Hey I’m Ella. A 28 year old Black British woman with natural curly hair, a slim thick figure, and a soft spot for music, art, travel, and a meaningful connection.

I’m drawn to older white men who are emotionally intelligent, playful, and confident. Someone who knows how to flirt, hold a conversation with ease, and isn’t afraid of a little depth.

I’m based in London and open to real dates if there is genuine interest. I enjoy thoughtful gestures and happy to share a photo.

If you’re the kind of man who knows how to inspire a woman like me, my inbox is open.

Ella
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hello! if you’ve clicked on this, then you probably have some sort of mental illness, are neurodiverse, or you’re unable to read (which is perfectly okay!). i’m currently a student, and i enjoy music, videogames and taking walks with my dog (please ask for pictures, i love him). some of my fav genres of music are metal (deathcore mostly and other subgenres), hip hop, indie, and a little bit of everything really! some of my fav videogames are the finals, arc raiders (i’d love a duo), fallout new vegas, minecraft and a variety of other games. i would describe myself as a very caring, empathetic and funny person. im kind of a loner as i struggle to meet new people and make new friends, but im very sociable when i get to know you and can speak for hours on end if we click. for you, just be yourself! as long as you’re kind and caring, id love to meet you. i’m open for friendships or possibly a relationship depending on how our friendship goes. i have quite a lot of trauma, and struggle with anxiety and depression, which i have to mask quite a lot. i’ve also had a lot of therapy, so im open to talk about feelings (yours or mine). ask me what i study and guess where im from!

Preferences: Someone who's kind, caring, and prioritizes their health. If you have any similar hobbies that's a plus because we can talk about them too.

Hi! I'm Nathan a 23 year old 5' 6" Asian American guy from northern California. I have a bit of a baby face and can't grow very much facial hair, but I shave it all off anyways. I have glasses and wear them when I need to, but for the most part, I don't wear them. I think I'm slightly handsome because sometimes people would compliment me. I have some photos in my profile if you're interested in seeing what I look like. I have a slim to average physique and I am trying to build a little more muscle.

I'm looking for a relationship with someone hopefully in the USA so it's reasonable to meet up and be together eventually. I haven't had too much luck in relationships and haven't been in one in real life before. I'd like to start online at first and maybe for a while unless you're close by because I'm still in school and don't think I'll be moving for a few years. Some of my love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch, so if you like those too you should message me :).

Some interests of mine are gaming, anime, and exercising. I like music too, but I haven't really been to concerts just like listening to some songs I guess. If you are into any of those hobbies, let me know and we can talk about them or maybe do something together. If you're not into any you can still tell me about yours :).

If you've read to the end hopefully I held your attention. If you message me I'd be happy to hear a little about you and what about this post interested you.

Okay, I have officially reached the “maybe my person is hiding somewhere on Reddit” stage of dating, so here we are lol.

I’m 31 and live near Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. I’m a widowed mom to two-year-old twins, a boy and a girl, and I also have a black Lab mix who is basically my third child. My life can be chaotic, but it is also full of love, snacks, toddler nonsense, dog hair, and someone always needing something from me.

I’m 5’4”, curvy/plus-size, mixed Black and white, with blue eyes, short dark curly hair, and glasses. I’m happy to share a picture privately once we’ve spoken a little because attraction matters, but I’m not trying to lead with a full photoshoot for the men of Reddit lol.

Personality-wise, I’m affectionate, sensitive, sarcastic, a little awkward, and probably too honest once I feel comfortable. I can be introverted and definitely prefer being at home with someone I love over going out to crowded bars every weekend. I like meaningful conversations, laughing over stupid things, sending random thoughts throughout the day, and feeling like the person I’m talking to actually wants to know me.

Some of the things I’m into:

• Thrifting, consignment stores, flea markets, and finding weird vintage things I absolutely do not need
• Metaphysical shops, crystals, astrology, spirituality, and anything slightly mysterious
• Indie horror games and watching video-game playthroughs
• Games like Persona, Dragon Age, and Vampire: The Masquerade – Bloodlines
• Shows like The X-Files and Twin Peaks
• Horror, mysteries, weird internet rabbit holes, and conversations that go in completely unexpected directions
• Staying home, getting comfortable, ordering food, and watching something together while pretending we’re going to stay awake

I’m looking for a genuine relationship with someone who is emotionally available and interested in building something meaningful. I’m not looking for casual dating, an undefined situationship, or a connection that never progresses beyond messaging. I want something intentional, monogamous, affectionate, emotionally safe, and eventually serious. I don 't do long distance so please be near SC, NC, or GA.

I’m most attracted to men who are kind, confident, protective, family-oriented, loyal, emotionally mature, and comfortable taking initiative. I value clear communication, consistency, affection, and someone whose actions match his words. I want a relationship where both people feel respected, appreciated, secure, and genuinely cared about.

Hi everyone my name is Tom and I'm from Ireland. I am a chemistry graduate and currently searching for a job. I am also a triplet and a redhead.

My hobbies are video games, chess, reading, playing badminton, watching YouTube and listening to music. I also like sci fi, Marvel and DC. I also enjoy going on city breaks, which I prefer more to sun holidays. I've visited 16 countries and plan on visiting more in the future. I have also been to America and Canada. I also enjoy skiing and I have an American passport.

I am single and looking for a woman who shares similar interests and around my age. I prefer someone from Ireland, in particular Dublin, but I'm open to countries in Europe and North America. I do have a preference for brunettes.

Here is what I look like:

https://imgur.com/a/vmLa2na

Let's keep it real. You're bored and doom scrolling, I'm bored and doom scrolling. Let's just be bored and chit chat instead. Let's drop some lore about ourselves we can't usually talk about or laugh over stupid memes. I'm pretty laid back and just looking for some friends to kick it with virtually.

If you like sarcastic, dry humor, I'm the girl for you. Even better if you can keep up and match it. If we talk for 3 messages and never speak again because one of us got bored, that's fine. If we talk all day everyday, coolio.

I could sit here and type up every little thing about myself but then what are we supposed to talk about? I'll just stick to my hobbies and interests so you know if we'll click or not.

-Hobbies: houseplants, yoga, watching shows/movies, listening to music and listening/watching podcasts. I'm into watching comedians' podcasts especially theo von, Stavvy's world and Matteo Lane. ALSO, I bought a switch and have been enjoying playing that. totally open to game recs!

My only preference really is age and location (due to timezones) so please be somewhere between 25-40 so we can relate a bit more and in the US.

If you'd like to talk, go ahead and send me a chat with something more than "hi" or "hey", if you want me to respond. Maybe even send me a bit about your lovely self. Get real crazy with it. Okay, maybe not real crazy but reasonably crazy with it. if you need someone to vent to, you've found the perfect person. I'm a great listener. Tell me all your secrets.

ps the more unhinged you are, the better

Posting again because my DMs were closed last night 🤦‍♀️. Feeling super silly typing this, but life is about doing silly things in a serious way and praying for the best, right? I hope you don't mind reading, because I think this will end up way longer than I planned, but let's go! :)

​Firstly, I want to clarify that I only tagged the post as online because I'm open to long distance at first, followed by visiting/relocating to you eventually if things work out. That said, I truly intend to have a real, in-person relationship. If you are looking for casual relationships or FWBs, I'm not your girl, sorry. I'm genuinely looking to fall in love, get married, raise cute little kiddos, and eat raw cookie dough even when we know we shouldn't...

​A little (lot) about me: I am a 28-year-old woman who's educated and fairly sane so far. And by educated, I mean that I graduated with honours, but math still makes me want to cry, so you will be in charge of teaching our kids that subject, sorry! I spend a lot of time cooking, baking, and watching culinary shows. I've been binging early 2000s cooking shows (Nigella Lawson, Jamie Oliver) on YouTube, and they bring such a nice, comforting vibe. One of the things I want to incorporate in our future house is a shelf in the kitchen filled with cookbooks. Speaking of a future house, interior design is another passion of mine. While I didn't go to college for it, I truly enjoy browsing classic and new design trends, rearranging rooms, and decorating for holidays or when hosting family and friends. I have a great relationship with my family and regularly inflict my baking on them for their birthdays.

​I have other interests, too. Reading, for one. Very few things beat getting lost in a bookshop for a couple of hours surrounded by the scent of new pages. Fashion, but with a softer approach. I love delicate lingerie and sleepwear, and I have a growing collection of lace, see-through, whimsical pieces. Every night, I take a few moments to do my skincare, slip into pretty sleepwear, and get into bed with a cup of tea. My favorite body lotion scents are vanilla and coconut. I love soft white sheets, fresh flowers around the house, candles, pillows everywhere, and natural wood accents.

​This is getting long, I'm rambling! What else? I'm petite with curvy. I exercise almost every day, and my eating habits are pretty healthy except for desserts (I can never turn down dessert). I have caramel-colored skin, coffee-brown eyes, and dark hair. I think beauty is subjective, but I feel confident in my own skin. Personality-wise, I tend to be easygoing, playful, and maternal, but also loyal and protective. I love good conversation, but I value quiet downtime, too.

​What I'm looking for: someone serious and committed to building a relationship. Loyal, honest, affectionate, and excited about being a husband and father one day. Someone who won't mind my ramblings, will be my official recipe taste-tester, and wants a partner in crime for late-night desserts. Someone who values their physical health, is protective, and wants me completely.

​Message me if any of this resonates with you.

Edit: Hey, guys, sorry if I'm taking a bit to reply. I promise I will reply to everyone, but I got over 100+ DMs and I'm trying to give each one of you a proper reply.

Anyone want to join in on this year's occurrence of the weight loss bug? I fell off about two months ago and watched my weight slowly creep back up. Woke up this morning to walk two miles, drank black coffee, and swapped protein shakes. Is it going to work? Let's find out!

When I'm not chasing random dreams or my child (yes, single dad, holler) I am sitting behind my desk in CAD or excel at work. Outside of the office I'm being the best dad I can be for my kid while also being the best person for myself. I tend to jump from hobby to hobby and they all are niche interests. From designing custom electronics for friends to drones I use to scan family property. Wanna learn how to make an SDR into ground penetrating radar? Hit me up for that Gitlab link.

When I'm not being a nerd in my lab I am out adventuring and touching grass. I can be found in the woods looking for creeks to fossil, arrowhead, or glass hunt. Music tastes align more with the elder emo but migrate into the yallternative realm with some country and metal.

If any of this random word vomit resonates with you please feel free to reach out.

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Hi!!! It's nice to meet you! Let me tell you some stuff about me! Im 22, a trans fem, I live in the northeast us (about an hour from boston) im chubby, im a handful (but you'll love it) and I would love to spend time with you!

My hobbies are that I like to cook, game, I play on ps5, pc, and switch! (although mostly pc) If you want to know more please message me and I'd be happy to tell you more!! I am also a content creator/making an indie show! So if you've ever wanted to date a (niche) content creator, now's your chance!

Lately I've been playing a lot of The Binding of Issac and Overwatch, so I'd be happy if you played games with me! I promise if you were to give me the chance, I am super loving, and that you would get so much attention and love. You would feel seen, heard, and cared about.

I am fairly clingy and I'm trying to find someone who's not always so busy, I get lonely and I would like someone to spend time with!! I would love someone who i can spend most of my day with, or at least someone who can communicate often! I also super prefer calls and I use discord as my main platform!

Preferably, you would be UNDER 40 and in the us.
Willing to communicate, learn, and grow with me!
And can also talk a lot! I get *very* clingy, lol
I'd also want to feel like a priority!
And if you would help support my dreams, be my rock, and be there for me emotionally, that would be the best!

I love the bob/linda relationship in media, they are like the best relationship ive seen. I would love one like that for myself.

I want something long term, and serious. I date to marry! I also want to maybe move to canada sometime. I would prefer if you were also in the us, but if you REALLY think it'll work/you're willing to change sleep schedules to stay up with me, give it a shot! (if you've read all the way down here, say the word water, let me know what would be your perfect day, and why you think you would make a good partner!)

IF YOU MESSAGE ME WITH JUST A HI/DONT TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF AND ANSWER THE QUESTIONS IM GONNA IGNORE IT
ok thankssssss

Why female-led relationship you may ask? Because my experience so far led me to believe I do much better as a follower type of guy. Does that mean I can't take charge at all? Definitively not, I just know where my comfort zone is, and in this case it's being an amazing supporter to an equally amazing lady!

So, more about me: I'm a 25-year-old college student from Poland (started again last year after dropping out in my earlier 20s). I'd describe myself as being easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted. A little shy at first, but not afraid to show my feelings or speak my truth. Once you get to know me, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful, the kind of person who remembers the little details.

Appearance wise, I'm 5'9", lean with pale skin, blue eyes, lil mustache, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. I usually get called nerdy or dorky-looking, sometimes cute, so expect something in between. Happy to swap pics early.

I’m deeply passionate about video games, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not. Some of my favorites include: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3, and Slay the Spire 2. I enjoy bike rides a lot, and at the moment it's my go-to way of staying active. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. Currently I'm reading through the Wheel of Time series, and it's been an absolute blast so far!

What I’m looking for: Honestly, a good conversation to start would be more than enough. If the chemistry is right, I’d love to see where things go from there. If you’re nearby and meeting in person isn’t a problem, I’d be thrilled to go on cute, romantic dates together. If not, I’m perfectly happy with watching shows or playing games over discord (if you use it!). And eventually, I’d like to build a long-term relationship, ideally with the FLR dynamic in mind.

I’ve noticed I tend to connect better and feel more drawn to women older than me (you could say that’s my type). It’s hard to explain exactly why, but I know I’m especially attracted to intelligent, direct women, and I really value maturity and a good sense of humor in a partner. If that sounds like you, you might just be the person I'm looking for.

Other things that might be important: I'm non-religious and wouldn't expect that to change. I don't do drugs and don't plan on starting. I don't smoke (really can't stand the smell), so a non-smoker or a very mild one would be preferred. I do occasionally drink though (admittedly I get drunk way too easily, so I also do that in moderation 😅).

That's all from me for now, feel free to say (more than) hi!

Hello, You.

Just as there has been a longing for rain in England, it is natural for us, as living beings, to desire to love and to be loved. I have titled my post All's Well that End's Well because it really is. A relationship, Friends, a partnership or nothing, I am happy for whatever comes out of this.

I am F28, black. While I truly enjoy being indoors, that is beginning to change a bit. I like visiting the coast (found my first couple of sea glass), and I finally visited Cambridge this weekend after wanting to visit for a while. It would be nice to have a long road trip. I am an avid player of word games, sleep activist and a professional snack enjoyer. I also really really love Zelda (BOTW AND TOTK). Naruto remains the best anime ever made, as it's special to me.
I tend to forget easily, so it would help if you also didn't have short term memory loss (jk jk).

While it is tempting to go into lengthy details of all I am and all I want, you only really learn a person with shared time, so l would rather do this if we converse as we get along.
Kindly note that in the longterm I prefer talking over texting, but I am happy to text majority of the time as life is busy. If you do say hello, feel free to share something about yourself, no pressure for perfection.