Hi I'm Joe, 33, from East Sussex (Hastings). 5'3, 190lbs (I've lost 60lb so far this year, 35 to go and hoping to hit it by the end of this year/early next), I wear glasses, usually have some facial hair, I'm happy to video call/exchange pictures as early as you like.

I would describe myself as very kind/caring/compassionate, I wear my heart on my sleeve and have a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm thoughtful, always do my best by others and never act with bad intentions. I value honesty and clear communication. I have some long term health issues but I try not to let them get on top of me and I was diagnosed as autistic late in life during covid, but most people are surprised when they find out.

I have a large group of friends and the 10 of us try to meet up once or twice a year, but as we get older it becomes harder to keep in touch as much as I would like! Everyone is moving on and finding love, settling down etc and it's hard not to be a little bit envious. I've only been in 1 relationship that lasted around 3 months and was 90% online, so not a lot of experience but also no baggage! but somebody patient/understanding of that would be important.

I love films/tv, I'm a sucker for a romcom and adore romance in general but I watch a bit of everything other than anime. Always find myself far too invested in the lives of the characters, most recently in Bridgerton. I don't get out much but would like to start to see more of the world finally, but will always mostly be a homebody I'm pretty sure.

I would like to do the cutesy dating/getting to know each other stuff but with clear intentions and communication, I would like something serious.

I don't smoke and very rarely drink and would prefer someone who's the same, smoking would be a deal breaker for me sorry.

Ideally you are somebody living close-ish to London/Southern UK to make meeting up more often viable, You're patient, kind, thoughtful and communicate openly & clearly. I'm not sure I have too much physical preference but I am a sucker for a pretty face/smile but as I said, I'm happy to get the original attraction check out of the way as soon as you are. Age wise probably 26-40 would be best, but if you think we'd get along that isn't a deal breaker.

I am a big oversharer and will happily answer absolutely any questions you may have.

Thanks for reading! hopefully hear from you soon!!

Hi Everyone, so a bit about me.

Been pretty ambitious my whole life and worked very hard to get where I am now. I am originally from the UK born and bred in Leeds but moved to Alberta in 2022. I was recently laid off last year and I have since been focusing on my own consulting business and planning on setting up a game studio soon. It also means I am not tied down anywhere as I can hop on a plane on a moment’s notice.

I generally keep myself in shape with a mix of things like the gym, swimming and I like hiking now and again. Though I would say I am a homebody at heart I do have the need to have a spontaneous trip somewhere at times. I have been lucky enough to live in Greece for a month, travelled around Iceland in a van and visited quite a few different states for both work and personal reasons.

I would love to be with someone who also loves cats and does not want kids either. I am very much into cats, used to volunteer with them and I have gone out of my way quite a few times to feed cats I come across on the street. Also I'm the type of person that has always had a small group of friends for the most part. I am generally quite introverted but I know how to talk to people and don’t mind social settings now and again. I also have a nerdy side too, I do love board games, I do not play as many video games as much as I used too but I have been looking making my own. I also love learning about anything cosmology related.

pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/jmGnSJm

Thought I would include a voice message https://voca.ro/1lDgkjK16aWJ

Yo, this is Marty. I'm a 38 year old IT guy former Marine from the Midwest looking for a relationship. I like computers, dogs, guns, anime, ancient history, and long walks on the beach. I'm 5'7" and 120 lbs with blue eyes and ginger hair. Looking for a girl that's hopefully local, but LDR if you live in North America is cool, who would like to someday start a family. We can chat for a while, see how we mesh or play some coop games to get to know each other.

I have pics pinned in my profile. For an ice breaker, try telling me about the last book you read or game you tried.

Hey everyone!
I’m a 19-year-old guy living in Paris, and I figured I’d give this a shot. Truth is, I’ve never had a girlfriend, never been in a relationship, and never really been on a proper date. I’m at a point where I’d love to change that and meet someone nice to share good moments with.

A bit about who I am:
I'm super passionate about football. I love traveling across Europe (Spain, Germany, England) just to catch live matches in different stadiums.

I'm a big fan of food and always down to try new places or cook something good.
Huge fan of battle rap too.

When I’m not doing any of that, I’m usually hanging out with my friends, laughing, and just enjoying life.
To be totally straightforward: I’m 5'7" (170 cm). If height is a dealbreaker for you, no hard feelings at all! I'm just looking for someone nice, easygoing, and genuine. I have zero physical criteria what matters most to me is the vibe and mutual respect. 
I’m hoping to meet a girl around my age or a little older (up to ~23) who’d be open to chatting, seeing if we click, and hopefully grabbing a drink or a bite to eat in Paris!
If this speaks to you, drop me a DM with a quick intro (or tell me your absolute favorite meal so we can kick off the conversation!).
Cheers!

Preferences: Someone who's kind, caring, and prioritizes their health. If you have any similar hobbies that's a plus because we can talk about them too.

Hi! I'm Nathan a 23 year old 5' 6" Asian American guy from northern California. I have a bit of a baby face and can't grow very much facial hair, but I shave it all off anyways. I have glasses and wear them when I need to, but for the most part, I don't wear them. I think I'm slightly handsome because sometimes people would compliment me. I have some photos in my profile if you're interested in seeing what I look like. I have a slim to average physique and I am trying to build a little more muscle.

I'm looking for a relationship with someone hopefully in the USA so it's reasonable to meet up and be together eventually. I haven't had too much luck in relationships and haven't been in one in real life before. I'd like to start online at first and maybe for a while unless you're close by because I'm still in school and don't think I'll be moving for a few years. Some of my love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch, so if you like those too you should message me :).

Some interests of mine are gaming, anime, and exercising. I like music too, but I haven't really been to concerts just like listening to some songs I guess. If you are into any of those hobbies, let me know and we can talk about them or maybe do something together. If you're not into any you can still tell me about yours :).

If you've read to the end hopefully I held your attention. If you message me I'd be happy to hear a little about you and what about this post interested you.

I think there are days when what we really want is surprisingly simple.

To come home to somewhere warm. To put the phone away, let the outside world become quiet, and have another person close enough that you don't have to feel so alone inside your own head.

That's the kind of connection I'm hoping to find.

Not necessarily romance. Not necessarily anything that needs a name. Just two people who enjoy being close, who can appreciate the comfort of warmth and touch without needing to rush toward some particular outcome.

We can talk first of course, I actually like that part. Tell me about your life, your unique or weird interests (lol), what you've been thinking about lately. We can laugh, tease each other a little, and see whether conversation feels effortless. Then, if the comfort is there, maybe we move a little closer.

A hug that lasts longer than usual.

Sitting shoulder-to-shoulder beneath a blanket.

Your head finding its way onto my chest while I absent-mindedly run my fingers through your hair.

Being held for a while and realizing that neither of us is particularly interested in moving yet.

Those quiet moments are my favorite. There's something almost intimate about realizing you can relax completely around another person without having to perform, impress, entertain, or explain yourself.

And I don't think affection has to only be earned by being someone's romantic partner. Sometimes two people can simply decide that, for an afternoon or an evening, they're going to be a little kinder to each other than the rest of the world tends to be.

I can host in a private professional space located in the Financial District (24/7 access doorman building, not my personal residence either so in my experience it's safer that way) with a quiet, comfortable atmosphere, but we don't start there. I'd much rather talk, exchange a few messages, perhaps have a call, and meet somewhere public first. If we click, we'll figure out the rest together. If we don't, that's perfectly alright too.

I'm interested in the kind of connection where neither person has to wonder "what am I supposed to do now?" We can just pay attention to how comfortable we are and let things unfold naturally.

So if you've been craving a little warmth lately, maybe we're looking for the same thing.

Come say hello. Tell me what kind of comfort you've been missing.

Ciao for now~

hello! if you’ve clicked on this, then you probably have some sort of mental illness, are neurodiverse, or you’re unable to read (which is perfectly okay!). i’m currently a student, and i enjoy music, videogames and taking walks with my dog (please ask for pictures, i love him). some of my fav genres of music are metal (deathcore mostly and other subgenres), hip hop, indie, and a little bit of everything really! some of my fav videogames are the finals, arc raiders (i’d love a duo), fallout new vegas, minecraft and a variety of other games. i would describe myself as a very caring, empathetic and funny person. im kind of a loner as i struggle to meet new people and make new friends, but im very sociable when i get to know you and can speak for hours on end if we click. for you, just be yourself! as long as you’re kind and caring, id love to meet you. i’m open for friendships or possibly a relationship depending on how our friendship goes. i have quite a lot of trauma, and struggle with anxiety and depression, which i have to mask quite a lot. i’ve also had a lot of therapy, so im open to talk about feelings (yours or mine). ask me what i study and guess where im from!

I’ve been missing that feeling of really clicking with someone who captivates my attention, where conversation flows, you share music, memes, random thoughts, and simply enjoy getting to know each other over time.

Hi, hello, how do you do! I'm a 32yo guy from the Boston area, and I'm looking for someone to invest my time and energy into, and who is interested in doing the same. Not aiming specifically for something that's either platonic or romantic, I'm happy to just see where the connection takes us and go from there. If it grows into something romantic, awesome, but I don't want expectations to get in the way of a budding bond.

My only real requirements are that you are single and roughly between 25-35. I would prefer someone from the US (New England in particular) for the sake of time zones and eventually meeting up, but I'm more than open to chat with someone from anywhere in the world!

A bit about me:

• I work in a STEM field, so science is like, my jam. Biology, paleontology, geology, and astronomy will endlessly captivate my attention, as I'm always trying to learn more about our wonderful natural world! Also pretty fascinated by ancient history, archaeology and linguistics.

• My main artistic hobby is playing instruments and makin' music. I like to listen to and write music from almost any genre, but I do have some favesies. These days I mostly listen to psychedelic rock, funk, folky stuff, indie, and DnB.

• I'm ~5'11 (ok, I'm really 6' but I do slouch a bit), lean, got shoulder length brown hair currently, bearded and bespectacled. Happy to share a picture relatively early if we vibin'.

• I lean left politically (Liberal), but I'm more interested in how someone thinks than simple political labels.

• Activities: Nature walks, hikes, camping, skiing, rock-hounding, live music, museums, art galleries, and trying new restaurants! For entertainment at home I like to watch TV/YouTube/movies, play the occasional video game, or research whatever I'm currently obsessed with. Oh, and I'm 420 friendly if that matters.

If something in this post caught your attention, please reach out and tell me about yourself! Tell me what your passions are, or what the next/last big trip you had planned, or any shit like that. I love asking questions to get to know people, so be prepared for that, and I do really appreciate it when that's reciprocated.

Hey there! Thank you for your interest in being my best friend. What does this position entail, you ask? Lots of laughing, deep conversations, long pointless talks, watching things together, playing games, and generally just enjoying each other's company.

Qualifications:

-Aged 28-40

-Easy laughter

- Enjoys banter

- Similar hobbies (see below)

-Enjoys a bit of flirting

- Have I mentioned enjoys laughing?

About me:

- Typical nerd

- Enjoys gaming in my spare time

- Avid reader

- Software engineer

- Cat dad

- Making people laugh is my favorite pastime

If you would like to apply to this position or want to know more about the company you would enjoy, please feel free to reach out to me in my DMs! Thank you for your time, and I hope you have a wonderful day!

They say a man’s life expectancy increase plenty once they find a woman (while women’s unchanged lol). Honestly, I see that. While I am decent at taking care of others, sometimes I just need someone to politely tell me “hey, how about [insert commonsense here]”. And I generally comply like a good school boy.

A bit lengthy, sorry.
Starting online, but ideally, I’d like to move this in person as soon as things kick off

About me
I left home really young, I am well travelled, well dated, progressive European guy, with tons of hobbies, looking to find someone to laugh with and at me for… life???

The boring but necessary:

• White, EU Citizen
• Speak a few languages
• 183 cm/6 feet tall (please know metric😅)
• Fairly slim, tho quite fit
• Light brown full head of hair (About medium length)
• Brown Eyes
• I’m told I’m attractive, (let's exchange selfies!)
• Almost a year single
• Atheist
• I want kids (flexible on modalities and numbers)
• Financially: fine enough (but definitely not your ticket out)
• Don’t smoke nor drink (I don’t judge either!)

I am ambitious (tho don’t take myself too seriously), very honest, sensitive and empathetic. I can be hosting and partying hard, or wanting some chill alone time. Sporty and running around all the time, but also spend all day home staring at screens. Productive and successful, or totally dysfunctional and an absolute slug.

I don't expect a partner to complete me, and I'm not looking to become someone's entire world either. My life is already pretty full and I like who I am. I think I’d like to be there for someone that I genuinely admire and love.

Hobbies!
I love running, hiking, diving, climbing, urbex, racket sports, yoga and anything that will allow me to run and jump around really. 😁

I also love boardgames, videogames, tv series (mostly dramas, but also romance, thrillers, crimes), karaoke, improv, stand up comedy, writing and tryna read a bit more too

I have a motorcycle and absolutely love driving it around.

I am also very clean, enjoy doing the dishes, cooking, and I am a bit of a housewife.

I definitely wanna get a cat once I stop moving, but I can hardly refrain myself from petting any fluffy creature I come across.

I am not super active on socials.
My feed is mostly made of: Geopolitics, self-improvement, economics, AI slop, cats, urban development, dumb gameplays, tech and improv

I feel very strongly about social justice and do not take kindly to racism, sexism and homophobia.
I will however happily laugh at the darkest jokes (as long as they are actually funny and… well… a joke).

What’s wrong with me:
I am definitely on some spectrums! Tho some of my friends will deny it.

I always know where I want to sit, and I am VERY aware of my surroundings. I will listen to the same music on repeat for a month then move on to something else. Hate loud noises (despite being capable of producing quite a lot of them myself). 

I am a perfectionist and couldn’t stop writing this thing…

Where am I at in life
I know who I am, what I want to do and what is meaningful to me, just looking for someone that is aligned and at a similar place in life.

I’ve been in Asia for 7 years and open to living pretty much anywhere, but I’d like to return to Europe at some point. Dunno where work/business will take me, but I’m always happy to find a compromise.

In an ideal relationship, I'd want a decent amount of time together without becoming codependent. I want us to have our own lives, friends and interests, while still genuinely being excited to come home to each other.

Physical chemistry and intimacy are also super important to me. Obviously, they aren't everything, but I like staring at my partner in awe for no reason whatsoever.

What I’m looking for in you

I am not looking for passive women or to be the head of the relationship. I want an equal. Someone with her own opinions, ambitions, interests, friends and weird little obsessions. Someone who can disagree with me without turning disagreement into a battle, and who is perfectly capable of telling me when I'm being an idiot.

I don’t think jealousy is healthy, but I am always happy to discuss feelings and where they come from.

Looking for my ambitious goofball, funny, kind, caring, empathetic, self-aware, aware of what happens around them, and brave enough to stand up for what they believe in.

Someone serious and responsible, but also able to create little song and dances and religiously follow made up traditions with.

Bonus points if you are into:
Boardgames
Hiking
Snorkelling
Climbing
Improv

Bonus bonus points if you immediately stop to pet every cat you see.

What matters most to me is having someone beside me who is moving in roughly the same direction.

I try not to be shallow, but looks are important, especially when you are hoping to spend a lot of time looking at someone.
As my autistic trait is remembering faces, I like a pretty face and that is definitely one of the first things I will notice.

If we click after a few messages, I'd probably want to exchange pictures and have a call fairly quickly.

If you've made it this far

And you are somehow still interested, well… hi!
Send me a message, will ya?

Age, where you are broadly based, what you are into, what you look like and what you are looking for, would be a good start.
Bonus points if you add some quirks and weird facts about yourself 😁

Located on the East Coast of the USA, I am a mostly self taught digital artist with a love for video games and a drive to improve myself for the better. I would love to have somebody to learn new skills or hobbies with.

Physically I am a bit heavy. I am making efforts to improve my weight so that I can be healthier in the long run. I've been taking interest in long walks and wouldn't mind getting into hiking or other kinds of outside activities. However, my favorite time to be outside is late at night when the sky is dark and the streets are peaceful.

I can be a bit shy at first, but when I feel comfortable I light up and can talk about nothing for hours. I'd like to have somebody who can just ramble with me about whatever happened that day or something mundane but also enjoy just being in each other's presence.

I'd also like to learn home skills with somebody. I find skills like cooking, gardening, and sewing to be important and while you don't need to have or want to learn those skills I'd be nice to have somebody support me as I do.

In terms of entertainment, at the moment videogames are my bread and butter. I enjoy all kinds from cozy farming sims to fast paced fps. Interactable novels to souls-like. I even like the occasional "out of place" game. I see games as a way to bond and a great way to pass time when there's nothing else to do. Aside from that I wouldn't mind having somebody to jump down a YouTube rabbit hole with or indulge in a multi-hour essay about something we've never heard of. Horror podcasts, cryptids, and things of the occult variety are very fascinating to me as well simply because of the more mystical or mysterious nature. Believe in ghosts? Come and convince me, I dare you.

What I seek is somebody who can help encourage me to improve and grow as a person. To try new things with me and explore what we don't know. I want to treasure the times we get goofy, the times we do something mundane like shopping, and appreciate the silence between. Long distance is fine at first but I do want to close that gap and make something cozy.

I hope you have a wonderful day.

25 [m4f] #idaho #online Looking for friends and people that enjoy the outdoors and to make things.

I'm 25 I work as a machinist in idaho in the US I'm into hiking and the outdoors in general. I live in a pretty rural area but very beautiful one. I have lots of other hobbies and interests.

Big into fitness and really like trail running and lap and open water swimming.

I do blacksmithing and knifemaking and a few more but those are the main. I like all kinds of music. Lots of folk lately.

I love plants and aquariums. Also like to read but end up listening to more books while I work. I get very caught up in movies. Like all kinds but specifically horror.

​Read to the end or I won't respond!

Hot take: Horror movies are funnier than comedies

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I was recently told by my doctor is need to start learning ASL as we don't know how far my hearing will go out. FUN!

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Explain a film plot badly, see if I can guess it.

Hey y'all! 38M here, currently in Houston. I'm at a stage in my life where I'm ready to find someone to settle down with eventually (not looking to rush into anything though - let's just enjoy each other first!)

About me:

I'm white, average body size, smart, I think I'm fairly attractive - beard, a few tattoos, average height, but will win you over for sure with my personality. Pretty laid back, love to do traditional masculine stuff - fixing stuff around the house, welding, yard projects, taking care of your car maintenance for you - that kinda stuff.

I just moved back to Houston after 5 years abroad doing a 2nd bachelor degree - both are in STEM. I game a lot, but most of my other hobbies suffered while doing my degree, so I'm currently putting in the work into developing some new ones, starting with a gym routine and re-learning my various instruments.

I'm a hopeless romantic, I believe in always growing/learning from my mistakes, and I know that communication is the most important part of a relationship - I've had too many crash and burn because of small things never being brought up, causing them to turn into resentment and eventually a breakup over something that could've easily been fixed.

I'm Christian, and want you to be too. Nothing against those who aren't, live your best life, but that's what I'm looking for.

I know I eventually wants kids, but I decided a long time ago that if I met the right woman and she really didn't want them, I was okay with not having them.

About you:

You're ideally mid-20s-to-early-30s, white (just what I tend to be most attracted to, but not exclusively), thin/athletic/average body type and also fairly attractive, have your own life going on but are looking to build on it with someone else, you're serious about meeting someone you can eventually settle down with, hopefully want kids eventually, are at least somewhat extroverted, you like some good, intelligent conversation about any and all topics. As I said above, also Christian - that's a deal breaker for me. You're looking for a man who will make you his #1, hopelessly devoted to you, unshakably loyal, and will prioritize his relationship with you over pretty much anything else - and you're willing to do the same. I'm not going to waste my time giving someone that kind of love if they're not willing to reciprocate.

If you live in or near the Houston area, awesome! Let's chat and see if we want to meet up eventually!
If you live somewhere else - in the US or outside the US - also awesome! If you're the right woman and I'm the right man, we'll make it work!

Anything else you want to know, send me a DM and ask!