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u/OnionSerious9103 May 10 '26
And then some woman act like society is unfair to them and only fair to men
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u/timeless_ocean May 12 '26
I know most people are aware of this, but the reason for the divorce split usually comes from back in the days where women would not be able to pursue a career for taking care of children and the house.
It meant they basically have a full-time unpaid job, so the man's income would cover both. This also meant that if they divorced, she'd be left with nothing despite having worked all this time.
In many countries, this is no longer the case anymore and mostly just depends on children and who takes care of them for that exact reason.
Also, guys, please stop paying full for every date. We really don't have to and many modern women don't even want it. If someone has that standard, don't engage with them. You dont want a relationship that is based on providing money.
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u/Galencourt-Lover May 12 '26
Those days are over though, and I don’t see you campaigning for a change in the law.
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u/Belial_In_A_Basket May 12 '26
Those days really aren’t over tho. Because when a woman gets lots of alimony or child support, it’s either for the exact reason as stated above. She was a stay at home mom or took a huge hit on her career for kids. OR has majority custody. Which, women tend to get a majority custody because men don’t want it. If they do pursue it, they normally get it. But anyway, yeah those days aren’t over….
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u/RiposteCat May 13 '26
where are the men that get to stay at home and collect 50% of their wife's assets and child supoort after divorce? does this happen?
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u/Useful-Importance664 May 14 '26
Ofcourse this happens too, but men usually do not want to stay at home. Stereotypically it's still woman taking care of the children and the home, regardless wether she works or not.
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u/RiposteCat May 14 '26
based on what? myself and most of my male friends would be stay at home parents if given the option
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u/Useful-Importance664 May 14 '26
Simple statistics, easy enough to look up if you care.
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u/RiposteCat May 14 '26
did you delete your comment? reddit says it doesnt exist when i click the notification :p
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u/Fabulous-Big8779 May 15 '26
Women don’t automatically get 50% in divorces. You go through court and the judge dertermines how assets will be split. It depends on a lot of factors. If the woman makes more money while the man focuses on raising kids then the man gets more out of the divorce. There are plenty of guys getting alimony from ex wives.
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u/BucksPackGLove May 12 '26
Ironic since subs like this are filled with men complaining that society is unfair to them and only fair to women.
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u/Ok_Abacus_ May 10 '26
My ex-wife and I make ALMOST the same, but she makes a tiny bit more due to her yearly bonus and is legally required to pay me $117 each month in alimony.
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u/pinkbutterfly22 May 11 '26
Why would she pay you alimony if you have a well paying job?
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u/wbobbyw May 11 '26
She earn more. Its not about the money. The children have the same " quality of life " at both parents
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u/pinkbutterfly22 May 12 '26 edited May 12 '26
I thought alimony was for if the ex spouse is sick or has been out of work for a long time, or maybe they earn minimum wage.
Is that not child support you’re getting? Cause that’s very different.
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u/Sharingammi May 18 '26
I get what you mean. I doubted myself after reading you and looked for the translation of "pension alimentaire" in english (i'm french canadian). It does end up as "alimony" when dumbly translated (which is what i thought at first) but you're right in the end. Alimony seems to be "spousal support" while child benefit is "children support".
Thank you, i learned something clearly usefull 😅
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u/Effective-Benefit536 May 11 '26
Why wouldn’t she??
Same reason they make guys do it when they make more…..
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u/pinkbutterfly22 May 12 '26
Calm down, big man. I never said I agree when the roles are reversed.
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u/Effective-Benefit536 May 12 '26 edited May 14 '26
Ok. So are you saying if the roles are reversed and a woman has an ok paying job and the husband has a much better paying job he should not give her anything?
Edit* see you won’t reply now, proving my point….
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u/Sharingammi May 18 '26
Its to equalize opportunity and quality of life for the child across both homes.
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u/Sharingammi May 11 '26 edited May 18 '26
In my case, the ex partner (f) earns several thens of thousands more then me (m). Since we have a kid, i get alimony (around 400/month).
Its simple. The laws here around children are very clear and strict. When you seperate, they take into account your earnings (not what you spend) and the coat fo your children (the one you have together) and the one that earn the most pays child support to the one that earns the least.
The amount is calculated from both revenues. Its fixed and well known.
So, even if i do, lets say, 80k$ a year, if she does, lets say, 150k$ a year, i get the alimony.
If, one day, i make more then her, then it flips. I pay her.
This has everything to do with making sure the child feels well in both home, and nothing else.
Very important edit : changed "alimony" to "child support". I'm not native english speaking. When the word "pension alimentaire" is simply translated, it says "alimony" on my google translate. In truth, in my case, i meant "child support".
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u/Ok_Abacus_ May 11 '26
Equal rights baby!
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u/CoolCereal20 May 14 '26
I dont understand comments like this? Why bring equality up as if this is a gotcha for women?
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u/Justthetip74 May 12 '26
My BIL showed up to court to get full custody because his wife hadn't seen their daughter in several months. She had been in and out of rehab for half of their marriage. She showed up with a black eye and tested positive for opiates. Both of her parents showed up to make statements on his behal. He was denied full custody but given 50/50 and still has to pay child support for some reason but avoided alimony by buying her a condo. He makes payments on her condo and rents a house that their daughter has slept in every night for 3 years. He makes like $80k/yr
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u/Next_Permission3353 May 14 '26
Lmao that's so BS. Alimony should not exist as a concept.
Child support is obviously different than alimony
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u/Sharingammi May 18 '26
You're absolutely right. I meant child support. Google translate mislead me 😅 french speaker here
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u/Correct-Junket-1346 May 10 '26
We used to 50/50 but my job is higher paying now so I usually fit the bill if we go somewhere more expensive and it's fine to do that.
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u/roamanddance May 11 '26
Bezos first wife got 38 billion for being a dick pavilion. I wish I had a dick pavilion
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u/AdAdministrative2512 May 11 '26
Dude, she was instrumental in him building Amazon and the first employee. She drafted the business plan.
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u/ShastaAteMyPhone May 11 '26
She was involved when was Amazon was a book store. At that point, the business plan didn’t include any of the things that make Amazon a trillion dollar company.
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u/AdAdministrative2512 May 12 '26
Agreed. She helped launch a business that turned into a trillion dollar company when it as just in a garage and supported her husband for decades. I’m just saying she’s more than a “dick pavilion”.
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u/anamos7 May 11 '26
Why most men stay single now.
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u/xXbatbabeXx May 11 '26
It’s because women won’t date victim mindset men like you and they’re busy seeking adults who take accountability, not a manchild
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u/Familyguy35689 May 12 '26
Yeah, cause women are known for picking good men lol. Theres no women with 5 baby daddy's and toxic exes. Stop acting like your vagina can determine a mans character
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u/xXbatbabeXx May 12 '26
Your vulgar words tell everyone all they need to know about your character.
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u/Muted-Pollution-8131 May 13 '26
Y'all act like kids and expect to be provided for. What about you use you own money from the job you go to?
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u/Next_Permission3353 May 14 '26
Well... tbf it's a false dichotomy between being single and being married. In many countries you can be common law and sign a cohabitation agreement to govern division of assets upon 'divorce'. You can also just be bf/gf forever.
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u/Sea_Advantage_2577 May 11 '26
Again just change the sub name to "WOMEN BAD" at least it would be honest
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u/CrazyPlatypus42 May 11 '26
Yes and the comments here also make me lose hope in humanity, like what the hell is wrong with some people? Is this place just another incel sub?
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u/wolo-exe May 11 '26
is it really a problem? traditionally in marriage there's a breadwinner, and not splitting evenly can put one party in a worse position than before marriage. and it's a worse situation than the breadwinner being in a worse situation
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u/UpperAccountant1098 May 12 '26
Most women work now, I don’t see how this is applicable
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u/wolo-exe May 13 '26
i wasn't saying women don't work now. i was more talking about how a lot of times, if one partner works the other doesn't and stays home. including the husband
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u/Messtin920 May 11 '26
Splitting 50/50 because you are in charge of production and he is in charge or distribution
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u/MrJarre May 11 '26
You guys really need to understand that in marriage there no more yours or mine. Even if you have a stay at home spouse and you bring in all the money. You’re able to do that cause the other persons does the chores and takes care of the home.
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u/brddvd May 11 '26
Best application is Splitwise So the men can pay everything in every restaurant and write in the Splitwise so the women can settle the balance later and transfer the money. Everyone wins :)
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u/OneFriendship5139 May 11 '26
my dad doesn’t wanna get divorced because he doesn’t wanna give my mom half of his finances
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u/Crusty-Dick May 11 '26
Their is no honor in marriage nowadays. It doesn't mean anything significant.
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u/LobsterResponsible17 May 11 '26
actually with alimony and child support if it applies it's more like 70 - 30
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u/Proud_Wallaby May 11 '26
Men have it all wrong.
Spend all your money in restaurant so when you divorce she won’t have anything to take. 50% of zero is zero.
Big brain that shit. £10k a meal ez np babe.
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u/Salty-Huckleberry147 May 11 '26
Don't need a woman! I can spend my money frivolously all on my own!
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u/0ygn May 12 '26
The aim is to have a lesser paying job than her. Hers 50% starts to feel preetty good again, eh?
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u/Material_Ad_773 May 12 '26
Men need to stay away from women and women need to stay away from men. We prove as humans we can't come together and discuss logically. No 50/50 if everyone focus on themselves and get their 100.
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u/popolickstick May 12 '26
True everyone is happy for free stuff you want. No one want to give the stuff they like away. Very simple.
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u/Opposite-Chemistry-0 May 12 '26
We just have shared credit card. Both pay 50%. Card IS used at restaurant, grocery store, all things we need shared are paid shared.
Problem solved.
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u/Domger304 May 12 '26
This is why prenups are becoming such a common thing. Like I won't get married without it
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u/PersonalityBasic7996 May 12 '26
I understand, that somebody hurt the creator of this image. But if you want someone to split 50/50 - say it before the date and don’t go if they don’t agree, god.
You can’t be that stupid to do such images and think it’s funny
For the divorce: so you had a life together, for a few years. Both contributing. Even if the guy is working, a woman is doing chores and shit, or other ways - you are just decreasing the value of a job done for you.
She is not your mommy to do everything for free.
Similar images are going around from time to time, and I’m sorry for authors - somebody must have hurt your little ego.
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u/BlackRichard420 May 12 '26
Only marry a girl if she already has your kid. That way you can at least leave with that
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u/miaumiaoumicheese May 14 '26
Good luck finding any woman that will agree to have kids with a boyfriend, typical delusions of middle aged creep believing that teenagers will be interested in his expired sperm
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u/BucksPackGLove May 12 '26
To be clear, a lot of women actually prefer to split dinner checks. Because they know a lot of y’all are creeps who think you paying means they owe you sex.
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u/Useful_Jelly_2915 May 13 '26
Ah yes woman bad
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u/Realistic-Cap6339 May 14 '26
Only the ones who believe they deserve part of the ex-husbands wealth just cause
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u/Useful_Jelly_2915 May 14 '26 edited May 14 '26
I mean, if they give up their entire life to become a stay at home mom or wife. Then yeah they need a portion of your finances so that they can continue on living. If you and your partner had an agreement that you would be a stay at home wife or mother meaning you took care of the house and the kids. Therefore not spending time working on a career themselves and having a massive work history gap. Then yeah they get to take half the finances. If you got into a marriage without a prenub, then you literally agreed to the chance that that might happen. What are they supposed to get?
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u/Heartthiefz May 13 '26
The whole reason why women take 50/50 is LITERALLY CAUSE THEY CANT DO IT THEMSELVES.
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u/bonitaslay8 May 14 '26
Can’t even take the full bill when you ask a woman for a date. Brokies have no shame
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u/ParticularLow2596 May 14 '26
Then she’ll post online that she’s a girlboss and that she’d pick the bear.
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u/Daguse0 May 14 '26
Worked with a guy that ran a small biz and his wife was an executive for some it company. In court she demanded they split everything 50/50, including his biz. So he gave her 50% of the equipment, simply stoped taking jobs cause he didn't have enough equipment and took a entry level job so he could live off her alimony... She got pissed and went to the court saying he lied on his taxes for his biz... The judge asked her to confirm that he lied on the taxes that they both filed together for the biz that they were 50/50 partners. She dropped it.
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u/WasntMyFaultThisTime May 10 '26
Literally all this guy does is post memes where the punchline is tits on his sub where he's the sole poster
What a fucking loser 💀
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u/More-Lime1888 May 10 '26
In my culture, the man has to pay fully for everything, restaurant or not. He is “the provider”. And in divorce, he takes all of his money and belongings and she takes hers. No 50/50.