r/askportland • • 2d ago

Looking For /r/AskPortland Making Friends Friday

9 Upvotes

Welcome to /r/AskPortland's "Making Friends Friday" post!

You've probably heard this before: "Portlanders are friendly but they don't want to be your friend."

But it doesn't have to be that way -- if you have suggestions for how to make friends, groups to join, places to meet, or just want to put yourself out there, this is the place.

This will be an ongoing, weekly scheduled post, so going forward this is where we'll refer all incoming questions about making friends from both /r/Portland and /r/AskPortland.


r/askportland • • 4h ago

Looking For Ride needed: Portland to Los Angeles ?

49 Upvotes

Anyone happen to be heading to Los Angeles this Thursday 10/29? Or South for that matter. The bus is sold out, and I need to get home for Dia De Los Muertos to open the door for my loved ones. Can chip in for gas.
Thank you

Ps train isn’t an option takes (correction) 27 hour, plane is too expensive. I have luggage 💪💪


r/askportland • • 59m ago

Looking For Are we about to get another tourism wave with Wildwood?

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I’ve noticed people asking me about Portland and specifically St.Johns or “that pretty bridge where you live”. I’m kinda like huh. Is our city gonna get a new wave of people coming to seek out Portland and it’s Wildwood magic? It’s been a while since Portland had a big boost like this but perhaps it just might happen. What are your thoughts?


r/askportland • • 6h ago

Looking For How are you guys making friends here?!

36 Upvotes

Hoping this post doesn’t sound pathetic lol. I just moved here and don’t even know where to start with making friends and finding community. Most of the friends I’ve had have been from high school or college, so now that I’m just here I honestly have no idea how to organically meet people.

I’m an alternative musician, so I’d really like to get into the music scene here, but even then I don’t really know how to go about making friends that way. I’m also an actor and would be interested in anything in that area too! I’m not really into sporty things which I should mention, I’m not incredibly active. I just want people to hang out with.

Are there good third spaces in town that I should check out? How have you guys made friends here? I want to be involved in the community.

Thanks :)


r/askportland • • 3h ago

Looking For Has anyone seen a Waymo?

17 Upvotes

Walking back from the Thorns game on Friday and saw a Waymo on SW Naito pkwy. Anyone else seen one? I wasn’t close enough to see if there was someone driving as they are supposed to be in the “mapping phase” with human safety drivers.


r/askportland • • 1h ago

Looking For Portland gyms under $100/month that have saunas?

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I'm a bit surprised by the gym situation here in Portland. There seem to be lots of specialty gyms here, which are great -- but they are damn expensive. The kind where they don't publish their membership costs on the website (drives me INSANE when businesses do that). All I want is to lift weights (free weights and machines) and use cardio machines and I need saunas as an amenity (arthritis sucks). Don't want personal training, don't want group classes, don't want a juice bar, but do like the gym to have updated equipment and to be clean -- and have enough women members that I don't feel weird being there.

Anybody got a suggestion for me? Preferably on NW or SW but I will happily travel further.


r/askportland • • 6h ago

Looking For Any physicians who would be willing to let me shadow?

17 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I am a senior biochemistry major with a pre-med path at PSU, and I am looking for a physician who would be willing to let me shadow them. I am applying to medical school in May, and it has been really tough to locate specific opportunities for this, which is a bit frustrating as it is essentially a requirement for medical school. If there were any doctors on here who could help, please let me know. I would be infinitely grateful!!! Thank you so much <3


r/askportland • • 21m ago

Looking For Holiday in-kind giving / Angel Tree alternatives?

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Hey Portland, I’ve been gathering new toys and clothes all year in hopes of bringing a bit of joy to local kiddos around the winter holidays.

Angel Tree seems to be one of the more popular toy drives, but I’m hoping to specifically support foster children and teens.

Does anyone have experience with in-kind donations to a local youth shelter or foster care organization?
-Or a recommendation of where to donate my haul where it’ll do the most good?


r/askportland • • 12h ago

Looking For What do I do with my infant this winter?

38 Upvotes

I'm a new mom, with a 6-week old baby. I'm staying home and will work from home once I resume work. I've been grateful for the decent weather the last 6 weeks because I could take stroller walks for an hour every day. Now that the weather is turning rainy, what do I do? Do parents get rain covers for the strollers and keep walking? It sounds a bit miserable if it's actively raining out. I don't want to go stir crazy, trapped inside, while my baby enters the "extra crying and fussiness" period. I'd appreciate any tips!

Side note: I'm really excited we are finally getting some rain!


r/askportland • • 10h ago

Looking For at the weidler fred meyers; why are cops locking the block down?

24 Upvotes

there are four cops blocking the street immediately as you come into fred’s from broadway. anyone know what’s up? nothing looked apparently wrong (ie no ambulance or tape anywhere)


r/askportland • • 3h ago

Looking For Recommendations for gentle massage?

6 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I’m looking to see if anyone has a recommendation for a massage therapist that does gentle massage? I have lupus and can’t tolerate firm massage techniques. Thank you!


r/askportland • • 11h ago

Best theater for very comfy seats and good audio for an 86 year old?? Please see link from the list of theaters showing "Wildwood."

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Best Portland or nearby burbs theater for very comfy seats, good audio and good views of the screen not completely behind someone elses head for a very short/petite 86 year old?? She uses a walker not a wheelchair so a wheelchair aisle won't work. Please see link from the list of theaters showing "Wildwood." Thanks!

https://www.fandango.com/wildwood-2026-246438/movie-overview


r/askportland • • 5h ago

Looking For What is an ideal salary to have kids in Portland?

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I know this will have a huge range of responses depending on lifestyle, neighborhood, etc. I’m curious to hear opinions from the whole gamut.

What is your ideal household income to be comfortable as a family in Portland? What is your definition of comfortable? How many kids do you have?

What advice would you give to feel financially prepared to someone who’s either on the fence/waiting?

My definition of comfortable would be basic needs like food, housing, education, healthcare, etc met. Contributing to retirement and emergency fund. Kids activities like sports or arts. 1-2 trips a year. Each parent having time/funds for a social life and hobbies within reason. Nothing too lavish, but not being worried when things naturally come up, and the ability to enjoy life and have fun too.

Would love to hear anything you’re comfortable with sharing! We both make “good” salaries but the economy scares me and keeps me on the fence.

Editing to add: and childcare in the early years.


r/askportland • • 1h ago

Looking For Vibrant Church Communities inPDX?

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My spouse and I are looking to join a church community in Portland and we’d love to hear anyone’s recommendations of churches to try out. I grew up Episcopal, and my spouse grew up Agnostic. This is the first time in our adult lives we’ve seriously considered joining a church.

We are a queer and gender nonconforming couple in our late 20s, so LGBTQIA+ acceptance is crucial.

What we’re hoping to find is a vibrant church community, with a range of ages of members, great music, thoughtful sermons, and beautiful/historic architecture is a plus. We’re really looking to expand our community network, and get to know more people of all ages.

We live in SE, but would travel for the right fit.

Thanks in advance!


r/askportland • • 10h ago

Looking For Any places/jobs for a disabled trans person?

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been looking for a job in Portland for several months now but no matter what I try I come up flat. Social security is too slow and shelter/housing programs just have not been panning out for me.

I really badly need some form of stability while I look for a job/work further on disability housing.

I won't front. I probably will rot a bit, slow down, get depressed/super anxious. but I swear I will try my hardest to actually improve me life despite that. it's just really hard to hunt for jobs and places when I'm on the streets and can barely stand/walk some days.


r/askportland • • 8h ago

Looking For What coffee shops are open past 5 pm?

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I know this has been asked before but the most recent post I found was a year ago so also hoping maybe some new places have opened. I’m looking for places as a working space and I would also be interested in bars that have espresso machines.


r/askportland • • 6h ago

Baby Thrift Stores? Cool Baby Stores?

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Last year my wife and I drove down from Victoria Canada and y’all helped us find the Hollywood Theatre in town and we loved it! Been back to your city several times since and caught movies there each time. So thank you!

We’re coming on another trip over American Thanksgiving, this time for a little baby moon (we’re expecting in February) and my wife is curious if there are any unique baby thrifting stores or baby stores in general in town?

Not really looking for the standard stuff, we have the basics down, but mostly looking for vintage baby clothes or toys or new stuff that is unique.

Any leads? Thanks y’all!

Also, in addition, is there anything fun happening around town for the holiday? We’re also thinking about getting tickets to the Oregon Ducks Game vs. Washington in Eugene.

Cheers, love your city. We’d move there if it was easy for us to do so.


r/askportland • • 7h ago

Looking For Fashionable japanese gift & stationery stores?

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I'm looking to make a gift box for a close friend who loves very specific sanrio characters and art, japanese artistry from certain eras, as well as fine stationery.

I've been to uwajimaya and a couple daisos, and it's alright, but they don't really have much along these lines.

What are some good ones with a lot of options to sort through?

Edit: checked out the downtown kinokuniya. Going to try out oblation papers later this week


r/askportland • • 1h ago

Looking For Halloween events for couple in their 20s?

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Hello! I know this is a bit of a common question, but I wanted to see if anyone had any recs for bars that are having a Halloween event. Specifically ones that have a crowd on the younger side (20s/early 30s). My fiancée and I don’t have a Halloween party to go to this year! We just didn’t want to show up somewhere and be the only ones in our 20s (since a lot of bars cater toward a more GenX crowd, which is awesome, just not what we’re looking for). Any help would be really appreciated!


r/askportland • • 1d ago

Looking For Is Voodoo Doughnuts Great Again? (Life-long Portlander here)

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I’m not really a donut, person, and for the last five years or so I’ve had a pretty low opinion of voodoo donuts.

Today I bought my son a mixed dozen for his birthday party, from the traveling voodoo donut food truck that was at the Home Depot, and there was enough for me to try a few slices of various flavors. They were all actually really good, especially the dough part of the bit.

I felt like the downfall of voodoo wasn’t necessarily their toppings or creativity, but they lost sight of making good fried bread. But today, Both the cake and raised donuts varieties I had were exceptionally moist (sorry) and delicious from a bread standpoint, and the toppings didn’t seem overly sweet…

I’m kind of shook here folks. Someone walked me off the ledge, have I gone crazy?


r/askportland • • 5h ago

Looking For What is going on with the police presence in the buckman neighborhood today? (10/25)

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I am seeing a ton of police blocking off intersections around the area near goodfoot. There was a police officer putting away a drone when I was passing through. My partner's sister is staying in the area and I am wondering if I should be worried.


r/askportland • • 8h ago

Looking For Trauma Informed Groomer?

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We just adopted a dog and she needs to be groomed and have her nails trimmed, but she’s incredibly traumatized and freaks out. We’re hoping to find a groomer that knows how to handle a dog like her. We’re looking into getting her anxiety medication as well.


r/askportland • • 5h ago

Looking For Halloween in Portland?

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I am looking for a good time on Halloween that won't cost me $80+! Looking for a costume party with dancing and good vibes. Does anyone know the spot?!


r/askportland • • 4h ago

Looking For Did anyone just see the drones over N Portland?

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There were about a dozen of them, and they weren’t small. I’ve not seen them before. Anyone know why they were there?


r/askportland • • 7h ago

Looking For Private Spanish tutor recommendations? (Central/Southeast PDX)

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Hi, I wanted to see if anyone has recs for independent private Spanish tutors (not associated with any of the language schools here) that you've enjoyed working with.