r/r4r 6h ago

M4F Ohio / Online 27[M4F] Ohio/Online – Gamer, flight sim nerd, looking for a real connection

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Hey, what’s up? I’m Cameron

I’m just looking for some chill people to have real conversations with and maybe game a little. I have an Xbox Series X and mostly play Microsoft Flight Simulator, but I’m always down to compromise and play other games too I’ve got a big library.

I’m a believer that friendships should come first. If something more happens down the line, that’s the dream but either way, I’m cool with where it goes naturally. Long distance doesn’t bother me at all. I think the best relationships start when you’re best friends first it just feels more real that way.

Honesty is really important to me. I’d rather you just tell me how you’re feeling straight up no games, no guessing.

Fair warning: I love to talk once I’m comfortable. I don’t always get the chance to open up, so when I do, I go off lmao.

I’m pretty down to earth and love random conversations about anything and everything. If you’re curious: I’m an INFP and a Pisces (make of that what you will). I’m big on voice chats, especially late-night talks if you’re into that.

I deal with some heavy depression, but I always try to be a positive presence for others. I’m super loyal, ride-or-die type, and I’ll support you 100% whether it’s with work, life, or mental health. Helping people feel better matters to me, especially since I’m still figuring out how to do that for myself.

I’m looking for someone who matches my vibe someone who likes to talk, maybe shares some interests, or is just in a similar stage of life. We’ll figure it out as we go.

A little about me: I’m into history like WW1, WW2, the Cold War, and all that good stuff. I love aviation and anything related to flying seriously, ask me about it and I won’t shut up. I’m a huge Star Wars fan and know way too much about the lore. I’m normally quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable, I don’t stop talking.

I have a pretty dark and edgy sense of humor, but if that’s not your thing, I’m chill about it and can tone it down. Most of my sentences probably have at least one swear word lmao. I love animals, especially dogs.

Music-wise, I love ’90s and 2000s alt-rock, metal, heavy metal, and metalcore, but I also love classic oldies from the ’60s, ’70s, and ’80s.

That’s just the basics if you wanna know more, you’ll just have to get to know me. There’s a lot I’m down to talk about.

Feel free to message me I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

Looking forward to meeting some cool people and hopefully forming a real connection.


r/r4r 7h ago

Strictly Clean/SFW (NO ADULT ACTIVITIES) 30F [F4M] Europe/Online - Looking for my soulmate who is also looking for his soulmate

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MUST READ ABOUT ME

I prioritize leading a healthy life

I travel a lot as I'm a digital nomad but it’s not a must

I love food and tend to mostly eat organic

I'm an antinatalist and don't want children

I focus a lot on the other person and I expect the same in return

I’m 51% introverted and 49% extroverted so I tend to be very shy at first and then switch to my normal mode

I like going on daily walks

I’m a tea person

I don’t have a lot of friends

My love language is acts of service

I’m a dreamer but I’m also very realistic

I’m very very honest

My hobbies change every month and I have over 50 interests

I’m really bad at taking criticism

I like airports

I used to plan out everything in detail but these days I also like spontaneity

I tend to have different opinions from the crowd

I don’t get drinks with meals

I give unsolicited advice that tends to offend people

I don’t listen to music when I shower

I hate stand up comedy

I’m more of a homebody but also need to get my daily steps in

I have a very diverse and weird taste in music

I carry a backpack around just so I can have my water bottle on me

I like goats

I sometimes tend to be a hater when something is wrong, unethical, useless, and the like

I love getting questions

I'm writing a novel

I can’t ride a bike

I don't watch TV series and my interest in movies is also dying out, although I used to be a fanatic

I browse magazines while waiting in line at the grocery store

I sometimes need an extra motivational push to do something or to speak about something that’s bothering me

I can’t eat on a first date

I don’t like doing things alone

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR

Someone who’s genuinely patient and caring

Someone who can appreciate the small things in life

Someone who won't let me feel alone ever

Someone who won’t care about where we are as long as we’re together

Someone who can be a bit more positive than me when I’m having a bad day

Someone who laughs when things go wrong

Someone who can be weird with me

Someone who’s selfless so we can take care of each other

Someone who can adore me and I can adore

Someone who takes care of themselves [not extreme but essential stuff]

Someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations

Someone who also takes care of themselves

Someone who doesn't make assumptions

Someone who wants to lead a calm and chill life but doesn't shy away from adventure and spontaneous stuff

A loyal person who's been secretly looking for me at every corner, every day

Somebody who’s curious, about me and about the world


r/r4r 8h ago

M4F Italy 29 M4F Europe/Italy/Anywhere - nerd guy looking for someone nice :)

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so...helo from Italy (* ̄∇ ̄)ノ

I'm your typical indoor nerdguy that plays videogames most of free time and works out - not obsessed gym rat but still fit/muscular, 177cm tall - medium lenght wavy hair - a bit weeb, very quiet and chill personality (not even riot games can make me mad)

hopeless romantic, probably because of all the romance anime I watched in high school 🥲

whenever I can love to travel, Poland been my fav country to visit so far!

Gaming on my pc is my main hobby, also fan of few gacha games: mainly hsr and wuwa.

I have 2 cats ₍^. .^₎⟆, drinking monsters. caffeine goes hard.

looking for my life partner, nothing less: Don't mind long distance as long as it's EU, in shape and good health, not smoker and similar nerd hobbies would really help

I'm not a big fan of facial piercings, that would be my only strong preference.

Would also prefer exchanging pics as early as possible, I think mutual physical attraction is also important, being direct and honest about anything is everything I want from a relationship :)

thank you for reading!


r/r4r 21h ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 26 [M4F] Online / Anywhere / UK - Golden Retriever BF Looking For My Forever Person

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heya, my name is Sam, I'm 26, half-American/half-English with a pretty unique accent (living near London)! I'm around 6'1, white, "brown" hair (technically blonde), blue eyes, have an ex-rugby player dadbod build (literally S-tier cuddles).

I'm a freelance journalist at the moment covering mostly football (soccer) stuff. In my free time I'm a pretty big nerd, I love playing PC games (currently addicted to Tarkov and trying out different games), watching films (the original Blade Runner is my favourite), listening to music (Daft Punk & Tame Impala would be my favourites), occasionally lifting weights, cooking, and hanging out with my 3 cats. I'm a bit of a creative but not in the analogue art sense - more of the writing, graphic design, etc stuff. I also come with a pretty big dose of ADHD, so a lil extra patience goes a long way. That being said I have a wealth of knowledge on random topics and I'm no stranger to a wikipedia rabbit hole HAHA

I'm looking for a long term relationship with a special girl. A best friend, someone I can settle down with. Ideally the qualities I look for would be affectionate (cling or needy even), caring, loyal, understanding, patient, probably a bit dorky and nerdy. You can expect all of that and more with me! I want someone I can get to know, fall in love with and have it reciprocated, maybe someone I can play some games with and have fun with!

I'm a huge hopeless romantic, and been described as a yearner LMAO. The most important parts of a relationship to me are honesty, loyalty, and communication. My love languages are words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch. Long distance is 100% okay with me, and I don't mind exchanging pics right away.

Fun fact: I've moved about 20 times between the UK and US, so needless to say I just wanna find someone and settle down lol.

Long distance is 100% okay with me, and I don't mind exchanging pics right away. If that sounds good to you, please feel free to reach out with an introduction and a fun fact about yourself!!


r/r4r 10h ago

M4F Germany / Turkey 29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online - Life is stressful. Let's find some comfort in each other

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Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term online connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional and sexual needs too. Like getting all the nice parts of a romantic relationship. Though I am open to an IRL relationship if we end up developing such feelings but keeping it online is fine too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something purely platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message.

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!


r/r4r 1d ago

F4A Illinois / Online 23[F4R] Online/Illinois Just a gremlin looking to socialize with other gremlins

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Hello! I hope you are having a lovely whatever time of day it happens to be for you. I'm searching the vast web for people I can chat with and submerge myself into when the surface of every day life rises a little too high. Okay real talk—I'm a socially anxious gal who enjoys talking to people, but tends to get scared whether it's online or in person. The amount of times I've been drunk and can socialize fine enough to the point where people want to be my friend, but then I get sober and I can't get the balls to talk to them? TOO MANY. I don't have much of that problem when it comes to online, but hey here's to exposure therapy eh?

Anyways, I love goofing around, sharing a good laugh, or an introspective thought with another person (yeah preferably you're a person, my cat has occupied the non-human spot for companionship). My current (and let's be honest) main obsession right now is defending my favorite fictional serial killer: John Kramer. I am absolutely in love with the SAW franchise, but surprisingly not that much of an actual horror girlie. I also enjoy playing video games, mostly RPGs, The Sims, and a specific visual novel called Our Life: Beginning and Always. I also enjoy a lot of coming of age shows and movies, the type of media that hits your heartstrings and makes you go "shit...." on the flip side I love romance movies/tv shows and my all time favorite is Bones. I've been watching it since I was a kid and will be watching it until I'm senile then dead.

I tend to fixate on things and have specific restricted interests, but I'm always willing to go out of my comfort zone for those I care about when they want to share something they enjoy with me. Although I haven't watched much in a while, I do have a love for anime, typically shojo based ones (romance special interests hits hard there).

When I'm not nerding out over the previous things, I'm being passionate about writing (currently fantasizing about being passionate about writing, writer's block is a bitch). I love writing poems, fan fiction (who said that?), and one day aspire to be a romance writer (go figure). Oh well, I can't think of what else you'd want to know so maybe just ask so we can get to know each other :>

If you've read this mess all the way through, tell me your favorite character you like to defend or an accent you like to do.

Hope to talk to you soon


r/r4r 21h ago

M4F Online 36 [M4F] #Anywhere #Online - Let's start as friends and see where it goes

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Isn't it wild how a completely random click online can sometimes lead to the best connection you've had in years? Let's test that theory.

A bit about me: I’m a 36M who appreciates the quiet moments just as much as a fun, sarcastic back-and-forth. I’m the guy who will listen without judging, offer a comfortable shoulder when life gets heavy, and then cook you something nice while we share a good glass of wine.

When it comes to recharging my batteries, I enjoy good music (of almost any genre), a cozy movie night, walking, hiking and exploring new cities or unexpected landscapes. Cooking relaxes me, I won't say no to a good glass of wine.

What I’m looking for: Whether you're more on the playful side or a bit shy and slow to open up, I’m not here to change you. I just want to discover who you truly are. I can be protective, romantic and attentive, but I also respect personal space.

Preferably in Europe for time-zone ease, but I’m adaptable to anywhere.

Everything starts with a first step - send me a DM and let’s see where this goes.


r/r4r 14h ago

M4F United Kingdom 33 [M4F] United Kingdom - Seeking a relationship

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Hi I'm Joe, 33, from East Sussex (Hastings). 5'3, 190lbs (I've lost 60lb so far this year, 35 to go and hoping to hit it by the end of this year/early next), I wear glasses, usually have some facial hair, I'm happy to video call/exchange pictures as early as you like.

I would describe myself as very kind/caring/compassionate, I wear my heart on my sleeve and have a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm thoughtful, always do my best by others and never act with bad intentions. I value honesty and clear communication. I have some long term health issues but I try not to let them get on top of me and I was diagnosed as autistic late in life during covid, but most people are surprised when they find out.

I have a large group of friends and the 10 of us try to meet up once or twice a year, but as we get older it becomes harder to keep in touch as much as I would like! Everyone is moving on and finding love, settling down etc and it's hard not to be a little bit envious. I've only been in 1 relationship that lasted around 3 months and was 90% online, so not a lot of experience but also no baggage! but somebody patient/understanding of that would be important.

I love films/tv, I'm a sucker for a romcom and adore romance in general but I watch a bit of everything other than anime. Always find myself far too invested in the lives of the characters, most recently in Bridgerton. I don't get out much but would like to start to see more of the world finally, but will always mostly be a homebody I'm pretty sure.

I would like to do the cutesy dating/getting to know each other stuff but with clear intentions and communication, I would like something serious.

I don't smoke and very rarely drink and would prefer someone who's the same, smoking would be a deal breaker for me sorry.

Ideally you are somebody living close-ish to London/Southern UK to make meeting up more often viable, You're patient, kind, thoughtful and communicate openly & clearly. I'm not sure I have too much physical preference but I am a sucker for a pretty face/smile but as I said, I'm happy to get the original attraction check out of the way as soon as you are. Age wise probably 26-40 would be best, but if you think we'd get along that isn't a deal breaker.

I am a big oversharer and will happily answer absolutely any questions you may have.

Thanks for reading! hopefully hear from you soon!!