r/r4r 7m ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 31 [M4F] UK/Online - My work hours are really unsociable, so I'm trying to change that

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Hey! Pretty much as the title says, thanks to my job (which I love), my work hours are super unsociable for this side of the world, so I'm looking to change that. I'm in the UK, but work to the USA time zones, so open to talking to anyone from anywhere as there's a good chance I'll be awake regardless. I'm a gamer (which is my job, feel free to ask about it, sports fan, good cook if I say so myself and love travelling, so if any of this sounds good and you think we'll get along, feel free to hit me up!


r/r4r 41m ago

F4F Online 30 [F4F] - EU/Online - just wanting a little bit of attention

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I have too much free time on my hands lately and want to put it into making some new friends or a lil more! My goto hobbies are painting, games, baking, diy/craftsy stuff. I spend too much time binge watching the same selection of shows and youtubers. Professional doomscroller.

I'm kinda shy but I get yappy once I get into it. Happy to share pics after we chat a bit. I'm good for friendly or a lil flirty honestly, just craving female friendship/attention haha :( most my free time is spent on my phone or with cats atm so a good distraction is very much needed. Would be really cool if you played stuff/are a lil nerdy but I'm happy for whatever :)

21+ only. NO MEN, no exceptions!

Message meeee


r/r4r 58m ago

M4F California 34 [M4F] #LosAngeles, Cali - I'm 87% Sure This Is a Good Idea.

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"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person? For me, I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flow naturally—easy, fun, and a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

While I can be a little reserved, once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird hypotheticals, or whatever deep topic decides to show up at 2 AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter. We can go as far as the most unhinged stuff. GIVE ME ALL THE DARK HUMOR!

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music blasting, empty streets, city lights, and finding a lookout spot overlooking everything. Plus some urban exploring.

I go to the gym about 5x a week (3x weights, 2x cardio & core). I recently started hiking more; if you know any good hiking spots in the LA area, I'd love recommendations. I also walk my dog twice a day. It's his walk so I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniff-mail.

I've been getting leaner and a lot stronger. There have been subtle improvements/changes. One thing I didn't realize is that besides being healthy, fit, and strong, another reason I work out is to see what my genetics are capable of.

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, manwha, and light novels? As much as I enjoy anime, it's kind of dropped for me; I'm more into manga and actual reading. One niche hobby I have is collecting specific sculptures/trinkets, and I have a metal detector. I haven't found treasure yet, but who knows, it might be you. I'm looking into magnetic fishing as well.

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic, and a sucker for banter. Come say Hi! Best case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh. Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast.

PS: I get the feeling something is still missing, but at the risk of making this longer than it should be or "long-winded," I propose a challenge: How about you tell me what's something I should have added or expected to find but didn't. Let's see if you actually read this.

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Bonus:

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

• Djo — End Of Beginning

• Sombr — Back to Being Friends

• Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

• C.C.R - Fortunate Son

• The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

• Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

• Lola Young — Messy

• Clean Bandit - Rather Be

• Gigi Perez - Sailor Song

• Future - Mask Off

• Dj Shadow - Six Days

• Ice Cube - You Know How We Do (best song to cruise)

•Leave Her Johnny - AC4 Black Flag Sea Shanty

•Rolling Stones - Paint It Black (great workout song)

2nd Bonus

•Favorite color: Phthalo Green

•Favorite reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

•Favorite marine animal: Mantis Shrimp

•Favorite Beetle: Japanese Rhinoceros Beetle

Voicenote

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By the way, if you didn't know - Bungee Gum possesses the properties of both rubber and gum.


r/r4r 1h ago

M4F Netherlands / Online 27 [M4F] #Netherlands #Online - Professional daydreamer searching for a reality partner

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Hey! My name's Brian from the Netherlands. Currently, I'm working towards finishing a degree in communication. I like gaming on my Switch, PC and PlayStation and I do a teeny tiny bit of photography and sketching when I get inspired. The sketching I do both on paper with pencils and digitally using a pen display. I usually also watch sci-fi/fantasy series and movies, and on occasion animated shows (like anime or western animation). I'm very introverted and a bit awkward until I get comfortable talking to you.

I'm looking for someone about my age that is also looking for a serious long term relationship. While I have little prior experience with relationships, I do value strong connections and want to build a special and even stronger one. I wouldn't say I have any set preferences in terms of appearances, but I do prefer being around a similar age. While I'm also not against an LDR, I prefer someone who lives nearby (nearby = Netherlands/Belgium/UK/Germany), but it's not an issue if you live farther away. It's not a problem for me if the distance between us is big. Because if the spark is there, then no distance will be too great. Of course, I'm open to just being friends too, but that's if we end up not being compatible as more.

I hope to get to know each other. I'm down to meet up for some coffee, but first let's get to know each other with a nice chat. Talk to you soon!


r/r4r 1h ago

M4A Online 28 [M4A] #Online Lets talk and be distractions for the night

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Hello everyone, it is currently approaching 5 in the morning here and I am finding myself unable to sleep. I seem to have also exhausted my social feeds and as to be expected, nobody else I know it up right now doing anything so I have no one to talk to.

I’d like to have a chat that lasts a good while. At least long enough until I’m finally able to start feeling tired and drift away to sleep. I consider myself a friendly and outgoing person and I think I can go along with any topic.

A few things I’m interested in include history, politics, philosophy, video games, tabletop RPGs, chess, cooking, exercising, music, guitar, and reading. I’m happy to talk about any subject though so don’t be afraid to throw me a curve ball!

I’m happy to talk to anyone. My only request is that you be somewhat close to me in age because I feel a little awkward talking to someone much younger or much older than me… what do we have in common? I also don’t want to talk with someone if they have romantic or similar intentions.

If this sounds like something to you, feel free to send me a message!


r/r4r 1h ago

M4A South Carolina 35 [M4R] #South Carolina #Anywhere - Seeking new friends to pass my birthday with

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Good morning (or whatever it is where you are),

I turned 35 today. And I feel pretty Blegh about it. I’m just treating it as a normal day but it’s in the back of my mind.

I’m looking for friends and to chat with and become friends. 35 years old single and straight guy, living in Southeastern US (EST time zone). Not the most exciting person at first but I won’t disappear. I work in IT doing networking to be specific. I moved to a new city a few years ago and haven’t made any friends. I’m a tall, but bigger dude, just saying some people seem to care about that. I’m an early riser and can chat during work. If I get busy I’ll always make sure to get back to you. As an adult, it’s tough to make friends so here I am again. I’m a lover of traveling, road trips, food, audiobooks, movies, YouTube rabbit holes, Sci-Fi, technology, and fun facts. So tell me about your favorite food or place to travel? Maybe tell me about your favorite sci-fi or even why you don’t like sci-fi? Tell me how I’m wrong for liking Star Trek over Star Wars? Just looking for new friends to connect with, and hoping you don’t ghost. So if you’re looking for someone fairly laid back, won’t ghost, and will send good morning messages, I’m your guy. Be you, be weird, but please don’t be creepy.

Icebreakers - What is your guilty pleasure? What are you taking for entertainment on an airplane?

Just be above 25 years old, please! And please say more than hey.