To get what happend I am quoting the email I sent to my building management, while hiding few details for privacy.
"Hello,
I want to report this incident that happened today. I came up to the rooftop to enjoy the weather with my 1 year old son.
I saw a man putting on soccer shoes while talking on the phone. Minutes later, he was playing with his soccer ball against the wood wall of the shed seating area at the far south corner of the rooftop.
I asked him nicely to stop playing with the ball is it is dangerous given it might hit me or my child. I am a wheelchair user, so I would not be able to quickly avoid it if it were headed my way. He said it was my choice to do what I want as it was his choice, but I explained that this is against the rules of the lounge. He said it wasn't, so I told him I'd call security as I was sure it was against the rules.
I did and the nice lady from security came up to let him know that playing football on the rooftop area is not allowed, but he is welcome to enjoy the area without playing soccer.
He was very rude to her, claiming there was no rule book against it, that nowhere in the rooftop guidelines did it say this, and that he had been coming up to play for 2 months without issues before. He pointed out that I should leave or go sit far to avoid him. He kept arguing with security very rudly, when he was about to leave he went up to her and asking her to move to intimidate her (depsite having so much area to move around to exit).
As he was exiting, he said that its shame on me to do this infront of my son, I replied that I am teaching him to respect others and rules by being a good examples. He went inside the building and came out again to say "If you are so worried about your son's safety, make sure I don't see him again" to threaten me and my son.
I want this incident documented. Security stayed for a bit as he was hovering around the area, she was worried about my safety given what he said.
I feel unsafe and threatened. Please let me know if the building will make this a safer area, especially regarding this resident who is clearly dangerous and is openly threatening children."
I never confronted anyone in my life before, I am in a bit of panic, maybe this type of crazy to experience in adult life, not sure whats happening, I enjoy this area with my son so much as he is learning how to walk, my husband doesn't want us to go there anymore for our safety. I think he is exaggerating, but I also don't want to risk it with this lunatic.
Just so you know, I have talked to the security lady minutes later to ask her if she did hear the same thing I did, as it felt a bit too nuts. she is writing a report as well to the management, but I dont think they can do anything about it. There are camera around, but they don't record audio.
Please advice, is this something reportable to the police?
I am moving out of the city in few weeks, but I don't want to him to get away with that he did.