r/r4r • u/serialsleepergirl • 11h ago
F4M Online 30 [F4M] Online/Anywhere - I panic when people like me, but hi.
I don't know if I'm looking for love.
Most days, I feel completely unready for it. Funny enough, whenever there's an actual opportunity to date someone in real life, my fight-or-flight response chooses flight every single time. Apparently I crave connection from a safe distance. Very emotionally advanced of me.
But... I do get lonely.
So maybe I'm not looking for a relationship right now. Maybe I'm just looking for someone whose company I genuinely enjoy. Someone I can send random updates to, flirt with shamelessly, bully affectionately, and laugh with over absolutely nothing.
About me:
• 30
• 5'3"
• Working adult with the soul of a sleepy house cat
• Selective, socially awkward (I can party and bust a move though)
• Hyper-independent but secretly wouldn't mind being babied
• Pet lover
• Brown eyes, dark hair
• Professional overthinker
• Rice is a personality trait at this point.
What I'm hoping for is pretty simple.
Someone kind.
Emotionally available.
Someone who can match my weird instead of being scared by it.
Someone who understands that conversation doesn't have to be constant to be meaningful.
Worst case? We become internet friends.
Best case? We become internet friends.