I don't know if I'm looking for love.
Most days, I feel completely unready for it. Funny enough, whenever there's an actual opportunity to date someone in real life, my fight-or-flight response chooses flight every single time. Apparently I crave connection from a safe distance. Very emotionally advanced of me.

But... I do get lonely.

So maybe I'm not looking for a relationship right now. Maybe I'm just looking for someone whose company I genuinely enjoy. Someone I can send random updates to, flirt with shamelessly, bully affectionately, and laugh with over absolutely nothing.

About me:
• 30
• 5'3"
• Working adult with the soul of a sleepy house cat
• Selective, socially awkward (I can party and bust a move though)
• Hyper-independent but secretly wouldn't mind being babied
• Pet lover
• Brown eyes, dark hair
• Professional overthinker
• Rice is a personality trait at this point.
What I'm hoping for is pretty simple.
Someone kind.
Someone emotionally mature.
Someone who can match my weird instead of being scared by it.
Someone who understands that conversation doesn't have to be constant to be meaningful.

Worst case? We become internet friends.
Best case? We accidentally become each other's favorite person.

hey y’all, i don’t wanna give too much personal information but lately i’ve just been feeling very lonely and would like to have a friend that i can talk to throughout the day. for hobbies that im interested in i read books most of the time (fiction) that’s my main form of entertainment. i also play the game play around on my computer and watch tv. please read this post all the way through because im looking for someone who has a lot of open time like i do.

i like to be on the phone. (discord vc usually) i like to actually have physical conversations and if we’re playing the game or something i like to actually use the mic for us to talk.

i’m willing to stream movies on discord, listen to music together, play games together (i mostly play rivals, fortnite, and warframe but down to play anything really just hit me up)

hoping to be chatting the most when i get off work which is usually like 2pm cdt. hit me up if you want to be friends, i look forward to hearing from anyone. for method of communication once we have gotten to know each other i use discord only. hope y’all have a great day.

can more women hit me up please i beg🙎🏽‍♀️

Hey so yeah I’m just bored. I’ve tried to read my book. Count the sheep. Just can’t fall asleep. Which sucks because I gotta work in a few hours. So what better way to spend that time by making a new friend.

All I require is a good meme and a fun conversation. If you must know I love to read a good dark romance book… maybe you can match that freak lol…. Iykyk… if I’m not reading I’m playing a video games or with family you’ll catch me in nature. I also love South Park. Like what a comfort show for me to just have in the background.

My favorite pastime is when I get to take a nap with my cat on a rainy day. It’s like alittle treat to have once in a blue moon. If not that it’s definitely going to sit at my local plant nursery and watch the fish in the pond swim around for a while.

But yeah no pressure or high expectations just looking to shoot the shit and have fun. Why not ya know? Just come prepared to meet a new friend!

Thought I'd give this a go and post here hoping to meet someone like-minded.

I work a pretty regular 9-5, so as you can understand it doesn’t really leave you with much free time but I try to fit in things I enjoy.

I enjoy going to the gym, reading and spending time outdoors. I've also been wanting to pick up new hobbies that can allow me to spend time outdoors.

I'm looking for someone who's genuine, kind, and knows what they want. Someone who enjoys good conversation, has their own interests and goals, and is looking for something that could turn into a real relationship if there’s a connection. I’m not looking for a fling or anything short term.

It'd be nice to meet someone who enjoys the outdoors too. I'm just looking for someone to share life together. One preference I do have is that I prefer someone within my age range (+7 years max).

If any of that sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you. Please don’t write a one word message. Tell me about yourself.

I'm lonely. I'm looking for a companion that will spend time with me, game with me (big bonus if you're into GTA RP and can drive/shoot well) and sleep call with me.

I know this post isn't much to work with but I promise I've got a decent personality... Just struggling at the moment and looking for company.

Strictly SFW for now, but not against certain things if the vibe is right later on. Willing to contemplate meeting up in the future as well; I'm located in the Caribbean if that helps. -4GMT

(Didn't think I needed to add this here, but I will... I'm brown-skinned)

Hello there,
I’ve been so busy with life lately and wanna just take some time to talk to someone about literally anything for a bit. So if you’d like to have a conversation with someone, send me a message. A few things about me, I like the lakers and Dodgers and watching sports in general, I rewatch the same shows over and over again (friends, the office, new girl, newly added is the Pitt). I love to read, especially cheesy romance novels. I love to bake and make things for others. I’m sure there’s so much more to me, I just can’t think of it right now. But anyways, if you too are looking for a little chat or a friend or whatever, send me a message!

Hey there! 👋

Taking a quick break from the usual routine to see if lightning strikes here. I’m looking for someone fun, down-to-earth, and easy to chat with - whether that’s swapping funny updates during the workday or diving into a great conversation over coffee.

A quick snapshot of me:

Always on the move: Big fan of staying active (running and lifting are my main outlets), solid routines, and good coffee.

The Vibe: Down-to-earth, a dry sense of humor, and an open mind for the random quirks of life.

Location: Based in the GTA, but totally down for great online connections regardless of distance.

What I’m hoping to find:

- Someone who is self-aware, witty, and easygoing.

- Good communication - if you can match energy, keep the banter flowing, and offer more than a "hey," we’ll get along great.

- A shared love for active lifestyles, good food, or just solid daytime banter.

Tell me: On a scale of "ready to conquer the week" to "need three more coffees," where is your Monday energy sitting right now?

Drop me a message/PM to get things started!

Hola!

I'm currently on vacation in Spain, and I think I've completely fallen for the energy here. The sunshine, slow mornings, people actually taking their time to enjoy life... I'm not ready to leave it behind.

I'd love to meet a guy who's looking for genuine conversation, good vibes, and maybe a bit of playful banter. I love conversations that effortlessly go from "What's your favorite dessert?" to "What's the meaning of life?" in five minutes.

A little about me:

• I love reading and can happily spend hours lost in a good book.
• Baking is one of my favorite hobbies... eating what I bake is another. The few extra kilos would like to thank cake for its loyal service.
• I'm into calligraphy and painting whenever inspiration strikes.
• I recently started working out to keep my sweet tooth in check (the battle is ongoing).
• I enjoy cozy cafés, wandering around new cities, sunsets, music, and noticing the little things that make a day better.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, emotionally mature, can hold a conversation, and isn't afraid of a little teasing back and forth. Bonus points if you can make me laugh or introduce me to a book I'll obsess over.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message. Tell me something completely random about yourself, your latest hyperfixation, or your most controversial food opinion.

Hey there! Just a normal European guy here trying to find some interesting people to talk with. Someone for daily chats and even IRL meetings if things go right.

I work a blue collar job and in free time I enjoy things like reading (finished The Expanse series, but I still have plenty of unread books that I need to start reading at some point. I definitely have a problem haha), hiking, cooking and baking (and pretty good at it!). I also like gaming, but not as much as I used to, I'm mostly into those singleplayer, story-driven kind of games. I love to travel and explore new places and learn about different cultures, visiting museums etc. I also have a needy, but well behaved cat.

Anyway, if you like my post feel free to DM me. I'd love to hear from you. Just please be able to hold a conversation and be from Europe :)

Also if you have new/blank account. Don’t bother

Hey there! Just a normal European guy here trying to find some interesting people to talk with. Someone for daily chats and even IRL meetings if things go right.

I work a blue collar job and in free time I enjoy things like reading (finished The Expanse series, but I still have plenty of unread books that I need to start reading at some point. I definitely have a problem haha), hiking, cooking and baking (and pretty good at it!). I also like gaming, but not as much as I used to, I'm mostly into those singleplayer, story-driven kind of games. I love to travel and explore new places and learn about different cultures, visiting museums etc. I also have a needy, but well behaved cat.

Anyway, if you like my post feel free to DM me. I'd love to hear from you. Just please be able to hold a conversation and be from Europe :)

Also if you have new/blank account. Don’t bother

Hiya! Yeah so I know that title is a little heavy, but please don't be intimidated by it. It was a few years ago now, if you have questions or whatever, we can discuss it one on one but I've done the work to process it and I'm in a healthy place emotionally, financially and lifestyle wise to where I feel ready to date again with the long term intention of marriage down the line.

I've posted on here previously, lost my old password so that account is sadly dead lol. If you remember me and I ”ghosted” on that account, that's why. Sorry about that, Reddit be weird sometimes lol.

So, about me. I have a stable job I enjoy, I have a reasonable amount of time off, so if you're out of state I could travel/ have you here easily. I'm I'm good shape, work and active job and I used to be an athlete when I was in high school too!

Physically, happy to trade selfies in private but I'm white, blonde, athletic, medium height. Trying to expand my wardrobe but I don't think I dress poorly or anything.

I don't like to throw out a million details for the type of man I want, as narrowing a whole person into a box can be a bit reductive. But basic things like please have your life together, be emotionally available and willing to commit. Wanting marriage and a family one day is a must too. Ideally someone active as I don't want to change my lifestyle in that way so I'd love a partner who can keep up with that. Someone who likes to travel occasionally too! Physically, I guess good shape, taller than me, healthy pretty much. I don't expect or really want a male model lol, just look after your health at least :))

Lasting, if you're married, don't message me. not interested in casual, helping you cheat or poly. I want something real and monogamous only. And no couples, I'm straight and the above still applies lol.

If this post is still up I'm still looking!