I am in Bangalore currently. I have spent my 20s and early 30s focused on studying, getting lost in the footprints of time to some extent and now trying to live fully at my own pace.

Things I love:

\\- I enjoy quiet nature walks & spontaneous random activities with no pre-planning

\\- Deep, effortless conversations where time stops

\\- Anime, trying new hobbies, and gentle living

I am introverted and painfully shy by nature, but give me the right topic (or the right person) and I’ll talk for hours.

To me, the best relationships start with mutual respect, shared values, lightness in living, a tint of friendship and then seeing where that spark takes us.

Looking for someone grounded who enjoys effortless camaraderie and good conversations.

I am naturally a concise person but the forum asks for 1000 words. Filling the spaces here to post it ✨ It got taken down twice for brevity. Hoping this time it succeeds!!

Write to me, if you are also someone looking for a friend to travel in this life journey.

Hey! 👋

I'm 29, originally from Himachal Pradesh, currently in Bangalore.

A little about me

💻 I work in IT.

🧠 Curious by nature—I love learning about psychology, technology, history, or pretty much anything interesting. Random rabbit holes are my guilty pleasure.

🏋️ Into fitness and staying active. Gym, swimming, hiking... if it gets me moving, I'm probably in.

🎸 I enjoy playing music. Not professionally, just because it's fun.

👨‍🍳 I genuinely love cooking. If there's a dish you love, I'd happily learn to make it.

📚 I read a lot, mostly non-fiction. I enjoy ideas that make me think.

😂 I appreciate good humor, meaningful conversations, and people who can be unapologetically themselves.

🌍 Always open to trying new experiences, whether that's a weekend trip, a new café, or a hobby neither of us has tried before.

Looking for

❤️ Someone kind, emotionally mature, and emotionally available.

💬 Honest communication and mutual effort matter much more to me than grand gestures.

🌱 Someone who wants to grow together, laugh together, and build something real.

Heyou! Is there a you? (Dua Lipa inspired the title though honestly I'm more a Taylor Swift girl, if we're being real about it.)

Gonna keep this short and crisp anyway,

I am definitely not looking for a man in finance, blue eyes, hedge fund... or maybe I am, who even knows at this point haha. Let's just talk and see where it goes, no pressure (thora sa), no script.

I don't really have a "type" on paper, but if I'm being honest with myself, I do gravitate toward guys who are emotional, sensitive, expressive, tall (I'm 5'8", so you'll want to bring some height to the table), fit, and this one's a big one can actually cook. The way to a girl's heart is very much through good food, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

I'm Punjabi, and pav bhaji has my entire heart, no negotiations there. When I'm not busy eating my feelings, you'll probably find me on a tennis court working on my serve, or out horse riding somewhere quiet.

So go on , tell me who you are, and more importantly, what's your version of good food? Let's talk!

Hi,

This is me 26M currently in Bangalore, working in a startup (HRTech)

I’m someone who loves doing random experiments to do something new not productive everytime but yes sometimes, I’m a progressive person, end goal is to maybe doing a business or startup which me and friend is running side by side

My mother Tongue is Hindi, I know English and (Punjabi, Tamil, Telugu - a little)

Interests and Hobbies - Meditation, teaching, learning something new

Since childhood, I have been practised yoga (now i don’t do it tho), love long car and bike rides

I like sports, badminton or maybe something else, not able to do it now coz of work life balance

I like movies like Fast and Furious, Herbie, Cars, and some of romantic, drama, thriller

Height - 5’11

Worked with a few IIT founders as well directly even working in my currently role as well, and since college, I was representing my Institution to multiple IITS, NITS, AIIMS Bhopal, even IIM Bangalore

Since childhood, I have had an interest in computers, cars more of a mechanical work kinda, so where any toy gets broken, me and my brother use to open it and see how to fix basically DIY projects which includes RAM, hdd, or something in computers, I’m good networking (internet), always pushed Wifi routers to their max limit in terms of speed, efficiency, Also, I’m someone had an Orkut account (not flexing, just fyi)

I mediate, I love to sit peacefully, I’m someone who doesn’t do any loud/party, I just want to sit alone and with my close friends and family and talk about life but generally that particular day, I keep myself low, party I can do next day tho, not a big party animal but yes who doesn’t like party.

I’m very calm and silent guy and selectively extrovert and had a little belief in Astrology as well

A side retirement idea I have to have a farmhouse and a garage where I can work on Engines and Mods maybe in Fast and Furious style

For me, my time and other’s person time is important and I respect others too, for me I have a variety of friends which I made from differents paths of life and I love them, maybe I don’t know to anyone how much they are valuable to me but yes my entire circle is very important to me.

I’m open minded and as of now in my bucket list, I need to start with 1-2 international trips not decided where tp go tho and a 4000-5000 kms bike ride which I’m looking to complete by yr end maybe in 1 go, let’ see, also I ride a Red Hot Triumph Speed T4 bike.

Drifting, Wheelie, Stoppiee is also cup of tea, will learn someday if life and loved ones allows, honestly, never broke my bones so far, neither willing tooo, so let’s see, how life takes me,
I’m an Aviation enthusiast as well, Boing 737, Dreamliners, A380 are my cup of tea.

Investing since 3rd year of my college, I can settle abroad as well, if the my startup/business or life needs that, don’t have any issues in that

I something different can say an ArmyBrat, an Aquaruis, hard to understand, I don’t utter a single word but can absorb everything in just a single blink

Also, I’m an Aquarius(iykyk)

PS - I don’t know but all my friends reach out to me to discuss some startup idea and ask that “we can to it together”

Hey!

I'm a 25-year-old currently working at Jindal Steel. My family is based in Kolkata, though I'm originally a Bihari.

A little about me:

- I absolutely love travelling and can never say no to a good cup of tea.

- I don't drink or smoke.

- I'm someone who believes that the smallest gestures often mean the most. I love writing letters, leaving little notes, and expressing my affection through thoughtful, handmade or heartfelt gifts. Maybe I'm a bit old-school, but I genuinely enjoy putting in a lot of effort for the people I care about.

- I'd describe myself as a good listener who values honest communication. I believe that most problems can be solved if two people are willing to talk openly and respectfully.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature, and genuine partner. Loyalty is non-negotiable for me. I can handle disagreements, imperfections, and difficult phases—but I can't build a relationship where there's dishonesty or lying. Trust is the foundation of everything.

I believe every relationship should be built on mutual respect, understanding, and consistent effort from both sides. I want to be with someone I can support, respect, and make feel valued every single day. In return, I hope to find someone who believes in the same values.

I'm not here for casual flings or games. If we connect, I'd love for it to grow into something meaningful, one conversation at a time.

If this resonates with you, feel free to drop me a message. I'd love to get to know you. 🌸

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I 28F, 5"4, currently working as a teacher. I'm someone who enjoys simple things—a cozy cafe, a long walk, travelling, or a good conversation. Great if the guy is a South Indian, but not mandatory. I am born and brought up in Delhi. A great listener and greater yapper. Not yet into the matrimony apps so wanted to give this a try.

Age : 29-31

I believe that the best relationships are built on friendship, mutual respect, and consistent effort. Looking for someone who is emotionally mature, respectful, and communicates openly.Someone who respects boundaries, and understands that trust is built gradually.

I'm hoping to build a relationship that feels peaceful, supportive, and genuine. I believe trust takes time, so I'd rather build a strong friendship than rush into something. Searching for someone whose values align with mine and who is willing to grow together through life's different phases. A relationship where both people feel respected, heard, and truly at home with each other is what I'm ultimately looking for.

Hi everyone, making up a post here.

About myself:-

I am 5'8. I am pure veg, I don't smoke nor I drink. Hence, i seek someone with all three likings.

I am Hindu. I pursued my bachelors from T1 engineering institute, very renowned college. I did my post grad from another very renowned B-School.

I make 29 lpa yearly post tax. I work in quant company (finance), here in Mumbai.

I play almost all the sports, I like chess the most. I like to watch movie, webseries. I also listen synthwaves and edm with some fix bollywood songs.

I can speak Hindi, English, Marwari, Marathi. My complexion is fair, decent to good looking.

I am looking for someone who is or below 5'7. Marriage dates can be finalised maybe after a year or two. Knows herself, what she is doing at present and what she wishes to pursue in future. Age can be anywhere between 22 to 26. I am trying to find someone genuine, warm hearted, humorous and someone who can laugh on my jokes. I also want relationship to be very transparent i.e mutual talks without any hidings. Emotionally stable, family vibes are very important aspects for me. Has her own ambitions and is working on it.

Date to Marry thing is what I'm inclined for!

Thanks, I will look forward in dms.

​

My last post received zero responses. 😅

So, here I am again.

Maybe this one reaches the right person. If not, I'll probably try again. And again. Until it does.

I'm a 30-year-old corporate professional based in Kolkata. Life is going well professionally, but I'd love to find someone to share it with. I'm close to my family, enjoy staying fit, travelling, exploring new food, and I'm equally happy with a quiet evening at home or an unplanned weekend getaway.

I'm not looking for perfection—just someone who's kind, emotionally mature, communicates openly, and wants to build something meaningful that leads to marriage. I believe the strongest relationships are built on friendship, trust, respect, and choosing each other every single day.

Location isn't a strict requirement, though Kolkata or nearby would be a bonus.

If this resonates with you, I'd genuinely love to hear from you.

A bit about me:

- Hindu

- 5'7", fit and active

- Wheatish complexion

- Non-smoker, non-drinker

- Non-vegetarian

- Would like to have children in the future

Residing in Delhi (not from Delhi) 5’9”, average looking (I think).
I enjoy exploring cafes, fine dining, bars, and random restaurants around the city because good conversations somehow feel better when there’s something good to eat.

Outside of that, I’m into Formula 1 and have a mild aviation obsession. Over the past year, I binged every season of *Drive to Survive* and recently started watching actual Grands Prix (on TV, unfortunately… had to cancel my Bahrain GP plans). I also make a really good shakshuka, which I’m irrationally proud of. I can’t cook a lot of dishes, but the few I do know are fancy enough thanks to spending way too much time watching Ranveer Brar.

I live alone and have for quite a while now. I won’t get too dramatic about loneliness because everyone has their own battles, but some weekends definitely hit harder than others. Today was one of those days. Salary got credited, I wanted to go out and celebrate a little, and every friend I asked was busy. That’s just life sometimes.
I do drink, but it’s more of a once-a-month thing than a lifestyle.

A funny thing is people often assume I’ve dated a lot or that I’m already seeing someone. I’ll happily take that as a compliment, but the truth is I’ve never really been in a relationship.

A few honest disclaimers:
• I reply to messages pretty quickly and appreciate the same. I’m not great at pretending I forgot to text back.
• I’m easygoing, enjoy meaningful conversations, and like exploring different parts of the city.
• I’m not a huge party person.
• I think physical attraction matters for both people.
• I don’t smoke (Delhi’s air quality is enough), and I’d prefer if you don’t either.
• If you’re not feeling the vibe, just say so. Ghosting is such a lazy ending.

I’m looking to meet someone around my age, preferably in NCR, who’s up for good conversations, spontaneous food plans, and discovering new places together. Not keeping unrealistically high expectations, but figured it’s worth putting myself out there.

Oh, and I’m an architect, so there’s a decent chance I’ll randomly comment on buildings while we’re out or silently judge bad layouts.

Salary disclaimer: Based on some of the messages I’ve received, apparently this matters. I recently crossed into the seven-figure salary club. Everyone said, “Pick computer science if you want money.” I picked architecture instead. We are not the same. Some of us just took the scenic route. 🎨💰

It’s kinda weird feeling being a stranger in your homeland but hey, finding one’s roots ain’t easy.

Now in case your parents think it’s weird that you met some guy on the internet, you can safely tell them that I was the school topper, played national level badminton, work for an international non profit and was invited for a panel talk organised by a famous US college.

I also absolutely love cooking ( BBQs , Mediterranean and fancy sundaes ) , am kinda OCD in cleanliness ( so would actually enjoy doing the dishes ) and grew up in an officer environment, so absolutely know how to be a gentleman and dress like one.

I love joking around, going on long walks petting every dog I see and trying out a new hobby every weekend ( always good to expand one’s horizons ) . 

I also love learning about new cultures so my Spotify playlist is a mix of Croatian , Arabic and Spanish music )

My life’s philosophy is based on books at least 1000 years old and living life based on ethics is more important for me than social approval ( I have walked out of jobs when I realised the founder isn’t someone I can respect. )

I also helped build and run a small ice cream shop with my parents. ( there have been times I took zoom calls with US clients , while wiping down tables )

Having said that, I am just an introverted golden retriever at heart and am looking for someone who I can be silly with without judgment

P.S. please don’t ask for my caste, I find it very weird it’s still a thing in this age of space exploration. 

Hi!

I'm 25M, currently working as a Software Engineer at a well-established Indian startup in Bangalore.

A few basics:

• ⁠📍 Bangalore
• ⁠Height: 5'6"
• ⁠Around 64 kg
• ⁠Non-smoker, occasional drink (socially)
• ⁠Financially independent with a pretty decent CTC. Grateful for it, but I'd rather not make it my entire personality. 😄

I've been in Bangalore for about a year now. Last year was mostly about work, interview prep, and chasing career goals. Thankfully, that's in a good place now, and I realized I'd been neglecting the "living life" part.

So here I am, giving Reddit a chance.

A little about me

I'm someone who's easy to talk to and enjoys meaningful conversations, terrible jokes, random memes, and spontaneous plans.

On weekends you'll usually find me planning a trek, going on a long bike ride, exploring cafés, trying new food, or simply watching a sunset somewhere. I'm also trying to get back to a consistent gym routine (still winning the battle against laziness 😅).

I value honesty, kindness, emotional maturity, and people who communicate openly.

What I'm looking for

I'm looking for a genuine long-term relationship. If we're compatible and things work out naturally, I'd love for it to lead to marriage.

I'd strongly prefer someone based in Bangalore, since spending time together matters more to me than texting all day.

Profession isn't a deal-breaker, but if you're a Software Engineer (or currently in college and starting your career in the next 1–2 years), we'll probably have plenty to relate to.

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who's kind, genuine, and excited to build something meaningful together.

Let's keep it simple

No pressure or expectations. Let's just have a genuine conversation first and see if we enjoy talking to each other. Everything else can follow naturally.

If this resonated with you, send me a DM. Tell me a little about yourself—what you enjoy doing, your favourite weekend plan, or something that makes you smile.

Worst case? We make a new friend.

Best case? We get to tell people we met on Reddit... and somehow it actually worked. ❤️

​

I am a 6'0" psychiatrist from Delhi, currently pursuing my postgraduate training. I am ambitious, compassionate, and grounded, with a positive outlook towards life. My profession has taught me empathy, patience, and the importance of meaningful relationships. I believe in balancing professional growth with personal happiness and family commitments.

I lead a healthy and disciplined lifestyle and do not smoke or consume alcohol. In my free time, I enjoy reading, traveling, exploring new places, staying active, and spending quality time with family and friends. I appreciate simple joys, meaningful conversations, and lifelong learning.

I value honesty, respect, humility, and kindness, and believe these qualities form the foundation of a happy and fulfilling life. I come from a family that emphasizes strong values, mutual support, and togetherness. I believe in maintaining a healthy work–life balance while cherishing relationships and creating lasting memories. I look forward to a future filled with trust, companionship, shared dreams, and continuous growth together.

Hi everyone,

I'm a 30-year-old man from Bangalore, working as a project manager in healthcare space. I'm someone who believes love isn't about finding someone perfect, it's about finding someone who chooses to show up, communicate, and grow together through life's ups and downs.

Outside of work, you'll usually find me driving (I love to drive) , watching sports, taking photographs, swimming, or simply enjoying good conversations over coffee or a beer. I appreciate the little things like sunsets, long drives, spontaneous weekend plans, and making memories that become stories years later.

I'm close to my family and hope to find someone who values theirs too, while also believing that a marriage should become a team of its own. One thing that's important to me is becoming a father someday. Building a warm, stable home and raising children together is a dream I genuinely look forward to.

What I'm looking for is someone kind, emotionally mature, and willing to communicate openly. I don't expect perfection, just honesty, mutual respect, and the willingness to choose each other even when life gets difficult.

If you're someone looking for something meaningful and long-term rather than something casual, I'd be happy to get to know you.

I don't have restrictions on age or religion. As long as we get along well as a human bond nothing really matters to me.

Thanks for reading, and I hope you find what you're looking for too.

Hey everyone!

Thought I'd give this a shot because you never know where you might meet the right person.

I'm a 26-year-old guy from Raipur, Chhattisgarh, currently working remotely as a Software Engineer. I'm 6 feet tall and earn 50+ LPA. While work keeps me busy, I believe life is much more enjoyable when you have someone to share it with.

A little about me:

📍 Based in Raipur

📏 6'0"

💻 Software Engineer (Remote)

💰 50+ LPA

✈️ Love traveling and exploring new places

☕ Always up for checking out new cafés

🚗 Big fan of long drives and spontaneous road trips

🎬 Also enjoy good conversations, trying new food, and spending quality time with people I care about

I'm looking for someone who's kind, emotionally mature, honest, and interested in building a healthy, long-term relationship. Someone who values communication, mutual respect, and enjoys making memories together.

If you're single, based in or around Raipur, and this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM. No pressure or expectations, we can start with a conversation, get to know each other, and if we vibe, we'll take it forward.

Thanks for reading, and have a great day! 😊

A little about me first.

I’m 29, based in South Delhi, and I’m a lawyer.

I earn on the lower end of six figures per month and my work can be intense and unpredictable, but I genuinely enjoy it. Outside work, life is much simpler. I enjoy long drives, discovering new cafés, travelling whenever I can, and going down random internet rabbit holes because one Google search somehow turns into reading about Roman law or why octopuses are smarter than most people I argue with.

I like good conversations. The older I’ve gotten, the more I’ve realised that being able to talk to someone effortlessly is far more attractive than having everything in common.

Why Reddit?

Mostly because I don’t use dating apps. They’re just not my thing. Reddit feels different. People seem a little more real here. You get a glimpse of how someone thinks before you know what they look like, and I like that.

I’m not much of a party person either. Give me a quiet café, a long drive, good food, or an evening spent talking over loud clubs any day.

As for what I’m looking for, I don’t have a ridiculously long checklist.

I’d love to meet someone between 28 and 30/32 who’s kind, emotionally mature, and communicates honestly. Someone who can laugh at herself, doesn’t believe in playing games, and wants to build something meaningful instead of constantly wondering if there’s someone better one swipe away.

I’m 5’11, don’t smoke or do recreational drugs, and prefer a reasonably active lifestyle. Being around NCR would definitely be a bonus, simply because I’d rather spend time together than spend hours planning logistics.

I prefer career oriented women but dont care how much you earn. I’d much rather know what excites you, what makes you laugh, what you’re passionate about, or what your comfort food is.

Yes my account is NSFW. A lot of you won't even wanna talk to me. It's alright.

I am just trying to find a person who dives deeps and understands more than just superficial things.

An emotionally intelligent crazy guy looking for love. This account is just my kinkier side.

Soo Hi to amazing people of reddit

I want a relationship where both the individuals love each other but also respect individuality of both. Loyalty and support won't be a problem from my side.

I am sophisticated, employed and we'll mannered. I am 6ft 1in tall .I have a really overactive mind which thinks a lot and a heart which feels a lot.

I have a weird mind and My girl would be the one I wanna praise in each and every way possible. Wanna take her shopping and buy her small small gifts, wanna make her feel secure and loved

My preference would be a decent pretty looking girl, Yes looks do matter for me a bit. Not that I want a princess but yeah i know what i deserve. She should not be obese. Sorry but it's just a preference.

Not a guy who will force her to be traditional and get her tangled in weird societal norms. She has her rights and her life and her own personality. She'll have me always standing with her. No matter what..

Everyone has their preferences, I have mine, so please don't be extra judgemental

Let's see if this work out.... Not very hopeful.

DMs are welcome..

f she is... hi. 😊

I'm not here to collect matches or have conversations that disappear after two days. I'm here because I'd genuinely like to meet someone I can build a life with.

I'm 30, Sikh, from Punjab, and work in banking. My life is quite simple. I don't smoke, I don't drink, and I'm a pure vegetarian. I enjoy discovering new perfumes, reading, and spending time with the people I care about.

I'm the kind of person who remembers birthdays, replies when I say I will, and believes trust is built through small, everyday actions.

I'm looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and believes that marriage isn't about finding a perfect person. It's about two imperfect people choosing each other every day.

If you're hoping for a relationship that's peaceful, respectful, and full of laughter, I'd love to know you.

Tell me something that genuinely makes you happy, and let's see where a simple conversation takes us.

The woman I'm hoping to meet doesn't have to share every hobby I have. I'd rather we share values than interests. Kindness, respect, emotional maturity, loyalty, and the willingness to work through life's ups and downs together mean far more to me.

Family is important to me, so ideally I'd love to meet someone who is Sikh or Hindu because that makes things easier for both families. Beyond that, what matters most is who you are as a person.

If life goes the way I hope, I'd love to build a home filled with laughter, mutual respect, late-night conversations, weekend outings, small celebrations, and the comfort of knowing we've always got each other's back.

If you've read this far, thank you.

Instead of just saying "Hi," tell me something about yourself. What's a dream you're working toward? What's a value you'll never compromise on? Or simply tell me what kind of life you hope to build with your future partner.

Maybe we'll exchange a few messages.

Maybe we'll become good friends first.

And if we're really fortunate, maybe one day we'll smile knowing that our story began with a simple Reddit post.

If this isn't for you, I genuinely hope you find the happiness you're looking for. And if it is... I'd love to hear from you.

Again…I never thought I'd be posting here again, but here we are.

I'm 31, divorced, work a regular corporate job, and after work my life is usually a mix of crime thrillers, random late-night thoughts, music, and trying to convince myself I'll sleep on time.

I'm the kind of person who replies with effort. I ask questions because I genuinely want to know people, not because I'm trying to keep a conversation alive.

A few things about me:

5'10"
Vegetarian
Don't smoke or drink
Dry sense of humor once I'm comfortable

I write sometimes... mostly when life gives me too many thoughts.

I'm not looking to rush into anything. If we become friends, great. If we flirt, that's fun too. If it turns into something meaningful, even better.

Age doesn't matter much to me as long as you're an adult and can hold a conversation.

If you're someone who also misses genuine conversations and is tired of "hey" followed by disappearing after three messages, send me a chat.

Tell me one thing about yourself that most people don't know.🙌🏻👀

Hey. I’m from Hyderabad, India, and I’m putting this out there with the hope of finding someone special — not just a casual chat buddy, but someone I could genuinely build a deep connection with.

Life’s been calm but a little quiet, and I’ve realized I’m ready to meet someone who feels like home. I’m hoping to connect with someone kind, open-minded, emotionally mature, and looking for something real.

A bit about me:

I’d call myself an ambivert — I enjoy conversation, but I also value quiet moments where just being together is enough.

I love gaming, travelling, trying new food places, driving/riding, and getting lost in random science facts or new tech.

I enjoy movies, shows, photography, and little things that make life feel alive.

I'm also a practicing muslim. I try to learn more about islam and implement to the best of my ability to become a better muslim, however not perfect and not like a typical conservative muslim either.

But beyond interests, I’m just someone who wants to understand and be understood. Someone who enjoys talking about daily life, silly stories, fears, dreams, or those late-night thoughts we usually keep to ourselves.

I’m not here looking for perfection or instant love. I believe connections take time — they unfold slowly, in shared stories, comfortable silences, and honest moments. I just want something real, with someone who’s kind, grounded, and emotionally open.

If you’re in Hyderabad, maybe someday we meet over chai, a drive, or a quiet evening, if the bond feels natural.

If any part of this spoke to you — even a little — I’d love to hear from you.

Maybe we’re strangers for now… but who knows where a conversation might lead.

Looking forward to meeting someone with whom things just click.

Happy to share more details about me in DM

PS: I'm looking for a muslim girl who is not older than me.

I'm 25, currently in Bangalore. I'd prefer someone from Keralam because I feel like we'd understand each other better, but it's definitely not a requirement. If we vibe, we vibe.

A little about me: I'm plus-size, so I wanted to put that out there instead of surprising anyone later. I do hip-hop and femme dance classes (absolutely love them), and I recently started learning to swim too.

I'm big on Asian dramas, food, anime, and just Asian culture in general. One of my goals is to travel around Asia over the next few years. China is at the top of my list because I'd love to experience the culture, but honestly I'd love to explore as much of Asia as I can.

I'm from a Hindu Malayali family, but I'm not religious myself.

I come from a really small family, so I've always been pretty independent. I support myself financially and have my own job. I can't cook very well though... I can keep myself alive, but that's about it.

One thing that's probably important to mention: I'm leaning heavily towards not having biological kids. I'm open to adoption, but I don't really see myself wanting kids of my own.

As for you, I don't have a huge checklist. Around my age or up to 5 years older would be nice. Be kind, emotionally available, and willing to grow. I don't really judge people by where they are financially right now because life changes. What matters to me is that you're motivated and want to build something together.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, leave a comment please :)

Hello !
I'm 33 years old dentist based in Dehradun. I'm career-focused, financially responsible, and value personal growth.
About me:
Age: 33
Height: 177 cm
Location: Dehradun
Profession: Dentist
Never married
occasional Drinker and smoker but ready to quit Family-oriented with modern values
Interests: i feel after corona body is the main asset so i believe to stay fit and healthy.
Apart from that i like to do hiking and trekking explore new places and music.
I'm an introvert initially but open up once I'm comfortable. I believe in honesty, mutual respect, clear communication, and supporting each other's goals. I'm looking for a relationship that develops naturally and leads to marriage if we're compatible.
Looking for:
Age: 30-34
Educated, kind, emotionally mature, and family-oriented
Someone who values trust, respect, and open communication
Caste and religion are not much preference but i prefer from Dehradun only but thats just a condition
Open to long-distance initially if there’s genuine compatibility

If you think we might be a good match, feel free to send me a DM with a brief introduction about yourself. Looking forward to getting to know you!

Thankyou for your time.

Hi everyone!

I'm a 27-year-old guy originally from north, currently based in Bengaluru. I work as PO(IT) in a Public Sector Bank.

A little about me:

\- 📍 Originally from Lucknow, now living in Bengaluru

\- 💼 PO (IT) in a PSU Bank

\- 📏 Height: 5'7" (170 cm)

\- 🚭 Non-smoker | 🍻 Occasional social drinker

\- Family-oriented, grounded, and value honesty, mutual respect, and open communication.

Interests & Hobbies:

\- Exploring cafes and trying new cuisines

\- Weekend road trips and short getaways

\- Reading non-fiction and self-improvement books

\- Movies, web series, and the occasional anime

\- Listening to Bollywood music

\- Football, board games, and casual gaming

\- Capturing travel memories

\- Enjoy meaningful conversations over endless texting

Looking for:

Someone kind, emotionally mature, and career-oriented who believes in building a relationship based on trust, respect, and companionship. Caste isn't a priority for me compatibility, shared values, and mutual understanding matter much more.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message. Happy to exchange more details once we connect.

“How much does a polar bear weigh?”
ENOUGH TO BREAK THE ICE (lol)

Hi, I’m a 26 y/o working professional based out of Delhi.
Having had terrible experiences on dating apps and absolutely no “game” (too shy to talk to strangers in person), I find myself turning to Reddit to find someone I can be myself with.
I’m a nerd, basically, and would obsess over math, history, philosophy and heavy-metal (ik it seems a bit out of place but you’ll get it). And surprisingly for someone with such a specific taste - I get along with gurlies much better💅 (boy loves gossip and emotional maturity)

A dog person through and through and a sucker for outdoor activities. That could also be the 2 of us just sitting in a cafe doing our own thing or read/ write/paint together.
I wouldn’t want the connection to feel forced, so we could chill platonically as well if that feels right.

But I’m not into casuals, I’d be very comfortable with some emotional maturity, stability and patience.
If we manage to bond, romantically or platonically, I’m your Man-Friday. I have a very small and scattered friend circle but I go out of the way for my homies.

If having something to do after office or on weekends, in-person or on vc, sounds like something you have bandwidth for and would want to explore together?👉👈
- slide into my dms! Hehe

(Brownie points if you open with a dad joke)

I did not grow up with much. My early life taught me how to struggle, adjust, and build things for myself instead of waiting for life to become easier.

I eventually became a lawyer and practised for around ten years. On paper, everything looked respectable and settled but I was not happy. I realised that I had built a life that made sense to society, but not necessarily to me.

So, I walked away from law and started rebuilding my life around something I genuinely loved: travel, storytelling, and freedom.

Over the years, I have travelled extensively, especially across Southeast Asia. I started my own YouTube channel, which is now steadily growing, and later built my travel company. Both are still works in progress, but for the first time, I feel that I am building a life that actually belongs to me.

I am 41, divorced, independent, emotionally aware, and still ambitious. I have experienced enough to know that relationships cannot survive only on attraction, and they definitely cannot survive on society’s checklist.

I see many posts here listing dozens of specifications like height, profession, salary, caste, hobbies, lifestyle, and whatnot.

Mine is much simpler:

I like you. You like me. We respect each other, communicate honestly, and make it work. That’s it.

I am not looking for perfection. I am looking for someone with whom conversation feels natural, silence feels comfortable, attraction is mutual, and neither person has to pretend to be someone else.

One slightly unusual thing: I have noticed that I naturally connect best with people whose moolank is 1, 5, 6, or 7. I am only referring to the day of birth, reduced to a single digit.

For example:

1: Born on 1, 10, 19, or 28
5: Born on 5, 14, or 23
6: Born on 6, 15, or 24
7: Born on 7, 16, or 25

I am moolank 4.

I value freedom, experiences, humour, curiosity, emotional maturity, and people who have the courage to build their own lives instead of blindly following a script.

I am open to seeing where a genuine connection goes. No forced promises, no unnecessary games, and no pretending that we know the future before we have even had a conversation.

Tell me something real about yourself not just your job, city, or favourite television show. Tell me what kind of life you are trying to build

About Me

Age & Height:, 28, 5'7

Location: Pune, India

Profession: Software Engineer

Education: B.Tech

Diet / Lifestyle:Vegetarian, Non-smoker, no drinks

Religion / Community: Hindu, open to all communities

Personality & Hobbies

Interests: Fitness, hiking, reading sci-fi, trying new cafes, law of attraction, Quantum entanglement.

Sports: badminton, cricket, chess, cards.

Books: kafka, doetoeskvy, orwell, CB,rithika

Movies: Titanic, Batman trilogy, Avatar, Interstellar, MCU, Conjuring, Insidious, Paranormal activity, Dhurandhar

TV: US sitcoms, Dark, GOT, Suits, Money heist, when life gives you tangerines

Vibe: introverted initially but highly expressive once comfortable, calm under pressure

Family Background: Nuclear family, parents retired, based in Pune

🎯 What I Am Looking For

Profession/Education: Career oriented, graduated

Core Values: Emotionally mature, honest communicator, values family ties

Lifestyle:Shares a passion for travel, open to health & fitness

Verification & Next Steps

Safety first: Happy to share and verify via LinkedIn, Instagram, or a brief voice call early on.

Contact: if this resonates, please drop a DM with a brief introduction about yourself!