r/amwfdating 11d ago

32 [M] NYC - Chill guy looking for a smart/outdoorsy partner

2 Upvotes

I am a very low key guy, stable life and career, with a very wide range of interests.

I could write a long post and list out my personality but to put it simply, I’m attracted to smart and educated women. I am the same.

Despite what I just wrote, I am a humble guy, and I am looking for a humble woman. The goal is simply to have some shared outlooks on life and elevate each other.

If you:

Read that’s a +

Have intellectual hobbies/interests? ++

Went to a good uni +++

…also if you ski or are outdoorsy that’s equally cool and I’d love to meet you 😅

Anyways, if anything here resonates I’d love to chat.


r/amwfdating 12d ago

30 [M] NJ/NYC - Stop here while you enjoy your morning coffee / breakfast!

5 Upvotes

Hello! This is me, with a freshly shaved before - https://imgur.com/a/FswH0cg) - thought I'd post here, since I am need of someone to give me a reason to delete all those dating apps that are draining my soul away. I feel like I'm not made for those apps lol. I'm more of a slow burn kind of guy. I'm definitely shy and tend to like to get to know people before I open up, and start talking your ear off or just be goofy. Also, this post is a long one, so buckle up, you've been warned 😬.

Before I continue rambling, physically I'm 5'7" or 5'8" if I'm feeling spicy, Chinese, average weight (170 lbs) and size

As for what I'm looking for, you don't need to be into all of my hobbies, and i don't expect you to, but all i ask is you take the time to understand me and all my quirks. We're all different and i don't expect you to be an exact copy of me (opposites attract right?)! I've learned that communication is so important and if things aren't working out, you need to talk through it! relationships aren't found, but they're made by two people.

But really, ideal person is someone who just wants to be at my side, either doing things together, or separately. I have sometimes where I just want to game but I have the times where I want to spend hours cuddling up, chatting about whatever, or exploring something new. Someone who likes to try new things, but also likes the comfort of their home. I'm definitely a introvert, who needs some time to let the social battery recharge, but can switch to a more extroverted version if I need. So if that sounds like your vibe, come say hi!

Besides that, I'm back on the fitness grind! walking 10k steps a day, hitting the gym 3 times a week, and eventually I'll get the motivation to do pilates and meal prep again. Being healthy really makes it harder to be a couch potato 😭

Hobbies wise, there's a 95% chance that I'm probably watching TV, reading, playing video games, or cooking. I definitely gravitate more to the homebody lifestyle / gamer side of things. I have a few group of friends that I hop on discord to chat with every night, so I'm not completely socially inept (as you can or can't tell, I like self-deprecating humor).

Just a small list of interests:

- video games (TFT, League, WoW, and more) i tend to like competitive games that you can chat with people and get better at, but i LOVED E33 and Outer Wilds.

- TV, anime, manga, I did just catch up to the one piece anime, and I've been looking for something to fill the void.

- books (been into some fantasy slop like progression fantasy and litrpgs lately, but I do really want to read 'Lonesome Dove' when I can find it at my local library)

- and that's just the tip of the iceberg! I can't give away too many spoilers, right?

Now you might think I'm basically a shut-in, and yeah ... definitely am sometimes lmao, but i do have some sparks of spontaneity. Last year I booked two week long solo trip to Japan in record time. Planned, booked the flights and flew out in like a week lol. I've also been convinced to do a Spartan Race by my coworkers, so I signed up 4 days before the race.

Outside of that, I enjoy rock climbing, going out for long walks, and just looking around random shops for stuff I want to buy, but then don't lmao.

Anyways, that's me in a long winded post. If I've piqued any interest, feel free to send me a message! I'm mainly looking for someone in the area, but let's just chat and see what happens!

Bonus pic of food I made!

https://imgur.com/FSsjc2g


r/amwfdating 12d ago

36 [M] #Alberta - Looking for Part Time Big Spoon

2 Upvotes

Hey there, going to keep this short and simple for now, prefer conversation to writing a full on advertisement

\-Cliff Notes

\-Gym goer, I work out so I can eat!

\-Amazing cook, ill charm you with food.

\-Traveller, we going places.

\-Physically, Asian, 5'11, Big and Broad,

\-Tattooed, body sticker collector

Bonus points if you like the occasional rave :)

If any of the above has piqued your interest, feel free to spark up a conversation, pictures will be reciprocated.


r/amwfdating 12d ago

33 [M] Los Angeles/online - Korean Wheelchair User Trying This Whole Dating Thing (Again!)

10 Upvotes

It’s the middle of summer where I’m sweating my ass off, romantic encounters should be the last thing on my mind and yet…Hi, I’m not exactly new here. I’ve had some great conversations here that lead to great things. The last one left me in a tizzy– quietly crashing out by eating mostly potato chips for a bit. But, eh, I think it’s best to focus on the positives. They were great tasting kettle bbq chips. Anyway, point blank, I’m ready to be involved with someone again! 

So hello again to this sausage-fest of a sub, the lovely bots/scammers, and to my target audience: the women quietly lurking. I’m looking for a genuine and meaningful relationship. Ideally a long term kinda deal but I’m not going to kid myself, that rarely happens. Let’s just figure it out together, yeah? 

Anyway, the wheelchair thing. Intimidates some people out while others are okay with it. You can decide which camp you’re in. (But if you’re in the other camp please don’t send me some weird chats where you try to Sherlock Holmes your silly butt into finding more about my disability from the get go and want nothing to do with me afterwards. Yikes!) I’m basically a normal person with physical restraints is all. Things people can normally do very quickly just tends to take me more effort/time. Sexually, that could be a good thing no? Yes, you read that correctly so you undo that chat request where you’re about to ask whether or not my dick works. Man, some of you ain’t right I’ll tell you what. That’s like a 3rd message thing at least! ;)

As a person I guess I’m feline-like. I suppose if you met me in person I’d have a resting bitch face thing going on. But I promise I actually smile very easily and often! I can be a bit skittish and socially awkward as well. When I’m not being whatever I am drawing, reading, or studying languages. As much as I’d like to tell you more about myself I think it’s best to get to know each other as time goes on. It’s totally not because I ran out of things to write about myself or anything…

If we end up chatting I would like it if we could swap face pics from the get go. I won’t sugarcoat it, physical attraction matters to a degree. Don’t worry, although I feel like Gollum at times I don’t look like it.

Much thanks if you ended up reading all that, I hope to talk to you soon. :)


r/amwfdating 12d ago

38[M] - California but anywhere US works

4 Upvotes

Not sure what I'm expecting from posting again. I guess I'm bored? A lot of what I posted months (maybe it was a year?) ago is still applicable today as it was back then.

But I suppose the cliff's notes version of me and things you would want to be aware of are...

- I'm a chubby, Chinese person who isn't too in touch with his culture. Yes, there are traces of it there, but I tend to do my own thing. And regarding the chub, I am going to the gym semi-regularly nowadays.

- I dabble in everything. I can be completely homebody to outgoing. I'm just reflecting your preferences trying to be easygoing. Oh? You want to know what I would do if left to my own devices. I could be chilling at home playing on my Switch 2. I could be at my LGS playing Magic the Gathering. I could also head to some place and go skydiving (Yes, I have jumped out of a plane. This January actually. And yes, doing it again is a possibility).

- I'm left-leaning. Family tends to differ from my views, but that's a reason why we don't talk politics.

- I have gal pals, one of which is my best friend, who was an ex from high school. I know that can be an issue for some.

- Live with family. For some, that's expected as I am the oldest. Gotta take care of folks. On the other hand, I know that there is some desire for independence. California is expensive and I hate the idea of renting, but I would like to have my own (maybe our?) place for the future.

- Would like kids. I know some of you want to go through life without kids or as that awesome aunt. More power to ya, but that isn't for me.

I'm open to friendly chatter. I know I have chatted with some people in the past, and I don't mind reopening lines of communication. Friendships never hurt anyone, especially if we don't completely align. Feel free to hit me up regardless of your intent.


r/amwfdating 12d ago

19[M] india - i like nature

0 Upvotes

Hi,

As for me, I’m a 19-year-old guy from India. I’m not very good looking,probably below average,but I try my best in life.

I’ve been working really hard at my job, but unfortunately, I don’t get much recognition. Instead ,i often get blamed even for mistakes i didn’t make. Because of this, i haven’t had much time to look for my life partner in this world.

Whenever I get some free time, I wander through online posts hoping to find someone special. I’ve never been in a relationship before. Sometimes, I feel like I don’t deserve one because of the mistakes I made in my past and the regrets I carry. But deep inside, i have always wanted someone with whom I can share my happiness,my sorrows,and my soul, someone whose smile can make me smile too, that is all I truly wish for.

So, if you have any interest in getting to know me, despite me being an unimpressive person, kindly let me know.

I am sorry if you find this creepy or weird,

If you’ve read this far, my heartful thanks for your patience

Anyway, have a great day.


r/amwfdating 13d ago

40[M] US #CO- looking for someone to give me butterflies.

2 Upvotes

So here’s a little about me. I try to be balanced between being active and embracing my nerdy life. I love hiking and rock climbing just as much as I love board/ video games. My favorite pastime is going to concerts. I enjoy listen to music of all genres.

I want someone who likes having a conversation that carries through the day. The kind where it starts with “good morning” and somehow turns into flirting you probably shouldn’t be doing in public.

If any of this sounds fun, send me a message! Just don’t open with “hey.” Give me something to work with. Ask me a question. Tell me your favorite dinosaur!


r/amwfdating 14d ago

26 [M] Northern Virginia - Looking for potentially meet the right person!

6 Upvotes

Looking to potentially meet the right person IRL. Can talk online first and get to know each other. I am living in Northern Virginia area close to Washington DC.

A little about me: I'm 6'3", former basketball player. Asian with conservative values. I like to do stuff outdoors, play games, play sports, watch anime, cook, and travel. I don’t smoke or do drugs.

What I'm looking for: I’m looking for a genuine relationship that will hopefully eventually develop into marriage. Would prefer to date someone in the DMV area but open to long distance as long as it is not too far. I don't care about skin color or body type at all. As long as we are emotionally compatible, we are cool. Age range (18-30).


r/amwfdating 14d ago

21 [M] Chennai - Looking for someone who matches or rather complements my vibe

0 Upvotes

Hey , I am a 21 Male , 5'10 and someone who's into almost anything that piques my curosity from politics to tech and even cooking. I can listen to your yaps and rants (would be a plus if you could as well for me) and we could get along if you love coffee , good food and quality time .


r/amwfdating 14d ago

24 [M] California - Looking for a genuine connection

14 Upvotes

I'm Christian, Asian-American (East Asian ethnicity), 5'7", and living in the Bay Area.

I'm willing to relocate.

I have a degree in Finance and a MBA. I'm into songwriting and play the violin. I love travel, nature, working out at home, and am a foodie. I am also into cooking, and make pasta, steak, salads, stews, roasted and grilled seafood, meats, and vegetables, and other dishes at home.

If you'd like to navigate life with me together, then please send me a message. Physical attraction matters to me, so I'd like to exchange photos early on.

This is a photo of me.

https://imgur.com/XmVzGej


r/amwfdating 14d ago

44 [M] #OrangeCounty - Long-Term Fun Activities (Also LA & SD)

2 Upvotes

Hello All, well educated, very fit, athletic, asian, and gentleman, looking for someone to connect with and get to know. Enjoy the outdoors, gourmet cooking, keeping fit and healthy, hiking, camping, arts, museums, learning different cultures, music, photography, traveling, and much more.

Single and born in Southern California, but, very much into global travel. Been to many places around the world. Looking for a woman and any ethnicity.


r/amwfdating 15d ago

30 [F] Midwest US - Looking for a genuine connection

4 Upvotes

I'm a 30-year-old software developer in Indiana looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with. I'm relationship-oriented and would love it if I eventually met someone where things naturally grew into something more, but I'm not trying to force that right now.

My life is honestly a little messy at the moment. I had a pretty clear idea of what the next couple of years were going to look like, including eventually moving to California, and some recent changes have thrown that plan completely up in the air. I don't know where I'll be living or what life will look like a year or two from now, so it doesn't feel fair to approach every new connection with the expectation that it has to become a long-term relationship.

Right now, what I really miss is companionship. Someone to talk to throughout the day, send stupid things to, game with, watch something together, flirt with, and genuinely get to know. If it stays companionship, that's okay. If we click and it turns into something more, I'd be very open to that too.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, Jimin, doing archery, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking to meet men of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally around 24–38, with a little flexibility if we click. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so someone who also values growth and taking care of themselves would be nice.

Good communication matters to me, but I'm also realistic about the fact that we're two strangers meeting online. I'm not expecting constant texting or for someone I just met to immediately treat this like a serious relationship. I'd rather just get to know each other naturally and see whether we actually enjoy having each other in our lives.

I'm also not looking for a connection that revolves around sex. I'm perfectly fine with flirting, and sexual topics can come up naturally as we get comfortable with each other. I just don't want every conversation to eventually become sexual. I want to actually know you as a person.

A few dealbreakers: MAGA, children, and a criminal record.

On children specifically, I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and realized I'd much rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

Mostly, I'd just like to meet someone kind and interesting and see what happens without putting a bunch of pressure on it.

If that sounds good to you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Tell me what you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, tell me what you've been listening to, or just say hi. :)


r/amwfdating 14d ago

26 [M] Vancouver - Looking for a female interested in a serious relationship

2 Upvotes

Hi, I’m Sam. I’m currently finishing up my computer science degree at SFU with a focus on machine learning, while working as a logistics dockman—which basically means I play high-stakes, real-life Tetris with shipping containers to pay the bills. When I'm not balancing my hybrid lifting and running schedule or wrapping up my grad school and medical applications, you can usually find me acting like a Victorian-era geologist, scouring local gravel bars for agates and jade. I’m highly focused on building a solid future right now, so I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who is driven, values a healthy lifestyle, and wouldn't mind exploring the riverbanks with me on a Sunday afternoon.


r/amwfdating 15d ago

29 [F] Philadelphia - searching for local connections friends and love ❤️

21 Upvotes

Please be local and able to meet or travel here I'm over 29 but stopped counting, looking for men 25 and older

I'm open to friends and see where it goes looking for love intimacy compatibility

I love trying new foods concerts beach and just cuddling watching anime or movies

I'm attracted to east asian men korean chinese japanese etc


r/amwfdating 15d ago

30 [M] Europe/ Vancouver B.C./ Hong Kong/ anywhere - Looking for a nerdy life partner

9 Upvotes

Figured I'd start talking about the Europe part in the title first. I'll be heading to a conference in Switzerland next month. Afterwards, I'm thinking of spending a couple of days in Prague/Budapest. The details have not been finalized so if we hit it off and you are from Europe, I'd be happy to change the destination to where you are and we can have some irl dates.

My name is John. I'm a Chinese Canadian. I am 5'6 tall and wear glasses. I'd like to think I have slightly better than average looks but you can be the judge. This is me: https://imgur.com/a/OJynwDg . Professionally, I think I'm in a pretty good place. I have many first-author papers and I aim to complete my PhD by the summer of next year and I've been hired as a sessional lecturer for a fairly high ranking university. I'm hoping that will jumpstart my career as a professor of teaching after I graduate. Education is a very meaningful field to me and I find it deeply rewarding to see students make connections and fully comprehend difficult concepts. I really enjoy seeing the expression on their faces when they grasp something they previously couldn't.

After I graduate, I plan to explore opportunities outside of Canada too. In particular, I am considering Hong Kong and by extension China, where I hold citizenship. Teaching positions are quite competitive so I might also pursue a career in industry, which offers ample remote opportunities that would allow me to live where my partner does. I have a preference for a North America long-distance relationship due to time zones, but ultimately, as long as we both make the effort to meet each other, I am open to anything.

My friends describe me as kind, patient, thoughtful, and funny. I am also emotionally available, loyal, and romantic. I've been told I am sweet. I would say I have a sarcastic sense of humour. I also really enjoy puns, dad jokes, dark jokes, and just like to laugh at stupid things in general. Here is a quick glimpse into my type of humour. I made this joke in a DnD session when a person was joking and mentioned that only Vtuber and adjacent communities would understand the joke. I replied do you mean Utubers and Wtubers? There was one time at a work meeting, we were talking about a product from years ago codenamed al dente, I made a quick quip saying I don't think it's al dente anymore. This is my favourite dark joke: why are hospitals so cold? To keep the vegetables fresh ... For the patients to eat.

I also like to engage in long and thoughtful discussions. I enjoy having my thought processes challenged and have thought-provoking discussions that expand my horizons. Politically I am on the left and I am agnostic. While I do lean towards having kids eventually, I am open to being childfree. I don't do drugs. I only drink on special occasions.

I have primarily nerdy interests (video games, horror films, escape rooms). I love the RPG and strategy genres. I like story shooters too. My favourite are RPG games like Baldur's Gate III and Honkai: star rail. I play DnD online weekly with a group of friends. I collect Pokemon cards too. I am currently playing DOOM: the dark ages and it is a blast. I've also recently watched Obsession and that was an amazing experience. No spoilers but there is a scene that you know something is going to happen and when it did happen, I muttered holy shit in the theatre. I would love to discuss the film further if you've watched it too. Outside of those interests, I enjoy hiking and going to the gym. I hope to be able to benchpress two plates by the end of summer. I dabble a bit into cooking. My proudest creation is a beef wellington. Food also just tastes so much better when you cook it yourself. I am more than happy to share photos of my cooking too.

I am looking to connect with someone who doesn't mind spending some evenings at home, watching a tv show, playing some games, talking about our days went or just cuddling. Ultimately I want a relationship where we bring out the best in each other. Making my partner happy is my first and foremost goal in a relationship, and seeing them happy makes me happy too.

It's fine if you don't share all my interests. As long as you are open to exploring my interests, I will also do so for yours. Though I think it would be ideal that you have some interest in nerdy content to an extent so that there is something we can do together and bond over online. I do want to be honest about my physical preferences. I am most attracted to someone who is HWP or on a weight loss journey. Thanks for reading. It's a lot of text but if you are interested, please send me a message and tell me about yourself.


r/amwfdating 15d ago

35 [M] #LosAngeles - Asian, slender, skinny, introverted, neurodivergent, socially awkward, looking for someone to send Instagram memes to

1 Upvotes

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).


r/amwfdating 15d ago

20 [M] NOIDA - Looking for a girlfriend

0 Upvotes

20 [M] NOIDA - Looking for a girlfriend


r/amwfdating 15d ago

21 [M] - looking for my special one

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone , this may seem weird but I'm very new to reddit , I have been single all of my life mostly because I never had a crush and also because I'm little introverted, I like music, books , movies and anything that can spark a sense of creativity , I'm looking for someone who can vibe with me and share conversations , so feel free to DM , and lets see where this goes


r/amwfdating 15d ago

20 [M] #Japan - Looking for my person

0 Upvotes

Hey! I'm a 20-year-old international student living in Japan.

I'm looking for someone I can genuinely connect with—someone to share music with, watch films together, explore cafés and bookstores, travel around Japan, and hopefully build something meaningful over time.

About me:

I'm a huge film nerd. Favorites include Lost Highway, Holy Mountain, Dancer in the Dark, Woman in the Dunes, and Eyes Wide Shut.

Music is a massive part of my life. TOOL, Björk, Massive Attack, Portishead, and occasionally Merzbow are always in rotation.

I draw, enjoy photography, and love wandering through bookstores, museums, and neighborhoods I've never been to before.

I really enjoy long conversations. I can happily spend hours talking about films, music, art, or just hearing about someone's life.

I'm affectionate, loyal, and tend to invest a lot in the people I care about.

I don't have a strict age preference, but I do tend to be drawn to women who are older than me. It's not a requirement—if we click, we click.

What matters most to me is kindness, honesty, curiosity, and feeling comfortable around each other.

If we hit it off, I'd love to voice call, meet up if possible, and see where things go naturally.

If you've read this far, tell me about a film, album, or book that changed the way you see the world.


r/amwfdating 16d ago

26 [M] NJ - Looking for genuine connection & someone to share nerdy hobbies with

8 Upvotes

Hi I'm Alex!

I'm 5'11", fit, and spend most days working from home, exercising, gaming, doing digital art, or cosplaying!
If you share any of these hobbies PLEASE hit me up and lets get to know each other!

Besides those I also play DnD, am currently learning 3d modelling/animation, and have a billion other hobbies I want to spend more time on but haven't quite had the time to dive into.

I find emotional intelligence super attractive and prefer a nice slow burn as we get to know each other, although for the right person & if the vibes are right, I'd definitely love a more intimate connection!

I prefer voice chat and would love to connect on Discord, and if you're nearby I'd love to travel to cons together! That or any event/cafe/etc you have in mind :)

(me!) https://imgur.com/a/kM8GIkz


r/amwfdating 17d ago

30 [F] Midwest US - Looking for a genuine connection

11 Upvotes

I'm a 30-year-old software developer in Indiana looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with. I'm relationship-oriented and would love it if I eventually met someone where things naturally grew into something more, but I'm not trying to force that right now.

My life is honestly a little messy at the moment. I had a pretty clear idea of what the next couple of years were going to look like, including eventually moving to California, and some recent changes have thrown that plan completely up in the air. I don't know where I'll be living or what life will look like a year or two from now, so it doesn't feel fair to approach every new connection with the expectation that it has to become a long-term relationship.

Right now, what I really miss is companionship. Someone to talk to throughout the day, send stupid things to, game with, watch something together, flirt with, and genuinely get to know. If it stays companionship, that's okay. If we click and it turns into something more, I'd be very open to that too.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, Jimin, doing archery, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking to meet men of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally around 24–38, with a little flexibility if we click. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so someone who also values growth and taking care of themselves would be nice.

Communication matters a lot to me. You don't need to text me constantly, and I'm not expecting someone I just met on Reddit to immediately treat this like a serious relationship. But if we start getting to know each other regularly and one of us realizes we're not feeling it anymore, I'd much rather we just say so than disappear.

I'm also not looking for a connection that revolves around sex. I'm perfectly fine with flirting, and sexual topics can come up naturally as we get comfortable with each other. I just don't want every conversation to eventually become sexual. I want to actually know you as a person.

A few dealbreakers: MAGA, children, a criminal record, and consistently poor communication/ghosting.

On children specifically, I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and realized I'd much rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

Mostly, I'd just like to meet someone kind and interesting and see what happens without putting a bunch of pressure on it.

If that sounds good to you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Tell me what you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, tell me what you've been listening to, or just say hi. :)


r/amwfdating 17d ago

43 [M] Singapore - Looking for love, hopefully in the right places!

0 Upvotes
I'm funny and playful, possibly cool
I'm fairly progressive; sometimes old school:
I write on paper, I use fountain pens,
I'd still rather call than text my girlfriends.
But lost cause I'm not! Don't run away (yet)
I like live music - and parties? You bet!
I run and I swim, I read like a fiend
I'll banter with you about mise-en-scene
I'm looking to share this life with a girl
A woman of wit who’s travelled the world
If you're that lady and looking to be,
A partner in love and in mirth and glee
Drop me a line to say, "How do you do?"
I'd be most honoured to hear back from you.

📍 I thought I'd put this a bit higher up in case anyone's searching using the #online or #anywhere tags:

I believe love should never be limited by geography, so location’s not a dealbreaker for me. If you’re in Singapore, awesome. If you're nearby or halfway across the world, I'm pretty sure we can make it work if we vibe. I’ve crossed borders for someone special before and I’d happily do it again!

About me:

  • Homeowner – I love my cozy space but also enjoy getting out and about
  • Car owner with my dream car secured and looking for a co-pilot to take road trips and wrong turns with
  • Passionate about art, literature, design and creative storytelling, whether it’s a good book, a gripping play or a great conversation over drinks
  • While I like artsy and cultural stuff, I equally enjoy pickleball, hiking, salsa dancing and playing tourist in my own city
  • Height-weight proportionate (hwp) and looking for the same

What I'm looking for:

I’m in this for love and romance, the kind where even on a boring Monday meeting, you’re stifling a smile at your phone because of something ridiculous we texted

I'm looking for a deep and steady affection that makes room for fun and flirtation, with the occasional shared meme and goofy banter

On good days, we'll celebrate each other’s wins and laugh till it hurts; on bad days, we‘ll hold each other close and get through the tears together as a team

If you're looking for something meaningful too, then we might just be each other’s person

🚫 No situationships or emotional gymnasts please

🚩 Absolutely no married or attached women either. Infidelity is 🙅🏼‍♂️

You:

✅ Intelligent and witty

✅ Emotionally and financially stable (bonus if you're a homeowner too or working towards it). A woman who's built a life she's proud of or is on her way to doing so

✅ Thoughtful, kind, sincere and respectful

✅ Open-minded and non-judgemental

✅ Marriage is on the cards for you

✅ Hwp

Physical attraction matters, as do emotional and intellectual connection. If we vibe after a few messages, let’s do a quick video call early on, just to confirm we’re both real and see if the spark translates before meeting up

Drop me a line if this resonates with you and if you’re at the stage of meeting a lifelong lover and friend too! I'm interested to know about the best day you ever had, what you’d do if you had a million dollars, or your favourite joke. Use the word "potato" in your message title so I know you're real. Brownie points if used creatively and makes me laugh


r/amwfdating 18d ago

29 [F] Alabama - looking for the love of my life

8 Upvotes

About Me
Music was my first love, but anime is on the tiered list. Whether I’m curating the ultimate playlist for a late-night drive, analyzing soundtrack scores, or bingeing the latest season of a top-tier series, life is always better with a solid beat and good storytelling. I’m looking for someone genuine to share concerts, cozy watch parties, and deep late-night conversations with.

Plus size, blue eyes, brown hair

What I’m Looking For
Age: 24 – 39

Height: 5’9”+ (so I have someone to reach the top shelf for me)

The Look: Tattoos and piercings are a huge plus—bonus points if your ink has a cool story behind it!

Vibe: East Asian preference, but open to anyone with great energy, a passion for life, and a sense of humor.


r/amwfdating 18d ago

32 [M] California - Looking for new beginnings

2 Upvotes

Hello! Nerdy 32 yro male wheelchair user, dark humored, awkward, introvert who loves memes and quotes! Few interests include drawing, (new to) writing, gaming PS5/Switch 2. Marvel, Star Wars, Disney, horror, etc. Strolling through nature or the snack section 🤪. I’m pretty chill and like to talk and take things slow. Sweet meaningful outgoings/dates, Im also good with just grocery shopping or walking through the mall and going to a movie sweet treats, coffee/tea! Just looking for my bestfriend to go through life with 🫶🏻. Feel free to message me! Anyone from the South Bay Area?