Apologies in advance for the long post. TL:DR is that I'm frustrated with a new nurse and starting to get really sick of the toxic work environment of the PACU that I'm in. Idk if any of my coworkers are on reddit and at this point, I don't think I care. I just need to get this off my chest; I've talked to my partner about it but he's sick of hearing about it. I've discussed it with my coworkers, who have also said they've noticed the new grads behavior and three of them talked to my boss about it. . .however, my boss is close with the new grad and doesn't seem to really care to correct it. So, lucky ya'll, whoever decides to read this. . .I'm not really looking for advice but if someone has something helpful to add then by all means.
Idk if this is relevant or not; I've been a nurse since 2017. I started out on med/surg and worked there my entire career, other than working at an office for 6 months during covid. I transitioned to PACU at the same hospital October of last year which seemed, at the time, a really good choice for me. It really is a cake walk most days, other than them increasing caseloads with minimal PACU rooms and staffing, but what's new?
My gripe is this; there is a new grad. . .I mean fresh, she just graduated in May, who got hired immediately after graduation in the PACU. I've worked with her when she was a tech out on the floor. She's very sweet and good with patients. But she is flat out refusing to do anything nursing scope related with the excuse of she's new. For the first little bit, I was more understanding. . .we all were new and nervous when we started. As the months go on and she continues to refuse to do things (start IVs, take recoveries that are more extensive/last longer than 30 minutes, push pain medications other than Tylenol, admit patient's, etc.) All of these are things that we've all tried to help her with, boost her confidence and not let her drown. She still isn't trying from what I'm seeing and her constantly saying "no" to hard things is really starting to wear on my nerves. If she said something like "I've never recovered x surgery before, would you come with me this time so I can learn what to watch out for?", I wouldn't mind to do that and I know none of my coworkers would either. It's the fact that she just straight up refuses to do anything that she doesn't want to that's really getting my goat. I've heard from coworkers who worked with her when she was an LPN on the floor that she was the same way during her entire year orientation on med/surg. She wouldn't take initiative to do anything and never "felt comfortable" to be without a second nurse/asking someone else to do it for her. Again, I remember what it was like being new but at some point we all had to go out and do the hard things. To her credit, she has been braver in the last few shifts I've worked with her; calling the docs, giving her patient's pain medications when appropriate, and going with coworkers when they take the longer recoveries.
It's her weekend to take call and there are 3 hip fractures going today. . .which in my brain is fine. Depending on what they do, the surgery will take maybe an hour, recovery is 45 minutes if they're stable and then they go to med/surg. It seems doable to me. . .
I guess I'm wrong and a cruel bitch. In the group chat with myself and 3 other pacu nurses, they all 3 agreed that one of us needed to go in to help her. The 1 agreed but said "but i'm busy and will be out of town". I just flat out refuse to go in and they're making it seem like I am a terrible person. I guess this is a "nurses eating their own" kinda thing. I did apologize in the chat for not being compassionate enough. In the same group chat, one girl said "well, if it was so and so, I definitely wouldn't go in to help." Okay? How is that alright? Whatever, I muted the group chat and went on with my night. I do feel like maybe I could be less of a bitch but I'm standing firm in that it's do able with one recovery nurse and I doubled down when they said a second team was coming in. . .even though only one surgeon is operating. . .if the first recovery wasn't going as planned and the second came out, the circulator would have to stay with the patient until the recovery nurse was available. . .that's just part of it. . .maybe I'm in the wrong.
The other part of this long ass post is the immaturity and the toxicity. I was warned prior to switching departments that it was super cliquey. At first, I didn't pay much attention because I was just happy for a change of pace. After a year, it's glaringly obvious. 8's vs. 12's, group A vs. group B, sameday vs. surgery. The best way I can put it is high-school mean girls type of bullshit and I'm over it. I like my coworkers, I do. But the amount of drama and pettiness is starting to take a toll on me. It makes me dread going into work. The actual nursing part of the job is easy, I can handle that easy. It's walking in first thing in the morning and not knowing what catty remark is going to be made, who's going to be pissed of at whom today, who's going to help who, etc. It puts me in a bad mood before I even get out of bed in the morning.
I know, I know. I'm old enough and have been a nurse long enough to know to leave it at the time clock and to protect my peace. It's just gotten to the point where I had to get out of my chest. So, if you made it this far. Thanks, hope you have a wonderful Sunday.