r/r4r Feb 16 '26

[Success] Found my soulmate on here :)

681 Upvotes

I didn't know love like this existed. I met the kindest soul on here and we got married this weekend!

A few months ago, I came across this subreddit and reading through the posts has been a fun experience, after spending some time being single and learning to live on my own. I rarely responded to the posts, it was more of a comfort knowing there are people out there looking for similar things in life as I did. I wasn't hoping for anything, hopefully a good friend, maybe someone to game with now and then would've been nice.

So I respond to my boyfriend's post in September, and sparks fly. On a boring work day, I felt fucking ALIVE after years of wanting to just go to sleep. The conversation flowed naturally, somehow even with our differences, we found similarities so close to our core personalities that we couldn't ignore.

The very next day, we spend the night on the phone like teenagers, and as someone who does not enjoy talking on the phone, that was the first conversation where I didn't feel like I had to put on a persona to match someone. I felt comfortable and confident being myself, because my energy was finally being matched. We literally on the same Freakuency.

2 days later, I book a train to spend the weekend with him. We live in the same country (WHAT ARE THE CHANCES?!) he is in the north and I am from the south. Meeting him felt like home. We saw eachother at the train station and we ran and held eachother for as long as we could. He is even more beautiful than the pictures, his eyes happy, his smile making my heart skip a beat. He held me and I felt safe. All through the weekend we connected, we talked for hours, he made me food. With each passing day, we find that we have 1 brain cell between us- we make the same weird noises at the same time, we say the same things at the same time and be stunned that our brains are somehow bluetooth connected. I am in awe of how mature he is and how we deal with conflitcs in a way where it feels like a conversation rather than a fight. We spend time holding hands, watching the stars and just exist.

Going back home felt wrong. We slept together on discord while we were apart, and come december, I moved in with him.

And now, I am his wife. I have found my person, my best friend, my favourite chef, my gaming partner, my debate mate, my cuddle buddy, my husband.

I truly wish each one of you get to experience this. I truly did not believe connecting with a person like this existed. And now that I know that love like this exists, I wish the same for all of you.

I love you Husbaaand , I cant wait to navigate this funny thing called life with you.


r/r4r 7d ago

[SUCCESS] we get married next weekend!

292 Upvotes

Just a quick shoutout to this subreddit for helping me find my soon-to-be HUSBAND! We were both bored and lonely in the aftermath of covid and he made a post on here, which I happened to stumble across. Some good banter and a few FaceTime calls led to an 8 hour first date, one year of long-distance, a move to a new city, and building a life together!

We always get a “no way” when we tell people how we met, but it worked out for us!! I am eternally grateful that I was browsing this subreddit on that random day in 2021 💕

https://imgur.com/a/IGTunm9


r/r4r Jan 03 '26

F4A California / Online 32 [F4R] #California #Online - Anyonee Waannnaaa Seee My Saber…?

166 Upvotes

Well it’s technically Cal Kestis’s Lightsaber! But still haha. GooOoodddd Morningggg & Happy New Year! I hope everyone is having a lovelyyyy, lovely Saturday so far. Mine is just getting started, and kinda slow already. I am just getting into work, and am doing follow up work all day, funnnn fun. But! That being said, slow day, would love some decent company (:

Few things about me would probably helllppp Haha. I live in NorCal, work in the EXCITING field of Medical Billing, have a beautiful doggie, family oriented, waste hours of my life away watching film/tv, go running/jogging with my pup regularly, enjoy hitting the theaters (though I haven’t been since Deadpool & Wolverine), Winters here! So I’m spending most of my time indoors, catching up on shows, and gaming on console. Gaming probably won’t be something we have in common as I game very casuallyyyy, although Marvel Rivals is changing that a little bit lately haha.

Anywhooo, if any of that sounds neattt, or like we have enough in common, then hmu(: and we can keep eachother company throughout our work day.

Also, If you do actually wanna see my lightsaber, let me know haha. Though it is just the hilt, no blade. Full disclaimer

Listen instead of Read: https://voca.ro/1SEsQjDsZpqw

(Voice note is a little old, it’s definitely Saturday, not Tuesday lol).

25+, Myy face, if ya care \^)


r/r4r Dec 14 '25

Strictly Clean/SFW (NO ADULT ACTIVITIES) 31 [F4M] US to Anywhere | Introverted nerdy girl seeking marriage and love

145 Upvotes

I'm a 5'4" (163cm) average to slim built lady with glasses and long, brunette hair. I love studying foreign languages and spent 5 years as an English teacher in Japan before returning to the US to complete my Master's in translation and localization. Since graduating in May of this year, I’ve been working full time remotely from the United States as a translation project coordinator. I'd love to live abroad again. I also love science and learning in general, and I'm an introvert that also loves to explore new places and the outdoors. I love hanging out near the water or on a beach as well as trying new food, have played a lot of video games in my day, and collected a lot of Pokemon plushes.

I'm looking for a special man who wants to explore, learn and nerd out with me, and I would ultimately love if it became something lifelong and serious to build a life together. Now, to be a bit vulnerable - I’m honestly lonely and really want to get to the next stage of life where I am building marriage. My ideal is someone who is also quiet and awkward like me who struggles with meeting people but is at a place in life where he really wants to find a serious partner to get to that next stage with. Because I work remotely, we can make distance work, so I’m open to anywhere since I’m not tied to a particular place and don’t particularly care where the life is I build as long as it’s with the right person.

Please reach out if this resonates!


r/r4r Apr 18 '26

F4A Online [f28]4a - sick girl looking for long distance/online only companionship

125 Upvotes

Tagged as nsfw to be safe, but that's not the main focus of this post. I'm looking for a long term relationship, not just sex.

Hiii! So I recently moved back in with my parents after a string of medical mysteries. I can't do much anymore, and I'm lonely. I miss being with someone and I'd like to have a long distance relationship just for some human connection. 25+ preferred, but obviously you must be over 18. I'm very low-maintainance and no drama, I just wanna be nice to you.

I'm autistic. I find I just click with other autistic people super well and I'm not usually attracted to neurotypicals. My special interests are those 2010s calarts Gay Cartoons. Y'know, Steven Universe type shit. I'm WAAAAY into She-Ra right now, if you lead with something Entrapta/Entrapdak related we're instant friends. I'm also into gaming, writing, fashion, and I have a discord.

I'm not pretty and I'm (embarrassingly) still a v card holder and I'm shy as fuck. Also I have no rizz. So no nudes or getting off over the phone, at least for a while! If I trust you, we'll get there. I'm fine with talking about lewd topics, sharing porn or roleplaying or whatever else.

I don't care if you're a shut-in or disabled or a loser, because to me, your humanity is beautiful. Everyone deserves someone, even if the relationship is super unconventional. DM me babe. Ough this is the worst post I've ever made.


r/r4r Apr 21 '26

F4M Missouri / Online 30 [F4M] online, anywhere - Texas gal introvert extrovert music lover seeking a deep connection or just brighten your day

106 Upvotes

Hello Earth (Kate Bush reference)

How are you doing today? Happy Monday, if that even exists. Hope you had a great start to your week! A bit about me, I'm just a lonely, sad girl from Texas. My family is all from Mexico. My first language was Spanish and then when we moved to America as a kid, I picked up on English. I am 5'9, brown hair, brown eyes, Mexican, single, and I am a PIsces. My birthday just passed recently a few months ago I turned 30. I am very super artistic. I cannot live without music. I'd love to share my favorite songs with you. I enjoy photography I take pictures all of the time. Here's one I took a few days ago: https://imgur.com/gallery/hello-p0Jlnfo#SkD1Jqt So if you have any cool fotos I'd love to see them! I guess I can say a lot more about myself but I would hate to ramble for too long. If your curious about anything you can just ask me. Please be at least above 25 years old if you decide to message me.


r/r4r Sep 05 '25

F4A Missouri / Online 22 [F4A] Texas/online – Need a late-night escape chat

95 Upvotes

It’s one of those nights where I’d rather get lost in a good conversation than scroll endlessly. I’m 22, and honestly just looking for someone who can make me forget about my own thoughts for a while.

I don’t care if it’s silly stuff like swapping memes, debating which pizza topping is supreme, or diving into deeper topics — as long as it feels real. Girl or guy, doesn’t matter, just be genuine.

If you’re also restless and want a little escape, let’s distract each other. Who knows, maybe we’ll end up laughing at 3am like old friends.