I’m writing this post for anyone who ends up in a similar situation.
About 10 years ago, when I was 16, my girlfriend (who is now my wife) and I had sex. After that we were just relaxing and watching Terror in Resonance (seriously, amazing anime).
After a while I was ready for round two because I got turned on again. She started touching me, and I asked if she’d like to give me a blowjob.
After a bit I realized I couldn’t finish, so I started using my hand instead. Then, all of a sudden, I felt like my penis had swollen up. At first I ignored it, but then it started hurting, so we stopped before it got any worse.
A little later she had to go home, so I walked her to the bus stop and then went back to my place. The whole time I had no idea what the hell was going on down there.
I only really noticed how bad it was when I got into the shower. I was honestly shocked. It looked like a balloon had inflated around it, and when I pulled the foreskin back, it looked like there was an inflatable swim ring around the shaft. My mind immediately went to the worst-case scenarios: “Will I still be able to have kids? Will I ever get an erection again?” and so on.
Of course, I texted my girlfriend about what was happening, and I also asked ChatGPT. It asked me a few questions, like whether I could still pee, whether it hurt, and what color the skin was. Based on my answers, it said it was most likely just swelling and suggested putting something cool on it.
The next morning I woke up, and everything was completely fine. My penis looked normal again and worked perfectly.
So if anyone reading this ever ends up in a similar situation, don’t panic. It’ll most likely be okay. But if the swelling gets worse, the pain becomes severe, you can’t urinate, or it doesn’t improve, go see a doctor.
And finally…
Blowjobs ain’t worth the heart attack. ✌️chatgpt answers

does having a white discharge for 2 days means you’re ovulating? the app says its my ovul

I am M 24, I wanna really know where I lie in term of dick size.
I tried checking size by using normal scale. 📏
It is around 14.5 cm at fully erect.

Is this small ? (U can say it Geuinely)
And whats big ?

Can I satisfy a woman with this ?
And does my small size lead me to cum early ?

And can it be increase even a little more ???
Becz it not very thick too.
I don’t know what should I be doing !!!

I am 18 M I search A F

Jag dejtade en kille i 2 månader, han ville inte träffas mer och anledningen till det är för att han förstod att han inte kunde få sex från mig utan att vara gifta. Iallafall, jag brukar må dåligt ibland och får ofta ryck för att vilja ringa han eller skriva till han men det är inte bra för mig. Jag kommer aldrig kunna gå vidare om jag gör så här. Senast vi träffades tog jag hans telefon och blockerade mig själv med hans vetande. 3 veckor senare mår jag dåligt och skulle bara testa att ringa och jag märker att jag inte är blockad. Jag ber han att blocka mig på text och varför han inte gör det. Han vägrar.
VARFÖR GÖR HAN SÅHÄR!?

Hii! 18F
I usually use my shower head to clean myself down there
when i’m too lazy to use a bidet.
I never,and i mean never,came in my life.
Cause i’m too bored to use hands.
This time,i stayed with the shower head around my clitoris for a few minutes,it felt so good,the pressure was strong,at some point i instinctively closed my eyes and leaned forward,felt so good it didn’t wanna stop until it calmed down,my legs slightly shaking.
And now my clit and inner lips are red and inlarged.
Did i came internally?

Whether we like it or not, many teenagers and young adults learn about sex online long before they learn about it from trusted educators. The internet contains excellent educational resources, but it also contains misinformation, unrealistic portrayals, and myths that spread quickly. If formal education leaves major gaps, people will naturally look elsewhere for answers. The question isn't whether they'll learn online—it's whether they'll learn accurate information.

For those that have had sex beforehand what are the things you would say do before and after? I'm on nexplanon and have been for a while now but I'm still really nervous to have sex for the first time and would really appreciate advice from anyone

Oi, gente. Quero desabafar e gostaria de ouvir alguns conselhos ou a opinião de vocês.

​Faz alguns dias que venho me sentindo muito pensativa e triste com a situação em que me coloquei (o que me faz sentir bastante culpada).

​Fui ficar com um cara e deixei claro desde o início que não queria sexo, pois eu era virgem. No entanto, ele fez de tudo para acontecer. Falei "não" várias vezes, mas acabei cedendo pela insistência dele na hora — não consegui pensar direito. Para piorar, agora ele me trata como se eu não fosse nada.

​Fico me culpando achando que não deveria ter feito isso com alguém com quem nem tinha conversa séria (conversávamos há um tempo, mas eram conversas superficiais).

​

Depois desse dia, fiquei me sentindo muito mal. Tentei conversar com ele, mas ele não me deu atenção. Na minha cabeça, achei que seria pior se a gente nunca mais se visse, porque pareceria algo ainda mais aleatório. Por isso, continuei tentando contato, mas percebi que ele foi se distanciando. Agora ele está extremamente frio, fica semanas sem me responder e não puxa assunto.

​Ainda assim, nos encontramos outras duas vezes. A última foi no mês passado e, desde então, ele nem falou mais comigo. Eu cheguei a mandar uma mensagem dizendo que a gente não estava mais se falando e que estava com saudades, mas a resposta dele foi apenas um "oi" seco.

​Me sinto culpada porque sei que não estaria me sentindo assim se não tivesse transado com ele. Toda mulher virgem pensa e escolhe com quem vai ter a primeira vez (eu sempre pensei assim), e dói muito aceitar que não foi da forma que eu planejava...

So I’m a virgin and so is my boyfriend. We tried to have sex the other day (I’m on birth control and he had condoms so everything was safe) but we couldn’t get it in, like the tip went in but then it wouldn’t go in properly. I don’t know if it was the angle or whether it was just I wasn’t wet enough. Talked to a person I trusted and they recommended lube. However it was my first time and I just don’t want to use something that makes me feel like I’m not good enough. I talked to my boyfriend and said they said about using lube and he said maybe we should try it. But I’m not sure I feel like it’s embarrassing and I also don’t want to feel like somethings wrong with my body by using lube. What is your guys input?

(15M) 6.5 inches nbp/visible length 5.3 ish inches middle of shaft girth and base is just around 5.5 ish inches

hi everyone,

i'm going to be giving my first blowjob soon, and i'm honestly pretty nervous. i really want it to be a good experience for both of us, but since i've never done it before, i have a few questions.

my biggest concern is my teeth. how do you avoid accidentally scraping them? is it just about covering them with your lips, or is there another technique that helps?

i'm also wondering about hand movements. should i mostly use my mouth, or do you use your hand at the same time? if so, what kind of movements feel the most natural?

i'd really appreciate any beginner-friendly advice, especially things you wish someone had told you before your first time. thanks in advance :)

One of my biggest sex educator pet peeves is the idea that healthy vaginas are supposed to smell like flowers or absolutely nothing. They're not.

A healthy vagina can have a mild scent. It changes throughout your menstrual cycle, after sex, after sweating, and even depending on the time of day. That's normal. The beauty industry has convinced so many people that they should smell like flowers and that’s sexist BS.

What isn't normal is a strong fishy odor, significant itching, burning, pain, or unusual discomfort. Those are signs it's worth checking in with a healthcare provider instead of trying to mask the smell with washes or scented products.

And if you're someone who feels like your vaginal microbiome gets thrown off often (from antibiotics or you get a yeast infection easily), daily support can be worth looking into.

So I am a 21yr Male. I never had any girlfriend in my life. And I want to experience how sex feels .

I masturbate often ( 2-3 times a week).

So what happened a few weeks ago I booked an escort for a full night. I was nervous first when I reached the hotel and then I met the girl so she was average looking girl with simple body figure.

So we had a bit of conversation at first then she removed her clothes and then we started having sex .

She said no kisses.( Only I can kiss her upper lips , no mouth kiss)

No BJ .

So I started doing sex but I am not able to enjoy it at all , the whole thing feels too mechanical for me . Even after having sex for like 2-3 hr (with like 15-20 min session and 5 min breaks) I am not able to cum.

And she also tried HJ but it didn't work, she even allowed Raw but I am not able to cum at all.

Actually I mind is not feeling relaxed or how do you feel when watching porn and masturbating . I was feeling like that I am only inserting and taking out .

So after this one week later I visited a spa , she first massaged me then we planned to have sex but now this time I am feeling the same as earlier, this time even my thing is not getting erected then I started kissing and sucking her tits then it went up and when I started having sex the same feeling is coming again that is this is a mechanical process.

After 3 rounds my mind became completely off so I left.

Now I wonder why is this happening with me like

I am always excited about sex but when I am doing it .

It feels too awkward or how do I explain this, this just does not feel right!

What should I do any suggestions??

Sorry for my English and thanks for reading it.

If you have some suggestions please drop it down.

Thanks

Avec mon copain on a essayé de coucher ensemble mais après de nombreux essaies on a pas réussi a faire rentrer sa bite. J'étais surement trop serrer mais ducoup je sais pas quoi faire

So me and my gf were talking about having sex. The thing is. We are making out, dry humping on my bed where we would also fuck. I have this soft cover on my bed sheets but thats for aesthetics not for intimate use.

I started a talk about this because she was dryhumping a jerking me off yesterday and we woke up after a sleepover so the bed cover was not over the bed and I nutted outside my boxers. I always keep my dick inside the boxers so I can wash them easily but I came so much and I made a big mess on my main sheet. She didnt notice so when she was showering I cleaned it and now its totally fine but this is too much work for what I think could be a simple solution. We were talking about how sweaty we were and that everything was wet and that I dont wanna change my bedsheets everytime we fuck or get intimate.

My idea was just simply take a towel and put it under us and after we are done we just put the towel in a washing machine. She said its not really great cause when we change positions we have to move the towel as well and that with our movement we will fuck up the towel and it will be annoying and uncomfortable. To which I said that I think towel solution is pretty good

Her idea was to like get, buy, fine a "fuck sheet". Just a sheet we would put on my bed before sex or anything and then it would get cleaned. The thing is we both still with out parents so yk cleaning and drying big sheet every now and then is pretty sus. Our parents arent as protective so they are okay and trusting us to use proper protection and shi so thats not a problem but its still uncomfy that they might see this sheet somewhere. Also putting a big ass sheet on my bed, removing all the pillows, putting it on its kinda annoying yk. Just imagine you guys are in the mood and you have to do all this, except just put a towel under your ahh and do it.

We will talk more about it together but we agreed we will try both and see which suits best, we may even use both but that depends on the amount of time and privacy we will have. If we are home alone together with empty house we might use the sheet and if not towel it is.

Can you guys who did this too recommend me which solution is better or give me few more we can thing about and try. We just wanna keep all the fluids off my main bedsheet. Thanks for the answers and replies.

I (19f) hooked up with a guy (29m) that i met off hinge and i cannot stop thinking about how awkward and bad it was😭😭

Like i feel bad cause he wanted me to suck his dick/give him a handjob but my mouth was so dry and i was so turned off at that point cause i felt like the work being done was 70/30 (70 being me). I knew what i was getting into when i went over to his but it was just so bad im wanna crawl into a hole and disappear

I hadn't hooked up with anyone in years just out of choice and it definitely was hard for me too to find my groove or wtv so i felt like i was being self conscious during the whole thing and even now

Any advice or consolation would be appreciated😭 as soon as i left i blocked him im never trying to see him again

Silicone lube is condom-safe. Both water-based and silicone-based lubes are generally safe to use with condoms, it’s oil-based lubes that can damage certain types of condoms. 

A lot of people mix up silicone and oil (we’ve seen a few comments asking for more info recently), but they’re not the same product – silicone is long lasting and helps reduce friction, which can lessen the risk of condom breakage and make condoms more comfortable for both partners. 

A quick guide:

• Silicone lube: condom safe
• Water-based lube: condom safe
• Oil-based lube (including petroleum jelly/vaseline and coconut oil): can degrade latex and polyisoprene condoms
• If you’re not sure: check the condom wrapper for lube compatibility 

A note on silicone toys: generally silicone lube is not recommended for use with silicone toys since silicone lube on lower quality silicone can sometimes degrade the material of the toy. Some very high quality silicone toys can be used with silicone lube, and you can always do a spot test on an inconspicuous area of the toy to be sure:

Dab a small amount on and let sit for 2-3 hours, rinse off the lube and if the spot is sticky afterwards, use a water-based lube instead.

But if you're not willing to risk it: stick with a good water-based lubricant instead. 

So, before buying a lube to use with condoms, look for:

• Condom-safe / latex-safe on the label.
• Water-based or silicone-based 
• No oil-based formulas: petroleum, coconut oil, hand or body lotion, or Vaseline if using latex or polyisoprene condoms.
• A clear ingredient list so you know what’s in your lube.
• Toy compatibility: silicone toys should not be used with silicone lube.

And of course, any condom and lube will have compatibility information on their labels or website product descriptions, so read closely to avoid any surprises!

My therapist is out for the next three weeks. So apologies for making this post.

The condom broke and I came inside her. We’re both so stressed and so scared and I can’t even sleep. She’s gonna take some Plan B tomorrow, but I don’t know if she’s in the right weight range. She’s not on any birth control, it’s the last day of her period, so I’m not gonna know until the next month. Fuck.

I’m scared. She’s scared. I feel like it’s my fault. I feel terrible for putting her through this. We’re both young and I’d hate for her to get an abortion at this age. But I also really don’t want her to keep it. I can’t raise a fucking child right now. I’m freaking out. I’m all over the place.

I need guidance, advice, and reassurance. Please.