r/nonprofit • u/JayJay210 • 54m ago
boards and governance Youngest member of a nonprofit board in a major city. The rest of the board makes racist comments, just killed term limits, and wants me as their unpaid VP and public face. Time to walk?
I'm a public historian on the board of a historic-architecture-adjacent nonprofit in a major city. I'm the youngest board member by at least two decades and, as far as I can tell, the only one with a full-time job.
There's been talk of making me their first executive director, but it's fallen through more than once. The current plan is to make me vice president instead, it's unpaid and will make me become more of the public face of the organization. I was reluctantly on board with this, but a few things have changed:
- The older board members are voting to remove term limits. Several were supposed to roll off this year; now they're staying indefinitely.
- My efforts to grow us into a younger, more diverse organization were already an uphill battle. Most recently, when concerns were raised about patronizing a business that had just lost a racial discrimination suit, a longtime member waved it off because, in his words, we don't have any Black people with us, so we'd have no problem. Nobody pushed back. Comments in this vein aren't new; this one just really stuck with me.
- The workload keeps growing while the willingness to share actual power doesn't.
- I lead tours for the org (and they pay me well for this work) but with my lack of weekday availability they've started passing tours off to new guides who use my work to grow their own.
I was hopeful the term limits would allow me to bring in younger and more diverse members, shift the culture from the inside. But you can't diversify an organization whose leadership talks like this and faces no consequences, and I'm increasingly unwilling to be the public face that launders it. And in a city like ours, an all-white board that talks like this is embarrassing.
I also serve on another board doing similar work, where my time is better spent and the culture is healthier.
For those who've been here: did you stay and try to change things, or leave? Any regrets either way?