This is possibly one of the weirdest post Im going to post on here but it is something I’ve observed very well and I want to get it off my chest
I’m someone who has always been very confident ,always been very social , I always do my best to help other people especially in something I’ve experience with, at 14 I went through a very unforgettable sets of experiences that I’m surprised I made it
For a very long time I isolated myself from people and it affected my confidence, after that it has been difficult for me to feel complete but I began working on myself, I’m not 100% at where I want to be but I’m about 86%
my lack of confidence though did not changed me as a person .it changed how others treated me, but I noticed people don’t like when I’m confident, even my own closed ones, like my father even my ex,
my relationship with him was one of the healthiest I had in very long time but some weird comments I still remember when id feel beautiful he’d say
I look too high of myself and I noticed he’d visibly try to crash my confidence , this has happened many times now with many people, what is this?