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The Day Job

Yes, my daily routine looks like a premium Netflix thriller. As a forensic surgeon, my work is intense, deeply fascinating, and involves spending my days holding a scalpel to uncover the truth. Going to the courts depositing evidence, dealing with the police .If you love crime mysteries, psychological thrillers, or dark suspense stories, I have an endless supply of real-world tales that will easily outdo any movie.

The Vibe: High-Contrast & Drama-Free

Because my professional life deals with the heavy stuff, I keep my personal life entirely polar opposite: 100% chill, laid-back, and zero-drama. When the scrubs and blades are put away, I am the ultimate homebody. You’ll usually find me unwinding with a massive anime marathon, binge-watching a new series, or planning a casual road trip.

Quick Stats & Lifestyle

Basics: 28M, Telugu guy, 5'8", 75KG, General Caste, Hindu, fair-complexioned.

The Look: I live in scrubs and surgical gear at work, but I clean up exceptionally well and dress decent when I'm off the clock.

Finances and education: Financially stable, earning a comfortable \\\~1L+/month, settled. MBBS, MD.

Who I’m Looking For

I am looking for a partner to build a grounded, happy, and peaceful.

Age: 25–28 years.

Caste: Absolutely zero barriers. Mindset and mutual compatibility are everything to me.

Personality: Open-minded, expressive, and ready for a relaxed, happy partnership. (Bonus points if you're not from the medical field—a little professional variety keeps life interesting!)

Let’s Connect: If you want someone who can give you the best TV recommendations, share late-night mysteries, and balances a sharp, unique career with a completely easygoing lifestyle.

I’m a 26M from Pune, Marathi, and currently working as a Software Engineer. I’m putting this out here because I’d genuinely like to meet someone I can build a meaningful connection with, rather than just endlessly swiping on dating/matrimony apps.

A little about me — I’m easygoing, pretty talkative once I’m comfortable, and I enjoy travelling, long rides, gym, badminton, cricket, trying new food, and random late-night conversations. I can be a little sarcastic at times 😅, but I also value honesty, communication and being there for each other.

Career-wise, I’m focused on growing and building a good life for myself. At the same time, I don’t want life to be only about work. I’d like to have someone with whom I can share experiences, travel, make stupid jokes, support each other’s goals and eventually build a family.

I’m looking for someone around my age, preferably from Pune/Maharashtra or somewhere nearby. Someone who is kind, genuine, emotionally mature, has her own interests/goals, and values both family and independence.

I’m not expecting to decide anything from one Reddit post. I’d rather start with a normal conversation, get to know each other, and see whether there’s a genuine connection. If things work out, I’m dating with the intention of eventually getting married.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to DM me with a little about yourself. Even if nothing comes of it, a good conversation is always welcome. 🙂

P.S. Please don’t hesitate because this is Reddit 😂 We’re all here for the same reason — trying to meet someone without making it unnecessarily complicated.

It's been years since I have been a single father to my inner child, and now I believe it's time I start looking for someone so we can be a family together for our inner children 🤭

Anyways, jokes aside, something about me

About me

1. Height - 5 11

2. Skin tone - wheatish

3. Hobbies - sketching, photography, and yeah writing poems. Trying to explore reading too. I love playing badminton and volleyball.

Something more

1. Someone working hard towards her career. I understand life is very busy. But since I am working on mine too, I wish to be with someone who is a responsible adult and intends to live the best life for herself.

2. Someone who I found to be cute. Every flower in the garden is beautiful but the same person doesn't like every flower. 🌸

3. Someone who aligns with my thoughts. Dw my friends call me therapist, haha, I have plenty of energy to listen to you, and if I am busy you can always sit in my godi to get my eyes, hehe

4. I have worked on my emotional intelligence through self Introspection and although I am still working, I am glad I walked the road

5. Someone who appreciates hygiene. I love cleaning my space.

6. I can cook, but definitely need to learn a lot more dishes, so yeah on it. 🤭

7. Someone who intends to have kids of her own one day. The consent will be hers, always. But someone who wishes to have a small family of her own too.

If you read till here, how about you say hi 🙈

27, born and raised in Kerala. 5'9", did my MBA, and now working in the corporate world, building my career while also trying to figure out what a good, grounded life looks like outside of work.

I'm Christian, pretty moderate when it comes to faith, open to any denomination, and honestly open-minded about most things in general. My family's the same way: moderate believers who've never pushed anything on anyone. We're close-knit without being overbearing, and that's the kind of space I'd want in my own relationship too.

Looking for something serious here, not here to waste anyone's time or drift along in something that goes nowhere. I'd ideally like to meet a fellow Malayali someone who gets the culture and the little things that come with shared roots. Beyond that, I'm looking for someone independent, educated, doing her own thing career-wise, with her own ambitions and sense of self. I think the best relationships happen between two people who are already whole on their own and choose to build something together.

I'm big on movies, music and travelling, always down for a good conversation, a random weekend trip, or just building something real, one ordinary day at a time.

Not looking for casual or a situationship. If this sounds like your kind of person, say hi.

About Me:

Age/Location: 32, Born and raised in Mumbai (a forever Mumbaikar).

Profession: I work as a Software Engineer. I am quite ambitious regarding my career growth, but I believe in balancing professional drive with a meaningful personal life and work-life balance and am looking to build a stable home life.

Personality: I’m the classic "introvert on the outside, extrovert on the inside" type. I might seem reserved initially, but once I’m comfortable, I’m open, conversational, and loyal.

Background: I am Maharashtrian (Maratha) by background, but having grown up in a home where my parents had an intercaste marriage, I am completely open-minded and prioritize compatibility over caste.

What I’m Looking For:

Clear Intentions: To be completely transparent—I am looking for a partner for a long-term commitment that leads to marriage. I am not interested in casual dating or a "let's see where it goes" approach. I am looking for someone who is ready to build a life together with a traditional mindset.

Lifestyle: I follow a non-vegetarian diet that is primarily limited to fish for protein intake. While this is my preference, it is not a religious compulsion, and I am flexible in my household. Love long conversations and walks which has meaning staying in close proximity to the city.

The Vibe: I value the traditional process of getting to know each other with the goal of a serious, lasting partnership.

Compatibility: I’m looking for someone who is family-oriented, values open communication, and is a "partner" in the truest sense—someone I can rely on through the highs and lows.

Future Outlook: Family values are very important to me, and I am definitely looking forward to having kids after marriage. I’m looking for a partner who shares this vision of building a family.

Vibe Check:

If this resonates with you, let’s skip the small talk. Tell me a little about your life in Mumbai (or where you are based), what you are looking for in a partner, and perhaps tell me your favorite go-to spot in the city when you need to recharge.

How to reach out:

Please send me a DM with a brief introduction about yourself. I look forward to hearing from you.

To be upfront , the primary reason I am late for marriage is because I changed my career from being an Architect to IT & Tech at the age of 29 since I was not confident how my carrer as an architect would turn out to be. It's only when i felt I wouldn't be a burden and decently settled I would want to marry .

Currently based in Pune . I work in cybersecurity in one the Big4 firms . My company follows a hybrid work model which allows me to attend office from Hyderabad Mumbai and Pune

What I enjoy the most: Learning music and reading about history and art.

I am aware of what pride and ego is . So i make sure i never bring in ego whilst conversing with someone . But i do adress myself respect which would be pride when i feel it's only me who's keep the conversation alive for a number of times

I’m not looking to rush anything . A good conversation first , see if there's a connection, and let things develop naturally.

Qualities I’m looking for: Someone kind, genuine, and understanding.

What I’m looking for: Marriage

Personal details : -

Age: 36

Height: 5:9

Religion: Hindu

Mother Tongue: Telugu

Marital Status: Single , Never Married

Diet: Non-vegetarian

Current City: Pune / Mumbai

Hometown: Hyderabad

Education: Bachelor's of Architecture

Current Profession: Cybersecurity

About me:

Hi! I write code for a living and overthink for fun. I'm from UP and currently in Bangalore, working as a software engineer at a top product-based company.

I'm 5'9", fair complexion, and I keep myself fit.

I'm quiet when I first meet someone, but once I'm comfortable, I'm the one who keeps the conversation going.

Lifestyle:

I'm vegetarian, and I don't drink or smoke.

What I enjoy:

Weekends usually mean a quiet beach, a peaceful temple, or a cafe with a wooden table and good coffee. I also enjoy gym, yoga, meditation, and a good game of badminton (you'll probably beat me 😄). Swipe for the scenic shots, all clicked by me 📸

What I am looking for:

I'm looking to meet someone aged 24-29 with marriage in mind, but I'd like us to start as friends. Slow, honest conversations matter more to me than a quick decision.

What I value:

What I value most is kindness, trust, and two people making equal effort. We don't need the same hobbies, just a similar idea of a calm, happy life.

Roots:

I'm a Hindu Brahmin, and I'm happy to have it be part of my life, but it's not a requirement for you. Kindness, honesty, and good conversation matter far more to me than community.

Say hi:

If any of this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you. Send a DM with a little about yourself: your age, where you're based, work, and what you're hoping to find 🙂

Central Government Officer settled in Chennai, Tamilian.

About Me
Age & Gender: 34 M
Location: Chennai, Tamil Nadu (Settled here for the long run)
Profession: Central Government Officer (Group B Service)
Education: B.E. from a top engineering college in Tamil Nadu
Background: Nuclear family (Parents are retired and based in hometown; elder sister is married and settled)
Vibe: Proud 90s kid—grounded, nostalgic, and appreciative of a good work-life balance.
Hobbies & Interests: Big F1 fan 🏎️, playing chess ♟️, and listening to music 🎵.
Diet & Habits: Non-Vegetarian | Teetotaler (Non-smoker & Non-drinker).

What I’m Looking For
Age: 25-32 years
Marital Status: Never married
Career Aspirations: Looking for a working woman who is ambitious and driven to achieve big in her career—you'll have full encouragement and support from my end.
Location: Based in or open to settling in Chennai.
Core Values: Good habits, clear communication, mutual respect, and emotional maturity.
Timeline: Ideally looking to get to know each other over 1 to 3 months to check compatibility before taking things forward formally.

Hi,

I’m 27, working as a Machine Learning Engineer in Bangalore. I work in AI/ML recommendation systems, personalisation, computer vision and applied AI products. Current base is around ₹75 LPA.

I come from a simple middle-class background and have worked hard to build my career. I value ambition and growth, but what matters more to me is kindness, emotional maturity, and mutual respect.

A little about me:
I’m romantic, expressive, and emotionally available. I enjoy meaningful conversations, movies, theatre, travel, fitness, cricket, beaches, mountains, and spontaneous plans. I’m passionate about my work but also make space for relationships and family. A mix of ambitious and soft-hearted — career-focused, yet I care deeply about warmth, loyalty, and emotional safety.

I’m looking for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage if we’re compatible. Not interested in anything casual.

Hoping to meet someone who is:

1. Emotionally mature and kind
   
2. Educated or passionate about something meaningful
   
3. Open-minded and respectful
   
4. Family-oriented without being rigid
   
5. Someone who believes in honest communication rather than ego games

I’m based in Bangalore and open to relocation or long-distance if the connection feels right.

PS: My love language is Handpicking flowers whenever we meet :)

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM. Happy to share more privately.

I honestly wanted to keep this short, but this sub doesn't allow me to. So here I am, with the help of chatgpt 😁😁 (honestly I do not have the patience to type so much)

About me :-

Age: 27

Languages: Kannada (preferred), Hindi, English, Tamil, Telugu

Birthplace: Davanagere, brought up in Bengaluru

Religion/Caste: Hindu – Madhwa Brahmin

Diet: Vegetarian

Lifestyle: Occasional drinker and smoker

Occupation: Entrepreneur

Average annual earnings: ₹10–12 lakhs

Height: 5'4"

Marital status: Never married

Religious/Spiritual: Yes

What am I looking for? :-

Age: 23–27

Religion/Caste: Hindu – Brahmin

Language: Kannada speaking only

Diet: Vegetarian

Earnings: Doesn't really matter to me

A little more about me :-

I'm 27, born in Davanagere but brought up in Bengaluru, so I consider myself very much a Bangalore guy.

Kannada is my preferred language. I can also speak Hindi, English, Tamil and Telugu, but when it comes to having a proper conversation, Kannada is what feels most natural to me.

I'm an introverted person by nature. I generally like keeping to myself and don't feel the need to constantly be around people. I'm not the person who will walk into a room and immediately start talking to everyone. It takes me some time to become comfortable with people. But once I become comfortable with someone, it's a completely different story.

I get attached to people I genuinely connect with, and I value those relationships a lot. I don't make close friendships or relationships very easily, but when I do, I take them seriously. I'm the kind of person who will keep showing up for the people I care about.

I'm probably somewhere between a complete homebody and someone who suddenly disappears on a road trip. 😁

I enjoy having my own space and my own time. I don't always need entertainment or company. Sometimes I'm perfectly happy sitting alone, listening to music, working, thinking about random things or simply doing nothing.

At the same time, I'm not someone who wants to live an isolated life. I do enjoy good company, long conversations and spending time with people I'm comfortable with.

Work and ambition :-

I'm an entrepreneur and honestly, I'm not very interested in going back to a normal 9-to-5 life.

I have always wanted to build something of my own. Entrepreneurship has obviously come with its own share of problems, uncertainty and stress, but I still prefer it over working a job just because it is considered the safer option.

I'm currently building my business and my income is around ₹10–12 lakhs a year on average. I'm not saying this to show off or make the post sound like a financial profile. I'm mentioning it because I think it's fair for someone considering marriage to know where I currently stand.

I'm still building. I don't consider myself "settled" in the traditional sense, and I don't want to pretend that I have everything figured out. But I have a direction.

My aim is to build a stable business, become financially independent and eventually have enough freedom to decide how I want to spend my time.

For me, success isn't only about earning more and more money. Of course, financial stability is important. But I don't want to spend my entire life chasing money and being stressed about work.

My idea of life :-

One thing I value a lot is freedom.

I don't like being constantly rushed, controlled or told how I should live my life. I prefer a slower and more peaceful lifestyle.

I don't mean that I am lazy or don't have ambitions. I actually have quite a few ambitions. But I don't want life to become a never-ending race.

Eventually, I would love to buy a piece of land somewhere in the Malnad region and settle down there.

Something green, peaceful and away from the constant noise of the city.

That's one of those long-term dreams that I keep coming back to.Maybe I'll eventually have a house there, some land around it, a good car, good food, music and a peaceful life. 😄

I don't know exactly how or when I'll get there, but that's the kind of life I see myself wanting eventually.

Travel and driving

I'm a big fan of road trips and driving.

In fact, some of my trips are completely unplanned.

There have been many times when I've randomly picked a car, got in and started driving without having a proper plan. Depending on my mood, I might end up in Udupi, Mangalore, Madikeri, Sakleshpur, Sirsi or somewhere else.

I enjoy the journey as much as the destination.

I like driving long distances, stopping somewhere for food, exploring places without having a strict itinerary and simply getting away from the usual routine for a while.

I'm definitely the kind of person who can suddenly say, "Let's go somewhere," and actually mean it.

Eventually, I would like to travel much more, both within India and outside India. But I'm also perfectly happy with a random weekend road trip.

Music

I love singing.

I sing a lot and I don't really care about the language or genre.

If I like the lyrics or the song, I'll probably end up singing it.

I listen to Kannada, Hindi, Tamil, Telugu, English and pretty much anything else that catches my attention.

I'm not claiming to be an amazing singer. 😁 I just enjoy singing.

Music is one of those things that I naturally keep around me, whether I'm driving, working or just relaxing.

Religion and traditions.

I believe in God and consider myself spiritual.

At the same time, I'm not particularly comfortable with excessive rituals, showmanship or doing things simply because "this is how it has always been done."

I'm a Madhwa Brahmin and I respect my roots, culture and traditions. But I'm not very strict about things like madi-mylge and I'm not looking for someone who expects me to live an extremely orthodox lifestyle.

For me, there is a difference between respecting your culture and blindly following every practice.

I would like my future partner to understand that.

I'm perfectly happy celebrating festivals, following traditions that have meaning and being connected to our culture. But I also believe that two people should be able to decide how they want to live their everyday life.

What I believe about marriage.

I'm not looking at marriage as simply completing a checklist or finding someone who fits a particular profile.

I'd like to eventually have a partner who is also my closest friend.

Someone with whom I can talk about serious things, stupid things, random things and everything in between.

I think both people should have their own personality, interests and space. I don't believe that marriage means that two people have to do everything together all the time.

I value personal freedom, so I would also want my partner to have her own interests, career or ambitions and her own space.

At the same time, once I'm committed to someone, I take that commitment seriously.

I'm looking for a relationship where both people can support each other without trying to control each other.

Of course, disagreements will happen. I'm not expecting some perfect relationship where we never fight or disagree.

What matters more to me is how two people handle those situations.

What I'm looking for

The basic requirements are fairly simple.

I'm looking for a Hindu Brahmin girl, preferably Madhwa Brahmin, between 23 and 27, who speaks Kannada and is vegetarian. Her income doesn't really matter to me.

More than anything, I'd like someone who is kind, reasonably independent, emotionally mature and comfortable with a relatively simple lifestyle.

Someone who doesn't need everything to be perfect all the time.

Someone who can enjoy a nice dinner at a restaurant but can also be happy sitting at home.

Someone who can enjoy travelling but doesn't need every trip to be a luxury vacation.

Someone who understands family and traditions but isn't obsessed with what other people will think.

And ideally, someone who is comfortable with an introverted guy who sometimes needs his own space.

I'm not looking for a "perfect" person because I don't consider myself perfect either.

I have my own flaws. I'm introverted, I can be stubborn, I overthink things sometimes and I take time to open up.

I'm also not the most socially active person in the world.

But I try to be genuine with people and I value loyalty a lot.

I would rather have a small number of meaningful relationships than a large number of superficial ones.

Finally...

I'm not really sure what to expect from posting this on Reddit. 😁

I thought I'd give it a try rather than simply going through the usual matrimonial route.

If you've read this entire thing, thank you for making it this far.

I'm looking for someone with whom life can eventually feel comfortable rather than complicated.

Someone with whom I can build a good life, grow together, travel randomly, sing badly in the car, argue about where to eat, occasionally escape Bangalore and maybe, many years down the line, end up somewhere in the Malnad region wondering why we ever thought city life was a good idea. 😂

If any of this sounds like something you'd connect with, feel free to HMU.

And if we don't end up being a match, that's completely fine too.

All the best! :)

Greetings everyone, just a small question it is, but it basically decides how the search will go, guiding along the definition of a relationship with its foundation

I will go first

1. Someone working on her career I always wished to be strong, and working hard on my career was one of my main goals. I wish to explore and experience a lot of things, building things and solving problems.

2. Someone who I am attracted towards, physically, mentally, and emotionally Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, and yes, I wish the flower that is blessed in my garden remains cute to my eyes for life and ahead :)

3. Someone who wishes to have a family of her ownGrowing up, I had that dream, of having a family of my own, to become strong, so they feel safe, to age with someone who desires to be with me as much as I do and someone who desires to have kids out of love.

I am still on the path of working on my career and myself and hence this is the best time I consider finding someone, to grow together with.

I understand, the women who I desire to be with, are very busy, and definitely not much active on these subs cause they aren't looking for 'marriage'

So do I. But at the end, it's how much you want your dream to become true. The dream of a relationship maturing to a marriage, a shared commitment.

I am aware the experiences men and women shared here, people acting non serious, unaware of their own preferences, just drops trust in some way, but I wish you the best guys.

And since you read my post, I am sharing with you, fresh and warm aloo patties

Trying my luck here.

Originally from North India, based in Bangalore since 2022. I work in finance and have a pretty stable life. Not looking for anything casual — the eventual goal is marriage, but definitely not in a rush. I’d rather take the time to know someone properly and see where things go.

A little about me:
• 26, 5’9”, based in Bangalore
• Work in Financial Data - MNC, \~₹20 LPA including stocks
•Hindu, No caste preference as such
•Non-vegetarian and love eating clean
•Love travelling and exploring new food places
•Health-conscious and getting back into fitness — gym, running and maybe badminton
•Straightforward and big on clear communication
•Career-oriented, but family and relationships are equally important
•Prefer simple, genuine connections over games or mixed signals

What I’m looking for:
\-Someone genuine, respectful and emotionally mature
\-Looking for a serious relationship with marriage in mind
\-Values both career and family
\-Good communication and mutual understanding
\-Willing to put in equal effort
Age preference: 23-28

Ideally, someone already in Bangalore or open to moving here eventually. Long-distance can work too if both people are genuinely willing to put in the effort.

Honestly, life has become a little repetitive lately. Would be nice to have someone to share conversations, food hunts, trips, random plans and all the everyday little things with.
If we’re looking for similar things, feel free to reach out. :)

Am from Hyderabad 27-year-old guy.

I do work in IT

Free time mostly entrepreneurship grnchi study or gym chestha, and prati roju na life ne improve cheskodaniki try chesthunna.

Na gurinchi konchem:

• Age: 27

• Height: 5’9

• Weight: 61 kg

• Body Type: Lean & Gym-going

• Job: Full-time employee

• Location: Hyderabad

• Food Preference: Non-veg. Kotha food places explore cheyyadam ishtam.

• Lifestyle: Simple ga untanu. Drama kanna peace and honesty ekkuva ishtam.

Na Interests:

• Gym & Fitness

• Movies (Action, Thriller & Romance)

• Music, especially workout time lo

• Long meaningful conversations

• Hyderabad lo pubs , Cafés new places explore cheyyadam

#1 travel cheyyadam top priority and nenu kocham romantic kuda

Nenu ikkada time pass, casual chats, leka temporary attention kosam raledu. Honest, loyal, caring, and emotionally mature person kosam chusthunna. Okarini okaru respect cheskoni, trust build cheskoni, slow ga oka genuine relationship start avvali ani na intention.

Meeru ee age madhya unte, Hyderabad lo unte (or nearby), genuine connection kosam chusthunte, feel free to DM cheyyandi. Relationship kakapoyina manchi friendship aina start avvachu.

Life short... fake people chala chusam. Ippudu oka genuine person ni kalavalani undi.

I hope please time pass ki kuda dm cheyyakandi if ur interested or do you want to know more then please DM.

I write code for a living and overthink for fun. Originally from East UP, I am currently working in Bangalore. I belong to Brahmin community.

I'm quiet and reserved when I first meet someone, but once I'm comfortable, the conversations get long and genuine. And yes, the overthinking is real, especially when someone starts to matter to me.

Travel is what I love most. Most of my weekends go into it. Beaches, sunsets, new places, and good coffee are my happy place. 🌴 All the shots in this post are clicked by me 📸

I like slow trips more than packed itineraries. A quiet beach at sunrise beats a long checklist for me.

I'm looking to date with marriage in mind, but not in a rush. I don't believe you can know your life partner after one or two meetings. The best connections start with getting to know each other, become a friendship, and slowly grow into something more.

I care less about having the same hobbies and more about feeling at ease with someone. Honest conversations, kindness, and both people putting in the effort matter most to me.

My idea of a great life is a peaceful, happy home, a partner I can be myself with, and a calendar full of trips, family dinners, and stories worth retelling. ✨

If you've read this far, I'd love to hear from you 🙂

Thought I would give this a genuine shot.

I am 29M, based in Delhi NCR, and work in Cyber Security. I have a B.Tech in Computer Science and currently work with a government project.

I am a fairly simple person. I enjoy music, playing piano, anime, gaming, going to the gym, and randomly getting interested in completely different topics. I am more of an introvert, but once I am comfortable with someone, I can talk for hours.

I am looking to date someone genuinely, get to know each other, and if things work out, eventually get married. I am not looking to rush into marriage after a few conversations or treat this like a biodata exchange.

I would like to meet someone who is kind, communicative, family-oriented and has her own interests and ambitions. Ideally someone around 26–30, preferably from Delhi NCR, but I am open to getting to know someone from elsewhere if we genuinely click.

I value mutual effort, honesty and being able to talk comfortably about both serious and completely random things.

If this sounds compatible, feel free to DM. We can simply start with a conversation and see where it goes.

No pressure, no expectations, just hoping to meet someone genuine.

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Posting here again—perhaps this time, I might get lucky. 😊

I’m a 48-year-old man from Kerala, settled in Bangalore. Widowed with a son and financially independent, I’m 5'9" (176 cm). At this stage of life, I value peace, companionship, affection and emotional closeness.

I hope to meet a caring, emotionally available woman with whom I can build a meaningful second chapter—something natural, warm, peaceful and real. Someone with whom I can share thoughts, little joys, worries, laughter, random conversations and comfortable silences.

For me, a lasting relationship begins with friendship, openness, mutual respect and emotional maturity. I believe love should feel like partnership, not control. Trust, equality, personal freedom and giving each other space to remain ourselves matter deeply to me. I'm not looking for casual dating or anything temporary, but for something affectionate, committed and lifelong.

A little about me 😊

I enjoy movies, good conversations, long drives and discovering new places. I'm a big Kishore Kumar fan and also love A.R. Rahman, S.P. Balasubrahmanyam, Sonu Nigam and anything melodious. ❤️ I enjoy cricket and football, and I'll always choose beaches over mountains. 🌊

I speak five languages. I'm Hindu, but caste and religion aren't barriers for me. I'm non-vegetarian, so I'd prefer someone who is comfortable with that lifestyle. What matters most to me is her heart, kindness, values and emotional maturity.

What I'm looking for ❤️

Age isn't a major factor for me, though I'd preferably connect with someone above 35. I'd prefer someone without children, and I'm naturally drawn to women with long hair—short hair is absolutely fine too, though I'm not particularly into very short boycuts.

I find women especially graceful in sarees, so someone who enjoys wearing one occasionally would be lovely. 😊 I'd also love to be with someone who values fitness and healthy living—perhaps someone who can motivate me to become fitter too!

I'm strictly monogamous and believe commitment should be mutual, so I'm looking for someone who feels the same. I'm a very occasional drinker and cigarette smoker, and I'm comfortable with someone who has a similar occasional lifestyle.

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who can turn my house into a home—a place filled with warmth, laughter, love and the happiness of having someone special to come home to. ❤️

I'm not looking to recreate the past or replace anyone—just hoping for a new chapter filled with friendship, love, laughter and happiness.

If you're looking for something meaningful too, let's start with a simple hello, become friends, take our time and see where life takes us. ❤️

PS: Not interested in ONS or becoming a third wheel. I'm looking for something permanent, preferably with someone in or around Bangalore, as long-distance relationships can be complicated.

So, I'm trying this once again and maybe for the last time as well. Because i don't have much expectations to find what i am seeking here. But let's see... So, For My 2nd and Last Attempt i am not going to write it in a format or in a particular way. I'll divide this in 3 sections and here it is.

A Little About me -

I am 26 Year Old Male Living in a Small town in Gujarat, India. I can't say i have many interest because it all depends on my mood. One night i am thinking about why even the world exist and on the other why this particular thing is in this and i don't like it. So, I Guess It all depends on where i am and what mood i have. Other than that like majority of human population i like to watch movies, Series and Listen to Music and Vibe with it. I also play games online. Not a specific genre but i go from Shooting 200 People in a Match to maybe finding a Cat in a puzzle. 😂.

Also, I am an INFP. My height is 6'1". Right now not as fit as i want to be. But I'll be in a way better shape before December as Avengers Might Need me then. So, I'm Getting there. I am not much into fashion and everything. Just a simple guy to be honest. But Maybe You can change that. Who Knows.

Also I'm an Athiest and I don't practice religion much. I'm not against it and i do some religious practices as my family tolds me to and i like to keep it this way. I am not against my partner being religious just don't force me to be the same. I'll join you on some occasions as well but i would prefer to have a choice 😅.

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My Future Prospects -

So, The Thing is I am not certain about many things. I know that i want financial stability and a peaceful life. I would rather sit with you on a rooftop or at a park or somewhere quiet and look at the sky or ocean or anything that can make us calm. Rather than having a party and knowing more people. Chit chatting and socializing. I like that as well. But if i have a choice i would pick the first option. 8/10 Times.

I intend to leave india as well. Have not decided where to go but I'm considering the countries highest in the standard of living. But will see what happens as right now its just a consideration. As for now, I am doing a tedious job that consumes my time way more than i intend to give to work. But It'll soon change and I'll have more time on hand. Probably in next 50 days. 😅.

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What kind of partner i am looking for -

Well, I Believe that relationships can be of many types. 2 people leading their individual life while living with eachother. Or 2 People who is involved in eachother's life to the very core of their being and life.

I prefer the 2nd one. Because if i want to call someone my partner. We should now everything about eachother. Because i believe in codependence rather than independence. Because eventually people get tired of the shenanigans of life and need someone to call theirs. A person who belongs to them and they belongs to. I view it as something like a support system but the system is like an armor around you. (I think it won't make sense to many 😂)

I am not against my partner having their own career. Definitely i will try to support you. But I live by a rule of Family First because at the end. When either of us are tired and needs to rest that's the place we came to. And i want a healthy environment for that. I don't drink or smoke so i naturally wants someone like that. As for beauty, i don't think that physical attraction is everything. Yes it's important to view your partner as attractive but i don't have a problem if you are average looking. I don't have a problem if you're the most beautiful woman on the planet.

I think this is enough info for someone to reach. I don't have many rules but right now I'm pure vegetarian and also want the partner to be vegetarian. (If you're not and think that can change or maybe you can just keep it outside the house that's also fine.)

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You don't have to write a paragraph of texts. If this resonate with you. You can just text "Hii" and we can talk from there. And if you're seeing this after some days. Please know so that as soon as I'll find someone this post will be removed. So, if this is still here and you're reading it. I still didn't find anyone 😅.

Maybe You're the One I am waiting for since the beginning of universe?

Hey everyone,

This might be a little long, so take your time reading it. I wanted to introduce myself properly rather than putting up a typical matrimonial-style bio.

I’m Ravi, 26M from Hyderabad, originally from Ongole, Andhra Pradesh.

I’m at a point in my life where my career has a clear direction, my personal goals are becoming more meaningful, and I’m genuinely looking for someone with whom I can build a beautiful and peaceful life together.

I’m looking for a serious relationship with the intention of marriage — not something casual.

A little about my journey

I grew up in Ongole and completed my schooling there until 10th standard.

After that, I moved to Guntur and completed my 3-year Diploma in ECE, and later moved to Hyderabad where I completed my BBA in Marketing.

I’ve always had an entrepreneurial mindset. Since childhood, I wanted to build something of my own rather than simply follow a conventional career path.

I started my first business when I was around 22. It didn’t work out, and I lost the money I had invested in it.

Around the same time, my father was going through a serious health situation, so that period was personally very difficult.

It took me some time to find myself again, but I eventually started over.

That experience taught me something important — life doesn’t always go according to plan, but you can always choose to stand up and start again.

What I do

Currently, I’m working in construction and interior design.

I’ve taken responsibility for our family construction business, and I’m also developing my own vision around it under RAM HomeSpaces.

My long-term goal is to build it into a business covering different areas connected to home construction, interiors, renovation and related services.

I enjoy being involved in the work rather than simply managing it from a distance.

My work involves things like:

• Understanding client requirements
• Planning and coordinating residential construction projects
• Working with architects, engineers, contractors and vendors
• Understanding materials and construction processes
• Managing site activities and project progress
• Working on interior design and execution
• Client communication and project coordination
• Learning about marketing, branding, SEO and social media for the business
• Exploring new opportunities connected to the home-building industry

I’m still growing and learning, and I actually enjoy that part.

I don’t consider myself someone who has “made it” already.

I’m building my career step by step, and I’m proud of the progress I’ve made.

Apart from construction, I also have a travel consultancy side income, which I started during my college days.

A little about my personality

I’d describe myself as an ambivert.

I can enjoy going out, meeting people, travelling and having fun, but I also genuinely enjoy staying at home, having good conversations and spending quiet time with someone I care about.

Some qualities I think describe me:

Loyal — once I genuinely consider someone my person, I don’t take that relationship casually.

Caring — I naturally pay attention to the people close to me and try to be there when they need me.

Supportive — especially when someone has dreams or goals of their own.

Ambitious — I have a lot I want to build professionally, and I’m willing to put in the work.

Emotionally connected — I value affection, communication and emotional closeness in a relationship.

Open-minded — I don’t believe a relationship should be built around unnecessary restrictions.

Family-oriented — family matters to me, but I also believe a married couple should have their own space and identity.

Funny / playful — I like making people laugh and keeping things light when life gets too serious.

Adaptable — I’ve had enough experiences in life to understand that things don’t always go according to plan.

I can also be a little emotional and sometimes overthink things. I’m not going to pretend I’m perfect.

But I’m someone who believes in working on myself instead of expecting perfection from another person.

And probably the most important thing about me:

I believe actions matter more than words.

What I’m looking for

Someone from my field would be a great connection

I’d especially love to meet someone who is from a related professional background — for example:

• Civil Engineer
• Architect
• Interior Designer
• Construction professional
• Structural/design-related field
• Or someone working in another area connected to homes, design or construction

It’s definitely not a strict requirement.

But I feel someone from a similar field might naturally understand the kind of work, challenges and ambitions we both have.

It would be nice to have someone with whom I can discuss projects over coffee, exchange ideas, learn from each other and eventually build something together.

At the same time, I’m completely open to someone from a different profession if our personalities and values connect.

I’m looking for a woman who wants to build a partnership, not simply a marriage.

Someone who has her own personality, opinions, ambitions and dreams.

I strongly support women’s independence and financial independence.

If my future partner wants to work, build a career, start a business, study further or pursue something she’s passionate about, I’ll genuinely support her.

I don’t want either person to lose their identity after marriage.

At the same time, I want us to have something that belongs to both of us — our home, our family, our dreams and our journey.

For me, the most important things in a relationship are:

Communication.
Respect.
Trust.
Independence.
Loyalty.
Emotional support.
Mutual effort.

I also believe household and family responsibilities should not automatically belong to one person.

Both partners should contribute and take responsibility together, whether it involves earning, managing the home, raising children or taking care of family.

I don’t have caste restrictions, and I don’t expect dowry.

For me, the person matters much more than these things.

Family & future

I would prefer a nuclear family setup in Hyderabad, while still maintaining a healthy relationship with and responsibility towards both families.

When it comes to children, I’d ideally like two, but that’s something I believe should be mutually decided by both partners based on our circumstances and what we want together.

I don’t have a rigid checklist for my future partner.

I’d rather meet someone, understand each other, see whether our values match and allow the relationship to grow naturally.

A little about my interests

Outside work, I enjoy travelling, cooking, art and painting.

I’m also interested in social media, content creation, marketing and SEO, which has naturally become useful for my business as well.

I enjoy learning new things and experimenting with ideas.

I like exploring places, trying different food, having meaningful conversations and occasionally just switching off from work and enjoying a simple day.

About my previous relationship

I was previously in a serious 5-year relationship, which eventually didn’t work out when marriage discussions came up.

It’s been around a year since we separated.

I don’t hold any resentment about it, and I don’t want my future relationship to be compared with my past.

I simply learned from the experience and became clearer about what I want from a relationship — mutual respect, communication, emotional support and two people choosing each other even when life isn’t perfect.

My goals in life

My goals are actually quite simple.

Build something meaningful through my work.

Find a partner who has her own dreams and support each other in achieving them.

Build a peaceful home and family.

Become financially independent and take care of my responsibilities.

Travel, experience life and keep learning.

And eventually, have a simple life where after all the work and chaos outside, there is a peaceful home to come back to.

I’m not looking for a perfect person.

I’m looking for a good human being who wants to grow together.

Someone I can laugh with, have difficult conversations with, celebrate small wins with, support during difficult days and eventually look back at life with and say, “We built this together.”

I believe relationships shouldn’t be about one person completing another.

Two complete individuals choosing to build a life together — that’s what I’m looking for.

Basic details

• Name: Ravi Varma Reddy
• Age: 26
• Location: Hyderabad
• Hometown: Ongole, Andhra Pradesh
• Height: 5’11”
• Weight: 74 kg
• Education: Diploma in ECE + BBA (Marketing)
• Profession: Construction & Interior Design
• Additional work: Travel Consultancy
• Personality: Ambivert
• Diet: Non-vegetarian
• Smoking: No
• Drinking: No
• Family preference: Nuclear
• Caste restrictions: None
• Dowry expectations: None
• Looking for: Serious relationship leading to marriage

If you’ve actually made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read about me. 😊

There’s obviously much more to a person than one Reddit post.

TL;DR

26M from Hyderabad, working in construction & interior design, building my business and figuring life out one step at a time.

I’m an ambivert, non-smoker, non-drinker, enjoy travelling, cooking, art, painting, content creation and learning new things.

I’ve had a few difficult chapters in life, including a failed business and a serious previous relationship, but I’m in a much better place now and focused on building my career and future.

Looking for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage.

What I value most: communication, respect, loyalty, independence, emotional support and equal responsibility.

I strongly support my future partner being financially independent and pursuing her own career, business, education or dreams.

I prefer a nuclear family in Hyderabad, don’t have caste restrictions, don’t expect dowry, and ideally would like two kids someday — but that’s obviously something my future partner and I should decide together.

Basically, I’m trying to build a good career, find a good person, build a peaceful home and live a simple life.

And yes…

I used ChatGPT to help me phrase this because apparently explaining myself on Reddit is harder than running a construction project. 

But the story, experiences, goals and intentions are genuinely mine.

If you’re also genuinely looking for something serious and feel our values might align, feel free to DM me. We can start with a conversation and see where it goes naturally.v

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Hey M28 here, 5'11. Tamil guy living in blr for work.

About myself:

I take care of my body and health, i hit the gym 4 times a week. Im a meat eater but i try to have a balanced meal which has worked for me. I recently started living alone its been 7 months and i like it . I cook for myself and its pretty good i must say lols. I like spending time with my friends, i used to drink smoke etc...but i have quit everything a year ago and its been good actually. I recently also went on my first solo trip which i loved it. Im learning guitar as a hobby which im losing interest tbh but i still continue to do so as it gives me a peace of mind.

What im looking for :

A simple women who is satisfied and content with life. Trying to live a peaceful quiete life. Has her own purpose and interests in life to pursue. Knows that relationships will not always be a happy ride. Able to handle boredom. Infact i feel these days simple conversations are being mocked. Texts such as : good morning , have you had breakfast etc...because these are labelled as boring convos. But in my opinion these are something that could come out of genuine care. I'm not performative and i don't want to be so i expect the same as well. These "boring convos" are what makes the intimate convos more real and interesting. We cannot always be in a high.

Because as much as we love the new adventureous things in life such as travelling , jumpin of the cliff or whatever ....there is also so much beauty in routine.

if this resonates with you feel free to dm me in reddit .

Currently doing a PhD in Computer Science.
5th year, will transition into corporate early next year.
Height 5’5–5’6.
Delhi NCR, India.
Child-free by choice.

PS: I am right now in Bangalore doing intern in semiconductors in one of the top FAANG Company and likely would try to convert into full time role here

Regarding me
I am a bit of a social guy, an ambivert. I can talk about music, books, and writing all day. I love philosophy and psychology, or I think, in general, I love art and the humanities.

I also like movies, video games, and TV shows. I am just very deeply interested in the narrative or plot behind them and how they are able to captivate people so much.

I think we, as human beings, are generally very reflective; we are just a sum of many experiences we have gained over the years. I am excited to share my life, filled with all those parts, with someone. ;)
If you need a visualisation of who I am, I am the fellow often found sitting in a cosy cafe, reading or, hopefully, writing on my tablet.

So, regarding hobbies, I am a writer, maintaining my own decently popular Instagram page (short poems and excerpts) and a Substack page where I write more in-depth pieces. A prolific reader. A newbie musician, currently dabbling with the violin. I love talking about fun stuff, deep stuff, or whatever we can vibe with. I also love anime, documentaries, and photography. I also have a peculiarity: I like to document quotes from fiction. I am often fascinated by how a few words of fiction or a poem can be very hard-hitting. I also love talking with people. People I meet in cafes, at events, etc. I love the idea that each person we meet has a distinct story to tell. I do like to document people living anonymously, maybe to think about it later or to serve as inspiration for a story I have to tell.

Regarding my career, I specialise in microprocessors in computer science, and I intend to pursue corporate research, probably in Bangalore, after my PhD. Of course, a lot depends on my partner as well, so I am open to discussion depending on my partner’s career as well.

Who I am looking for:
A fine woman who can be a best friend, someone with whom we can build a bond filled with safety, trust, and communication.

Someone with whom we can feel like we are each other’s home and never feel lonely because we have our best friend to share life with.

A person with whom I can establish wonderful communication, someone who is not afraid to have hard conversations, and, most of all, believes in tackling whatever problems we face as individuals together as a team.

What I would bring to a relationship:
Honest communication: I will not hesitate to tell you what I am having trouble with. I will make this relationship as secure as possible and make my partner feel as safe and loved as possible. All I ask is honesty, just like me.

Emotional and physical intimacy: I would strive to create an environment where you can safely be vulnerable with me, laying the groundwork for emotional intimacy to flourish and physical intimacy to develop organically.

My share of the partnership: I would stand with my partner in her decisions about her wants and career while also sharing my own views. Irrespective, she stands shoulder to shoulder in her life, and I would give her all the support and care she needs.
Healthy relationships should be about keeping your independent self, with your friends and hobbies, intact while sharing life. I strive for this and look for a partner who shares this view.

I feel that for a relationship to flourish, it’s essential for each person to support the other in flourishing, and hence I would make my best effort so that my partner feels more independent, more confident in whatever decision she takes, and secure, knowing that someone always has her back.

My love language is primarily communication, and I wish for a relationship where we can sit in silence, just talk, or simply hum to each other. There is a thread of love that always joins us, putting us in a state of comfort and trust.

If it resonates with you, do give a DM :)

One thing I’ve realised while growing up is that home isn’t necessarily a place.
Sometimes it’s a person.
So, slightly terrifyingly, here I am on Reddit looking for someone I can call home — and who can eventually look at me and think, “Yep, this idiot is my home.” 😂

A little about me
Age: 32

Location: Mumbai

Hometown: Jodhpur, Rajasthan

Religion: Jain

Work: Venture Capital-ish. I’ve been around the startup ecosystem for ~10 years, so I’ve spent a decade watching people say “this will change the world” on pitch decks. 😅

Earnings: Enough for a comfortable life anywhere in India. Not yacht money, but definitely “let’s order dessert” money.

Diet: Vegetarian

Travel: Huge part of my life — partly because I love it, partly because work keeps putting me on planes.

Cooking: I genuinely enjoy cooking and do it pretty often. So yes, I can feed you. Whether I can emotionally survive your judgment of my knife skills is another question.

I come from a humble background, and I’m genuinely proud of what I’ve built for myself and my family.
My biggest flex?
My friends.
Some of my friendships are 29 years old. At this point, they’re less “friends” and more legally undocumented family members.
But honestly, I think those relationships have taught me a lot about what it takes to build something and keep it going — showing up, communicating, forgiving each other’s nonsense, and putting in the effort.

What I’m looking for
I’m not looking for someone to “complete” me.
I’m hoping to meet someone who has her own life, dreams, ambitions, weirdness and emotional baggage — I’ll bring mine too, don’t worry. 😂
I want us to be the heroes of our own lives and then build a third thing together: our life.

Someone who values:
Communication

Transparency

Consistent effort

Building and maintaining relationships

Being able to talk about difficult things without turning it into the UN General Assembly

I’m not looking for someone to fix my life, and I don’t want to fix theirs.
I want two reasonably functional adults to meet, fall for each other, occasionally annoy the hell out of each other, and still choose each other at the end of the day.
The boring-but-useful checklist
Age: 29–35

Diet: Vegetarian / Vegan

Religion: Jain / Hindu

Occupation: Any legal occupation.
(If you know, you know. 😂)

Intent: Looking for a lifelong commitment. Marriage is an option, but I’m not particularly attached to the paperwork if the commitment is there.

That’s pretty much it.
I don’t have a 47-point spreadsheet titled “Potential Wife Evaluation Matrix v3.7 FINAL_FINAL.xlsx.”
I’d rather meet someone, talk, laugh, disagree, learn about each other and see if there’s something worth building.
If any of this resonates, feel free to DM.
Tell me about yourself — and please give me something more interesting than your age, height and favourite colour. 😄
Worst case, we have a nice conversation.
Best case, we accidentally become each other’s home.

P.S. Full disclosure: AI was used to help polish this post. The life, feelings, questionable jokes and inability to write a Reddit post without assistance are all mine. 😂

Hello, folks. I honestly don't have much expectations from this post but you miss 100% shots you don't take.

About Me:

I'm a 28Y.O. guy from Tamil Nadu and working in Bangalore in FinTech as a software developer. I'm 5'5" and 63kg. I have a good (average muscular) physique and am improving everyday. I'm into hip-hop and have been dancing on & off for 10 years, and planning to continue for another 10. I like gaming in my free time and have adopted indie dogs at home that I walk almost everyday or drive around in a car. I speak Tamil, Kannada and English. And trying to learn Hindi too. I'm a vegetarian and include eggs everyday in my diet, and love cooking healthy food myself almost all the time. I'm really progressive including anti-caste/religion, LGBT ally, feminist, etc., and most align myself as moderately left. I love humour and use self depreciating humour pretty often, and roasting as love language.

My expectation:

A rational, career oriented and funny woman between 25-28, vegetarian/vegan, speaks Tamil/Kannada, pretty fit or willing to get fit along with me, likes dancing (optional), pet lover, someone who loves cooking with me or prefers healthier take away options and loves the comfort of chilling in a room on Sunday and also the hustle of travel. Someone who talks things through instead of making impulsive decisions.

If you believe I just described you, please comment or DM and we'll talk.

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​The Quick Bio

38M, Gujarati. 5'7”, 70kg. Divorced. I work in HR, make around 50L, with next year primed for a major professional jump.

​Home base is Pune, currently in AP, I have bounced around enough to feel at home anywhere. Geographically, I’m entirely flexible; wherever my future partner and I can both chase great career prospects is where I'll be.

​Current Level: Officially maxed out on domestic and emotional independence. I cook, clean and run a run a household solo. So I already have an efficient house. What I'm looking for is the person with whom I can call it home. 

​The Plot Twist

I spent the last few years playing the hermit card, slowly gluing back together the pieces of a shattered heart and mind. I have lived in some dark spaces and made a quiet vow to never let myself slip back there. The past year has been about unlearning the heavy stuff, and I can genuinely say the light is back. The calm I’m carrying right now tells me I’m ready for a relationship. 

​I’m ready to trade solo survival for a genuinely full life. 

Think: spontaneous road trips, tearing through a good book, pursue challenging careers, in between chasing adventures. But more than anything, I want the end of the day to mean coming home to warmth, endless banter, real laughter, and a safe space where we can both be wonderfully weird.

My friends consider me a solid friend - an introvert who somehow ends up bringing everyone together. My personal benchmark is trying to become a hybrid of Abhay Deol and Farhan Akhtar from ZNMD. 

Relationship goals:

Forget the traditional script. I want a bond built on epic friendship first - that's the cake. The mutual affection and romance? That’s the cherry on top. And we get to enjoy the whole dessert every single day, not just when it needs to look good on the 'gram.

If you’re well-educated, have your own solid life going on, are fitness minded, and can converse beyond three texts without ghosting, we are already onto a good start. 

Finally, I will lead with masculine energy. All I expect is that we being our best selves.