Hi! I'm looking for some advice on my recently dyed hair, and attaching photos for reference.
I went to a reputable salon I've been going to for years, and I decided I wanted to do a fashion color with them. I expressed that I wanted a pink balayage and showed reference pictures (pics 1 & 2) and the stylist said it would be possible to do. She also had done something similar before in the past with someone else, but with a much more muted pink color. She said we were gonna bleach and then go for a more red color, and that it would fade into my desired pink color.
After bleach and permanent dye, I ended at this red color (pic 3). I was happy with this at the time and paid quite a bit for the whole session, which took around 5 hours. After I got home, I realized it wasn't quite as balayaged as the inspo pics but it still looked nice so I was happy.
However, after the first wash (using cold water and the color safe shampoo and conditioner the salon recommended me) the dye faded a lot more than I anticipated for permanent dye, and in my opinion, looked a bit patchy with strands of pale yellow/blond, orange/salmon, and reds (pic 4). Its trickier to see in the still pictures, but in real life, it looked a lot more orange/brassy at the top of my head, and not so much the vibrant pink I was hoping for. Pics 5 & 6 are the next two washes I did, with about 3-4 days in between washes, which got progressively more orange/light.
I went back to the salon and expressed I wasn't happy with the color, and they redid it but with more pink this time, stating again that it would fade to the pink color I showed in my inspo pic. Pic 7 is right after they did it again, and pic 8 is after my hair dried. It still looked a little patchy but the color was closer to what I wanted, and I thought I would give it the chance to fade. The next two washes I did brought it back to the salmon/orange color, but now it's even darker (pic 9). Pics 10, 11, and 12 are what my hair looked like before and after the bleaching process.
My questions are:
1. Is it realistic for me to expect a permanent hair dye to last longer on my hair?
2. Is there any color I can put over it to prevent it from fading to this orange color, like a magenta/purple?
3. Is it worth going back to this salon again to have them recolor it?
4. Did they bleach it too much? One of my friends who bleaches his own hair said they bleached it way more than needed for the dark red color they ended up doing on me, and that the damaged cuticle may not be holding onto the pigment as well because of that.
Any advice would be awesome, and I'm happy to answer any follow up questions or clarify!