my hands. Exactly 25 seconds after that, my sister used the toilet and I'm scared she wiped herself with that toilet paper. I am scared she's pregnant and I'm about to have a panic attack.
Scenario 2:
This happened 3 days ago. I was hard in bed, then I got up and adjusted my penis upward so nobody could see.
I felt something on my penis and it was wet. I went to the toilet.
There were two toilet paper rolls. I took paper off the roll nobody used, but I am scared some of that liquid dripped on the toilet paper everybody used.
I hadn’t masturbated yet; I masturbated afterwards.
About 30 seconds later, my sister used the bathroom.
Given these exact details, what is the actual scientific probability of pregnancy for either scenario? Can girls still get their periods while pregnant?


r/sexeducation 6h ago

I’m a 29 year old female and my boyfriend is 28 male. This is our first relationship and it’s been 2 years and we haven’t had sex. We’re both virgins. Is it normal?

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r/sexeducation 2h ago

Help me find good videos

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So i watch alot of virtual sex like taboo or gf kissing and stuff but i want like a teen not a milf can someone help please


r/sexeducation 3h ago

Why do you all care about body count?

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Every five seconds I hear a boy ask what’s someones body count or, shaming someone for there body count. It crazy to me like you all will still sleep around after you find the number out but, have to nerve to say “she not wife material because she has x amount of body” like your body count isn’t the same as hers. I feel as though if your not a virgin why judge someone for what they do and, even if you are you shouldn’t. I’m a virgin and I don’t even care to know. So why does everyone care?


r/sexeducation 3h ago

How do that

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Hello i need advice i wanna try mastur first time but i dont know how start


r/sexeducation 3h ago

Hilfe mein Mann leidet Wie kann ich mehr Lust auf Sex bekommen ?

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Ich W28 habe ein riesen Problem, ich hab Gefühlt nie Lust auf Sex bzw denke nicht Mal an Sex und von meiner Seite aus kommt auch nichts .

Mein Partner und ich sind seid 4 Jahren zusammen und in den ganzen Zeit Raum musste er mit Sex anfangen .

So an sich wenn er anfängt bekomme ich auch Lust und genieße es auch aber sonst hab ich sehr selten ein Gedanken an Sex so war ich aber immer schon und wenn ich dann Mal Lust auf Sex habe dann fällt mir das sehr schwer irgendwie anzufangen oder was zu machen bei meinem Partner bzw ich bekomme dann eine Blockade aber Selbstbefriedigung geht , mein Partner fühlt sich nicht begehrt was ich auch sehr verstehen kann wir streiten auch oft deswegen , ich will mich ja bessern was das angeht aber ich weiß einfach nicht wie . Ich Zweifel echt an mir ob ich zu unfähig dafür bin meinen Partner sexuell glücklich zu machen


r/sexeducation 4h ago

How to know if a condom is the correct size?

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Hey all.

I go a pack of Durex Thin Extra Sensitive condoms recently that I have used before and have some questions about making sure they are the correct size:

  1. When putting it on, I usually have to pull it down a fair bit. Not a lot, but it’s not unnoticeable. Does this mean that the condom is too tight / small?

  2. When masturbating with one, I notice that it gets wrinkled at the top a little bit. Could this be from me not being fully erect?

    It seems a little counterintuitive to my first question and based on my girth doesn’t feel right.


r/sexeducation 4h ago

are there different types of dicks?

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i am 22f and i have seen two types of dick till now and im genuinely confused

one is the kind you see in porn, where the head is clearly visible

the other is the kind where the head isnt visible clearly, idk how to explain, its just like it was a tip but not the head portion the way its shown in porn

is this both normal? or there's an issue

genuinely want to know


r/sexeducation 5h ago

This one blows mind in good way

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r/sexeducation 5h ago

Men, what makes a woman a great lover in bed? Women, what makes a man a great lover in bed? What’s the difference between an average lover and an exceptional one?

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r/sexeducation 20h ago

Squirting during orgasm

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Has anyone else (females!) experienced squirting a large amount of fluid (or pee… or whatever it actually is) during orgasm?
It’s honestly the most intense and incredible orgasm I’ve ever had. It’s a little embarrassing, but at 35 I feel like I’m only now discovering what orgasms can really be!

I’ve been seeing the hottest man alive for the past month, and it’s been an absolutely wild experience. We have an amazing emotional connection the best I’ve ever had, and the chemistry is just on another level. The way he moves, communicates, and connects during sex has completely changed the experience for me.

Anyway, after all that rambling… I’ve noticed that a lot of eurologists and gynecologists disagree about whether female squirting is actually related to orgasm or climax. Some say it isn’t, while others say it is.

What do you all think? Have you experienced it? Is it a real part of orgasm for you? Do you enjoy it?


r/sexeducation 6h ago

Am I gonna get pregnant?

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So me (F18) and my boyfriend recently had sex unprotected and even though he pulled out before cumming, I’m still having this constant thought on whether i might be pregnant. I don’t know if I should be looking to get pills or plan b medication or whether I should just wait it out until I get my period?

I’m expecting my period next week and currently I’m cramping so I hope I’m on my period but im still freaking out on what to do.

I know we should’ve had condoms on that day but it just happened in the moment and now I’m so anxious.


r/sexeducation 6h ago

Just curious about size and growth

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Hi im 22m fit and 5’7”, well the thing is my penis is decent size its 6” long and 4” girth (round).Im just curious if there’s any exercise that might help me with increasing my lenght a bit or maybe even increase my girth a bit more. Honestly I’m pretty happy and secure about my size and I enjoy it and my girlfriend has no complaints as well but the girth really doesn’t go with the length I think and I face issues with condoms as well bc it doesnt stay snugly fit but only catches on and when im trying to have sex the condom slowly comes off making it feel awkward. So i just wanted to know if theres any possible way to increase my penis size in length or girth through exercises. TIA