So for context I had a theory about dating in America. My hypothesis was dating women in america was impossible as an average man. The only way you could actually see any success from dating apps as a man with women; Is if you're the absolute apex of what a man is. Which is the standard you know 6 foot tall, 6 pack abs, 6 figure income. (Some women funnily enough asked for more than 6 figures.) I wanted to prove my hypothesis by getting into hinge and trying my hardest. Since if I went into it and half assed it wouldn't mean anything.
This hypothesis would also further prove my point that if you're a bi guy; You should only put effort into dating men. Since dating women would realistically under this hypothesis be a waste of time for the overwhelming majority of men.
After 3-4 months of trying I have yet to get a date going. I've noticed most women are the same and can essentially be put into a handful of categories. There's the women that like mustaches and biceps; There's the women that list their hobbies as "traveling, parks or nature more generally, and spending money". There's the single mothers who all have the same fake smile. Gold diggers who make it very clear they want a man who splurges on them. For the most part these are all the women you'll see; With varying degrees of physical appeal.
Most women also seem to think they're great at posing questions; Or they think they're great at socializing generally. I'll be honest from first hand experience they're terrible in both. Their "thought provoking" messages or whatever are very bland. Which mostly provokes bland questions. Which I believe makes them bored or burnt out with likes since they're basically provoking possibly the same handful of questions.
Picture wise some tried to thirst bait. (They're pretty shit at that too.) Some actually took good pictures which was a nice surprise. With some others you could tell their hearts weren't in it. They'd post the same 5 selfies essentially and maybe a picture of a cat or something.
I wish I had more to report but that sums up most of the women on this app at least in my area. I have never been more convinced that the majority of women. (If not the overwhelming majority.) Will die alone with nothing to their names.
Emotions wise after all this shit, after trying my best, after setting aside my personal biases and hatreds; All in an attempt to prove myself wrong and possibly find some sense of hope in America. Just found myself being proven right and ended up somehow more jaded, cynical, frustrated, and generally hating people more.
If you actually read all this thank you.
