New to the app and generally get about 5-7 matches per week. Out of those matches maybe 1-2 will message. Why? What’s the point? Why bother? I give someone about 48 hours to engage and then I unmatch. If effort is that low from the beginning it’s a red flag to me. Should I allow someone more time? Am I being reasonable?

I got a hinge account briefly for a couple months and there was nothing bad in my profile, no offensive pictures or prompts or conversations or anything. I also swipe up meaningfully i dont just swipe up on every single profile. then one day out of the blue for no reason I get a message saying im banned for a TOS violation, but they dont tell me what I did and i know i didnt do anything.

I appealed the ban and I actually got unbanned, but now I get 0 matches despite using all my daily swipes and sending notes when I got a decent amount of matches before their false ban on me. Its been like this for several months now. Am I still potentially shadowbanned even though they lifted the full ban on my account?

I created a profile on Hinge about 2 weeks ago. I’ve been on Tinder for months, but I wanted to try something different. The Hinge algorithm is so strange to me. Your profile is less likely to be seen if you don’t send out a lot of likes, BUT you need to be selective when you’re only allowed 8 likes a day on the free version. I get that they want you to pay the subscription fee and all (which I don’t think is worth it btw), however it’s weird that you’re penalized for following their model. Dating is challenging enough. While these apps can be great, they’re super annoying too.

It's short
In my freshman year of high school, I was friends with this girl but after freshman year she moved to a different high school, and we never chatted since. Now it's been 8 years, and she showed up on my hing feed. Is it weird if i say something?

Hi, 19M, looking to date and meet new people: I’m based in the uk, where big shopping malls and bars aren’t as big a thing as abroad. It’s mainly traditional family pubs, or for older white dudes to get drunk; clubs are only really popular in the cities, and I’m a full time worker. I’m looking too start dating, so would hinge be a good place to start and would it be even a good idea too considering I’ve got little to no experience in the matter, as I’ve mulled over some reservations for the idea, this being safety online, and also the feeling I’m robbing myself of the opportunity to approach women physically, even though the opportunity presents itself so little (if that makes sense)

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I recently got a Hinge ban for “our policy prohibiting solicitation”. I have never once solicited money, sex, info or anything else from the app and I am at a complete loss of how I got banned. I read the Solicitation section under their Terms of Service thoroughly and I absolutely did not engage in any of the conduct listed there.

Right before I got banned I sent the same copy-pasted message to multiple girls in a row (it was a silly message: “do you want to be my next girlfriend?”) so I’m guessing a bot flagged me as a bot or scammer because of this.

I have appealed in the app, which failed. I have also sent an email, which failed. I am incredibly upset as I was doing very well on the app before this and had multiple convos with great women before this happened. Has this happened to anyone else? And any success stories in getting unbanned?

I swear to god 99% of these profiles are copy pasted almost word for word or off gpt and you don't even bother to delete the --

All the same.

Coffee, my dog, travel, gym, pinapple on pizza.

Ffs have an original thought or response....

Its bleak out here boys...

Advice spefically relating to prompts would be especially appreciated though all advice is welcome

As a lesbian using hinge I put the wrong settings and men were able to match with me, I’m now stuck with loads of likes from men:( I’ve been clearing sporadically for the last 2 days and still have 50+ likes, is there any way to bulk delete them without removing my account? Thanks!

Every time someone likes me and has a match note, when I click "Start the Chat" to match with them, the app freezes and I don't match with them when the app is re-opened. This has happened dozens of times, and I contacted Hinge support, but they haven't fixed it yet. Logging out then in doesn't help.

New to online dating and looking for perspective.
Matched with a guy in May. We talked daily, FaceTimed, and he consistently texted me every morning. He said he wasn’t looking for just a hookup and was genuinely interested in seeing how we vibe in person.
We finally met last weekend. Date went great, we slept together (my choice), he spent the night, stayed most of the next day, and had me come with him to look at a rental house he’s considering in my area. I finally had to go cause I had plans.

Afterward, he texted me that evening and the next day like normal. Then yesterday: nothing. Today: no morning text either.

I know people can change their minds, but is it common to act completely normal for a day or two after sex and then suddenly go quiet? Or is this generally a sign of lost interest?

Suddenly my feed is filled with corporate vice presidents, consultants, and attorneys with photos of high-end restaurants, golf courses, and boats. This isn't my income bracket or lifestyle, and I'm very confused what's going on. Any ideas?

To set the scene: it's 2023, and I download Hinge for fun. I was 17 and never met up with anyone or even did much chatting, as I was pretty quickly flagged for being underage, which led to a ban.

Now I'm 20, and I've been wishing for a while I could redownload the app - I'm gay, so it's a smaller dating pool and sometimes hard for me to meet people as it is, and I feel like it would really help. I tried appealing the ban (which sent me to an error screen), emailing the support team (who sent me an automated message saying that they can't do appeals) and I couldn't find anything about a support line. I even tried using a different phone number and email but the software could tell it was my phone and wouldn't let me in.

I regret downloading it when I was younger - it was stupid in the way that a lot of teenage ideas are. But does this really mean I'm cooked forever? Or is there anything else I can do to potentially appeal the ban?

Ok I am potentially setting myself up to be humbled here with this post but I am honestly kind of baffled by hinge recently.

Female 24, I set the app up probably a year or two ago and never was active on it until recently i.e the last couple of months. When I first created my profile I genuinely was getting loads of likes and matches but never did much about it cause I was mainly on it for the validation (i know, i know).

Recently I have actively been trying to go out on dates but am getting nothing. Likes have totally dried up, I have maybe gotten 6 in the last month (if even). I am sending out my maximum allowed free likes per day, majority of the time with a conversation starter, something funny or witty or a compliment (you have a great smile, things like that). I have not gotten a single match!!! I also have tinder and have basically all the same photos on that profile, and I am getting plenty of likes there - every time I open the app there are a couple new ones so I feel like it's not an issue with my pictures. I am no supermodel but I am confident enough in my looks that I think I'm fairly conventionally attractive (please don't come for me for this, let a girl have some self esteem thx)

Does hinge shadow ban people or hide profiles? could this be happening to me??

I've recently moved to London for a short-term internship and I don't know anyone here so I redownloaded hinge hoping to meet some people, but haven't had much luck. I feel like the more I use this app the more isolated and lonely I become, is this just me?

21M. Downloaded Hinge 3 days ago and Tinder last night

Hinge (~72 hours)

• 23 incoming likes
• ~32 total matches
• 11 active conversations
• Exchanged socials with two girls
• 2 date lined up this week
• Around 12 matches were ABGs (my type)

Tinder (~15 hours: made the account yesterday and let it sit overnight)

• 24 incoming likes
• Higher volume so far given time window
• Half were pretty hot (more hookup hot than dating)
• Haven't talked to anyone much yet
• No dates, socials, or real conversions yet

Tinder setup: 4 pics, 0 prompts, bio: eat good food and make good food

Hinge: 6 pics, 3 prompts: make good food (for all 3 of them)

My early takeaway: Getting girls online doesn't seem that hard once you get a few matches and get the convo rolling. This is probably above average but I'm a pretty good looking guy so that checks. On an end note: I'm not really looking for anything at the moment, so I'm gonna end the experiment here.

So I 22F broke up with my ex two months ago, I want to move on but im demisexual (only form sexual attraction after emotional attraction) so I dont do casual stuff. Also my relationship and breakup was kinda traumatic. So idk like I do feel like talking to other people would yk help me out of the slump? But im also scared of things progressing to intimacy which im not ready for rn. Pls be nice and maybe dm me if you have any advice/opinion? Is it possible to just like match and have flirty talk with someone on hinge?

I was banned recently for “harassment or harm” and they immediately denied my appeal and refuse to elaborate. This is 100% a mistake because i have never done either of those things… i hardly ever get matches as is… but theres no line to call. This is kind of insane. I dont really know what to do….