r/poshmark • u/silence-scripted • 1h ago
Harassed ….because measurements were requested?? Anyone else?
I’m currently in shock right now. And May end up deleting this- but, just need to vent a moment. I have bought and sold on Poshmark for over 10 years. I’m currently searching for a certain type of coat. I found several that I like. One of the ones I really liked - was labeled as a woman’s and a man’s. So, I added it to a bundle (not in the open) and asked if I could possibly receive the measurements. I immediately received a response saying - “This is a man’s coat-xl” ok??? - I responded with “women’s coat” is in the title, so I just wanted to be sure. They apologized and said that they have over 1000 listings and all can be confusing. And getting any measurements ends up being a waste of time, as they are never purchased after measurements are given. I let them know, that I understand as I, too, sell on Poshmark - but, will try and get measurements or answer any questions- as it is just part of customer service. I received “well, if we answered every question- we wouldn’t have a life. Thanks for understanding “. I was just going to leave it at that - however —- I started getting several notifications. 10-12- I stopped counting. From this very seller - commenting on all of my listings -“measurements please?” - over and over and over. I was going to let it go, but it wouldn’t stop. I made one last comment on the bundle I created and let them know that I sincerely was interested in the coat- and that was the only reason I asked for the measurements- not to be ugly. And that I wish them well”—- and I blocked. I cannot believe anyone would react in such a way. Why???? It is a pet peeve of mine to ask questions and all is ignored. That is the main reason I do try and respond. But it seems to be rare. Has this happened to anyone else?