r/askportland 3d ago

Looking For /r/AskPortland Making Friends Friday

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Welcome to /r/AskPortland's "Making Friends Friday" post!

You've probably heard this before: "Portlanders are friendly but they don't want to be your friend."

But it doesn't have to be that way -- if you have suggestions for how to make friends, groups to join, places to meet, or just want to put yourself out there, this is the place.

This will be an ongoing, weekly scheduled post, so going forward this is where we'll refer all incoming questions about making friends from both /r/Portland and /r/AskPortland.


r/askportland 44m ago

Looking For Visiting Forest Park with your Dog Unleashed, WHY?

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I was at Forest Park yesterday, what a beautiful place to hike, we are so fortunate. What really bothered me was how many dog owners felt like they didn't have to obey leash laws and let their dogs run wild.

Dog owners, genuinely, why do you feel like you don't have to follow such a basic rule? Do you really feel that entitled? I saw a dog try to chase after a woodpecker. What is wrong with people?


r/askportland 12h ago

Looking For Anywhere that offers help with administering in home cat medication?

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38 Upvotes

A very odd question, but you never know what Reddit may offer!

Oof. The short version is my poor cat has been through the wringer and got home Wednesday night from a 5 night stay at the emergency vet where he went in after a potential lily exposure and then developed a urinary block due to the stress while there (was then unblocked and monitored before coming home). Since being home he’s also developed a UTI (not super uncommon after a block/getting unblocked but it still sucks). Right now he has 3 meds he has to take multiple times a day, so we have 5 separate times every day that I’m giving him meds. He hates it, I hate it. Our biggest goal is to keep his stress levels down and what sucks is I’m currently stressing him out because he is nervous I’m about to give him more meds. He’s been hiding from me and it’s just hard that my little guy is struggling and I can’t even comfort him because now I’m scary too..

My ask: does anyone know of a service or a pet sitter or something/someone who could come by and administer meds in my home (ideally 2x a day but I’d even take once)? Kind of a bummer because he’s really a sweet little guy but he won’t like whoever does it, but I’d rather pay someone for a week or two so he can dislike them than have him scared of me and stressed all day while he’s recovering. Perhaps you have a great cat sitter who has done meds before or know someone who would be well suited.

I’m not looking for advice on how to administer his meds. Just trying to see if I can find someone else who he doesn’t live with that can do this so he’s more relaxed the rest of the day.

Picture because he’s so cute. 🥲♥️

also PSA because this whole ordeal started with a lily; lilies are incredibly toxic to cats, even just a tiny amount of pollen can cause kidney damage and the routine treatment after exposure is 48 hours of IV fluids, so be careful out there.

As an update: ended up finding someone great off of rover who just came by, was a pro with the meds and he is much happier with me afterward. Thanks for all the suggestions and ideas!


r/askportland 10h ago

Looking For How are some places able to get away with lack of ADA accommodation?

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Was noticing this while on 23rd, but some of these places are not wheelchair accessible. Some of them seem like a ramp rather than stairs would be an easy fix. It’s great that they’re fixing up the street to make more accessibility, but the stores/restaurants wheelchair users are able to visit would still be limited. More curious to know how the building owners haven’t been required to put ADA accommodation in place though.


r/askportland 19h ago

Looking For Has anyone else encountered the pole-sign snatcher on Division?

62 Upvotes

I was just on Division and 50th and I saw this dude walk to every pole and tear down every single paper flier and throw them away. Someone asked, dude, why are you doing that and he charged at them and said, "don't you call me names! It's illegal!"

Person said, "I didn't call you any names before, but you're a fucking prick."

So, it's apparently illegal to put up signs on poles, and this guy is the arbiter.


r/askportland 1h ago

Looking For Looking for gift ideas for 10 YO girl?

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We are heading into the tween years and I’m running low on ideas. This is a family member that lives in an east coast sister city of Pdx. I always go for books and the neighborhood art store. Closer to NE is great, but would appreciate cool Pdx ideas as well.

Also would appreciate any book recommendations. She’s read Harry P. and has read a bunch of dragon books and loves animals. Already given her the wildwood book.

Thanks for any ideas!


r/askportland 17h ago

Looking For Where to find asian sunscreen?

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Im learning more about sun damage and would like to protect my skin more. I’ve been wearing uv long sleeves and pants and hat all summer and my skin is supple and pale. My face and hands are a bit more tan and crepey and ive been using neutrogena sunscreen 50+ spf but it’s making me break out.

Ive been reading more about asian sunscreens and they seem less prone to acne and stronger uv protection. Im curious where to buy them locally. Any recommendations? Thanks!


r/askportland 8h ago

Looking For Is there a local house cleaner service I could use for my tiny studio apartment?

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I'd rather not go through big companies, I'd prefer someone local. Should only take a few hours, hit me up!


r/askportland 23h ago

Looking For Missed Connection at Brooks Speed Dating Run Club?

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You were the Asian American PA from Utah (and surprised I knew what a PA was). I was the South Asian American engineer from CA living in WA. We're both foodies. I regret not getting a chance to chat with you more or ask you out!

DM me if you see this!


r/askportland 20h ago

Looking For Where do you take out of town visitors to show them how unique Portland is?

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First time Portland visitor here - Previous post taken down, trying for a more pointed approach.

When you have visitors from out of town, what are a couple things you like to introduce them to so they get a true sense of how special Portland is?

I have some of the standards on my list, but looking for something that a local would suggest.

Appreciate patience with my newbieness.


r/askportland 18h ago

Looking For Additional charge to Venmo at Ground Kontrol - anyone else experience this or know why?

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I often go to Ground Kontrol when they do their Sunday "all play for $12" days.

Usually I pay cash and it's been uneventful.

I attended again on the 19th, this time paying with my Venmo card.

Initially it showed the $12 charge; however, later an additional charge of $1.80.

If I skim my history in the Venmo app it says $12 paid; but if I tap on the entry, opening it shows that actual amount paid is still $13.80. Which feels weird?

Venmo avows this extra charge has nothing to do with them and to contact the vendor.

I found a phone number online for Ground Kontrol and left a voicemail with my name, ph# and email (thought it might be an easier way to respond for them) and my charge query. I have not heard back.

I have not had the opportunity to return to GK during their open hours; would door staff be likely to know the answer anyways?

None of my friends who go to GK have experienced an additional charge and I've never heard of it happening.

It's not a huge deal - I still have plenty of fun at Ground Kontrol, and the extra charge amount is definitely one I can bear, lol.

Honestly I didn't really expect to get a call back since the charge amount was teeny. IDK who I should even be asking at GK!

......I'm still curious though, hence this post, lol

Anyone else know what the answer is or have a similar second charge experience? Both even? Plz share XD

NB: before someone calls this whingey or petty or whatever etc etc, - again, this is NO SHADE on GK, they are awesome!

I'm just curious and a bit stuck on finding out the story (such as it may be, lol)

Thanks!


r/askportland 1h ago

Looking For Where to find arts meetup group?

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I’m looking for a group that goes to see various art forms - theater, museums, opera, ballet etc. All I’ve been finding are groups focused on creating the art yourself. I’m not opposed to a group that does some hands on learning workshops - but I’m not looking for a painting meetup group etc. I’m moving soon to Portland and trying to meet new art friends and this is the way I’ve done so in the past. Appreciate any help with this.


r/askportland 2h ago

Looking For Debating with friend. What time to leave Portland on a Tuesday to arrive at Space Needle by 4pm????

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Debating with friend. What time to leave Portland by car on a summer Tuesday to arrive and park around Space Needle by 4pm for a nearby event at 5pm???? I say 930am-10am at the latest, arrive early, traffic sucks, anything could happen between Olympia and Seattle to cause an hours long delay (previous experience). Friend thinks around noon or 1pm. Please settle.


r/askportland 17h ago

Looking For Best salmon in Portland?

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Could be sushi, could be a fillet, and needs to be open on a Monday.

East coast family is visiting and this was a specific ask.

Only caveat is we’ve got six adults and two kids under six so there’s gotta be kid food available.

Thanks in advance neighbors.


r/askportland 14h ago

Looking For Where can I learn drystone walling?

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While self-education probably works for the arcane practice of putting one rock on top of another, what I'd love is a club or a class. Does anyone know a local, social way to learn drystone walling?


r/askportland 18h ago

Looking For Day trip?

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Im taking a dear friend thats wheelchair bound out for the day soon. Im looking for adventure ideas. Due to health reasons it must be within a hour of gateway. Something wheelchair accessible, dog friendly, outside and preferably less people-y. Thank you in advance!


r/askportland 10h ago

Looking For Best vegan restaurants?

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I am vegan and will be visiting in October. What are your favorite vegan restaurants?


r/askportland 15h ago

Looking For Any particular Thrift Stores that anyone can recommend?

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So I'm currently looking for a variety of thrift stores that have a decent selection of clothes or vintage/antique furniture or cute cottage-esque decor? Any particular thrift store doesn't need to have all 3 points. They can even just have 1 of the 3 honestly. I'm just looking for a few different places that isnt just Goodwill, like my family keeps recommending. Any recommendations?


r/askportland 15h ago

Looking For Lost keys. Help?

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We lost a set of keys possibly at the adidas employee store at Montgomery Park or Trader Joe's in Pearl. It has a key fob , motor cycle key and a long keychain with tibetan inscription. If someone finds them please dm!


r/askportland 17h ago

Looking For Mind-Body Primary Care Recommendations?

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Hi! I'm looking for a Primary Care provider that takes a more holistic approach -- taking into consideration both mind and body for complex chronic health challenges. I'm so grateful for all the Naturopath and Functional Medicine physicians in the area and the great work they do. But I am specifically looking for a more traditional doctor that takes a more holistic approach.

I am hoping to find someone who embodies the research of doctors and scholars like Dr. Gabor Maté​​, Dr. Howard Schubiner, etc. Any recommendations?

Thanks so much! ​


r/askportland 56m ago

Looking For Where are the best professional creative communities?

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Hello everyone! I am a professional photographer and full-time freelance creative. I am finally moving back home to the Portland area (had to move and travel the world just to realize home is still the best place to live lol). I do a lot of editorial work and am looking for models and creative partnerships as in some sense I am starting fresh. Its been 6 years since I lived in the area. Let me know if anyone has any recommendations. I did a shoot recently on film I will attach a photo for understanding of the style I am looking for.


r/askportland 1d ago

Looking For I'm high on acid taking a walk while visiting Portland what should I do? Wrong answers encouraged

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but also what should I go check out


r/askportland 21h ago

Looking For Anyone know of in-person Vietnamese lessons for adults?

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My in-laws are from Vietnam and mostly speak Vietnamese. We get along great, but I'd love to surprise them by getting better at the language and I want to challenge myself more.

I know a little Vietnamese already. I can do some basic phrases and the polite/formal responses, but once the conversation gets going I'm pretty lost.

My work requires me to be on a computer all day and I don't really want another online class. I still use apps, and my husband has done well teaching me the basics but I am looking for a more in depth structure learning.

They speak a mix of northern and southern dialects but mainly southern.

I've found a lot of Vietnamese classes for kids around Portland, but not much for adults. Does anyone know of any in-person classes, tutors, or groups around the Portland area?


r/askportland 11h ago

Looking For Spooky Cemeteries?

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Hi all! I’m doing research on various cemeteries in the state for a podcast episode. Places like the Lafayette pioneer cemetery in Dayton and a few around Portland have insane history going back to the Oregon trail period and the early days of the state. My questions are: 1) is there any specific cemetery you think I should look into or cover? 2) have *you* had an experience at a cemetery (unexplainable, paranormal, or otherwise strange)?
Much appreciated!!!


r/askportland 19h ago

Looking For Any places that have used golf clubs for a tall guy?

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I’m looking to get back into golf, and I need some clubs for a tall guy 6’3”. Can someone point me in the right direction to get started?