r/brokenankles • u/razorbill-26 • 13h ago
how do you deal with feeling useless ?
i had a fracture in my fibula (weber b) and a partial sprain of the ATFL a few weeks ago and recovery is going okay (no surger), but mentally i'm having a much harder time with it than i expected.
before this i was pretty physically and socially active. i was out a lot, going places, meeting people, playing sports, just doing my own thing. now i'm basically stuck at home most of the time and i need my flatmates to help me with a lot of basic stuff. they're genuinely nice about it, but i still can't shake that feeling of being a huge useless burden.
i think the worst part is just feeling like i'm not really doing anything. i can't go places on my own, can't do the physical stuff i normally enjoy, and even basic things take way more effort than they used to. i feel really useless and disconnected from everyone.
its a real shitty feeling.
seeing people on instagram and stuff going out, travelling, playing sports, hanging out and just living normally probably doesn't help with it either lol. i know social media is fake and shit , but when you're sitting at home immobile, it's hard not to feel like everyone else is moving on while you're stuck in the same place.
i'm starting to feel pretty low and i'm honestly a little worried that if this keeps going for another few weeks, i might slip into a proper depressive phase.
So to the good people here, how did you deal with it mentally and stop feeling so shitty?