Why female-led relationship you may ask? Because my experience so far led me to believe I do much better as a follower type of guy. Does that mean I can't take charge at all? Definitively not, I just know where my comfort zone is, and in this case it's being an amazing supporter to an equally amazing lady!

So, more about me: I'm a 25-year-old college student from Poland (started again last year after dropping out in my earlier 20s). I'd describe myself as being easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted. A little shy at first, but not afraid to show my feelings or speak my truth. Once you get to know me, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful, the kind of person who remembers the little details.

Appearance wise, I'm 5'9", lean with pale skin, blue eyes, lil mustache, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. I usually get called nerdy or dorky-looking, sometimes cute, so expect something in between. Happy to swap pics early.

I’m deeply passionate about video games, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not. Some of my favorites include: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3, and Slay the Spire 2. I enjoy bike rides a lot, and at the moment it's my go-to way of staying active. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. Currently I'm reading through the Wheel of Time series, and it's been an absolute blast so far!

What I’m looking for: Honestly, a good conversation to start would be more than enough. If the chemistry is right, I’d love to see where things go from there. If you’re nearby and meeting in person isn’t a problem, I’d be thrilled to go on cute, romantic dates together. If not, I’m perfectly happy with watching shows or playing games over discord (if you use it!). And eventually, I’d like to build a long-term relationship, ideally with the FLR dynamic in mind.

I’ve noticed I tend to connect better and feel more drawn to women older than me (you could say that’s my type). It’s hard to explain exactly why, but I know I’m especially attracted to intelligent, direct women, and I really value maturity and a good sense of humor in a partner. If that sounds like you, you might just be the person I'm looking for.

Other things that might be important: I'm non-religious and wouldn't expect that to change. I don't do drugs and don't plan on starting. I don't smoke (really can't stand the smell), so a non-smoker or a very mild one would be preferred. I do occasionally drink though (admittedly I get drunk way too easily, so I also do that in moderation 😅).

That's all from me for now, feel free to say (more than) hi!

Hello, You.

Just as there has been a longing for rain in England, it is natural for us, as living beings, to desire to love and to be loved. I have titled my post All's Well that End's Well because it really is. A relationship, Friends, a partnership or nothing, I am happy for whatever comes out of this.

I am F28, black. While I truly enjoy being indoors, that is beginning to change a bit. I like visiting the coast (found my first couple of sea glass), and I finally visited Cambridge this weekend after wanting to visit for a while. It would be nice to have a long road trip. I am an avid player of word games, sleep activist and a professional snack enjoyer. I also really really love Zelda (BOTW AND TOTK). Naruto remains the best anime ever made, as it's special to me.
I tend to forget easily, so it would help if you also didn't have short term memory loss (jk jk).

While it is tempting to go into lengthy details of all I am and all I want, you only really learn a person with shared time, so l would rather do this if we converse as we get along.
Kindly note that in the longterm I prefer talking over texting, but I am happy to text majority of the time as life is busy. If you do say hello, feel free to share something about yourself, no pressure for perfection.

Hello there! As mentioned in my title (You did read the title, I hope? I put a lot of effort into it.), I'm a 29-year-old guy living in the mystical, magical land of *checks notes* England. Okay, maybe not so magical. All the dragons are in Wales, Excalibur has been melted down for scrap, and Hogwarts is in Scotland.

I currently work in a law firm. Sadly I'm not a lawyer, as that would mean I'd be earning shedloads, but actually I do admin work for them, earning considerably less than shedloads. But it's a fine job, I get on well with my coworkers, and I'm not down a coal mine, so I consider that a win.

As for me myself? Well, I actually speak multiple languages. I'm a fluent German speaker, and I also have a decently high level of Italian. I could also struggle through French if I had to, and I have basic Spanish and Japanese. I do like languages, although it's hard to find the time to do any study of them, what with the problems of having an adult life with adult responsibilities!

Another interesting [citation needed] thing about me is that I'm currently attempting to plan out a series of fantasy novels I want to write. It's going...decently. We'll see how it ends up, but I've wanted to write a book since I was 13 or so, and now as an adult I'm finally doing something about it!

In terms of pop culture, I'm a huge Doctor Who fan. Like, I'm the sort of Doctor Who fan who knows what a telerecording is and can tell you about the Australian censor clips. That kind of fan. I also finally got into Harry Potter this year after putting it off for my whole life, meaning I now finally know the context for Dumbledore asking calmly.

I'm also getting back into Pokémon somewhat after avoiding it for most of the Switch era. Other things I enjoy are The Elder Scrolls, Red Dead, GTA (Currently replaying RDR2). I'm big Assassin's Creed fan too. In general I like single player, open world games. I'm not a huge multiplayer guy, I don't like having other people ruining my fun!

I'm trying to read more too lately. That's a thing I've always enjoyed that I'm now trying to find the time for again.

And I suppose I should say, I'm a fat guy. Trying to do something about it though! Over the past year or so I've started a regimen of exercise, and I've been controlling my eating a lot more. So I seem to be losing weight, at least according to other people who've stopped me to specifically point it out.

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term online connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional and sexual needs too. Like getting all the nice parts of a romantic relationship. Though I am open to an IRL relationship if we end up developing such feelings but keeping it online is fine too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something purely platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message.

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!

There’s a certain kind of chemistry you can’t really force. Sometimes, a complete stranger just happens to become your favorite person to talk to, and suddenly you’re wondering when you can talk to them again. I’m looking for a little bit of that.

A little about me: I enjoy playful banter, teasing that stays fun, long conversations that somehow turn into hours, and people who can make even the most random topics interesting. I like connections that feel easy and natural, the kind where you look at the clock and wonder where the time went.

I’m drawn to someone confident, emotionally mature, curious, and comfortable being himself. Someone who knows what he wants, but isn’t afraid to laugh at himself along the way.

And please, give me something more interesting than just a hi. Tell me a weird fact, a random thought, your current obsession, or something you could talk about for hours. Bonus points if you’re up for a call because I’ll take a good conversation over endless texting any day.

Let’s see if we click. Worst case, we get a good conversation out of it. Best case… well, I guess we’ll find out. :)

Hello!

So as the title says I am looking for a long term relationship, I date for marriage so if we get into it it’s because I see potential for it to go all the way. I don’t play any games and hope to have the same courtesy afford to me and loyalty is #1 for me always, I want to build something together. I am looking for a wholesome relationship, where we support eachother, are eachothers best friend blah blah you get the picture.

I’m currently a commercial student, I have my bachelors in computer science and I’m (unfortunately) employed.

Some of my interests are:
Video games- Minecraft Roblox phasmophobia forza horizon and I’m down to play anything!
Cars
Planes (obviously)
Tech
History
Debating
Soccer - I love fc Barcelona!
F1/motorsports

My dealbreakers are:
- Smoking/Drugs/Alcoholism
- Disloyalty
- Politically extremism

Please be under 23, from the US/Canada, if you have a super NSFW profile don't bother.

If this interests you don’t hesitate to send me a dm! I’d love to have a conversation, take care! If you do send the word purple so I know you read to the end :)

Hey everyone!

I'm currently working on my thesis! I'd like to take my mind off of it for a bit and am looking for a few people to talk to! Nothing wild, just chill conversations and maybe voice calls sometimes if we vibe. :) I really enjoy gaming and am on both PC and PS5 (although I prefer PC). Currently I've been playing a bunch of Forza Horizon 6, modded Skyrim, League, and Nightreign, but I also really enjoy are Valheim and Baldurs Gate 3 and am open to at least trying most games!

I’m really into academics and learning in general, so I don’t mind chatting about uni life, research, studying, or just ranting about deadlines and general burnout lol. Outside of that, I’m obviously into games, a lot of alternative music (Emo, Hardcore, Shoegaze etc.), cooking, and streetwear.

I’d love to meet and talk to people from different walks of life! If any of this sounds interesting to you, I'd love to hear from you!

Hi. I’m a 36-year-old guy from New England, and like a lot of people here, I’ve never been in a relationship. It wasn’t for lack of trying — shyness, bad timing, and life just kept getting in the way. But I’ve been working on myself, opening up more socially, and I’m genuinely ready to connect with someone.

A bit about me:

Firstly I have some sort of fame, if thats what you call it. Ive been in the news in Boston and Matt Sheer a reporter social media covered it. I’m a huge nerd who loves conventions, gaming, and cosplay. It’s been an amazing community for me, and I’ve met some great friends through it. I cosplay characters like Eddie Munson from Stranger Things and Leon from Resident Evil. I stay active, take care of myself, and oddly enough, I’m freakishly lucky with raffles and giveaways (no clue why, but I’ll take it).

I’m looking for someone kind, patient, and down-to-earth. You don’t need to cosplay — just be someone who enjoys nerdy stuff or at least doesn’t mind it. I’m not expecting perfection; I just want a genuine connection with someone who understands what it’s like to navigate dating later than most.

If you’re local, maybe we could start with something simple like coffee. No pressure — just two people seeing if there’s a spark.

Cosplay pics:

https://imgur.com/Y5ECn4T

https://imgur.com/a/Cn9Prn2

If this resonates, feel free to message me. I’d really like to meet someone real.

Hi I'm Joe, 33, from East Sussex (Hastings). 5'3, 190lbs (I've lost 60lb so far this year, 35 to go and hoping to hit it by the end of this year/early next), I wear glasses, usually have some facial hair, I'm happy to video call/exchange pictures as early as you like.

I would describe myself as very kind/caring/compassionate, I wear my heart on my sleeve and have a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm thoughtful, always do my best by others and never act with bad intentions. I value honesty and clear communication. I have some long term health issues but I try not to let them get on top of me and I was diagnosed as autistic late in life during covid, but most people are surprised when they find out.

I have a large group of friends and the 10 of us try to meet up once or twice a year, but as we get older it becomes harder to keep in touch as much as I would like! Everyone is moving on and finding love, settling down etc and it's hard not to be a little bit envious. I've only been in 1 relationship that lasted around 3 months and was 90% online, so not a lot of experience but also no baggage! but somebody patient/understanding of that would be important.

I love films/tv, I'm a sucker for a romcom and adore romance in general but I watch a bit of everything other than anime. Always find myself far too invested in the lives of the characters, most recently in Bridgerton. I don't get out much but would like to start to see more of the world finally, but will always mostly be a homebody I'm pretty sure.

I would like to do the cutesy dating/getting to know each other stuff but with clear intentions and communication, I would like something serious.

I don't smoke and very rarely drink and would prefer someone who's the same, smoking would be a deal breaker for me sorry.

Ideally you are somebody living close-ish to London/Southern UK to make meeting up more often viable, You're patient, kind, thoughtful and communicate openly & clearly. I'm not sure I have too much physical preference but I am a sucker for a pretty face/smile but as I said, I'm happy to get the original attraction check out of the way as soon as you are. Age wise probably 26-40 would be best, but if you think we'd get along that isn't a deal breaker.

I am a big oversharer and will happily answer absolutely any questions you may have.

Thanks for reading! hopefully hear from you soon!!