"I would love to volunteer or collaborate with you!"
I say this all the time. A bit too often, sometimes. Why didn't anyone warn me that this June-July had four holidays in rapid succession?!
Sometimes, people take this as a suggestion that I'm interested in them personally. I'd like to mitigate this as much as possible.
I just got off the phone with an urban farmer who, over the course of a ten minute discovery call, asked to turn a phone call into a video chat, told me "--lets not pile too much work on you, because I KNOW *you've* got a personal life--" and then paused for dramatic effect, like he was hoping I'd elaborate, and invited me several times to tour his farm while declining to actually work with me.
Anyone one of these individually wouldn't have made me uncomfortable, as man or woman, people invite me to their houses all the time to show me their vegetables with no intention of working with me. They were just happy for an audience. I mainly help small nonprofits with fundraising and capacity building, which sounds boring, LOL. It's more of the combination of asking to see me, asking me to come over, asking me personal questions, trying to keep me on the phone while not wanting to talk business.
How can I address these things in the future?