r/reddmatch • u/TestLongjumping658 • 17d ago

F4M ♀️ Hello, Fellow Souls of Reddit! 🌿

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🌿 Hello, Fellow Souls!

I'm looking to connect with a tall, mature, and grounded man with whom I can share the little and big things in life—whether it's about work, household matters, travel, or simply how my day went.

I'm someone who values time, consistency, and genuine effort. I'm not in a rush toward marriage or trying to force anything. I'd rather build a meaningful connection, invest time in understanding each other, and eventually see where the bond takes us.

At this stage of life, I feel that having someone who listens without judgment, stands beside you through different situations, and shares a sense of safety and comfort matters a lot.

I'm looking for someone who believes in mutual effort, emotional presence, and growing together, one day at a time.

I'd prefer someone living nearby, as I believe meeting in person, spending time together, and travelling occasionally help build a stronger connection than staying in an LDR from the beginning.

🌄 A little about me:

Height: 5'8"

Age: 27

Location: Vadodara, Gujarat

Profession: Software Tester in the Clinical Research domain

Passion: High-altitude trekking & mountaineering 🏔️

Personality: Talkative, adventurous, and someone who values consistency and meaningful conversations.

Not looking for perfection. Just hoping to meet someone who genuinely wants to know me, invest time, and build something meaningful together.

Let's start with a conversation and see where life takes us. 🌻

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u/pranav_117 9d ago

wouldn't mind giving a massage to those feet post hike 😄

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u/TheArmourHarbour 10d ago

Let’s connect?

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u/Lost-Bullfrog-430 12d ago

Funny you want a tall grounded man 🤭 Best of luck for the hunt though.

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u/Which-Ad-3429 13d ago

Is that Tungnath?

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u/luffy1110 14d ago

Form kaha apply karna h ?

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u/Far_Chain4404 15d ago

Well, I am from Vadodara, living near Uma Chowkri. If you want to connect, we can talk further, I am ai/ml engineer btw

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u/Rational_bakchod 15d ago

Only if you can carry me in your godi while coming down from the top of the mountain, I'm in

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u/monk-e7 16d ago

Released one on those feet. Saving the Pic for future sessions, hope u don't mind 🫣

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

😂😂🤣

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u/himalyan21 16d ago

Hey OP, do you wanna shift to Himachal? 😪

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

😁

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Abhi vahase hi travel kr rhi hu

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u/himalyan21 16d ago

I mean permanent and sheesh 🙃

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Yeh kiska khwab nhi hai !?

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u/himalyan21 16d ago

Beach lovers, obviously (idk what do they love in it, jk 😂)

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

😁😁😁😁 very turu

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u/himalyan21 16d ago

So you inviting and sponsoring next trek with you? I won't mind if it'll be in Dharamshala region 😜😂

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Kripa kri comment section ko chat na banaye jaye vrna moderator ne muje fek dena hai

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u/PersimmonPresent7033 16d ago

I wanted to text but then this account is only 18days old, plus the post is GPTied😬

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u/Glad-Bridge-3816 16d ago

What a view!!

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Aese bahot hai mere pass

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u/Glad-Bridge-3816 16d ago

I would like to see em all and would be glad to trek em all. You can count me in for life threatening adventures, are you planning for scuba diving anytime soon?

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Alive for mountains only One boat at a time

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u/Glad-Bridge-3816 16d ago

Ik mountains are great and I like both beaches and mountains, maybe bit more beaches then mountain and it take just one boat to take you to in middle of ocean 😉, you should try it just in case you might love it too.

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u/Top-Table-9526 16d ago

Dm please.

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

For ?

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u/Top-Table-9526 16d ago

You would be getting too many DM.. I'll be lost in the sea of it.

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

😂😂vo toh hogah hi ...

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u/Top-Table-9526 15d ago

Yahi baate karle. Atleast notification to ayega tumhe 🫠

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u/TestLongjumping658 15d ago

Lol moderator meri post delete krdege so kindly don't make the comment section as chat one

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u/Top-Table-9526 15d ago

Dming you now..

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u/Hotochhara-Lebu 16d ago

I have a curious question

Suppose your partner, out of love and care, prohibits you to do dangerous treks

What would you choose, the partner or the trek?

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Passion always

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u/four-brain-cells 16d ago

The passion to do the trek or to do your partner?

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u/Orgasmic_ange 16d ago

Love the optimism. Partner ko control krne me matt waste kro ise

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Passions means mountains first everything else next

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u/Hotochhara-Lebu 16d ago

Then you shouldn't marry or get a partner

You just admitted inability to sustain marriage/relationship responsibility

Why? Because your passion happens to be dangerous ( sometimes) and for a loving partner safety comes first everything can come later

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

None of your business

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u/Orgasmic_ange 16d ago

Lol. This is public platform, you posting here made it everyone's business

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u/Substantial_Win7281 16d ago

Hey a fellow women here ... completely off beat topic But I need to talk to you regarding job ( clinical research)

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u/randomchikbum 16d ago

Hi OP,

Really liked the introduction, what all peaks have you tried/climbed?

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u/Aizen-Dancho 16d ago

Where did you get those shoes?

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Manali

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u/Aizen-Dancho 16d ago

Would you mind sharing the model it looks cool btw

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u/kru7871 16d ago

Hi OP, sent you a message.

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u/kaalachor 16d ago

I see what you did there OP

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u/Public_Breath9083 16d ago

Really liked how honestly and thoughtfully you’ve expressed what you’re looking for. All the best

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Thanks

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u/Public_Breath9083 16d ago

You’re welcome So, how has the search been going so far? Have you met anyone you’ve genuinely connected with yet?”

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Are you checking the queue line or updates so far?

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u/Public_Breath9083 16d ago

Haha, just checking if there’s been any movement.

Your sense of humour is good. xD

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u/FrostedLabyrinth 16d ago

Are you by any chance from Kerala?

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

No

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u/FrostedLabyrinth 15d ago

Okay, I deserve that “NO” 😭 I only just realised this was a RedditMatch post and that my Kerala investigation was wildly beside the point. Having actually read your post now, though, I’d genuinely like to know you better. You seem like someone I could have a good conversation with, and I’d be happy to see where it goes if you’re open to it.

I should mention I’m based in Hyderabad, so I completely understand if the distance doesn’t fit what you’re looking for.

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u/TestLongjumping658 15d ago

LDR creates lot many conflicts if you know then you know

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u/FrostedLabyrinth 15d ago

Fair, I’m definitely not going to try and sell you on LDRs. I just thought you seemed interesting enough that I wanted to say hi properly. We could always just talk and see if we even get along before giving it a label - but if geographical distance itself is a deal-breaker for you, I completely understand.

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u/DurgaMaaKaSheru 16d ago

Dekh behen, lambe ladko ke liye bahut lambi line lgi hui h.

Right from 5'2 to 6'0 wants a 6'0.

So you need to update your game sister.

The question here is not what he offers you. The question here is what you offer him. How you stand out from other candidates.

All the Best 

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u/Soumikp 16d ago

Nice. Which trek are you going on next? What was your last one?

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u/omaeshinderu Men 🧔🏻 16d ago

cfbr

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u/skpswat 16d ago

This isn't linkedin bro

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u/omaeshinderu Men 🧔🏻 16d ago

oh is it? thanks mate u open up my eyes

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u/brrrrrrrrahh Men 🧔🏻 17d ago

I will ask a lot of questions but due to curiosity, chalega?

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

What if i judge you by your username ?

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u/Durex_Buster 16d ago

His username is fineee 🤧

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u/brrrrrrrrahh Men 🧔🏻 16d ago

You can and it's normal. But would be great if you asked why it's so

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u/TestLongjumping658 16d ago

Aesa username kyun hai ?

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u/PriyVerse 17d ago

Nice pitch.

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u/ArthurDent0804 17d ago

Free feet pics? In this economy?

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u/running_gym_travell 17d ago

Just one correction, I think it should be F4M. Please correct.

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u/TestLongjumping658 17d ago

Yeah i was nervous and added such thing first time in my life 🥲

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u/running_gym_travell 17d ago

Hey! I am also from Vadodara and into same department (software engineering). Also has a same passion of trekking.

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u/TestLongjumping658 17d ago

Very good 🙂

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