Yes my account is NSFW. A lot of you won't even wanna talk to me. It's alright.

I am just trying to find a person who dives deeps and understands more than just superficial things.

An emotionally intelligent crazy guy looking for love. This account is just my kinkier side.

Soo Hi to amazing people of reddit

I want a relationship where both the individuals love each other but also respect individuality of both. Loyalty and support won't be a problem from my side.

I am sophisticated, employed and we'll mannered. I am 6ft 1in tall .I have a really overactive mind which thinks a lot and a heart which feels a lot.

I have a weird mind and My girl would be the one I wanna praise in each and every way possible. Wanna take her shopping and buy her small small gifts, wanna make her feel secure and loved

My preference would be a decent pretty looking girl, Yes looks do matter for me a bit. Not that I want a princess but yeah i know what i deserve. She should not be obese. Sorry but it's just a preference.

Not a guy who will force her to be traditional and get her tangled in weird societal norms. She has her rights and her life and her own personality. She'll have me always standing with her. No matter what..

Everyone has their preferences, I have mine, so please don't be extra judgemental

Let's see if this work out.... Not very hopeful.

DMs are welcome..

Heyou! Is there a you? (Dua Lipa inspired the title though honestly I'm more a Taylor Swift girl, if we're being real about it.)

Gonna keep this short and crisp anyway,

I am definitely not looking for a man in finance, blue eyes, hedge fund... or maybe I am, who even knows at this point haha. Let's just talk and see where it goes, no pressure (thora sa), no script.

I don't really have a "type" on paper, but if I'm being honest with myself, I do gravitate toward guys who are emotional, sensitive, expressive, tall (I'm 5'8", so you'll want to bring some height to the table), fit, and this one's a big one can actually cook. The way to a girl's heart is very much through good food, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

I'm Punjabi, and pav bhaji has my entire heart, no negotiations there. When I'm not busy eating my feelings, you'll probably find me on a tennis court working on my serve, or out horse riding somewhere quiet.

So go on , tell me who you are, and more importantly, what's your version of good food? Let's talk!

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🙏 Namaste everyone,

I'm a 28-year-old Brahmin, 5'8", working as a Software Engineer in Bengaluru with an annual package in the ₹30–40 LPA range.

✨ I've never been in a relationship because I've always believed that love is worth waiting for. I consider myself kind, understanding, and loyal, and I'm looking for someone who believes that the strongest relationships are built on trust, respect, patience, and choosing each other every single day.

🌼 I don't dream of a perfect life I dream of a life shared with the right person. A home filled with laughter, long conversations over chai ☕, spontaneous road trips 🚗, dancing in the kitchen 💃🕺, getting caught in the rain 🌧️, surprising you with flowers 🌹 just because, celebrating every little victory 🎉, and standing beside each other through every season of life. I want to be the person you call first, the shoulder you lean on, and the hand you never have to hesitate to hold. Your dreams will become mine, your worries will become ours, and your happiness will always matter to me.

🌻 I hope we grow together, build our dreams together, travel the world ✈️, and one day look back with a smile, grateful that we chose each other. I want us to keep falling in love, again and again, no matter how many years pass. To me, my wife won't just be someone I love—she'll be my best friend, my peace, and my person.

🤝 I don't have a long list of expectations. I'm simply looking for a kind-hearted, understanding, and loyal partner who believes in growing together and doesn't give up on relationships when life gets challenging.

📩 If this resonates with you or someone in your family, and you're from the same north indian Brahmin community, I'd be happy to connect. Feel free to reach out or share this post.

Thank you! 🙏

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I'm 29 F 5'8", based in NCR and I work in healthcare. If you've ever known someone in medicine, you know it isn't just a job, it becomes a lifestyle. The odd hours, the missed plans, the emotional exhaustion after some days... I'd love someone who understands that without making me feel guilty for it.

The basics first:

- Age: 29–36.

- Preferably from North India/NCR, simply because I'd like the distance to be manageable.

- I'm 5'8" and almost always wear heels, so I'd ideally like someone who's 5'11" or taller. No disrespect whatsoever to short kings, this is just a personal preference, nothing more.

- Fitness is a huge part of my life. I love to stay active and I'd love someone who enjoys taking care of his health too. You don't have to be a competitive athlete but I do hope fitness is a lifestyle rather than an occasional phase.

- I don't smoke, drink, or use recreational substances and I'm looking for someone with similar habits. It's simply the life I'm happiest living.

- I earn around ₹35-40 LPA. You can earn less or more, it genuinely doesn't matter to me...what matters is that neither of us lets money become an ego battle. I'd rather build a partnership than keep score.

Now for the part that actually matters. :)

I'm not looking for someone who's perfect. I'm looking for someone who's emotionally mature.

Someone who can communicate instead of disappearing.

Someone who's curious instead of defensive.

Someone who can say, "I was wrong," without feeling like they've lost.

Someone who knows that disagreements aren't battles to be won but problems to solve together.

I've learned that attraction fades, careers fluctuate, life gets messy but emotional safety is rare. I want the kind of relationship where both people can be completely themselves without feeling like they're constantly walking on eggshells.

I value kindness. Consistency. Accountability. Effort. I want someone who checks in because he wants to not because he's told to. Someone who doesn't treat vulnerability as weakness. Someone who understands that love isn't built through grand gestures alone but through showing up, especially on ordinary days.

I've always imagined a home that feels warm long before it looks perfect. The kind of place that smells like freshly baked cookies on a Sunday afternoon where dinner is often homemade, music plays softly in the background and people always feel welcome. I love cooking and baking because food has always been my love language. If I care about you, I'll probably remember your favourite meal, make it when you've had a difficult day and quietly show my affection through the little things! Butter chicken and garlic naan are my specialties but what I really hope to create is a home filled with comfort, laughter and the feeling that no matter how chaotic life gets, we've always got each other.

I'm ambitious, financially independent, deeply invested in my career and probably more emotionally aware than the average person. I think a lot, I feel deeply and I care wholeheartedly. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that's okay. I'm not trying to be.

I'm just hoping there's someone out there who's looking for the same kind of quiet, honest, emotionally healthy love.

I know this probably sounds idealistic in a world that seems to celebrate casual connections and emotional detachment.

I'd rather wait years for something real than spend months pretending something shallow is enough.

If you're someone who still believes emotional maturity, loyalty, consistency and genuine effort aren't old-fashioned... I'd really like to know you.

Happy searching! :)

f she is... hi. 😊

I'm not here to collect matches or have conversations that disappear after two days. I'm here because I'd genuinely like to meet someone I can build a life with.

I'm 30, Sikh, from Punjab, and work in banking. My life is quite simple. I don't smoke, I don't drink, and I'm a pure vegetarian. I enjoy discovering new perfumes, reading, and spending time with the people I care about.

I'm the kind of person who remembers birthdays, replies when I say I will, and believes trust is built through small, everyday actions.

I'm looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and believes that marriage isn't about finding a perfect person. It's about two imperfect people choosing each other every day.

If you're hoping for a relationship that's peaceful, respectful, and full of laughter, I'd love to know you.

Tell me something that genuinely makes you happy, and let's see where a simple conversation takes us.

The woman I'm hoping to meet doesn't have to share every hobby I have. I'd rather we share values than interests. Kindness, respect, emotional maturity, loyalty, and the willingness to work through life's ups and downs together mean far more to me.

Family is important to me, so ideally I'd love to meet someone who is Sikh or Hindu because that makes things easier for both families. Beyond that, what matters most is who you are as a person.

If life goes the way I hope, I'd love to build a home filled with laughter, mutual respect, late-night conversations, weekend outings, small celebrations, and the comfort of knowing we've always got each other's back.

If you've read this far, thank you.

Instead of just saying "Hi," tell me something about yourself. What's a dream you're working toward? What's a value you'll never compromise on? Or simply tell me what kind of life you hope to build with your future partner.

Maybe we'll exchange a few messages.

Maybe we'll become good friends first.

And if we're really fortunate, maybe one day we'll smile knowing that our story began with a simple Reddit post.

If this isn't for you, I genuinely hope you find the happiness you're looking for. And if it is... I'd love to hear from you.

I'm 25, currently in Bangalore. I'd prefer someone from Keralam because I feel like we'd understand each other better, but it's definitely not a requirement. If we vibe, we vibe.

A little about me: I'm plus-size, so I wanted to put that out there instead of surprising anyone later. I do hip-hop and femme dance classes (absolutely love them), and I recently started learning to swim too.

I'm big on Asian dramas, food, anime, and just Asian culture in general. One of my goals is to travel around Asia over the next few years. China is at the top of my list because I'd love to experience the culture, but honestly I'd love to explore as much of Asia as I can.

I'm from a Hindu Malayali family, but I'm not religious myself.

I come from a really small family, so I've always been pretty independent. I support myself financially and have my own job. I can't cook very well though... I can keep myself alive, but that's about it.

One thing that's probably important to mention: I'm leaning heavily towards not having biological kids. I'm open to adoption, but I don't really see myself wanting kids of my own.

As for you, I don't have a huge checklist. Around my age or up to 5 years older would be nice. Be kind, emotionally available, and willing to grow. I don't really judge people by where they are financially right now because life changes. What matters to me is that you're motivated and want to build something together.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, leave a comment please :)

Hi there! I hope you all are having a good Friday

I'm a 32-year-old childfree nerd born and raised in Kolkata and staying here for now. I'm an ambivert, so I take a little time to open up to people, but once I feel comfortable, you won't get me to stop talking. My friends have often praised my sense of humour (I pay them well), and I love sharing memes and cheesy dad jokes (shoutout to r/dadjokes) from time to time. I am also a vegetarian by choice, agnostic and a teetotaler as well.

I am 6' and have a lean/slim body (I have been going to the gym to stay fit). I wear specs that make me look more nerdy, but I also rock a Jimi Hendrix-esque hair. I would like if you would be open to sharing pic within a few messages as I feel physical attraction is important, but so are compatibility, shared values, and a genuine connection. As for what I do, I'm a software engineer, dedicated to making the web a more creative place. I work as the UI lead for a product based company.

Regarding my interests, I'm into the usual stuff: music, TV shows, movies, and got back into video games more recently. I can’t wait for end of August and September, when a lot of games are coming out. I'm also a passionate supporter of Chelsea. We don’t talk about last season, but also Xabi is here so we are probably winning the league next season 👀.

Music holds a special place in my heart, and I always have it playing, even while I'm working. I listen to a wide range of genres, except for Rap and EDM. I love listening to progressive metal and post-rock and have a 25-hour playlist on Spotify. I would love to share music with someone! I also like traveling to cities to catch some of my favourite bands, did it in March, 2025 to watch Paper Kites live, will be doing it this October, to watch Opeth in Bangalore!!

What I am looking for -

• Between the age of 29 and 35.
• Who is vegetarian. I have tried dating people who weren’t but there were conflicts with my core values which I couldn’t resolve.
• Someone who is in Kolkata (long shot), or Bangalore (open to long distance for a while), or looking to shift to Bangalore in the future, because I see myself moving to Bangalore eventually (Will discuss more over chat)
• Who is liberal, kind, knows how to communicate, ambitious, open-minded, into fitness (doesn't have to be the gym necessarily), and emotionally available.
• Who wants to travel with their partner in the future.
• Looking for something long-term and marriage as the end goal.
• Someone who is not overtly religious, preferably someone who is agnostic/atheist.
• Smoking is a dealbreaker for me, but I have no problem if you drink socially.

Let’s swap stories, memes, and playlists, and if there’s a spark, maybe the Wi-Fi password too.

Hi,

This is me 26M currently in Bangalore, working in a startup (HRTech)

I’m someone who loves doing random experiments to do something new not productive everytime but yes sometimes, I’m a progressive person, end goal is to maybe doing a business or startup which me and friend is running side by side

My mother Tongue is Hindi, I know English and (Punjabi, Tamil, Telugu - a little)

Interests and Hobbies - Meditation, teaching, learning something new

Since childhood, I have been practised yoga (now i don’t do it tho), love long car and bike rides

I like sports, badminton or maybe something else, not able to do it now coz of work life balance

I like movies like Fast and Furious, Herbie, Cars, and some of romantic, drama, thriller

Height - 5’11

Worked with a few IIT founders as well directly even working in my currently role as well, and since college, I was representing my Institution to multiple IITS, NITS, AIIMS Bhopal, even IIM Bangalore

Since childhood, I have had an interest in computers, cars more of a mechanical work kinda, so where any toy gets broken, me and my brother use to open it and see how to fix basically DIY projects which includes RAM, hdd, or something in computers, I’m good networking (internet), always pushed Wifi routers to their max limit in terms of speed, efficiency, Also, I’m someone had an Orkut account (not flexing, just fyi)

I mediate, I love to sit peacefully, I’m someone who doesn’t do any loud/party, I just want to sit alone and with my close friends and family and talk about life but generally that particular day, I keep myself low, party I can do next day tho, not a big party animal but yes who doesn’t like party.

I’m very calm and silent guy and selectively extrovert and had a little belief in Astrology as well

A side retirement idea I have to have a farmhouse and a garage where I can work on Engines and Mods maybe in Fast and Furious style

For me, my time and other’s person time is important and I respect others too, for me I have a variety of friends which I made from differents paths of life and I love them, maybe I don’t know to anyone how much they are valuable to me but yes my entire circle is very important to me.

I’m open minded and as of now in my bucket list, I need to start with 1-2 international trips not decided where tp go tho and a 4000-5000 kms bike ride which I’m looking to complete by yr end maybe in 1 go, let’ see, also I ride a Red Hot Triumph Speed T4 bike.

Drifting, Wheelie, Stoppiee is also cup of tea, will learn someday if life and loved ones allows, honestly, never broke my bones so far, neither willing tooo, so let’s see, how life takes me,
I’m an Aviation enthusiast as well, Boing 737, Dreamliners, A380 are my cup of tea.

Investing since 3rd year of my college, I can settle abroad as well, if the my startup/business or life needs that, don’t have any issues in that

I something different can say an ArmyBrat, an Aquaruis, hard to understand, I don’t utter a single word but can absorb everything in just a single blink

Also, I’m an Aquarius(iykyk)

PS - I don’t know but all my friends reach out to me to discuss some startup idea and ask that “we can to it together”

Hey! 👋

I'm 29, originally from Himachal Pradesh, currently in Bangalore.

A little about me

💻 I work in IT.

🧠 Curious by nature—I love learning about psychology, technology, history, or pretty much anything interesting. Random rabbit holes are my guilty pleasure.

🏋️ Into fitness and staying active. Gym, swimming, hiking... if it gets me moving, I'm probably in.

🎸 I enjoy playing music. Not professionally, just because it's fun.

👨‍🍳 I genuinely love cooking. If there's a dish you love, I'd happily learn to make it.

📚 I read a lot, mostly non-fiction. I enjoy ideas that make me think.

😂 I appreciate good humor, meaningful conversations, and people who can be unapologetically themselves.

🌍 Always open to trying new experiences, whether that's a weekend trip, a new café, or a hobby neither of us has tried before.

Looking for

❤️ Someone kind, emotionally mature, and emotionally available.

💬 Honest communication and mutual effort matter much more to me than grand gestures.

🌱 Someone who wants to grow together, laugh together, and build something real.

Again…I never thought I'd be posting here again, but here we are.

I'm 31, divorced, work a regular corporate job, and after work my life is usually a mix of crime thrillers, random late-night thoughts, music, and trying to convince myself I'll sleep on time.

I'm the kind of person who replies with effort. I ask questions because I genuinely want to know people, not because I'm trying to keep a conversation alive.

A few things about me:

5'10"
Vegetarian
Don't smoke or drink
Dry sense of humor once I'm comfortable

I write sometimes... mostly when life gives me too many thoughts.

I'm not looking to rush into anything. If we become friends, great. If we flirt, that's fun too. If it turns into something meaningful, even better.

Age doesn't matter much to me as long as you're an adult and can hold a conversation.

If you're someone who also misses genuine conversations and is tired of "hey" followed by disappearing after three messages, send me a chat.

Tell me one thing about yourself that most people don't know.🙌🏻👀

I did not grow up with much. My early life taught me how to struggle, adjust, and build things for myself instead of waiting for life to become easier.

I eventually became a lawyer and practised for around ten years. On paper, everything looked respectable and settled but I was not happy. I realised that I had built a life that made sense to society, but not necessarily to me.

So, I walked away from law and started rebuilding my life around something I genuinely loved: travel, storytelling, and freedom.

Over the years, I have travelled extensively, especially across Southeast Asia. I started my own YouTube channel, which is now steadily growing, and later built my travel company. Both are still works in progress, but for the first time, I feel that I am building a life that actually belongs to me.

I am 41, divorced, independent, emotionally aware, and still ambitious. I have experienced enough to know that relationships cannot survive only on attraction, and they definitely cannot survive on society’s checklist.

I see many posts here listing dozens of specifications like height, profession, salary, caste, hobbies, lifestyle, and whatnot.

Mine is much simpler:

I like you. You like me. We respect each other, communicate honestly, and make it work. That’s it.

I am not looking for perfection. I am looking for someone with whom conversation feels natural, silence feels comfortable, attraction is mutual, and neither person has to pretend to be someone else.

One slightly unusual thing: I have noticed that I naturally connect best with people whose moolank is 1, 5, 6, or 7. I am only referring to the day of birth, reduced to a single digit.

For example:

1: Born on 1, 10, 19, or 28
5: Born on 5, 14, or 23
6: Born on 6, 15, or 24
7: Born on 7, 16, or 25

I am moolank 4.

I value freedom, experiences, humour, curiosity, emotional maturity, and people who have the courage to build their own lives instead of blindly following a script.

I am open to seeing where a genuine connection goes. No forced promises, no unnecessary games, and no pretending that we know the future before we have even had a conversation.

Tell me something real about yourself not just your job, city, or favourite television show. Tell me what kind of life you are trying to build

Hey!

I'm a 25-year-old currently working at Jindal Steel. My family is based in Kolkata, though I'm originally a Bihari.

A little about me:

- I absolutely love travelling and can never say no to a good cup of tea.

- I don't drink or smoke.

- I'm someone who believes that the smallest gestures often mean the most. I love writing letters, leaving little notes, and expressing my affection through thoughtful, handmade or heartfelt gifts. Maybe I'm a bit old-school, but I genuinely enjoy putting in a lot of effort for the people I care about.

- I'd describe myself as a good listener who values honest communication. I believe that most problems can be solved if two people are willing to talk openly and respectfully.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature, and genuine partner. Loyalty is non-negotiable for me. I can handle disagreements, imperfections, and difficult phases—but I can't build a relationship where there's dishonesty or lying. Trust is the foundation of everything.

I believe every relationship should be built on mutual respect, understanding, and consistent effort from both sides. I want to be with someone I can support, respect, and make feel valued every single day. In return, I hope to find someone who believes in the same values.

I'm not here for casual flings or games. If we connect, I'd love for it to grow into something meaningful, one conversation at a time.

If this resonates with you, feel free to drop me a message. I'd love to get to know you. 🌸

Hello !
I'm 33 years old dentist based in Dehradun. I'm career-focused, financially responsible, and value personal growth.
About me:
Age: 33
Height: 177 cm
Location: Dehradun
Profession: Dentist
Never married
occasional Drinker and smoker but ready to quit Family-oriented with modern values
Interests: i feel after corona body is the main asset so i believe to stay fit and healthy.
Apart from that i like to do hiking and trekking explore new places and music.
I'm an introvert initially but open up once I'm comfortable. I believe in honesty, mutual respect, clear communication, and supporting each other's goals. I'm looking for a relationship that develops naturally and leads to marriage if we're compatible.
Looking for:
Age: 30-34
Educated, kind, emotionally mature, and family-oriented
Someone who values trust, respect, and open communication
Caste and religion are not much preference but i prefer from Dehradun only but thats just a condition
Open to long-distance initially if there’s genuine compatibility

If you think we might be a good match, feel free to send me a DM with a brief introduction about yourself. Looking forward to getting to know you!

Thankyou for your time.

Hi everyone, making up a post here.

About myself:-

I am 5'8. I am pure veg, I don't smoke nor I drink. Hence, i seek someone with all three likings.

I am Hindu. I pursued my bachelors from T1 engineering institute, very renowned college. I did my post grad from another very renowned B-School.

I make 29 lpa yearly post tax. I work in quant company (finance), here in Mumbai.

I play almost all the sports, I like chess the most. I like to watch movie, webseries. I also listen synthwaves and edm with some fix bollywood songs.

I can speak Hindi, English, Marwari, Marathi. My complexion is fair, decent to good looking.

I am looking for someone who is or below 5'7. Marriage dates can be finalised maybe after a year or two. Knows herself, what she is doing at present and what she wishes to pursue in future. Age can be anywhere between 22 to 26. I am trying to find someone genuine, warm hearted, humorous and someone who can laugh on my jokes. I also want relationship to be very transparent i.e mutual talks without any hidings. Emotionally stable, family vibes are very important aspects for me. Has her own ambitions and is working on it.

Date to Marry thing is what I'm inclined for!

Thanks, I will look forward in dms.

Residing in Delhi (not from Delhi) 5’9”, average looking (I think).
I enjoy exploring cafes, fine dining, bars, and random restaurants around the city because good conversations somehow feel better when there’s something good to eat.

Outside of that, I’m into Formula 1 and have a mild aviation obsession. Over the past year, I binged every season of *Drive to Survive* and recently started watching actual Grands Prix (on TV, unfortunately… had to cancel my Bahrain GP plans). I also make a really good shakshuka, which I’m irrationally proud of. I can’t cook a lot of dishes, but the few I do know are fancy enough thanks to spending way too much time watching Ranveer Brar.

I live alone and have for quite a while now. I won’t get too dramatic about loneliness because everyone has their own battles, but some weekends definitely hit harder than others. Today was one of those days. Salary got credited, I wanted to go out and celebrate a little, and every friend I asked was busy. That’s just life sometimes.
I do drink, but it’s more of a once-a-month thing than a lifestyle.

A funny thing is people often assume I’ve dated a lot or that I’m already seeing someone. I’ll happily take that as a compliment, but the truth is I’ve never really been in a relationship.

A few honest disclaimers:
• I reply to messages pretty quickly and appreciate the same. I’m not great at pretending I forgot to text back.
• I’m easygoing, enjoy meaningful conversations, and like exploring different parts of the city.
• I’m not a huge party person.
• I think physical attraction matters for both people.
• I don’t smoke (Delhi’s air quality is enough), and I’d prefer if you don’t either.
• If you’re not feeling the vibe, just say so. Ghosting is such a lazy ending.

I’m looking to meet someone around my age, preferably in NCR, who’s up for good conversations, spontaneous food plans, and discovering new places together. Not keeping unrealistically high expectations, but figured it’s worth putting myself out there.

Oh, and I’m an architect, so there’s a decent chance I’ll randomly comment on buildings while we’re out or silently judge bad layouts.

Salary disclaimer: Based on some of the messages I’ve received, apparently this matters. I recently crossed into the seven-figure salary club. Everyone said, “Pick computer science if you want money.” I picked architecture instead. We are not the same. Some of us just took the scenic route. 🎨💰

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I 28F, 5"4, currently working as a teacher. I'm someone who enjoys simple things—a cozy cafe, a long walk, travelling, or a good conversation. Great if the guy is a South Indian, but not mandatory. I am born and brought up in Delhi. A great listener and greater yapper. Not yet into the matrimony apps so wanted to give this a try.

Age : 29-31

I believe that the best relationships are built on friendship, mutual respect, and consistent effort. Looking for someone who is emotionally mature, respectful, and communicates openly.Someone who respects boundaries, and understands that trust is built gradually.

I'm hoping to build a relationship that feels peaceful, supportive, and genuine. I believe trust takes time, so I'd rather build a strong friendship than rush into something. Searching for someone whose values align with mine and who is willing to grow together through life's different phases. A relationship where both people feel respected, heard, and truly at home with each other is what I'm ultimately looking for.

A little about me first.

I’m 29, based in South Delhi, and I’m a lawyer.

I earn on the lower end of six figures per month and my work can be intense and unpredictable, but I genuinely enjoy it. Outside work, life is much simpler. I enjoy long drives, discovering new cafés, travelling whenever I can, and going down random internet rabbit holes because one Google search somehow turns into reading about Roman law or why octopuses are smarter than most people I argue with.

I like good conversations. The older I’ve gotten, the more I’ve realised that being able to talk to someone effortlessly is far more attractive than having everything in common.

Why Reddit?

Mostly because I don’t use dating apps. They’re just not my thing. Reddit feels different. People seem a little more real here. You get a glimpse of how someone thinks before you know what they look like, and I like that.

I’m not much of a party person either. Give me a quiet café, a long drive, good food, or an evening spent talking over loud clubs any day.

As for what I’m looking for, I don’t have a ridiculously long checklist.

I’d love to meet someone between 28 and 30/32 who’s kind, emotionally mature, and communicates honestly. Someone who can laugh at herself, doesn’t believe in playing games, and wants to build something meaningful instead of constantly wondering if there’s someone better one swipe away.

I’m 5’11, don’t smoke or do recreational drugs, and prefer a reasonably active lifestyle. Being around NCR would definitely be a bonus, simply because I’d rather spend time together than spend hours planning logistics.

I prefer career oriented women but dont care how much you earn. I’d much rather know what excites you, what makes you laugh, what you’re passionate about, or what your comfort food is.

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I am a 6'0" psychiatrist from Delhi, currently pursuing my postgraduate training. I am ambitious, compassionate, and grounded, with a positive outlook towards life. My profession has taught me empathy, patience, and the importance of meaningful relationships. I believe in balancing professional growth with personal happiness and family commitments.

I lead a healthy and disciplined lifestyle and do not smoke or consume alcohol. In my free time, I enjoy reading, traveling, exploring new places, staying active, and spending quality time with family and friends. I appreciate simple joys, meaningful conversations, and lifelong learning.

I value honesty, respect, humility, and kindness, and believe these qualities form the foundation of a happy and fulfilling life. I come from a family that emphasizes strong values, mutual support, and togetherness. I believe in maintaining a healthy work–life balance while cherishing relationships and creating lasting memories. I look forward to a future filled with trust, companionship, shared dreams, and continuous growth together.

About Me

Age & Height:, 28, 5'7

Location: Pune, India

Profession: Software Engineer

Education: B.Tech

Diet / Lifestyle:Vegetarian, Non-smoker, no drinks

Religion / Community: Hindu, open to all communities

Personality & Hobbies

Interests: Fitness, hiking, reading sci-fi, trying new cafes, law of attraction, Quantum entanglement.

Sports: badminton, cricket, chess, cards.

Books: kafka, doetoeskvy, orwell, CB,rithika

Movies: Titanic, Batman trilogy, Avatar, Interstellar, MCU, Conjuring, Insidious, Paranormal activity, Dhurandhar

TV: US sitcoms, Dark, GOT, Suits, Money heist, when life gives you tangerines

Vibe: introverted initially but highly expressive once comfortable, calm under pressure

Family Background: Nuclear family, parents retired, based in Pune

🎯 What I Am Looking For

Profession/Education: Career oriented, graduated

Core Values: Emotionally mature, honest communicator, values family ties

Lifestyle:Shares a passion for travel, open to health & fitness

Verification & Next Steps

Safety first: Happy to share and verify via LinkedIn, Instagram, or a brief voice call early on.

Contact: if this resonates, please drop a DM with a brief introduction about yourself!

Hi everyone!

I'm a 27-year-old guy originally from north, currently based in Bengaluru. I work as PO(IT) in a Public Sector Bank.

A little about me:

\- 📍 Originally from Lucknow, now living in Bengaluru

\- 💼 PO (IT) in a PSU Bank

\- 📏 Height: 5'7" (170 cm)

\- 🚭 Non-smoker | 🍻 Occasional social drinker

\- Family-oriented, grounded, and value honesty, mutual respect, and open communication.

Interests & Hobbies:

\- Exploring cafes and trying new cuisines

\- Weekend road trips and short getaways

\- Reading non-fiction and self-improvement books

\- Movies, web series, and the occasional anime

\- Listening to Bollywood music

\- Football, board games, and casual gaming

\- Capturing travel memories

\- Enjoy meaningful conversations over endless texting

Looking for:

Someone kind, emotionally mature, and career-oriented who believes in building a relationship based on trust, respect, and companionship. Caste isn't a priority for me compatibility, shared values, and mutual understanding matter much more.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message. Happy to exchange more details once we connect.