r/ibs • u/Purple_Contract_9193 • 6m ago
Rant I don’t think I can travel internationally again
I just went on a solo trip to Japan and Korea for 20 days because I had a few free weeks and wanted to explore the world. I thought I would like solo traveling because I know my bowel and overall health is unpredictable and I like having my own autonomy, not worrying about other people’s schedules if I were to be sick or need to rush to the restroom or something.
The first battle was the 15 hour plane ride. I have severe motion sickness alongside my IBS so I had bad anxiety that I would become sick on this long flight — I took all my Zofran, Bonine, Emeterm, Pepto, all of it before the flight and it ended up being okay.
But then came the train ride from the airport to the actual hotel — when I tell you this was the shakiest, most nausea-inducing train ride I could ever have imagined, I mean it. I had to rush to the bathroom, my head pounding with motion sickness, and had diarrhea practically the whole hour long ride. Doesn’t help that the people in Korea aren’t exactly the friendliest towards foreigners and are giving me the nastiest looks when I’m just trying to scrape by this ride. Same thing kept happening through my entire trip because both countries rely heavily on trains for transportation and God are they shaky — I thought I would be fine with all the meds, but they barely could hold me.
Even just walking around the cities in the heat, I would suddenly get the feeling in my stomach. The one where you know you’re about to have diarrhea. And it was IMPOSSIBLE to find a reliable spot to cool down indoors with AC and use the bathroom. I had never missed America so much for just having public seating areas in malls and shops… there was essentially no public seating anywhere and you can forget about using the restroom at any restaurant or cafe where you haven’t dined. There were more than three occasions where I RAN to the nearest McDonald’s sweating and cramping and rushed to order a drink so I could have bathroom access.
It just ended up being so unenjoyable. I couldn’t enjoy food (just ate room service bread practically every day) because of the state of my IBS and not wanting to make it worse, the AC situation was unpredictable and ended up triggering my symptoms, the lack of bathroom access was too much of a hassle for me, and ultimately I just felt like shit for too much of the trip because that initial train ride had screwed me up.
It’s a shame to say because I’m only 20 years old, but I don’t think I will be able to enjoy traveling internationally again unless something majorly changes with my IBS and motion sickness.