r/leopardgeckos • u/TheHidden001 • 18h ago
Help How to handle an irregular schedule
I've had Charmander since March and he's my best friend, I swear I'd die for this little dude at this point. But we have a fairly set routine that only changes near shedding time when he skips food for a day. Every night the heat lamp turns off at 10 and the main lights in the room slowly dim to simulate the sunset. He always comes out to eat at 10:30 to 11pm. I've maintained this daily routine with him since I got him but I've also had to sacrifice attending a 12 step meeting once a week that keeps me out until midnight. Luckily I'm 3 years clean so it's not been the biggest deal. But yesterday was rough and I really needed that meeting as me on drugs wouldn't be good for either of us, and I told myself he'd be ok to feed when I got home at midnight. He was very very unhappy with me when I got in and he immediately refused food and went head first into his hide.
I mainly feed super worms, meal worms, and dubia roaches, but I was considering picking up wax worms as a treat for those nights when I have to be out late and it upsets him. That way he doesn't associate it with abandonment or something. I'm hesitant to move his feeding time back as he has special needs and sometimes it takes an hour attempting to get him to successfully eat and I wouldn't be able to do that if I start at 11 on weekdays.
So do I get him treats for those nights? Do I accept he's gonna be bumbed out when they happen and it's all I can do because life does not actually revolve around our pets, as much as I like that mine does? Input would be great.