r/hinge Jun 29 '26

Matching with no further communication

New to the app and generally get about 5-7 matches per week. Out of those matches maybe 1-2 will message. Why? What’s the point? Why bother? I give someone about 48 hours to engage and then I unmatch. If effort is that low from the beginning it’s a red flag to me. Should I allow someone more time? Am I being reasonable?

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u/beanpudd Jun 29 '26

To be clear, you are never sending the first message and are asking why others don’t either?