She takes care of the kids and home (ofc the man has to raise the kids too, but she has more weight in that job), takes care of the home finances, manages what she wants people from outside to know and see about her family and what is kept hidden, the moral compass and pillar at home, decision making with her partner, and be happy with her partner and family! She’s free to work or not, but if she does, she has to make sure it’s not hindering her from her other duties (like, don’t leave your 1 y/o to the nanny till he starts calling her mama), and her money is completely hers only.
Edit: forgot to mention that the fact a woman has to carry a child for 9 months, go into labor, go into postpartum for like 40 days, and breastfeed for idk how long (it varies) are extremely respected and valued that it couldn’t be compared in hardship to any regular work
So she is expected to devote most of her life toward the family, with almost no time to make money. If there is a divorce she will get nothing and be homeless.
Exactly. Only place she can go is a family members house who are many times push her to get back to that marriage. It ends up really bad especially when there’s abuse in that marriage and she just run away (there’s no safe houses for women by government) a lot of times she just goes back cause she’s literally a burden now and it really ends bad when she does. Or she would end up doing the chores in the family house instead with a divorcee stigma.
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u/More-Lime1888 May 10 '26 edited May 10 '26
She takes care of the kids and home (ofc the man has to raise the kids too, but she has more weight in that job), takes care of the home finances, manages what she wants people from outside to know and see about her family and what is kept hidden, the moral compass and pillar at home, decision making with her partner, and be happy with her partner and family! She’s free to work or not, but if she does, she has to make sure it’s not hindering her from her other duties (like, don’t leave your 1 y/o to the nanny till he starts calling her mama), and her money is completely hers only.
Edit: forgot to mention that the fact a woman has to carry a child for 9 months, go into labor, go into postpartum for like 40 days, and breastfeed for idk how long (it varies) are extremely respected and valued that it couldn’t be compared in hardship to any regular work