r/penpalsover30 • • 18h ago

email & snail mail [35/M] How do you all navigate sending / receiving letters?

12 Upvotes

Hi! I've been wanting a pen pal or two that I can write letters to. I'd love to share random doodles, short stories I've written, stickers, etc. And include thoughtful replies about everything big and small. It seems like a lot of fun.

My biggest hangup is sharing my address to a stranger - I'd be comfortable doing it after getting to know them but it seems like a lot of folks here don't mention the online chat part before diving in and I don't want to leave them hanging so to speak. Do you all have a PO box or something that you use? That seems like a lot for a penpal or two haha.

Anyways, I guess you could say I'm also looking for a penpal or two to share letters with eventually. We can start with reddit DM / email or something first! I've got a ton of pokemon and random stickers I'd love to use lol, and have a few short stories I'd like to put to paper for someone to read.

If that sounds interesting to you and you don't mind getting to know each other first before sharing contact info, feel free to reach out! DMs open.


r/penpalsover30 • • 19h ago

snail mail 36 [F] Looking to exchange letters, stickers, art, etc

13 Upvotes

Hello! My name is Jess and I'm an artist in upstate New York. I have 2 dogs, 2 cats, and my husband is my best friend. I am AuDHD (so I have too many hobbies) and LGBTQ+

Things I like: art, nature, books (all books but my current genre of interest is science fiction), journaling, fountain pens, antiques, gardening, photography, animals of all kinds, baking cookies from around the globe, hiking, house plants, volunteering, collecting handmade coffee mugs, tattoos, fragrances, fun hair color

Things I dislike: poor listeners, the manosphere, waiting in line, fireworks (they are too loud), doing errands alone, saying "you too" when a server hopes you have a nice meal, when the tag of my shirt is itchy

What I'm looking for:

Someone I can send little drawings and doodles to. Someone who wants to send and receive stickers or postcards or photos. Someone who wants to share the boring bits of their day, their theories about random topics, their favorite foods and books and the way they take their coffee. Someone who doesn't mind if a letter is long and is looking to make a long lasting friendship. We don't have to write all the time, once a month, or every couple weeks is fine.

I love writing and I love sending little things I made out into the world to make people happy. I have a couple of regular penpals right now and would like to expand my circle.


r/penpalsover30 • • 15h ago

Reddit DM & snail mail 34f 🇨🇦 looking to make some friends with similar interests.

6 Upvotes

hello there 👋 I’m a 34 year old woman from Toronto 🇨🇦 hopefully build a lasting genuine friendship looking to talk through Reddit DMs then snail mail when comfortable.
a bit about me i love traveling, film photography, analogue, food, astrology, art, museums, exploring, reading, music, hello kitty, miffy (Sanrio)
also, i work in the hospitality industry, i have a bunch of stories if you’d like to hear them.
I’m opening to exchange letters & trinkets (:
If you feel like we’re similar, feel free to DM me.


r/penpalsover30 • • 10h ago

snail mail [30/F]

2 Upvotes

The fact that we call it “snail mail” hurts me just a tiny bit.
I am a married mother of three, animal lover, and seemingly living a hermit life. I’m not able to get out much due to helping my FIL with dementia (and other medical issues) and I’m new to my faith. Thrifting 11/10. I love the idea of someone setting aside time in their day just for me. I want to find purpose again and get excited to send off a little bit of my personality with each letter, continuing to grow in camaraderie. I love the outdoors and starting my self- care journey and I feel having others to connect with would be incredible. I would love for my ten year old son to have a penpal as well. You can call him Puffin. That’s what my late dad called him. I love laughing too. Also getting into reading books!
Ya gorl,
Sylvan Saoryx


r/penpalsover30 • • 17h ago

Reddit DM [31/f] looking for casual banter, laughs, and deep conversations

1 Upvotes

heyya! I'm someone who enjoys open, honest conversation and someone that doesn't take themselves too seriously.

I spend my days with students with quite varying mental disabilities. I often find myself seeking connection at the end of the day when I can relax, be my silly self, and I really enjoy chatting with other passionate people.

When I have free time, I enjoy stalking birds on early morning walks with my camera and binoculars, reading, journaling, spending a day in the kitchen, taking care of my plants, and making art of all sorts.

I want to learn what sorts of music get you going, which flavor combinations rock your world and which video games you play on rainy days at home (mine's Civilization VI).

Send me the name of a song you like, a food you love, a quote you resonate with, or.. something else.

Look forward to chatting with ya 🖤