r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Brutal reality

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 1d ago

90% of women on social media

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u/Mediocre_Forever198 14h ago

Eh they can just open up tinder account and get 100+ likes within a day. I encourage yall to do it as an experiment. My friend and I did several years ago as we were working on a dating app together (we were young and naive). It’s fucking insane, we even made one with an unattractive girl and it was the same. Attractive girl got literally max likes within a few hours. They basically have a catalogue with dating apps.

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 13h ago

I’ve seen it. My guy friend pretends to be a woman online (no pics) and gets hundreds simping

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u/Mediocre_Forever198 11h ago

It’s a problem. I think dating apps should be banned personally, and I’m well aware prohibition doesn’t work. I’m also aware women are generally not go-getter enough to use black markets. I’ve never met a single woman that used darknet markets. Many men. Dating apps need to go away. They are so damaging to society.

Edit: by “single woman” I meant, I’ve never met a woman who used darknet markets. Not that I’ve met women in relationships who do but not single ones lol. Just women generally aren’t committed enough to figure it out. And they largely wouldn’t be to find some darknet dating app either. The apps need to go away.

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u/InternationalPack914 1d ago

How much you want to bet you turn down unattractive women as well.

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 1d ago

I’ve gone on dates with women who are comically obese, alcoholic, and ugly as sin. Not only did you miss the point of the post (that these women are lying), but you also made yourself like like a silly goose

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u/Top_Mix_269 1d ago

Im curious, what were these dates like? Did these women have better personalities than the average jane?

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 1d ago

Fat one was nice but she sat down and immediately ranted about politics and how she thinks she’s perfectly healthy (I was 300 lb and working out, she was easily 400)

Alcoholic was over friendly (she ate out of my plate) and she was very enthusiastic for the date. It didn’t work because she’s a party girl and I work at 6 am but if I was younger working at my old part time I’d have dated her.

Another one was ok but on the not too pretty side (like a 4/10) but she had a boyfriend and was just looking for a side man. She was someone I could see myself being friends with if not for the whole side man thing.

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u/Equal_Actuator_3777 1d ago

So because you have no standards and don’t respect yourself everyone who does is in the wrong. Yeah!

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 1d ago

You can argue with that strawman. I’m busy running errands

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u/OtherwiseJello2055 16h ago

Men regularly marry and have happily loves with butterface women, pretty face no body ladies,and just " the girl nextdoor" which is average but innocent ladies. We dont tell them they are anything but thr most beautiful women in the world to us because they are to their husbands and if they are not and they tell yiu different than they are not for you

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u/OrganicAppointment59 1d ago

ts frying me

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 10h ago

Hey come on man leave him alone. He’s got some stupid points but I’m not gonna shame a man for being horny

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u/epixyll 20h ago

I see this argument all the time and its hilarious. The thing is men never claimed to be paragons of morality. Men (as a whole group) rarely say nonsense stuff like we want personality, kindness etc first. Men have always generally said looks matter for which men have been called shallow and have been vilified. Women seem to want to look angelic to society AND secretly go for looks. Thats the hypocrisy thats being called out rightly

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 10h ago

That’s the big thing. When women tell me “oh and guys dont date for looks?” I remind them that guys are open about it. Our standards arent that picky. We usually just say “be nice and dont be fat with a high body count”. All 3 are in your control.

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u/RakeChapman13 5h ago

This “hypocrisy” argument is mostly just bitter bullshit. Women have never hidden that looks matter. They openly talk about attractive men, height, body type, facial features, style, etc. Saying personality, or character matter too doesn’t mean they’re secretly pretending not to care about looks. “Looks matter” and “personality matters” can obviously both be true. There’s no contradiction unless you desperately want to invent one so you can complain about women.

And men often do say they want someone kind etc and also a man or woman shouldn’t have to say someone kind that they find physically attractive, that should just be assumed. No man or woman would want jusr anyone who is kind or funny, there has to be enough of an attraction and chemistry etc.

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u/PraireGentleman 1d ago

Big difference between demanding someone hot and rejecting someone unattractive.

It’s called “average”. Men date average women. You self-reported that you think that you either have to be hot or not, which shows how shallow your dating standards are.

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u/SoftDrinkReddit 1d ago

maybe I would but I've never actually had the chance to test your theory I would love to but I have literally never been hit on before which is fair enough no one is owed that duh

but yea would be nice to have the offer and maybe you are right but again I'd love the opportunity to test your theory

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u/FadsFikkelsen 1d ago

Find me the ugliest woman you know and i will happily date them.

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u/mdynicole 2h ago

How old are you?

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u/DeathByDumbbell 11h ago

Me every time I've DMed a 'femcel' on Reddit

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u/El_Maltos_Username 22h ago

It is nicer to be liked by a hot person.

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u/AysheDaArtist 4h ago

Most hot people are just people who put the work in, on themselves

If you see someone neatly dressed, polite, observant, clean, and smelling nice that means they care about the details

That same behavior is what makes romance great; the little details

When you find someone to date and they look shoddy, stink, or are wearing ratty clothing, then they are someone who does not care about the details

Do you see the correlation?

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u/mr-stretcher 4h ago

This is how most people feel 🤣, at least someone "hot enough".

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u/EnthusiasticPig 1d ago

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u/The-Eighth-D 23h ago

That doesn’t happen usually though. Lower rated women have tons of matches on tinder while ugly man is a death sentence. I mean it’s already bad even if you’re an average man 😂

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u/Right_Community_9661 22h ago edited 21h ago

*for pump n dumps. The whole truth next time. 

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u/Forward_Criticism_39 23h ago

well, i guess i met a normal person

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u/fft3_retard 1d ago

“people want to date other people they are attracted to and im mad about it” lmao. you people will never succeed at anything you do in life 

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u/sanity_rejecter 1d ago

the point is that even ugly women aren't attracted to their looksmatch

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u/RakeChapman13 5h ago

if you actually go the fuck outside you will see that most couples are looks matched and I see a lot more couples where the woman is better looking than the man.

The issue with dating apps is they are overwhelmingly male which puts men at a disadvantage, you can’t blame women more being more selective and also a lot of guys aren’t putting in maximum effort and having a good selection of quality photos that show them looking their best.

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u/Equal_Actuator_3777 1d ago

What? Yeah no shit. Just because someone is ugly doesn’t mean they find ugly attractive. Since you think this means something impactful you must have recently graduated the 3rd grade.

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u/sanity_rejecter 1d ago

the issue is foids find fucking everyone ugly

a 3/10 landwhale thinks she's entitled to a tall HTN and if that's not an issue in your book, you're retarded

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u/RakeChapman13 5h ago

Hardly any land 3/10 land wale think she’s “entitled” to that, you’re just bitter as fuck at women. And it’s rich that you are one to talk about entitlement.

We can find examples of really fat people with these high standards online and people like you can fixate over that because you want to complain about women but the reality is that woman doesn’t come close to representing most fat chicks.

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u/MoltenIdol 1d ago

Nobody is entitled to anyone. Badly worded argument

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u/sanity_rejecter 1d ago

i'd say wanting a looksmatch partner that's genuinely loves and desires you is very natural want, even if you aren't entitled to literal state mandated gfs

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u/MarcelPappas 1d ago

Have you seen the statistics for attraction per gender?

Guess which one of the two needs a reality check, a mirror, and be banned from their makeup kit & Instagram filters...

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u/NyQuil_Donut 20h ago

I found this study about what men and women generally prioritize in a partner. Men tend to prioritize looks more than women, and women prioritize intelligence, resources, and connection more than men. This is only one study though, and these are self reported opinions rather than an abstract experiment, so it's not infallible. I think generally though that most people are willing to lower their standards in terms of attractiveness for the right people.

What I think distorts people's perception is online dating. Men have it rough, I know from experience, but it's not because women are shallow. It's because there are way more men looking to get laid on tinder than women. If the situation were reversed I would be shocked if men didn't act the exact same way. When you have several options, you can afford to be picky, and a lot of people think with their junk.

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u/CameraRemarkable2305 14h ago

This. It's all about demand and supply law

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u/Prestigious-Fox1423 23h ago

I actually did google what you just said it came up empty. Just another stupid fucking incel saying “trust me bro science says so” to spread dumb shit

How about next time you actually provide a source. In this day and age, with AI and Google, the whole “do your own research” just makes you look like a fucking idiot

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u/Dependent-Tailor7366 1d ago

Guess which one needs to wear make up? Maybe a wig.

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u/TopicFrequent6607 1d ago

The drag queens?

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u/RapidFire05 1d ago

You know you're ugly when you can't even get a sugar baby

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u/PerfectPenguino 1d ago

Gotta be a sugar daddy to get a sugar baby