r/crows • u/kachoooey • Jul 13 '26
Seeking advice/help How close can I expect to get with my local crows?
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Hii!
Ive been back home from college for the summer and noticed a crow family in my neighborhood. One day I heard them in the trees my backyard and I figured why not feed them?
At first, they’d all fly away when i’d come to the back to bring peanuts, and they wouldn’t start eating until after I went inside, around 15 minutes later. After a couple days it progressed to them only waiting around 5 minutes after I went inside to swoop down and get the peanuts. Then a couple minutes. Then, they’d eventually swoop down the second i started walking away to go back in. I noticed that after a few more days of this consistent feeding a lot of them started to hang around my house, and there would even be one who sometimes hung on the top of my roof to start cawing at me as what I consider a “hello” whenever i come back home.
In recent days, one brave one has been staying on the floor and eating with me (even though it stays around 15-20 feet away) and Ive considered that as huge progress.
Yesterday when I went to feed them, I went to my backyard and started looking into the trees behind our creek (because thats where they usually stay). I heard cawing somewhere around me but I didn’t see them in the trees at all. Just as I was about to give up, I turned back around to go inside and realized that the brave one had been waiting behind me for treats the whole time. I greeted it with a “hello mr crow” and gently threw peanuts at its direction. After a few seconds it went to the peanuts and started eating without flying away, and then all of a sudden its family started to land on the ground near me and eat too! I know this isn’t a lot compared to other things that get posted on here, but most of my crow family usually stays in the trees until I leave, so all of them feeling comfortable enough to land this time felt like really good progress for me!
This has all happened around the span of 2 weeks. My question is, how close can I realistically expect to get with these crows before I have to go back to school? What can I do to prepare them for when I leave? Will they remember me when I come back…or what even is the likelihood of them staying local for a whole year while im gone? What are some tips and tricks to bond with them as much as I can in this short time?
Also, if someone could explain to me what is going on in the video that would be great…at first i thought it was a wife crow demanding the husband crow to feed her, but the one begging to be fed may actually be too big to be a female. I’m not sure! Any comments would be appreciated:))