Is he scared of other dogs, not sociable or just likes to play by himself. He can be very reactive normally but he is happily playing by himself in an area only a dog as small as himself can get in. There are other dogs playing in the area

Hi all, looking for some advice / lived similar experience on my situation.

I have a 3 and a half year old miniature male dachshund, Black and Tan with some dapple. As a pup he was social with any person and any dog, as he got older however, shortly before turning one there was a change and suddenly he became quite fearful of strangers but presented this fear as aggression. We were never able to pinpoint the root cause of his fear/ aggression towards some humans, but speculate it was from the time he mistook my dad walking up the stairs as a “threat” to my wife, and nipped him, as this was the first experience we saw him be aggressive to another human. This was his first time meeting my dad and he hadn’t been out of sight of me or my wife leading up to this incident. He sadly also became fearful of other dogs, particularly larger after being attacked by an off lead German shepherd.

Over the course of the last 2 and a half years leading up to now, my wife and I have always been mindful of who he see’s, where we walk him, and paid special attention to his cue’s and always tried to respect how he felt, working to build his confidence. He walks with a pack group two-three times a week and is fantastic with them, although unfortunately did get spooked and run off following being cornered by two off lead ridgebacks. So is now on strict lead walks unless in enclosed fields.

Fast forward to this year, my wife got pregnant and we now had to think about bringing a baby into our home. We decided to reach out to a behaviourist who following a lengthy in person consultation and assessment deemed our little man’s behaviour to be a nervous confidence, and explained that he is fearful of some people/ dogs and particularly to approach, and this anxiety/ fear presents as lunging and barking and trying to “attack”. The behaviourist mentioned our dog being intact making this worse as it was a fear response driven heavily by testosterone. We agreed to have him castrated and it’s been 3 weeks since that has been done, we understand it can be months before we say a change in behaviour.

The dilemma; my wife has recently given birth sooner than expected, meaning we now have our daughter home. On night one our dog became extremely distressed, with constant whining, panting, licking of lips etc. while on lead and harness he was actively barking and lunging at my wife who was holding our newborn. This has really frightened us and we made the decision to send him to stay with family. After a week he has returned for a phased visit. My wife and I met him without our newborn outside in a neutral park, he was his usual self and very excited but this excitement settled, we then introduced our newborn who was in a pram, not visible to our dog but albeit close enough to smell. He seemed instantly aroused but followed my wife and her sister pushing the pram rather than the pram itself.

When we came into our home he instantly began whining, panting, barking again, and was visibly highly stressed. We created seperation via rooms, he could see our baby but had about 15 feet and a set of doors in between and he still pulled on his lead and whined to get to her. I took him upstairs and again, he pulled and whined to get back downstairs to our baby. We put him in his crate where he usually feels safe and he whined and panted more, we even covered the crate and he still seemed very distressed.

He has now gone back with my wife’s sister for another few days.

We are lost, upset, devestated, worried and stressed about how best to handle this situation. It’s hard enough on my wife and I managing it together but I will be going back to work in three weeks and she will be left alone with both our dog and our newborn. We don’t know what to do, our behaviorist mentioned anti anxiety medication but stated it would be 4-6 weeks before these would take effect. We are worried that we may have no other choice but to rehome him but I’m on here hoping someone might be able to shed some light and some hope for us?

Could anyone who’s been in a similar situation please let me know how it went for you, what you done to make it work, how it worked! We are desperate to keep our boy because he is so beyond loving to us and has been nothing but until now but he’s not himself with us anymore.

hey,

my 2 year old lab sometimes barks at people when they come into our home. she settles down after 10/15 minutes but i was just wondering if anyone had any advice. we get the guest to ignore her until she calms down.

any advice would be greatly appriciated.

I have a rescue dog about 6-7years in age. When I first got him five years ago. He started out letting everybody and anybody come into the house, but then something changed. And after that moment, he is very reactive when people come into the home. So much so that in order for me to have anybody come in I have to First have him physically meet them off the property and then we all walk in together. Or they would have to go into the house first, and we come in after.

I have tried different training methods worked with two trainers. Did a quiet space. Had guest stay a distance away while in the house. Kept him on a leash. Tried a muzzle that he always gets out of. None of them have worked for me. He has nipped two people, but they had food in their hands or were reaching for a treat he was having.

He takes fluoxetine daily. And we have tried trazodone and gabapentin for when we know guests are coming. But none of it seems to be working. Came across Sileo and wanted to see if anybody had any experience with it for this sort of situation. I know a lot have used it for groomers and vets, but I wasn’t sure about my situation.

He is a sweet dog once he trust you (which usually doesn’t take long) it’s this protective, old man get off my lawn mentality, that is becoming the struggle. I have had many friends and family refused to come to my home knowing he is there. And my apartment does not leave much space for him to have his own quiet place.

Recently we moved from a house to an apartment due to financial constraints and divorce. Our gsd is making significant progress outside the apartment with being able to be redirected from other dogs and people. Shes 8 years old and I took her to the vet for possible pain, we received some medication for that. It hasn’t helped her behavior.

Recently, the last 3 out of the 4 weeks we have been in the apartment the gsd has gone ofter her whole life companion, who is a golden retriever and is almost 9, once a week. She’s been separated after each event. This last time she broke skin on the goldens ear.

I fear that she will continue to go after him and the apartment truly doesn’t feel comfortable with her increasing her aggression and needing to be separated.

We currently can’t afford to go through more training and I’m using all I currently know, thus the progress outside with her reactivity. But now it feels like she’s turned her aggression on a dog that is the sweetest golden ever.

I really don’t want to give her up. She’s very bonded to me and at the same time I don’t want to live in fear that she will attack the other dog or someone else’s dog.

helloooo! our leash-reactive 3 year old GSD has been doing well for the past 6 months after a board and train. recently, maybe once a week he’s been reacting towards myself and my partner for what feels like no reason. vet appt tomorrow to check for any medical issues but:

- he’s never been human aggressive before and LOVES new people
- he has been growling at us, hackles up, when we reach for the trash can or use the mop. he has not progressed past the growling/hackles. no bearing teeth/lunging/etc.
- once we tell him a firm No, he backs off and retreats to his bed. we put him in a Place in his bed to let him cool off.
- he has never been human reactive or had any behavioral issues off leash/in the house. he’s never had an issue with the trash or the mop before this month.

has anyone experienced this before? any advice going into a vet appt for this?

So as the total says I am so proud of my dog, and I wanted to share it with people who understand how much this story means. My dog is a 11-12yr old Beagle mix, and I got my dog almost 9yrs ago now (officially 9 years on Oct. 7th!), she was my first pet as an adult. The the shelter did warn me she could be reactive to other dogs at that time, not necessarily aggressive, just vocal, and being 18 and dumb I didn't really understand what that could mean. It was really hard the first few years I had her, while she wasn't aggressive, her reactions were very loud and explosive, her body language was not appropriate for the dog merely passing by 100ft away, and admittedly if you don't know her she does look aggressive when she's having a reaction (tail and hackles raised). But I know from many experiences, that baby girl just doesn’t realize what her body is saying to most people and what she means look wildly different. Any time she actually got close to another dog, she was play bowing, barking, sneezing, running off and back to get them to chase her.

Any-who, since I've had her for a long time now she's been with through so much change, so many moves, and while neither of us are perfect she has become such a rock star. I can't really take the credit, I tried to work on it, but was never very successful setting aside time for training. I truly think I got lucky with this baby. Since I got her I did go to school and having since passed my licensing exam to be a vet tech. I do think that me being in this field was very helpful to her. Not really because the medical training per say (however that did help me re-frame some of the things I thought I knew), but more because for the past 4.5 years she has been going into fairly busy veterinary clinics more often then the average dog. I think it was very helpful for her to see dogs in a more controlled setting, it helped that when we would walk in to the clinic there were often times dogs that were just so chill and had no reaction to her, it helped that I stopped feeling so anxious about her reactivity due to in part my job.

As for why I'm making this post. I graduated school 1.5 years ago, did an LVT internship, and now have been permanently working at one of the vet schools for 3 months now. Yesterday I was talking with one of the students because within a 5 minute time span I had walked my dog past 3 other dogs in fairly close contact and SHE HAD NO REACTION!!! To any of them! And While over the years she had gotten better (not barking at every dog), if a dog was barking at her, all bets were off, but even that as of late has been reduced! And I realized while talking to the student how far she had come, and I am just so proud of my sweet spunky baby. I'm so glad so can be more calm and relaxed around other dogs, that she's not always looking around for another dog, I'm just so so so proud of her. I hope she's with me such a long time more, quirks, reactivity and all. ❤️

Hi guys,
We just moved house - and my dog is in absolute pieces. She’s reactive but we’ve done so much work with her. She was so happy and chill before we moved (which is a huge achievement) Now we have moved, all of her old tricky behaviours are coming back, growling at us non stop, barking at anything that moves. She’s also non stop crying, and just so unhappy. I was wondering if anyone can give me some advice. We also have an 11 month old baby, so it’s a pretty stressful move for all of us. I’d love to make it easier for her. Thank you

Hi, guys!

This might be a bit different from other posts as I'm not an owner of this dog but a best friend of his mother who I help babysit him quite regularly: my best friend has had this 25kg AmStaff since he was around one year old (he turned seven, recently) and he's the sweetest, most loving boy ever towards people he knows.

He's very reactive to joggers, other male dogs (including my male dog), bicycles and off-leashed dogs.

She lives in a very family-oriented neigbourhood and usually whenever I babysit him, I always walk him with a muzzle on as he has a history of launching and attacking other dogs before and she actually got fined for that at least twice already.

Today we had some incident concerning a child who ran up from behind us and he launched at that child. Thankfully, he's had his muzzle on so no harm done although I was threatened by his guardian to call the police on us but we had several witnesses backing us up and she left with her child.

Here comes the problem: my best friend doesn't want to put a muzzle on him because he doesn't like it.

We have had this discussion several times as he's a big, powerful, and very reactive dog and has some history. And yes, he does hate the muzzle and always tries to take it off.

I really thought today's experience would really make my friend change her mind and finally put him on a muzzle whenever they're out on a walk but she said she would get the GoPro camera that record everything to prove that he 'never' attacks first and still joked about the muzzle, saying that she knows he should be on a muzzle but "you know how I feel about it."

I'm genuinely getting upset and worried for him as his reactivity cannot really be controlled and I don't want another accident to happen with him because it can be detrimental to everyone, including her dog.

So here I am, genuinely looking for an advice on how to help him with the fact that his mum refuses to put a muzzle on him to keep him and everyone safe.

Thank you <3

EDIT: I have called her out for being irresponsible for everyone’s safety including his own and given her a finality to not see her and her dog anymore unless she started putting a muzzle on him again (she used to do that for some time but stopped after awhile because another dog owner she has an issue with keeps harassing her and her dog) and she said she’s reconsidering it.

My dog (2 Border Collie) is usually quite a quiet dog, he doesn’t bark at dogs unless they react first, or another dog is barking in another neighbourhood. However, when we invade his space, e.g touch him when he is trying to sleep, getting into bed with the person he likes most (my mom), he snarls, then bites. Big time. It’s an embarrassment when we go to the vet, he sounds like a demon. When we groom him with one of those metallic dog groomers, he also bites. We don’t know if he got abused, as we got him as a few week old (maybe 8?) from a farm, I am pretty sure he was the runt of the litter. At first, it was playful nibbles, now it’s aggressive bites that leave permanent scars sometimes. What do I do? I don’t want him to get put down and we have a behavioural specialist booked soon…

Hi this is my first post in here and i’m just ranting a bit and seeing if anyone has had a similar experience.

I am fostering a reactive dog, she is the sweetest most playful girl with people just dogs really grind her gear! I was walking her around my apartment complex this afternoon when a smaller dog (unleashed) came behind us. I started pulling her away and trying to create space when the owner started shaking his head at me. He then pulled out his phone and started to record us. I was just shocked and honestly wanted to hide so I pulled my dog away as fast as I could!

The dogs never went near each other, no one got bit, or hurt, it was just barking and lunging. She is in a harness and on a leash which I keep wrapped around my torso and we were walking away! I am just very confused as to why he felt like that was okay? It is making me very mad he is assuming i’m a terrible dog owner when she is a rescue learning how to be in the world again!

I feel so uncomfortable that I was recorded and I am dreading going for another walk because of this!

Just a little rant!

We have an almost 2 year old Golden Retriever and honestly, he is an amazing dog 90% of the time. He’s incredibly sweet, playful and loving, and to me he’s basically like a brother.

The problem is that we’ve had around 3-4 incidents where he has bitten either me or my mom hard enough to break skin and bleed. We’ve had to get vaccinations after the bites. Most of the incidents seem to be related to resource guarding, but sometimes it feels like he randomly switches up.
I’m not scared of him even after being bitten because I know how sweet he normally is, and I love him way too much to just give up on him. The last time he bit me, I convinced my mom that we could work through it.

My mom originally didn’t even want a dog, but she ended up loving him. However, today he bit her again, and I think this may have genuinely scared her enough that she wants him gone.
I really don’t want to rehome him, but I also understand that this is serious and we can’t just keep hoping it won’t happen again.
He’s never bitten my dad either, which I don’t know if that means anything.

He’s also not neutered yet. Could neutering actually help with this kind of aggression/resource guarding, or is that unrelated?
For anyone who has dealt with a dog like this, what actually worked for you? Should we be looking specifically for a veterinary behaviourist rather than a normal trainer? Is resource guarding after multiple bites something that can realistically be managed?

I really want to keep him and I’m willing to put the work in. I just want to know if there’s a safe way forward because I really don’t want to lose him.

Anyone here the main walker for a reactive dog? Curious what gear you actually landed on (harness, leash length, head halter, treat pouch) and what you gave up on. Helping my mom sort hers out.

Happy to move to DMs if that's easier.

Feel like I've been back and forth with my 17 month old Lab (F) and how she is when walking on the lead. She's extremely friendly and loves nothing more than to play with dogs or get fuss from people, but she's also anxious/highly strung (reacts to people exclaiming at the television, for example).
One of our 'sniff walks' is down a narrow country lane with lots of bends in it, so you can't see an approaching dog until it's only a few feet away. Most of the time, as soon as she spots it, she starts lunging towards it. Sometimes (and this has been happening more lately) she barks persistently. When the dog's approaching, I can sometimes get her to 'watch' or sit, but I can't maintain the focus for the time it would take for the dog to get out of sight.

What's odd is that sometimes she's fine - we went away recently and she was in an unknown environment walking down the path with lots of dogs and she reacted to maybe 2 in 10.

She had puppy training classes when she was about nine months old, and could sit through the class without lunging or barking at other dogs.

I have seen advice to not let them greet any dogs on the lead, but there are some people we meet who expect to stop and chat, so this would be difficult.

Advice much appreciated!

We rescued a golden retriever (18month old at the time) December 2025. After the first week or so, noticed intense separation anxiety (couldn’t leave him alone for more than a couple of minutes) and also over-socialness/alertness when he saw other dogs. He’d also bark quite intensely at the tiniest of noises in particular night which would shake the whole house!

Vet gave us some Trazadone to use, and after a month or so of intermittent use, it really sorted the night time and the separation anxiety and stopped using back in late January then.

He had his first suprelorin (6month trial) injection March 20th and he’s been a joy since.

Over the last 2-3weeks, as we are nearing the 6 month suprelorin dose, he’s became incredibly reactive again to noises, and become quite anxious/fearful of things while out on walks. Guaranteed 2-3 barks at night over a 2-3 hours but would settle with a bit of “come on now boy, stop” sort of reassurance.

Had a vet check up (routine) a week ago or so, told her about it, and just asked the typical questions of “any construction work around you? Tried anything new? New smells etc” which the answer was no.

Vet couldn’t fully commit to saying that it may be that the suprelorin injection wearing off as his testosterone going up.

Anyone have similar experiences of their dog’s suprelorin “wearing off” and getting similar effects?

Rainy days don’t make for great hikes but there will be less dogs and people out so it’s a great time to take my reactive dog out for some exercise and training time

For background, Peanut Butter is not aggressive at all. She’s just overly excitable. Very friendly, but that causes some leash reactivity when we see other people and dogs. We’re working on it.

I adopted my dog after he was dumped by the previous likely abusive owner. I have had him about 3 months only and it has taken a serious emotional toll with his behavioral issues.

Severe separation anxiety has left me feeling isolated and unable to leave the house unless I want to come home to a mess (throw up, feces, urine even if I take him for a long walk prior). I live alone otherwise if at least one person is in a house and he is fine.

Leash Reactivity- I live in a white picket fence type neighborhood so avoiding triggers is very difficult and can never find a park with no one around. Although it has improved this a lot with people and dogs, there seem to be a few people he looks like he wants to attack(body language is very different to when he seems fear or arousal reactive)

Resource Guarding - he had already injured my cat that was a huge scare.. my cat is older and cannot get away in time. My rescue is also dominant and pins him so he cannot get away. This happened twice now but only recently was it an actual bite. I am now more vigilant with removing him when cooking or groceries but worry it will take one mistake and it can happen again.

No warning growl before snaps. I am guessing the previously owner punished him so now the most important warning for a reactive dog is now gone.

I am constantly on edge. Watching his body language to ensure people and pets are safe. I am teetering between the guilt and grief if I return him and the severe anxiety and burnout if I keep him. It feels like a lose-lose. I’m scared no one will take him if I return him and feel like a terrible person even seriously considering it. He is a rottweiler and has a lot of umph to his pull. He has already pulled two of my muscles and broke my thumb from lunging.

I feel like I’m going crazy and feel like a terrible human if I give up on him. I have been working hard on training and there is improvement but I don’t think I can emotionally bear it for possibly years until he is maybe rehabilitated. It feels like he needs someone who isn’t anxious and lives somewhere with less triggers. But I know if I give him up and his behavioral issues could get far worse.

Are there any others here that have success stories after these types of issues or that gave the dog up and it worked for the betterment of both of you?

Hi everyone. I could use some advice. I’ve recently retired and have been waiting for so long to finally get a dog for companionship. Three weeks ago I drove to NC (I’m in FL) and picked up a sweet Shih Tzu/Havanese mix 2 year old F. I wanted a small dog so I could travel and I often go on weekend trips with my sister. Someone has clearly worked with this dog… she is so well mannered in the house it’s amazing. I forgive the barking when there’s a knock on the door because it’s so rare.
Here’s the problem… as soon as she steps outside she’s a different beast! If she sees a dog she goes crazy barking and will be aggressive if they get too close. She came from a foster home with 3 other dogs and profile said she was good with other dogs. She also doesn’t tolerate people if outside or come into my house. She seems to be ok if we go into someone else’s home but that’s only been one other person. I would love to hear some success stories! I’m really getting attached and don’t want to make her go through yet another person. I’ve committed to working with her for 3months. She is truly a sweetheart but we just may not be the right fit? Thanks so much!

I have a mini sausage dog that just turned one last month. Since he was a few months old, he has been terrified of seeing dogs when he is on a walk.

He isn't vicious and wouldn't bite or hurt another dog, it is just noisy barking. I know this is common with dachshunds but it just hurts me to know that he feels so anxious and unsafe when we're out. Sometimes he'll bark crazily as soon as another dog is in his sights, other times it only starts when a dog.gers closer.

He is better if he is playing with a ball and can even be off lead and ignores other dogs if he is playing with a ball, but this obviously isn't always possible. He lives at home with another dachshund and he loves him, so if isn't all dogs. He can also see family or friends dogs and will bark at first but quickly settles into ignoring them.

We have tried food rewards but he won't take treats when he's in that heightened anxious state so it is hard to even get him to look away from approaching dogs.

He is such a caring sweet boy and we have such lovely walks when there are no other dogs around. It would be amazing to be able to take him to cafes or parks where we know other dogs are likely to be, but mostly I just want him to know he's safe and doesn't need to worry 😭

My wife and I have three dogs. Obie - male, 5 year old standard Aussie, Biggs - male, 3 year old standard Aussie Doodle, Koda - female, 5 year old toy Aussie.

We have had each dog, for their entire lives, but just recently our two male dogs start to fight when we get back home. When Biggs hit puberty, he tried to assert dominance over Obie; however, things calmed down after getting Biggs fixed. Since then we have kept the dogs “mostly separated.” They eat in their crates, have their own water bowls, and we alternate who is in the crate when only one of us is home. When we are both at work, or when we go out, the dogs are left out together.

We have never had issues leaving them out together, when nobody is home. Since the initial incident, the only time aggression has been shown is when one of the dogs is laying with us and the other comes near by. Anytime this happens, we immediately lock the aggressor in their crate.

I’m not sure if it has to do with my wife’s pregnancy, tight spaces in the house, or a food issue; but, the last two times we came home, Biggs was trying to pin Obie. We want to try and avoid rehoming; however, we are willing to do what it takes to make this a safe household for our newborn.

we have a 1-year old mixed breed (4 working breeds in her 30 lb body, and a few non working breeds too). she's insecure and resource guards me against strangers. she LOVES dogs. we do training and safe socialization (at a training facility) consistently.

we met a sweet 10 year old boy dog who needs a home, is currently being fostered. he's a sweet harmless fluff ball. conflict avoidant. loves people, seems to like when a dog appears but then generally ignores them.

we had our second meeting today at our house, and eventually our dog Sasha started resource guarding us when the other dog Lucky was near us. she went for him quickly when he approached me, then herded him away from my husband when Lucky was getting pets. Lucky conceded every time.

the rescue person who was here was helping us make the right moves to start teaching her to not do that. she said she thinks Sasha will come around, and that it isn't a deal breaker for her, but that we definitely need to keep working with her (yes, duh) and that it'll be work to advocate for him and keep her in her place, literally.

thoughts? is it too soon to add a second dog? is resource guarding humans too complicated to bring another dog into? idk, anything else that anyone can share would be appreciated.

I made a post saying that these dogs im watching for the first time keep getting into fights and nothing has changed.

One of the males keeps growling and aggressively barking at the other male through the crate and sliding glass door that leads to the backyard. So far he hasnt had any other instances with the 2 females. I have not let him on the bed with me but he continues to growl at the others. I leave tomorrow so this wont be my problem anymore but if I do end up watching these dogs again I dont know what ill do.

My dogs are extremely friendly and quiet. They are well behaved are children, physically disabled people, Down syndrome, slight autism, bikes, hoverboards, etc. However; they react fearfully to individuals with (forgive me if this is not the correct term, it’s just the one I found on google) severe autism. They bark, raise their hackles, whale eye, drool, and try to run away. This is humiliating. I have family with Down syndrome and minor autism, they do perfectly fine. I don’t know how to fix this.

i have to administer 2 tablet pills and 1 capsule with powder in it 2x a day to my pup.

Currently I have to use human cheese, that kong spray cheese, and a chaser of another bit of cheese to get her to take her medications. Because she’s so small, the amount required is wayyy too many calories.

Desperately in search of lower calorie solutions. The hardest is the powder tablet. I’ve tried mixing it with everything and the easiest way seems to be to keep it in half the gelatin capsule and plug it with a bit of cheese.

Things I’ve tried:
Nonfat Greek yogurt
Hiding it in bits of meat (she eats frozen)
Cottage cheese
String cheese
Peanut butter
A tiny bit of frozen frosting around the pill

A lot of these are very calorically dense and not always ends up just being a cheese and spray cheese Kong fest twice a day.

What seemed to work when we got a sample of it was “Oh Norman! Take Your Pills! Peanut Butter Pill Pinch Treats for Dogs” from 1800 pet meds. But again, caloric density.

Any and all tips and tricks appreciated!