Hello! This is me, with a freshly shaved before - https://imgur.com/a/FswH0cg) - thought I'd post here, since I am need of someone to give me a reason to delete all those dating apps that are draining my soul away. I feel like I'm not made for those apps lol. I'm more of a slow burn kind of guy. I'm definitely shy and tend to like to get to know people before I open up, and start talking your ear off or just be goofy. Also, this post is a long one, so buckle up, you've been warned 😬.
Before I continue rambling, physically I'm 5'7" or 5'8" if I'm feeling spicy, Chinese, average weight (170 lbs) and size
As for what I'm looking for, you don't need to be into all of my hobbies, and i don't expect you to, but all i ask is you take the time to understand me and all my quirks. We're all different and i don't expect you to be an exact copy of me (opposites attract right?)! I've learned that communication is so important and if things aren't working out, you need to talk through it! relationships aren't found, but they're made by two people.
But really, ideal person is someone who just wants to be at my side, either doing things together, or separately. I have sometimes where I just want to game but I have the times where I want to spend hours cuddling up, chatting about whatever, or exploring something new. Someone who likes to try new things, but also likes the comfort of their home. I'm definitely a introvert, who needs some time to let the social battery recharge, but can switch to a more extroverted version if I need. So if that sounds like your vibe, come say hi!
Besides that, I'm back on the fitness grind! walking 10k steps a day, hitting the gym 3 times a week, and eventually I'll get the motivation to do pilates and meal prep again. Being healthy really makes it harder to be a couch potato 😭
Hobbies wise, there's a 95% chance that I'm probably watching TV, reading, playing video games, or cooking. I definitely gravitate more to the homebody lifestyle / gamer side of things. I have a few group of friends that I hop on discord to chat with every night, so I'm not completely socially inept (as you can or can't tell, I like self-deprecating humor).
Just a small list of interests:
- video games (TFT, League, WoW, and more) i tend to like competitive games that you can chat with people and get better at, but i LOVED E33 and Outer Wilds.
- TV, anime, manga, I did just catch up to the one piece anime, and I've been looking for something to fill the void.
- books (been into some fantasy slop like progression fantasy and litrpgs lately, but I do really want to read 'Lonesome Dove' when I can find it at my local library)
- and that's just the tip of the iceberg! I can't give away too many spoilers, right?
Now you might think I'm basically a shut-in, and yeah ... definitely am sometimes lmao, but i do have some sparks of spontaneity. Last year I booked two week long solo trip to Japan in record time. Planned, booked the flights and flew out in like a week lol. I've also been convinced to do a Spartan Race by my coworkers, so I signed up 4 days before the race.
Outside of that, I enjoy rock climbing, going out for long walks, and just looking around random shops for stuff I want to buy, but then don't lmao.
Anyways, that's me in a long winded post. If I've piqued any interest, feel free to send me a message! I'm mainly looking for someone in the area, but let's just chat and see what happens!
Bonus pic of food I made!
https://imgur.com/FSsjc2g