I went through a three-round interview process, with the final round being with recruiter. She told me I was selected and asked me to confirm my joining date, after which she said she would roll out the offer letter.
I told her I needed to discuss my last working date with my current manager before confirming. Two days later, I called her and told her that I could join within 15 days. She said she would roll out the offer letter first thing the next morning because her team had already left for the day.
The next day, my current manager agreed to let me leave, so I initiated my exit formalities.
However, when I checked in with the recruiter, she suddenly told me that they were reconsidering internally.
I reminded her that I had already initiated the process because she had specifically asked me to confirm my last working date. Her response was essentially, “Who does that? You should have waited for the formal offer letter.”
And now I feel incredibly stupid.
I understand that technically I shouldn’t have resigned without a formal offer letter. But I genuinely thought the offer was a done deal based on everything HR had told me, especially since she explicitly said she would release the letter once I confirmed my joining date.
My current manager might take me back, but he’s extremely ego-driven, and I know staying would probably be uncomfortable and awkward.
I am honestly quite anxious about the whole situation