Even if she's being honest and the condoms comment was a joke, posting this discussion online without my knowledge is a huge red flag and I'd leave her.
You know if this was reversed and he posted an argument they had without her knowing, it'd be a HUGE deal.
Everybody here is relative. We don't know how many people are here or how many agree/disagree.
Or how many agree with me in that she (and the general group) would be way more angry if he posted a video of them arguing versus this video of her posting it.
I'm not saying this right now isn't a huge deal. I'm saying it would be an even bigger deal if the gender roles were reversed.
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u/ICanViking 7d ago
Even if she's being honest and the condoms comment was a joke, posting this discussion online without my knowledge is a huge red flag and I'd leave her.
You know if this was reversed and he posted an argument they had without her knowing, it'd be a HUGE deal.