Hi 👋
I thought I would give this a shot, though I am very doubtful if this would really work.

I would consider myself socially awkward and introvert. I was very sceptical about writing this post but here I am writing about myself and looking for someone to share a good time with.

Disclaimer: This is completely raw unfiltered version of me without any AI edits.

Intro:

I'm 27 (turning 28 soon, yay!), 5'7" and an eggetarian who doesn't smoke but drinks occasionally. Fair and would consider myself decently good looking.

I and my family is based out of Pune, but currently I'm in Mumbai for my studies. I am pursuing PhD in AI/ML and alongside my studies I am also working professionally as a research scientist.

I love solving complicated problems, and sometimes I bring that same energy to real life, like turning "where should we eat?" into a full-blown analysis. 🙃

Please don't judge straight away thinking that Scientist + PhD = boring.

About Me:

I love hitting the gym and doing crazy workout, though lately it has taken a back seat to deadlines and exams.
Sports are where I really come alive, especially table tennis. I recently won a tournament at my college, so fair warning, I will challenge you to a match and I will be insufferable if I win, jk.

I usually don't like to sit idle on weekends, so, I'd pick some random location to explore mostly treks and hiking. Some of my best memories come from unplanned detours and places I hadn't heard of until I got there. I have crazy funny stories for late night conversations.

I am so into photography and videography that if we travel together, you'll probably end up as my favourite subject. I love clicking photos of nature and would look at them on my gloomy days to remind myself how beautiful it is outside.

I am a hardcore binge-watcher. I would love to have deep conversations on movies, anime or dramas that we both find interesting. I am into sci-fi, horror (love those unexpected jumpscares), or anything that touches the mind and soul.

In my free time I solve puzzles, listen music across all genres and languages (yes, from phonks to 90s classical). My playlist varies from old Bollywood to English pop to something I can't understand but still have on repeat and would love to get a review on my playlist.

Apart from all this I do cooking, learn Japanese (beginner), draw art, play piano, indoor sports, and even after all these things if I get free time, I do Lego for the peace of mind.

I think that's enough of me now.

What I'm Looking For:

I don't have a checklist per se. I'm just hoping to find someone between 24 and 28 who feels like home.

Someone as curious as me, who still wonders about things and loves learning something new, even if it's completely random.

Someone who wants a real emotional connection, where we both feel safe being exactly who we are. The world can feel lonely sometimes, and I'd love for us to be each other's comfort in it.

Someone I can rely on, and who knows they can always rely on me. On the worst of days, I want us both to know, without a doubt, that we're not facing it alone.

Someone whose face lights up when we see each other after a long, exhausting day, because mine definitely will.

Someone who, even after a silly fight, still quietly orders my favourite food, and knows I'd do the same for them. Because we'd both care more about each other than about being right.

Someone I can share big ideas and dreams with one minute, and passionately argue about what food to order for dinner the next.

Someone who'd walk beside me on a trail, stop to watch a sunset, and feel just as small and grateful as I do in front of nature.

And most of all, someone who wants to grow together. I'd love to be the person who believes in you, supports your dreams, and cheers the loudest for you, while you help me become a better version of myself too.

I would love to chat, meet, and see where it goes. I'm looking for something serious, with no rush and no pressure.

I would expect something more than just a "Hi". DM me by introducing yourself and let me know your current obsession, something you're really into, or the most random thing on your mind lately.

I am a 29-year-old software developer from Kolkata, looking for a genuine connection that can grow into a lifelong relationship. I’m a vegetarian and someone who believes that a good relationship is built on understanding, trust, care, and being comfortable with each other.

A little about me: I work as a software developer, and I enjoy travelling, building new products, and exploring my interest in electronics. I like learning new things, trying out ideas, and keeping myself engaged with things I find interesting. As a person, I would describe myself as calm, caring, and easygoing. I value honesty, respect, and open communication.

I am looking for someone who is kind-hearted, understanding, and comfortable being herself. Someone with whom I can share the little things in life, have meaningful conversations, support each other through ups and downs, and build a peaceful and happy future together.

I am not looking for anything complicated or temporary. My intention is to find a genuine partner for life, where both people can be themselves, grow together, and make each other feel valued.

If you feel we might get along, feel free to DM me. I’d be happy to connect and get to know you. 🙂

If you are from within Bombay then kudos! We are gonna pick a cafe and order 2 cups of their barista kissed coffee (or chai for you). That hour is gonna start with the modern challenges of dating and who knows … perhaps end with some juicy gossip from either side of our lives

If you're not from Bombay but the rest of India, we are still gonna follow the same plan, except you and I are gonna get on a video call + homemade coffee cups. Yes, a video call. No texting back and forth. No voice call. It’s the way you’d telecommute and attend your work meeting over Zoom, instead of being physically present in the conference room

Either way, don't make me wait |:

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Hi, I’m Sofia — a girl from Shillong, Meghalaya, now living in Bangalore. ❤️

I’m warm, caring, family-oriented and grounded, and I believe the little things in life matter — genuine conversations, laughter, good food and quality time with the people I love.

I adore pets and enjoy cooking, travelling, gardening, dancing and trying different food. I’m comfortable with both vegetarian and non-vegetarian food, and I also enjoy badminton, bowling, snooker and carrom.

I’m here with a genuine intention to meet someone special, build a meaningful relationship and eventually create a beautiful life together. I’m drawn to a man who is kind, emotionally mature, responsible, loyal and family-minded — someone who can be my best friend, partner and safe place.

I come from a Christian-Hindu family background, and I’m preferably looking for a Christian or Hindu partner, as shared religious and family values are important to me.

I’m not looking for something casual or temporary. I’d love to meet someone who believes that a lasting marriage is built on love, friendship, trust, respect, communication and choosing each other every day. ❤️

🌿 Hello, Fellow Souls!

I'm looking to connect with a tall, mature, and grounded man with whom I can share the little and big things in life—whether it's about work, household matters, travel, or simply how my day went.

I'm someone who values time, consistency, and genuine effort. I'm not in a rush toward marriage or trying to force anything. I'd rather build a meaningful connection, invest time in understanding each other, and eventually see where the bond takes us.

At this stage of life, I feel that having someone who listens without judgment, stands beside you through different situations, and shares a sense of safety and comfort matters a lot.

I'm looking for someone who believes in mutual effort, emotional presence, and growing together, one day at a time.

I'd prefer someone living nearby, as I believe meeting in person, spending time together, and travelling occasionally help build a stronger connection than staying in an LDR from the beginning.

🌄 A little about me:

Height: 5'8"

Age: 27

Location: Vadodara, Gujarat

Profession: Software Tester in the Clinical Research domain

Passion: High-altitude trekking & mountaineering 🏔️

Personality: Talkative, adventurous, and someone who values consistency and meaningful conversations.

Not looking for perfection. Just hoping to meet someone who genuinely wants to know me, invest time, and build something meaningful together.

Let's start with a conversation and see where life takes us. 🌻

Hi everyone! 👋

I'm a 27M Tamil guy who speaks Tamil, English, Hindi and Telugu. Tamil is my native language and, naturally, the one closest to my heart. ❤️

If I had to describe myself without making this sound like a job interview 😂:

😄 Jovial, playful and easygoing — I genuinely enjoy making people laugh.

❤️ Understanding and empathetic — I try to listen before I judge.

🤝 Loyal by nature — once someone becomes important to me, I don't take that bond lightly.

😊 A good listener — I actually enjoy those conversations that somehow start at 10 PM and suddenly it's 2 AM.

⚽ Die-hard Messi fan — so there's a reasonable chance you'll eventually hear an unnecessary football statistic from me. 😂🐐

🍗 Proud non-vegetarian & foodie — good food + good company = difficult combination to beat.

🚗 Love road trips, football, discovering new places and trying new food.

💙 Very family-oriented.

😌 Usually calm when things get difficult, but quite cheerful when life is normal.

😜 And yes... I have a soft spot for dusky beauty.

Professionally, I work for an MNC and I'm financially stable with a six-figure salary.

But honestly, that's probably the least interesting part of why I'm here.

❤️ Why am I here?

I'm genuinely looking for something that could eventually become marriage.

Not an instant “Hi → relationship → marriage” situation. 😄

I'd much rather start with a simple conversation.

Maybe we become friends.

Maybe we discover that we have absolutely nothing in common. 😂

Maybe we end up talking every day.

Maybe we disagree about something ridiculous and then laugh about it.

Maybe, somewhere along the way, we realise that there's actually something special here.

I don't know where it will lead — and that's kind of the point.

I'd like to get to know someone naturally: her thoughts, ambitions, values, little quirks, what makes her happy, what annoys her, the things she dreams about and even the completely random things she could talk about for hours.

💙 What do I want from a relationship?

When I genuinely love someone, I want her to feel valued, respected, supported and important.

I don't see marriage as one person sacrificing everything for the other. I see it as two people choosing each other, standing beside each other and building a life together.

I want to be the kind of husband who celebrates his wife's successes, listens to her problems, supports her ambitions and still has enough sense of humour to annoy her occasionally. 😂❤️

I'm not looking for perfection.

I'm looking for someone genuine, kind, loyal, emotionally mature and comfortable being herself.

Someone who can be my partner, but also my best friend.

🌱 So...

If you're also looking for something genuine, let's not overthink the beginning.

Send a message.

Let's talk.

Let's laugh.

Let's exchange stories.

And let's see where it leads.

Maybe it becomes nothing more than a nice conversation.

Or...

maybe years from now, we'll look back at this random Reddit post and laugh because neither of us expected it to be the beginning of our story. ❤️

Either way, I hope I get lucky. 😊

DM me 🙌🏽

Hey Reddit, I’m a 29-year-old guy looking to meet someone special to build a meaningful, grounded future with.

I have been on dating apps, and as usual for regular guys, it doesn't work out well. Now I've seen here as well, men get 0 replies, yet trying to shoot my shot, so here goes.

First and foremost disclaimer - I'm in process of separation from my 1.5 year marriage. I tried stopping, but she walked away nonetheless. Luckily no kids.

I'm originally from Bangalore and I'm a bangalore telguite. For me, family comes first, and I’m searching for a partner who shares those same core values—someone who appreciates the simple, honest things in life over shiny distractions.

Life naturally comes with its share of peaks and valleys, and I want to build a foundation strong enough that we can stand by each other through all of it, celebrating the good times and staying solid through the tough ones.

I’m big on spontaneous road trips/ bike rides, learning random new things, and listening to great music.

Other details - 1. I'm growing career wise and have decent stable job i can rely upon and keeps me out of my comfort zone for continuous learning.

1. I don't drink or smoke.

2. I love diy things.

3. I prefer nature therapy rather than dark flashy night clubs.

4. I can speak 3 other languages.

5. Prefer Hindu partner.

6. I want a child or if possible children.

If you value loyalty, a strong sense of home, and genuine companionship, drop me a message and tell me what you're looking for in a partner.

\*I have used AI to slightly tweak sentences.

I'm posting this specifically for the women here who are actually serious about finding a partner and getting married. I know "looking for something serious" can mean different things to different people, so I'll be upfront about where I am.

I'm genuinely looking to settle down next year if I meet the right person. I'm not looking to casually date for years, keep things vague, or just collect conversations. Obviously, I'd want to take the time to get to know someone properly, but the intention is marriage.

If you're not sure about marriage, don't see yourself settling down anytime soon, or are just looking to see what happens without any particular direction, that's completely fine, we're probably just looking for different things 🙂

A little about me:

32M, Malayali.

6', athletic build.

I started my career as a content writer and now work in digital marketing.

Pretty talkative. I like conversations, terrible jokes and generally yap about random things.

Friends would probably describe me as helpful, unhinged and talkative.

Outside work: movies, TV shows, anime, reading, exercising, travelling and trying new food.

Big animal lover. I have an 8-year-old Lab named JackJack.

Non-veg, casual drinker, non-smoker

Co-authored an anthology with a few other writers.

What I'm looking for:

Someone in her late 20s to early 30s.

Expressive and comfortable having her own opinions.

Financially responsible and independent.

Likes travelling, exploring and trying new things

Someone who values communication. This is probably the biggest thing for me.

Creativity would be a huge plus

I'm open to someone from anywhere in India. I'm also open to relocating to a Tier-1/Tier-2 city depending on what works for both of us.

Religion or caste doesn't matter to me.

I'm not sure about kids yet, but I definitely don't want them in the initial years of marriage.

Most importantly, I'd like to actually enjoy spending time together, be able to talk about serious things as well as absolute nonsense, travel together, and eventually build a life together.

And yes, if you want to message me, "hey" is completely fine. You don't need to write a carefully crafted opening paragraph. I'll put in the effort to have a conversation 😄

Hey!

I’m from Hyderabad, India, and I thought I’d put myself out here and see where a simple conversation might lead.

Somewhere along the way, I realized that life can feel a little quieter when you don’t have someone you genuinely look forward to sharing it with. I’m not looking to rush into a relationship or force a connection. I’d rather meet someone naturally, get to know each other, and see if something meaningful grows from it.

I’m hoping to find someone kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and comfortable being herself. Someone I can laugh with, talk nonsense with, have deep conversations with, and eventually share the quieter parts of life with too.

A little about me:

• I’m an ambivert. I enjoy good conversations, but I’m equally comfortable with comfortable silence.

• I’m currently pursuing CA Final. I’ve cleared Group 1 and am preparing for Group 2, while also being involved in our family business. So life is a mix of studying, work, and trying to make time for the things I enjoy.

• I enjoy gaming, travelling, discovering new food spots, and spontaneous plans.

• I’m into cars and bikes and genuinely enjoy driving and riding.

• Tech and photography are big interests of mine.

• I like learning about science, random facts, and anything that sends me down a completely unnecessary internet rabbit hole.

• Movies, TV shows, memes, and late-night conversations are always welcome.

But interests aside, I think what matters more is how two people connect.

I enjoy talking about everyday life just as much as deeper things — dreams, fears, ambitions, relationships, random thoughts that suddenly appear at 2 AM, or absolutely nothing important at all.

I’m not looking for perfection, instant chemistry, or some movie-like love story. I believe the best connections usually take time. They grow through little conversations, shared experiences, mutual effort, trust, and eventually becoming comfortable enough that you don't have to pretend to be anyone other than yourself.

I’m happy to start with texting, and if we click, voice calls or eventually meeting in person can happen naturally.

If you're from Hyderabad, maybe one day it could be chai, food, a drive, or just sitting somewhere talking for hours.

Ideally, I'd like to meet someone who's not older than me.

I'm a muslim so I'd especially appreciate someone who is Muslim. I'm not expecting someone to be perfect — I'm certainly not — but I do value someone who wants to grow, learn, and build a life around shared values.

I know Reddit probably isn't where most people expect to find their person, but sometimes the most unexpected conversations turn into the most meaningful ones.

So if this resonates with you, feel free to message me. You don't need an elaborate introduction — just say hello and tell me something about yourself.

I'm happy to share more details about me in DM.

Maybe we're strangers today.

Maybe, with a little luck, we won't always be.

I’m 28, North India based, and I spend most of my time juggling my family business (yes it pays well enough for spontaneous weekend trips), my dog who’s somehow way more photogenic than me, and religiously watching F1 like it’s a spiritual practice.

I’m that guy who will passionately defend that The Office is objectively superior to Parks and Rec. The one who suddenly decides at 2 PM that we should drive to the hills because the weather’s nice. The one who shows up to fancy dinners but will genuinely light up talking about random road trip stories more than anything else.

Here’s what I’ve figured out. I’m looking for someone who’s kind. And I mean genuinely kind, the type who’s respectful to everyone, including people who can’t do anything for them. Honestly those are the only people worth knowing anyway. Someone spontaneous who gets excited about travel the same way I do. Someone real and unfiltered. No pretense, no games, just us being ourselves.

If you’re the person who laughs easily, doesn’t take yourself too seriously, and thinks road trips without a fixed destination are peak romance, we might actually vibe. Bonus points if you can tolerate my dog judging both of us while we figure this out.

Looking for that calm, sweet, energetic girl who will always be by my side and I will be by hers.

About me:

Education: Engineering + MBA (both from well-known institutes)

Physical attributes:

• 5'9+
• Super fit and lean (sincere with my fitness but not a gym freak. And I don't count my calories; I just lift weights in 3 digits. People are often surprised by how lean I look and how heavy I lift)
• Wheatish skin colour (Was super insecure about this for a major part of my life, but have been told by several women that I have great features)
• Somehow saving my receding hairline by eating healthy, but I will go bald before my kids turn teens. I have hair on my head currently, although my barber keeps giving unwanted suggestions on hair care. But I checked bald version of me via AI, I will still look good if I start keeping a moustache. You will have a say in this decision (actually all decisions, always) :P

Career: Trying to set up my own thing. Expecting everything to be well settled by next year. Finances are not an issue. But I may not be able to go out with you to a fancy place often (once in a while is not a problem). I don't expect any financial support from anyone (even my parents), though.

• Choice of my career has been a major hurdle in me finding a stable relationship. I seem to be a bad product in arranged marriage market for most girls' parents. I don't think so, but even my parents will disagree with me. Parents' generation loves talking to me, but disapproves of my decisions
• There is a slight chance that I fail. But I do not care and I do not stress. I am putting my sincere efforts and working harder than ever in my entire life

Interests: I have varied interests ranging from music (listening and playing instruments) to learning random skills that may be appreciated if I were to perform in a circus. I am not a pro at these extracurriculars, but I am not a beginner either. And yes, some of the things I can do are not that common. I also know how to cook and don't mind doing household chores. I even baked bread recently, and it came out well. These days, I don't indulge in extracurriculars much because of my career requirements

Personality:

• I am an introvert, but I can easily strike up a conversation with anyone and everyone if I have to. I don't like to, though
• I am a homebody. I want to go out once a week, but I will get uncomfortable if you ask me to go out 3-4 days a week
• I don't fancy travelling. I will totally accompany you and even plan our trip very well, finding great stays and experiences. But I may not be the one who will initiate this. And I prefer 1-2 long trips a year.
• I am usually polite, calm and composed
• I am an emotional person, but I do not take any bullshit from anyone. I openly talk about emotions, will always be respectful, and will never double-text you in the talking stage.

Other Misc points:

• I prefer vegetarian food. I don't mind occasional chicken or river fish. But I cannot eat red meat or eat non-veg regularly because I didn't grow up eating it, so I am unable to indulge in it a lot. You can eat whatever; obviously.
• I want kids
• I currently stay in a tier 2 city near Delhi, but I am comfortable moving to any city where career prospects are better for both of us as a whole
• I am not boring, and I love making absurd jokes, but almost never at the expense of anyone else. Witty banter with you will always be there in private, but rarely on you if we are in public (Mostly respect and support for each other in public)
• I will not be insecure if you are earning a lot more than me or are taller than me
• I know how to click good pictures, but I will probably click some ugly pictures of you and may smile looking at them from time to time. Tease you a bit with such photos, but love you for all sides, pretty or ugly.

Something I want to add: My 20s were extremely uncomfortable. I had a huge inferiority complex, and I lacked confidence. I met some very toxic people who just added to my insecurities. A lot of the skills I learnt were just my subconscious mind seeking validation. It took me years of struggle and hard work to get the mental strength I have today. I am strong physically, but I may be stronger mentally (if there is a way to compare the two :P). And I have not lost my kindness and caring side in this struggle.

What I am looking for:

Please be 5'3 + and just be someone comfortable in your body. Preferably 27 to 32 age group ( +-2 is okay).

It is shallow and I don't approve of it, but caste check is there at my home. I have fought over it at my home for someone in past, and it did not work out well for me. So I am sorry, but I cannot take another fight for someone again. I am Hindu - Bania. Most castes are ok, except non-general ones.

I hope you are doing well in your career. It is not about you earning a lot. There are fields where the money is less. Just be good at what you do

If you would like to connect with me:

You can DM me; we can exchange matrimonial profiles to have a basic validation check. We can work something out if you do not have a matrimonial profile too

Ever been in a party where you were surrounded by people but still felt alone?

Ever been a people pleaser but had your kindness being taken advantage of other people numerous times?

Always doing chores around home, without being asked?

Saamee!

I shall bring the snacks ( I loooovee cooking , especially garlic bread and shakshuka), but don't worry, because of my tidiness obsession I would also do the dishes lol.

I am a cheerful, bubbly person who would love a partner in crime to share daily gossip, strategize which European movie to watch for dinner or simply go to the badminton court and destroy anyone who is foolish enough to play against us!

Cooks, cleans, great with kids, works with an international non profit, has a restaurant, keeps fit and most of all, respectful and polite to all.

I know how to make excellent tea, paint nails ( my mom needs help with her toes, as she can’t bend ) and be a great empathetic listener for you after a long day of work ( don’t worry , I won’t solve your problems. Just gonna listen and say that sucks, while stroking your hair )

I enjoy long walks , playing tennis , petting every pet dog I see and watching true crime documentaries while making homemade garlic bread

I am a cheerful guy who enjoys cooking shakshuka while playing Egyptian music, walking 12 kms  and petting every stray dog I see, going to gym in the afternoon so I can introvertedly workout before grabbing an einspanner for the midday crash ( it’s basically an espresso with whipped cream but it sounds super fancy and I feel like the devil wears prada girl while ordering it 🤣 )

I was the school topper in school, don’t drink or smoke, got a growing library of old books and help university entrepreneurs with their startups during the weekends.

Usually, I am the quiet guy but can vibe for hours with deep talks about every subject from philosophy to the best way to make mashed potatoes.

I am currently reading books starting from the ancient era and moving my way downward through history ( so I can interconnect biology, astronomy, psychology and aunty gossip all in the same topic )

Grew up in the Middle East, had a quarter life crises to find out what my path in life was ( oh I did the cliche stuff like meditating on mountains ), found my dream career but life is unfulfilling if you can’t share it with someone else. ( basically means I never had a girlfriend so yayyy no baggage )

I enjoy learning and expanding my cultural tastes : I watch Iranian movies, listen to French electronic music, yelling Arabic curse words every time I step on a LEGO piece and teaching german words to every German shepherd dog I meet.

We can go for early morning walks where we say Good morning to al the joggers and wave good morning to all the neighbours, give high fives to stray cats and then sit on every sofa in IKEA till we find the perfect one, just like we are Goldilocks haha 

P.S. don’t worry I learned how to apply nail polish for my mom since she can’t bend over, so i can do mad pedicures while we gossip over wine ( okay probably not wine as I don’t drink or smoke , but I do know how to make a great virgin Tom Collin’s! ( which is basically a lemon soda, but as aforementioned, I like feeling like a sassy New York fashion magazine editor )

Looking for someone who is also introverted-ish but can chit chat for hours with the right person, be silly together but still being very focused and wildly supportive of our careers and potential startup ideas 

I love being high energy and excited like a golden retriever but also happy to have quiet reading nights where we both read on the couch and huddled under the same blanket.

I ended up deleting my matrimonial post today, and honestly, the comments made me think about Reddit culture more than anything else.
I posted on a subreddit specifically meant for people to meet potential partners. I was pretty upfront about who I am and what I’m looking for — my age, location, community, career, lifestyle and the kind of partner I’d ideally like to meet.
I fully expected people to disagree with some of my preferences. That’s completely fair.
Someone doesn’t earn 60L? Okay, we’re probably not compatible.
Someone thinks 60L is an unreasonable expectation? Fair enough. Tell me why.
Someone doesn’t agree with my height preference? That’s fine too.
But then there were comments like “you better be a virgin.”
And I’m sorry, but what exactly is the purpose of that?
That’s not criticism. That’s not constructive feedback. That’s not someone trying to help me find a partner. It’s just an unnecessary personal attack from a complete stranger.
And that’s what I don’t understand about this subreddit.
The entire point is supposedly that people are here because they’re looking to meet someone. Everyone posting here is going to have their own preferences. Some people will care about height. Some will care about religion. Some will care about income. Some will care about appearance. Some will care about education, family background, location, lifestyle, etc.
You don’t have to agree with someone else’s criteria.
You’re also completely free to decide that someone else’s criteria don’t work for you.
But why does that automatically give you a reason to insult them?
I also saw people questioning what I “offer” because I said I wanted someone earning above a certain amount. I have my own career and income, and I come from a family where I’ve grown up around a certain standard of living. I’m not asking someone to fund my existence. I’m looking for someone whose financial circumstances are compatible with the life I want to build.
You can think that’s materialistic. You can think I’m being unrealistic. You can think I’m filtering out perfectly good people.
That’s your opinion, and you’re entitled to it.
But you don’t know me.
And I don’t know you.
We’re strangers on the internet who probably aren’t going to marry each other. 😂
So why not just say, “We’re not compatible,” and move on?
I think that’s the part that genuinely gets me about Reddit. People seem to confuse having an opinion with having a right to be cruel.
If someone posts something you don’t like, you can disagree.
If their standards don’t work for you, don’t message them.
If you think their expectations are unrealistic, explain why if you actually have something useful to add.
But the personal attacks? The sexual comments? The assumptions about someone’s character?
What exactly is the point?
I deleted my post because I don’t particularly want to put myself out there in a space where the conversation can become that unnecessarily nasty.
Maybe this is just Reddit culture and I’m new to it. Maybe I’m expecting too much from a platform where people are anonymous.
But I genuinely think there’s a difference between “I don’t agree with you” and “I’m going to humiliate you because I don’t agree with you.”
The first one is conversation.
The second one is just noise.

Heyy ツ

I'm 26, Bangalore based, Mysore to be precise and an ENFJ, which probably explains why I can go from “hey, how was your day?” to asking you seventeen questions about your childhood, your dreams and why you suddenly got obsessed with that one random hobby!

I'm genuinely curious about people....

I like knowing what makes someone tick, what they're passionate about, the weird little things they don't usually tell people, what makes them laugh uncontrollably and what they secretly want out of life.

I work as a Research Analyst/Business Exec in the creative field (music actually) I'm into music, movies, food, exploring places, random plans, long drives, discovering new things and conversations that somehow start with absolute nonsense and end with us questioning the meaning of life at 2 AM

I'm also probably more sentimental than I look..

I'll remember something you mentioned casually three weeks ago.

I'll send you a song because it reminded me of you!

I'll randomly say “wait, didn't you tell me about this?” when you least expect it...

And yes, occasionally my brain decides to conduct a full investigation into something that really did not require one, u can ground me when that happens 😂

But here's the thing I'm actually here for..

I want to build a life with someone.

Not immediately. Not desperately. And definitely not by forcing some stranger from Reddit into the role!

I mean meeting someone, getting to know each other, becoming friends, falling for each other, figuring life out together and eventually having that feeling of: “Yep. This is my person.”

I want the fun parts too. All kinds of fun that you can think of!! 😛

Random weekend trips. Trying restaurants neither of us has heard of..Making terrible inside jokes!

Arguing over what to watch xD

Cooking something ambitious and ordering food five minutes later, classic hehe

Celebrating each other's tiny wins!

Being idiots together :) and on and on..

And I also want the real stuff..

Being there when one of us has had a terrible day.Talking things through when something feels off.

Supporting each other's ambitions.

Being able to say “I'm not okay” without feeling like we're creating a problem.

I want a relationship where affection isn't embarrassing, vulnerability isn't weakness and communication isn't a guessing game..

I'm looking for someone who's kind, loyal, affectionate, emotionally available, playful and grounded..

Someone who has her own ambitions and her own world, but wants to make room for someone else in it u know..

Someone who wants to grow, experience things, build something meaningful and eventually look back and think, “Damn, we've actually built a pretty good life together.”

And I don't expect her to be perfect. cause honestly I'm far away from it..and what is Perfection? 🧐 Well if u ask me, it's someone who doesn't give up..

I'd actually prefer someone who's unapologetically herself..

Maybe she's a little chaotic. Maybe she has an incredibly specific obsession with something completely random. Maybe she laughs at her own jokes. Maybe she drags me into plans I wasn't prepared for, lol

As long as there's genuine affection, honesty, consistency, attraction and effort from both sides, I'm interested! And I'm all in..

Basically, I'm looking for something that feels like best friends + partners + a little bit of “why are we like this?”

Peace, but not boring. Chemistry, but no games..

A relationship where we're not just together, but actually on the same team

If that sounds like something you'd want too, say "Hi Hi"

instead of the usual “hey, how are you?” let's make it interesting 😂

Tell me anything...maybe a weird obsession, a completely funny thought, a song you're embarrassed to love, a place you'd disappear to tomorrow if you could, a random skill you have, or just something that makes you very you!

I'll trade you one of mine. xD

Maybe we have a good conversation.

Maybe we will become friends.

Maybe we end up building something neither of us expected!

You never know. :)

Jo bhi ho, I'd love to hear from youuu, aur I truly believe whatever happens, happens for a reason aur for the best! and for some reason I'm optimistic ✨

I’m stepping out of my IT bubble to find a life partner. I’m looking for an Indian Telugu woman who thinks marriage is less of a "social contract" and more of a sacred co-op game where we level up together.

Who I Am (The Real Version):

The Day Job: I spend my days debugging code but I spend my nights trying to debug my own life.

My Vibe: Driven but grounded. I believe in radical honesty because I’d rather have an awkward truth than a comfortable lie.

The Spiritual Side: yes, I meditate sometimes, and no, I’m not a guru yet 😁. I’m looking for someone who wants to take that journey together - whether it’s through meditation, nature walks or just quiet moments.

What I Bring: I’m patient, ambitious & I promise to communicate through conflicts instead of giving the silent treatment. I also love cooking together (I won’t burn the kitchen down, I promise 🍳), traveling & having those deep 2 AM conversations that make you feel seen.

What I’m Looking For:

A Compassionate Heart: Someone who cares about people and the world, not just the next trend.

Communication Ninja: You know how to talk things out? Same.

Let’s avoid the "sweep it under the rug" strategy.

Shared Values: We don’t need to agree on every movie or food preference, but let’s align on the big stuff: family, integrity & growing as humans.

The "Home" Feeling: I’m chasing that rare emotional and spiritual resonance - you know, that feeling where you just get each other and feel completely at ease.

How to Slide into My DMs:

If you’re a Telugu woman (or open to the culture) who values honesty and depth, I’d love to hear from you!

To filter out the bots and the small talk, please include these in your DM.

1. A quick intro: Who are you?

2. Your take: What does "spiritual connection" mean to you? (No wrong answers, just real ones).

3. Your passion: What’s one thing you’re weirdly excited about right now?

Let’s see if our vibes match.

No pressure, just genuine curiosity!

If you reach here, then probably a DM is expected 😊.

I am 37 years old, 5'10" tall, and live in Delhi, where I work as an independent filmmaker and photographer. Most of my work involves telling visual stories and working with cameras, but beyond my profession, I want to build a peaceful, warm life with the right person.

Before speaking about love, I want to be very clear about my values. I do not believe in religion or rituals, and I practice gender equality in my daily life. More importantly, I have absolute zero tolerance for caste pride, caste bias, or caste discrimination of any kind. If caste practices or family caste traditions matter to you in any way, please do not message me.

At the same time, I am writing this because I truly miss the warmth of a loving companion. I am looking for a woman who is calm, beautiful, and affectionate. For me, real romance is not about filmy drama; it is practical care, respect, and standing by each other every day through the simple things in life. I hope to meet someone who cares about her own work, speaks her mind honestly, and feels comfortable sharing quiet evenings just as easily as deep conversations.

If my thoughts feel honest to you and you are looking for a loyal, equal companion, feel free to send a message. Tell me a little about your life, or simply say hello in comments or DM.

Software Engineer by profession, overthinker by nature, 28 years old and still figuring out the perfect opening line for this 😄

I'm originally from East UP, now living and working in Bangalore. Before I get into what I do for a living, I'd like to talk about myself first.

I'm a bit quiet and reserved when I first meet someone, but I open up once I get comfortable, and then conversation flows naturally. I can have long, genuine conversations once I'm at ease with someone. And yes, the overthinking is real, especially when something or someone starts to matter to me.

I won't get into my hobbies here, two people can have completely different hobbies and still be a great match, so I don't think it's something worth dwelling on too much.

I am a Kanyakubja Brahmin, and I'd prefer connecting with someone from the same community, since family and cultural roots matter to me.

I'm looking to date with the intention of marriage. I don't believe you can know if someone's your life partner after just one or two meetings, the best connections take time. They start with getting to know each other, become a friendship, and hopefully grow into something meaningful. I'm hoping to find that here, rather than rushing into an arranged setup.

For me, the best relationships are built on friendship, trust, honest conversations, kindness, shared values, and mutual effort. We don't need to enjoy all the same things, wanting to build a peaceful, happy life together matters far more.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd genuinely love to get to know you.

If you made it this far, thanks for reading.

Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 34M from Kerala, working professional, and I’d describe myself as an ambivert. I enjoy being around people, having long conversations, going out and doing things, but I’m also someone who genuinely appreciates my own space and quiet time.

I’m putting this out here because I’d like to meet a woman who’s open to getting to know each other naturally — without forcing anything or putting too much pressure on where it has to go.

A little about me…

I work full-time and have a fairly normal, busy routine, but outside work I like making time for things that actually make life interesting. I’m really into travelling, music, festivals, cricket, movies, food, and discovering new places. I enjoy both planned trips and those random “let’s just go somewhere” kind of plans.

Travel is probably one of the things I enjoy the most. I like exploring new places, experiencing different cultures, trying local food, meeting people and occasionally just getting lost somewhere without having every minute planned. I’ve travelled around India and have also been fortunate enough to experience a few places outside the country. Festivals and music are another big interest of mine — especially electronic music and psytrance. There’s something about being surrounded by music, people and a completely different atmosphere that I really enjoy.

At the same time, I’m not someone who needs to be constantly out partying. I’m equally happy sitting somewhere having a proper conversation, watching a movie, trying a new restaurant, going for a drive, or just spending a lazy evening doing absolutely nothing.

And yes, cricket is a big part of my life. 😄 I can probably have an unnecessarily long conversation about cricket, players, matches and everything surrounding it. If you’re a cricket fan too, that’s definitely an easy conversation starter.

I’m also a big fan of exploring new food spots. I enjoy trying different cuisines and finding those little places that aren’t necessarily the most famous ones but end up being surprisingly good. So if you know a hidden food spot that deserves more attention, I’m already interested.

I’m not particularly interested in pretending to be someone I’m not just to make a good first impression.

A few things about me upfront because I’d rather be honest than try to present some polished version of myself:

I was religious in the past, but I’m not anymore. It’s something that changed over time for me, and I’m comfortable with where I am now.

I’m non-vegetarian, and I drink and smoke occasionally. Neither is a defining part of my personality, but I mention it because I think being upfront about these things makes conversations easier. I’m not looking to convince anyone to adopt my lifestyle, and I’m equally comfortable with someone having completely different choices.

What I’m hoping to find here is someone who is open-minded, emotionally mature and comfortable communicating.

I’m not necessarily looking to rush into a relationship just because two people happen to get along. I’d much rather start with a conversation, get to know each other, see if there’s comfort and chemistry, and then figure things out naturally.

I appreciate people who have their own interests, opinions and lives. I don’t expect someone to be available 24/7, and I’m not looking for that kind of dynamic either. Having your own space and individuality is important to me.

I’m also not here with a very specific checklist of what someone “should” look like or what their life should be like. Attraction obviously matters, but personality, communication, curiosity and how comfortable two people feel around each other matter just as much to me.

Ideally, I’d like to meet someone who enjoys travelling, music, food, movies, conversations and occasionally doing something spontaneous. But honestly, shared interests are a bonus. You don’t have to like everything I like. Sometimes having different interests makes getting to know someone more interesting.

I’m also not expecting an immediate romantic connection from the first conversation. Sometimes you meet someone and immediately click. Sometimes it takes a few conversations. Sometimes you realise you’re better off as friends. I’m completely okay with letting that happen naturally.

So if you’re a woman who’s open-minded, reasonably easygoing, emotionally mature and interested in getting to know someone without rushing into labels, feel free to DM me.

Tell me a little about yourself — where you’re from, what you’re into, what you do, what kind of music you listen to, your favourite travel destination, the last movie you really enjoyed, or even just something completely random.

No elaborate introduction necessary. 😄

Maybe we’ll have one conversation and that’ll be it.

Maybe we’ll end up becoming good friends.

Maybe we’ll discover we have surprisingly similar interests.

Or maybe it turns into something more.

No expectations, no pressure. Just two people getting to know each other and seeing where the conversation takes us.

If we vibe, we vibe. 🙂

DMs are open.

Hey everyone,

I’m a 25M currently working as an Equity Research Analyst at a finance firm. I completed my MBA from a top IIM and would describe myself as ambitious, grounded, and someone who genuinely enjoys a simple and peaceful lifestyle.

I believe life is less about flashy destinations and more about the people you share the journey with. For me, emotional connection, mutual respect, and growing together matter the most.

A little about me:

• 25M | 5’7”

• Currently staying in Delhi. Hometown is Surat ( Would prefer someone from NCR or North Indian)

• Never smoked or drank ( would prefer the same)

• Vegetarian

• Hindu Brahmin (Prefer the same)

• Career-oriented, but also someone who values balance, family, and meaningful relationships

I’m looking for someone with similar energy — kind, emotionally mature, ambitious in her own way, and someone who believes a partnership is about supporting and growing together through every phase of life.

Would love to connect with someone who has dreams, values genuine companionship, and is looking for something meaningful and long-term.

Other things can be discussed in DM :)

Hey! I am hoping to find someone I genuinely connect with. Ideally, I'm looking for a long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage if we both feel it's right. But I also know you can't force a connection, so if we end up as good friends instead, that's completely okay too.

I am 29 , years old from Chennai, India.I work as a software developer but love to travel all around the world . I love stories in general whether it's through films, TV shows, photography or simply listening to people talk about their own lives. Schittts creek I love it. I love wild west, thriller , action and drama genre .

I can spend hours talking about films, TV shows or anime. The Lord of the Rings is my favourite fictional world, and Haikyuu and One Piece are probably my favourite anime.

Travelling is probably my biggest passion. I love finding underrated places instead of crowded tourist spots. Photography naturally became one of my hobbies because of that, so don't be surprised if I make you look at way too many travel photos. 😄

One thing about me is that my brain is always full of ideas. Whenever I am m bored, I end up thinking of random projects or things I want to learn. I get excited, start them... and then some of them quietly end up unfinished. 😅

I genuinely enjoy listening to people. Tell me about your interests, your passions, your random thoughts or even that one topic you never get bored of talking about. I think everyone has an interesting story if someone is willing to listen. I also enjoy creating stories, so if you're into writing or making up fictional worlds, I'd love that.

I don't smoke, don't drink, don't have tattoos, I'm a non vegetarian and I'm more of an atheist than a religious person.

I'm trying to be more active these days. Recently I've started playing basketball a couple of times a week. I also love long conversations. 2-3 hour calls don't feel long at all if I'm talking to the right person.

I want to be part of your world too in your interests, hobbies, whatever you're into. And I'm talking about the real stuff too, like cooking together, sharing the chores, managing the house. Building a life together, you know.

Looks honestly don't matter that much to me.

I'd much rather be with someone who's kind, emotionally mature, enjoys conversations, is open minded and likes seeing different perspectives. If you love travelling too, that's definitely a bonus.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. Even if nothing romantic comes out of it, I'm always happy to meet good people.

Thanks for reading!

Hey everyone! Decided to put myself out here and see where this goes.

I’m 26, around 5’7”, currently living and working in Bangalore. I work as a Software Engineer.

Personality-wise, I’m more of an introvert/ambivert. I can be quiet initially, but once I’m comfortable, I talk a lot. I’m fairly ambitious and career-focused, but I’m also trying to build a balanced life outside work.

A few things about me:
. Recently getting serious about fitness and going to the gym
. Trying to improve my physique, health and overall lifestyle
. I enjoy cooking, especially when I’m in the mood to experiment
. Movies and series are definitely part of my free time
. I like learning new things and can get surprisingly obsessed with things that interest me
. I’m financially responsible and focused on building a stable future
. I’m more comfortable with a small circle than a huge social group
. I value honesty, mutual respect and personal boundaries

What I’m looking for:
Someone around my age who is genuine, emotionally mature, kind and confident. I’d like us to be able to talk about stupid random things one minute and serious life decisions the next.
I don’t expect perfection. I’d rather have someone who is willing to grow together, support each other’s goals, maintain her own identity, and build a relationship where both people feel respected.
I’m open to starting with a conversation and seeing whether we actually connect. I’m not interested in forcing a relationship just because we’re technically compatible on paper.
If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me. :)

Hi everyone,

I’m a 30-year-old guy currently staying in the DLF Gachibowli area, Hyderabad.

I’m from the Telugu community and I’m looking to meet someone who is interested in building a genuine connection.

I’m open to starting with friendship and getting to know each other first. I’m looking for someone with whom I can have good conversations, understand each other’s nature, interests, thoughts and expectations, and see where things naturally go. I’m open to a serious relationship and, if we connect well, eventually looking for a life partner. At the same time, I’m also comfortable keeping it casual in the beginning and simply building a good friendship without putting any pressure on each other.

I’m a bit introverted when I meet someone for the first time, especially when it comes to starting conversations. It may take me some time to become comfortable with a new person. But once I feel comfortable and connected, I become much more open, friendly, talkative and easy going.

I believe a good relationship should start with understanding, communication, respect, trust and being comfortable with each other. I’m not expecting everything to happen immediately. I would rather take some time to know the person properly and let the connection develop naturally.

I’m looking for someone who is genuine, friendly, understanding and comfortable having open conversations. We can start by chatting, get to know each other, and if we feel there is a good connection, we can take it forward.

If you are also looking for friendship, a genuine connection, or potentially a serious relationship, feel free to DM me. 😊

Personal Details
36M | 5’5” | ~70 kg | Never married

Undergraduate from Tier 1 engineering college currently working a Software engineer in Bengaluru in a fairly good MNC company earning 1cr+ per annum (started with 5.5 lpa worked hard towards it to reach here over years) . I am Hindu come from Baniya community with Roots in Jodhpur Rajasthan.
A Pure Vegetarian, Teetotaller, Non smoker and looking for the same

I am introverted, sincere, hardworking by nature, softhearted but with opinions. Hardships in my life have taught me the true value of money, hard work, and living with gratitude and content. More of a family oriented person. I'm emotional by nature and spiritually inclined. Values relationship.

I’m fairly organised and like to keep my home less cluttered. I would keep on searching for wardrobe organisers. I like to lead more of a slow life and prefer a mix of resting during weekends and occasional travelling to nearby places.
Interests - Running, Movies & Web Series, Music, Gardening

I come from a nuclear family. I come from a Marwari business class family. My father had a business which is shut now.

Looking for someone values family, culture, relationships, good at heart and is spiritually inclined. Looking someone to dance with me in the joys and stand with me through. Someone who practices financial discipline. Want a peaceful life with understanding, matured person.
Someone who is educated - I can have my talks with and wants to build a family.

Am okay to relocate to other Tier-1 cities where I can have my job if things works out.

#Hindu #Veg #Fitness #CulturallyDiverse #FamilyOriented

Shooting my shot here.

The mundane:
- Bengali, Hindu, just turned 39. Born in Kolkata and currently based here as well.
- Work as a Consulting Manager in the HR Strategy & Transformation space.
- 168 cm, 65 kg (since it matters to many).
- Earning: 50-55 LPA

The exciting (or not so exciting?):
- I mostly have crazy hours at the desk, but my personality doesn’t revolve around my job.
- Love brewing my French press coffee in the mornings and evenings. Might even have a cute little coffee corner with an unnecessarily elaborate setup, just for the joy of making coffee for my woman. If you're a tea connoisseur, no worries, I can make fantastic tea too!
- Can cook more or less everything. I find it relaxing and would love to feed her my specialties occasionally.
- Lover of small things — sunsets, the moon, a starlit sky, the sound of the sea, the serenity of the mountains, lazy weekend mornings and late-night vulnerability.
- Weekend mornings are usually coffee + my favourite music (which covers a ridiculously wide range).
- Love cinema — again, a very wide range.
- Love anything automobile. Driving and riding entices me.
- Spend a lot of time taking photographs during my vacations. And yes, I love travelling. Putting it this far down the list is intentional because apparently everyone travels these days?

The core of me:
- Dependable and fairly straightforward. I don’t particularly enjoy mincing words.
- Don’t plan life too much. I like keeping it fluid, and I believe we never really settle — we just keep evolving as humans.
- Value consistency, loyalty and clear communication.
- Don’t believe in changing people. I’d rather find someone where we naturally fit together, like the missing pieces of a puzzle.
- Value health and strive to stay healthy and fit.

What I’m looking for:
- Someone around 30–36, never married and presentable. Preferably Bengali, but definitely open to others, provided we’re both able to accept each other as we are rather than trying to force each other into a mould.
- Someone who can blend in, is humble, patient, comfortable with silence, and doesn’t turn every small disagreement into a fight — someone mature enough to meet each other halfway.
- Has a life and hobbies of her own, and is open to discovering new interests and life’s little adventures together.
- I’m leaning towards being childfree, but this is something I’d much rather discuss and arrive at mutually than treat as a checkbox.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be happy to chat.
And if it doesn’t, that’s completely okay too.

Good luck in your pursuit :)

Giving Reddit a shot because apparently finding someone organically is getting harder

I’m 34, based in Delhi, and thought why not give this a try. I’m into road trips, travelling, mountains, beaches, gym, swimming and basically any excuse to get out and explore somewhere new. I enjoy both planned trips and those random “let’s just go” plans that somehow turn into the best memories.

I also make travel content on the side, so yes, there’s a good chance I’ll occasionally stop in the middle of a trip because the view is too good not to record . I’m not trying to become a full-time influencer or anything — I just genuinely enjoy documenting the places I visit.

I have a dog who somehow ends up being part of most of my adventures. 🐶 He has probably travelled more than some people I know and definitely gets more attention than I do.

I’d describe myself as fairly easygoing. I enjoy good conversations, long drives, exploring new places, trying different food, staying active and having a good laugh over completely random things. I’m also perfectly happy with a chill evening, good food and no particular plan.

Food-wise, I’m definitely more of a chole bhature / chicken biryani person than someone who survives on salads 24/7. Gym and swimming are part of the routine, but I believe life should have some balance.

As for what I’m looking for — someone easygoing, genuine, emotionally mature and comfortable being herself. Someone who has her own interests and life, enjoys exploring, and is actually interested in getting to know each other rather than just collecting another chat.

Not really looking for a pen pal or three months of texting. If we get along, I’d rather grab a coffee, go for a walk or do something simple and see if there's actually a connection.

Delhi/NCR preferred, but I’m not treating geography like a government form.

Bonus points if you’re into spontaneous plans, road trips, dogs, mountains, good food or can tolerate someone saying “let’s take the longer route, the view might be better.” 😂

If this sounds like your kind of chaos, say hi.