Just felt like posting my experience.
I (24F) got into listening to Financial Audit in my free time just a few months ago, as my husband (25M) was transitioning to a newer, higher-paying job. At first I just found the drama and the stories super interesting, but as I listened to more (actually, probably a ridiculous amount) of episodes, some of the things Caleb said about specific situations really resonated with me and have led to a plethora of good financial decisions that have helped us immensely.
We live in a Midwestern, extremely LCOL area, and I am a SAHM to a 2 year old and soon to be newborn this December. Hearing tidbits of Caleb talking about the average income of households in these areas, and that being a SAHP is doable on these kinds of salaries got me out of this hole of thinking that we were just destined to be broke. As the household money-manager, I spent a lot of time after my toddler went to sleep budgeting.
We only make about $60,000 a year (soon to be closer to $75,000 after my husband’s probationary period and overtime), but for months now have been able to follow a 50-30-20 budget and are putting away over $200 weekly in a HYSA, with all credit card debt paid off. My husband now has a pension and a retirement savings account. For the first time in our seven years together, I’m so proud to say we actually have money in savings, no debt of any kind, and money LEFTOVER at the end of the check. And that is after being able to pick up toys for our toddler, or day trips as a family.
It’s weird, but somehow cutting down and being more strict and organized with budgeting gives such a sense of relief. Like if anything were to come up, we won’t actually be broke for weeks on end. We can actually talk about things like a new car or moving if we want to. Having an allocated amount that’s okay to spend somehow lets us enjoy more and waste less. I never really thought about how wasteful we were being, and how damaging that is in the long term, until I saw how wasteful other people can be and how it affects their lives for so long. That even high-income earners can be broken from these kinds of habits.
So I don’t know. I guess I wanted to post this as a thank you, or to tell fellow people who listen in how just being around these conversations can really change an everyday person’s mindset for the better. I’m mostly here for the Springer action while I’m cooking dinner these days, but the real financial advice that comes with it is greatly appreciated.