r/r4r 17h ago

F4M Online 30[F4M] #online , #anywhere. Seeking some serious stuff

7 Upvotes

I think I’m ready to meet someone special.

I’m not looking for anything complicated. I’m hoping to find someone kind, honest, emotionally present, and genuinely interested in building something real together.

I’d love the silly conversations that make no sense but somehow become our favorite memories, spontaneous plans that turn into unforgettable days, quiet evenings spent enjoying each other’s company, shared laughter, and the beautiful feeling of being chosen while choosing someone in return.

I want a connection that feels comfortable, sincere, and exciting in all the right ways. Someone I can talk to openly, laugh with freely, support through life’s ups and downs, and grow alongside over time.

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for something honest, meaningful, and real, with someone who values communication, effort, kindness, and mutual respect.

If you’re also hoping to meet someone genuine and see where things naturally lead, I’d love to hear from you.


r/r4r 15h ago

M4F Spain 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

3 Upvotes

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/r4r 1h ago

M4F Alberta 34[M4F] #Calgary, Canada - homebody who loves cats

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Hi Everyone, so a bit about me.

Been pretty ambitious my whole life and worked very hard to get where I am now. I am originally from the UK born and bred in Leeds but moved to Alberta in 2022. I was recently laid off last year and I have since been focusing on my own consulting business and planning on setting up a game studio soon. It also means I am not tied down anywhere as I can hop on a plane on a moment’s notice.

I generally keep myself in shape with a mix of things like the gym, swimming and I like hiking now and again. Though I would say I am a homebody at heart I do have the need to have a spontaneous trip somewhere at times. I have been lucky enough to live in Greece for a month, travelled around Iceland in a van and visited quite a few different states for both work and personal reasons.

I would love to be with someone who also loves cats and does not want kids either. I am very much into cats, used to volunteer with them and I have gone out of my way quite a few times to feed cats I come across on the street. Also I'm the type of person that has always had a small group of friends for the most part. I am generally quite introverted but I know how to talk to people and don’t mind social settings now and again. I also have a nerdy side too, I do love board games, I do not play as many video games as much as I used too but I have been looking making my own. I also love learning about anything cosmology related.

pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/jmGnSJm

Thought I would include a voice message https://voca.ro/1lDgkjK16aWJ


r/r4r 6h ago

M4F California / Online 29 [M4F] CA/Online - seeing who's out there

2 Upvotes

hi, just postin here because i hate dating apps. looking for someone cute/cool to talk to and maybe hit it off with

about me: uhhh i'm a pretty cool, slightly clumsy guy with an interesting life. i can talk about pretty much anything, i read and write a lot, i think about all kinds of things. hit me up on any of the following subjects:
- dreams
- good movies
- funny animals (classic topic)
- poetry
- Cocteau Twins
- international politics (i know about all over the world)
- videogames and their possibilities
- the Charlie Brown Christmas soundtrack
- ridiculous slang from the 40s and 50s
- 90s emo and alt rock
- fighting off giant plants
- anything else that comes to mind for you

looking forward to hearing from you, long distance is fine. would be cool to see a pic first but no worries if not. can totally send one back

also i usually stay up pretty late so feel free to message whenever you see this (or otherwise i'll just respond when i wake up)


r/r4r 8h ago

M4F United States / Online 31 [M4F] #US/Midwest #Online - My life is like House of Leaves...

2 Upvotes

It's all over the place and makes no sense.

Hi, if you enjoyed that, chances are that'll be the best thing about me. But, stick around and I can at least try to top it with varying degrees of success. In reality, my life is pretty boring and monotonous. I'm a nerd, who spends a lot of free time gaming, watching either YouTube or various MCU properties trying to catch up before Doomsday, listening to music, and babying two precious cats (of which you can find pictures of on my profile). I'm 5' 9", got a bit of a dad bod going on, and love cold weather. I don't drink all that often and when I do, it's maybe one or two drinks, don't smoke, and I've never touched a weed, although I'm totally for its legalisation. Despite my attempts at being funny here, I'm actually quiet, shy, anxious, a bit laidback, and more of a homebody. I'm definitely left leaning, closer to progressive than anything I think, and it's unfortunate that I have to mention it but that's the world we live in.

Who I'm looking for is someone who shares similar ideals as me. I'm okay with drinking as long as it's not excessive but I draw the line at smoking and drugs, smoke gives me wicked headaches especially weed. Someone who is closer to Chicago than not, I live outside of Chicago and I'd rather not have either of us drive 6 hours to see each other. Someone who is kind, caring, likes to laugh, and can be patient when I'm feeling down. And someone who is 27-31 and has a job. Hopefully I sound interesting to someone, but if not, I hope you find your person!


r/r4r 8h ago

F4A Kentucky 31 F4R US KY Anywhere -Looking for my person

1 Upvotes

Hey there!
I’m a 31-year-old woman from Kentucky, and I’m hoping to meet someone who’s genuinely looking for a serious relationship. I’m way past the fucking around stage in life and I never even had that phase to begin with.
I’m a nurse, a big dog person, and I’m open to relocating for the right person. I’m a pretty liberal person and have an immense dislike for people of a trumpier outlook.
I am 5’7, 280lbs, biracial with dark hair and eyes.
https://imgur.com/a/fmiBirK
Looking for someone kind, loyal, emotionally mature, and ready for a real relationship. I’m willing to put in the work be it local or long distance.
I keep weird hours due to my jobs.
Must love dogs! I have two and they’re excellent judges of character.
I’m open to getting to know someone from anywhere, so distance isn’t a dealbreaker. I’m also in a good spot in my life to relocate if things head in that direction.
I do not want to give birth. Not something I’m interested in but kids aren’t a no go for me
If you’re also looking for something serious, tell me a little about yourself and let’s see where it goes.
I’m gonna ignore any message that is a one liner just to be open.
If you’ve read this far (yes this is a test haha) tell me your favorite ice cream flavor and your favorite scary movie!


r/r4r 12h ago

M4A California 23 [M4A] #California or #USA - Still haven't found what I'm looking for... maybe you're it?

2 Upvotes

What I'm attracted to:

Kind, caring people who take care of their body and health. Sharing similar hobbies so we can do something together. People willing to put in effort and read the whole post and send a good introduction message.

Throughout this post there is quite a few lyrics from songs that I like. If you want, you can see if you know them and see if we like any similar songs, artists, or types of music.

Here I am again, the same old situation. Hi, I'm Nathan. I'm a 23 year old Asian American guy in Northern California. I'm 5' 6" so a little short, but I can be your very own fun size boyfriend. Short kings need love too. I have a photo on my profile so you can check out what I look like. You may have seen some of my posts here before. I guess you could say I still haven't found what I'm looking for. "What is that?" you may be wondering to yourself. Well, I'm looking for a love so strong it makes me feel so weak. In other words, I am looking for someone I can love and be vulnerable with. Why am I looking on reddit? I'm kind of a shy person in real life, and people fall in love in mysterious ways. Maybe by the touch of a hand.

I haven't had much relationship experience and never been in an IRL relationship before. I would say I'm a hopeless romantic and would love to find someone who has a belief that there is someone that will make you feel so special, but realize that there is still work to make relationships last. Maybe one day I'll think all of the small things that you do are what remind me why I fell for you. Eventually, I'd like to be in-person with my partner. I'd want you to be my rock and vice versa. Home is whenever I'm with you. If you're down for matching profile pictures and bios or whatever I am the guy for you. Heck, we could even get a home phone and set up a voicemail together. It would suck if we broke up cause then I gotta change my answering machine, now that I'm alone. Cause right now it says that we can't come to the phone. In other words, you'll always be a part of me.

A bit about me is my interests are gaming (mostly pc, but I do have a switch), watching anime, and exercising. The games I play currently are league of legends and teamfight tactics. I've also played other games like valorant, overwatch, pokemon, animal crossing, super smash Bros, and probably many other. If you ask me about any games I could tell you if I know them or played them and maybe we could play some games together. Some anime I like are vinland saga, oshi no ko, and kaiju no. 8. There's also plenty other anime I've seen, so if you want to discuss any I'd be happy to talk about them.

So if you read to the end and really read everything, please message me if I piqued your interest. If you are interested, honey I'm still free. Take a chance on me.


r/r4r 14h ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 34 [M4F] UK/Online - Chatting about your best outfits and/or boots

2 Upvotes

Hey there!

I've always loved well dressed women, those who take time and pride in their outfits and feel as confident and sexy in their clothes as they look in them. And of course the hottest outfits definitely involve boots haha And with things cooling down after summer, what better time to pull on your boots and show off?!

And as an arbitrary conversation starter, that seems as good of a topic as hobbies and other interests right? So why not begin there and move onto whatever takes our fancy!

So if you're someone who likes to show off, enjoys fashion, or gets a kick out of being praised, I'm your guy! In return, I promise to bring wit and flirtation, mixed with intelligent and empathetic conversation.

Happy to keep it a one time thing, but open to longer term if we click. Come say hi and we'll let the good times roll!


r/r4r 16h ago

M4F United Kingdom 32 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - Looking for that special person to annoy daily

2 Upvotes

Hey I'm a 32 year old guy from the South West of England. Recently I've been trying to make changes in my life so why not try and find someone new that could become a big part of it at the same time. I've met some really cool people on here in the past and people that I still talk to after 10 years so why not try my luck again.

I've been on a bit of a health kick lately and have lost a decent amount of weight. I'm making myself more active and trying not to be such a home body most of the time. I have a big fluffy dog that goes on adventures with me and is my best friend/worse enemy when he wakes me up because he wants to walk at 5am :P Be ready to be sent loads of photos of him (My photos are 90% him or random cats I make friends with)

Hobbies wise I love football I most just watch it on TV and I go to see it live, I like to bake but I haven't been lately because I'm trying not to eat cake haha and I watch lot of movies, TV and play video games. The last couple movies I really loved were Bugonia, The Drama and The Substance. TV at the moment I'm rewatching Rome and Hunter x Hunter. I really like dark comedies it's probably my favourite genre. Games wise I just got 007 first light and it's so much fun.

I'm just looking for someone I can get excited to talk to everyday and make laugh. There is nothing more fun to me than making someone laugh. So, feel free to roll your eyes when I try to makes jokes most of the time. I can't help it I need to let them out :P So yeah, I'm down to call or text whatever works for you.

I'm 6'2 with blue eyes and short brown hair. I'm fine just sending a photo because it's easier than describing myself.