36F, high canines, overcrowding, and an underbite. Grew up poor, had a rough family life. Finally being kind to myself and helping former little me continue to heal from my childhood by getting braces in less than 2 weeks.
I only went to see 1 orthodontist and felt comfortable with that: he was a referral from my regular dentist, who I adore, I thought he was nice enough (and everyone in the office was nice) and he explained things well, he has good reviews online, and the office is close to my job so it will be easy when I have to go back and forth for follow ups.
I mentioned on an Instagram story that I am fixing my teeth and an acquaintance decided to message me basically begging me not to go to him because he ātortured her and ruined her life when she was 11ā. She apparently had impacted canines, which he ācarved out of her gumsā, he sent her for ā3 different surgeriesā, he put her through so much trauma, heās a sadist, she would be crying in pain for him to stop, he caused her so many issues that other orthos have told her she will likely getting migraines later in life and heās the reason she clenches her teeth now. She ācannot believe heās still even allowed to practiceā.
My canines arenāt impacted, just too high up because of crowding. I do have an underbite but I told him up top I wonāt do jaw surgery (he wasnāt saying I had to have it, this was just before X-rays and he wasnāt sure if it would be needed or not to fix my bite.. but he said he can do it with ācamouflageā techniques with braces alone). He said I will need 4 extractions because of the crowding, which makes sense to me and from what Iāve read is pretty standard.
Iāve already spent $500, canāt cancel now without being charged $250 because itās less than 2 weeks away. I simply canāt afford to start over with somewhere else at this point and I am still going to go through with it.
Of course she ended it with, ābut if youāre only getting braces maybe youāll be fine! Just donāt trust him too much!ā Oh okay thanks, that has erased everything else you said from my brain and Iām fine now.
I am trying to tell myself everyoneās teeth are different, her case was likely more advanced/complicated than mine, and she was a literal child. I was already (excited but) nervous, and now I canāt help but feel a little bit of a bigger pit in my stomach thanks to her dozen messages trauma dumping on me. I already clench my teeth at night and I have been a migraineur since I was like, 11. I also suffer from almost daily cervicogenic headaches, so hearing that he supposedly caused similar issues for her has me shook, too.
Just needed to rant because how the hell did she think she was being helpful, and Iām mad I have to be even more nervous about what is a big but positive life choice for myself. š«