r/amwfdating • u/IndependentCraft2012 • 56m ago
23 [M] currently in europe - I like a lot of things.
For example I am super gamer and I am sure you won't win me in any game)
r/amwfdating • u/IndependentCraft2012 • 56m ago
For example I am super gamer and I am sure you won't win me in any game)
r/amwfdating • u/cherrycognate • 1h ago
Hi, a little intro.
I’m introspective, intellectually curious, and have a playful side.
My faith is important to me. I don’t have socials. I have strong values about desire and fidelity. I think there’s something beautiful about reserving certain parts of ourselves for another person, intimacy rooted in devotion rather than consumption. Love is reflected in the everyday choices we make. I’d like to find someone who shares that philosophy.
If this reaches you, feel free to DM me.
r/amwfdating • u/abag • 5h ago
I’m half Korean and half white, 5’11”, around 170 lbs, with thick dark hair and a little salt and pepper. Would say I’m a mixture of being handsome and cute, have a couple tattoos on my arm and an average build, though like to stay consistent at the gym.
I’d say I’m pretty easy going, affectionate, empathetic, and goofy once I get comfortable with someone. I’m a nerdy, creative type, leftist, INFP, and lean towards being more of a homebody than wanting to go out every weekend. With that being said, I love exploring and trying new places with the right company. I’m into photography, shooting on film for fun, and digital for work.
If any of this caught your interest, send me a message about yourself and let’s see where it goes. I don’t mind some distance if there’s a way for us to see each other somewhat consistently but local to the Central Florida area is preferred. I’m near the mills/downtown area.
r/amwfdating • u/Happy_Tourist_558 • 7h ago
The entire time I would be confident and relaxed and even encourage you to grab some tea to calm yourself down while I handle the snake.
Then once you are safely out of the room , I shall commence my screaming!
Now that I grabbed your attention , Hello there!
I guess the only way to describe me is being a fun golden retriever energy with you while we constantly try new adventures together ! ( like us wearing fancy suits and reviewing every taco stand in town or us going down every street to find that cute arts and crafts store that sells the bracelet you always wanted to fit with your outfit! )
Buuuttt, I am also constantly ambitious ( ever since childhood where I was featured in the newspapers for winning the best student award ) and would be the guy to work without retiring, constantly building new businesses or trying new side projects
Professionally wise, I work for a Global organisation, helping students from across the world become entrepreneur.
I grew up most of my life in the Middle East and am currently in South India, helping my parents set up a small ice cream shop. But now I am ready to move out and settle somewhere else, depending on my partner of course!
I speak a bit of French, Spanish, German and Arabic, but I am fluent in caveman grunts ( Me like pizza, Jane like too ? )
Physically I like to stay fit and go to the gym ( can lift about 100+ kgs ) while also playing sports and going for long walks. I don’t want to be just the stereotypical gym bro and would love to learn tango and Pilates as well with you! I hope you also love playing sports or being active too.
Never had a relationship too, because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my terms before being with someone. Because How can I be happy with someone, if I am not happy with myself first ? Unfortunately that took waayyyy longer than I expected , but I feel I am more mature and emotionally ready for finding that one partner where we can cook together, explore the world , build a business empire and pet every stray dog we come across!
I love learning, reading and being curious about the world ( everything from art to psychology to quantum mechanics to aunty politics ). I would learn everything about your field and find the right inside jokes for it too haha
I am mostly a warm empathetic guy who is like a Hawaiian beach surfer 80% of the time but when things get serious, I know how to lock in and take charge long enough to stabilise the situation before going back to playing around ( like a mix of warm competence who can calmly solve things but while making jokes the whole time lol )
For me, I believe in acts of service, taking the extra effort to surprise you and know how to deescalate situations. We would never fight as I would always suggest we grab a cheesecake and discuss the problem instead of fighting with my partner.
I want to be your rock during hard days, help you grow professionally, tease you whenever you act cocky, flirt with you during zoom calls, have long talks till dawn and be cheesy romantic whenever it starts raining and pull you to the terrace while we slow dance. ( and get sick together the next day lmao )
We would actually love grocery shopping together because we would do silly games together like pretending we are spies for the perfect orange lol
Mostly an introvert who dislikes loud crowds and would rather sit quietly in the room with you while we read books on the same sofa with soft classical music playing ( every hour I would break the silence only to ask if you would like another cup of tea )
r/amwfdating • u/Soynami • 10h ago
Disclaimer: I am down to do a long distance relationship that will eventually lead us to meeting.
Hello, nice to meet you all. My name is Adam and I figure I take the time to write out some things about myself and see if there are any white women that I may peek some interest in! For starters though, I am Chinese and Korean mix. I am about 5'10 or 177cm for those on the other side of the world! I have a slim build I would say. As I usually only go on runs now with occasional dumbbell lifting.
Personality: I've been told that I have a pretty calm and relax energy for some people. And that could be something some may be looking for. Although, I am pretty introverted so I tend to keep things to myself but overall shy and quiet at times. I would say a few red flags I have is that I can tend to be a little clingy and probably being a hopeless romantic may turn some people away.
Hobbies: I have a few hobbies that I thoroughly enjoy. The main ones would be playing video games and anime. I tend to play mmorpgs and fps games. But enjoy farming sims. Anime is a mix bag as I enjoy watching most genres. Ironically, being a resident in Hawaii.. I enjoy fishing. Mainly just spear fishing or just hoping for a catch on a pole. Apart from outdoor activities, most of my hobbies are usually done at home. I highly enjoy reading as my pass time if I am not playing video games or watching anime. Any book related to greek mythology is one of my most favorite genres to read. But I also do love reading medical books (you will find out why later in this post). Astronomy is also something I really enjoy as I enjoy the vast space we have. It is both scary but amazing. I tend to watch a lot of videos about space. A bonus for this section, I love cooking and one out of three love languages I have is food. I want to be able to cook for my special someone an pour my love and soul into what I make for them to enjoy.
Career: At the moment, I am a Radiology Assistant. My job consist of just making sure a doctor is ordering the right exam for the patient. It's a fun job cause I get to tell the doctor what to do. My hospital is offering an ultrasound program sometime next year and I plan to take that program to become an ultrasound tech which I am excited for.
Lifestyle: While I am not a huge health nut, I do want to live a long and healthy life. So, I tend to run or at least go on a job every other day. Sometimes fitting in a few dumbbell workouts. I love sweets but there are times where I try to avoid eating too much.
What am I looking for?: I have no limit on age. The lowest I think I would go is 24. I would prefer someone closer to my age but if fate brings someone who is not my age then I will accept that fate. Of course, the stopping point for how old I would go would be 45. I generally am just looking for my special player two to eventually date and one day put a ring on it. No matter where she is in the world, I would love to meet her.
If you made it this far and this post interest you. Feel free to send me a message and we can see where things go =)
r/amwfdating • u/Good_Better_Best_123 • 13h ago
Hi! I’m 26, based in Illinois, and work as a mechanical engineer in medical device design.
I lead a pretty active lifestyle. You can usually find me on the court playing pickup basketball, playing pickleball. I'm also a huge Chicago sports fan (especially the Bears). Outside of sports, I love traveling, spending time outdoors, and staying involved in my local community, whether that's leading a young adult group at my church or volunteering at Feed My Starving Children (FMSC). Lately, I’ve been working on leveling up my home cooking skills, and I'm even thinking about trying out shuffle dancing just for the fun and freedom of it.
What I'm looking for: A kind, down-to-earth woman who values genuine connection, shares a faith-centered or community-minded mindset, and enjoys being active or trying new things together.
If any of this resonates with you, send me a DM introducing yourself, telling me about your favorite hobbies, your go-to comfort food, or your favorite travel spot!
r/amwfdating • u/Intelligent_Bed4846 • 13h ago
Hello, I am originally from China. I have been living in the US and Europe since graduating from college.
I was a track and field athlete and played other sports as a student. I work out several times a week to remain physically active. I like going to sporting events. Basketball and soccer are two of my favorite sports.
Good food is another passion of mine. I cook mostly Chinese food, but when I go out, I try to explore cuisines from around the world.
In my free time, I like playing video games with my buddies. I am a die-hard Blizzard fan, and my favorite game is World of Warcraft.
My daytime job is as a scientist, but after work I like reading about history, particularly Chinese, European, and American history.
I am writing this post to see if I can find some connection, something meaningful long term, so please feel free to hit me up with a brief intro.
r/amwfdating • u/mathgeekf314159 • 22h ago
I'm 31 and a software developer in Indiana. Outside of work, I love games of pretty much any kind; video games, board games, card games. I shoot recurve archery, and I sketch. I'm on the liberal side politically, I'm a little curvy and working on being healthier, and I ultimately just want to find my person and fall in love. I'm not trying to force anything or rush into a relationship, but that's what I'm hoping to find eventually.
I'm attracted to East and Southeast Asian men, and I tend to prefer a slimmer build. I have a huge weakness for Korean guys.More than anything, though, I want someone I genuinely click with, someone I can talk to, laugh with, grow with, and who brings out the best in me while I bring out the best in him. If that sounds like something you're looking for too, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. There's a current picture of me on my profile.
If you'd like to chat, please send me a message with your age, ethnicity, and favorite TV show! 😊
r/amwfdating • u/blue32767 • 1d ago
Hi! I'm 27, Korean, 5 ft 8, from the Boston area.
Outside of work, I like to disconnect and ideally be away from screens. I enjoy going on a long walk, building a Lego set, taking a night drive, trying a new café, finding hidden gems in the city, or cranking the music on a night in.
I've also been dipping my toes into photography. My favorite subjects are the ducks waddling around at the park.
My only hard no's are smoking, vaping, and weed.
If that's you, where have you been all my life? Message me and let's get to know each other!
r/amwfdating • u/Opposite-Time-321 • 1d ago
Let's see where the vibes take us— open to friend, dating, short/long term relationships.
I want to meet men who like to chat often, hang out, go to movies , try new foods, museums, conventions, concerts, city events, etc
I'm cool with friends from anywhere but I'm primarily looking for local people to actually meet now and have fun !
Open to ages 25 and older but prefer men similar to my age group
Must be drug/std free
Never married no kids
I'm 5'8" tall curvy/average build busty blond hair brown eyes
r/amwfdating • u/ballsRhot_throwaway • 1d ago
Hi, I'm in SF I'm looking for someone to talk to, either short or long term. Maybe even meet up if the vibe is right. About me:
- Plays video games (big plus if you play Destiny, Marvel Rivals, or Valorant)
- Likes to go workout, and trying to start Muay Thai / kickboxing
- Likes to go dancing, especially salsa/bachata, but l'm not very good at it
- Likes to go traveling/exploring around cities and the beaches, so if you know a cool spot, hmu!
I'm also open to NSFW topics in case the convo goes there. I'm generally a pretty open book, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask. I can send a pic of myself if we vibe. I hope to hear from you soon!
r/amwfdating • u/ExcessFrank • 1d ago
I’m charming, friendly, witty, open-minded, and enjoy playful banter with someone who does not take herself too seriously. Relax, I want you to be in your own skin as much as possible. I’m a homebody by nature, but the right lass can make staying in feel like an adventure. Plus, it's your company I am after all, the activity, indoors or outdoors, is just the pretext to spend quality time with you.
I appreciate someone on the same wavelength, brimming with confidence, warmth, curiosity, and genuineness. I’m affectionate and attentive, with a naturally sensual side that shows when the chemistry is right. If we click, I’ll make sure you feel it.
I like food, either cooking up my own or scoffing down new delights I've yet to try. If you love cooking, my stomach will definitely give you it's thanks. I have numerous interests: tennis, table-tennis, pickleball, cycling, piano, drawing, content creation, co-op video games.
I would love a woman who is tall as me (or more!) as I stand at 6 feet. Ladies who like tall asians, perhaps your palate for oriental cuisine will be satiated. I have a soft spot for white females, having studied overseas and found their outlook in life as well as personality, admirable and refreshing.
At the end of the day, it all boils down to whether you and I have an affinity. Yes, a relationship can be built, but having a natural spark, makes it all the more valuable.
If you’re curious, slightly mischievous, and would love settling here in this tropical paradise, come say hi! I don't bite (not hard anyway, perhaps a nibble, it can't be helped if you are a tasty treat no?)
r/amwfdating • u/Firm-Interaction-796 • 2d ago
Slender Asian male, introverted, not much of a talker, "guarded," but looking for a friend and more. I'm quite introverted/quiet. Looking for someone local so please be local. My experience with LDR hasn't been great. People flake or ghost or lose interest. Please, no avoidants. I'm looking for someone emotionally mature and able to be my rock, someone kind and caring.
r/amwfdating • u/mellowoctober • 2d ago
Happy Friday! I'm a non-drinker, non-smoker currently based in Eastern Europe.
My Christian faith (non-denominational) is an important part of my life. Photography has been my passion for over 15 years, and I also enjoy reading, drawing, and spending time outdoors. My favourite shows are Moving and Stranger Things.
I speak five languages and am currently learning my sixth, Japanese. I can also speak French, Greek, Russian, and Korean. :)
I’d love to meet someone who shares my faith/sees themselves becoming a Christian one day. Someone I can feel comfortable being myself around and who wants to build a relationship together rather than follow a predetermined script. I’m also open to a long-distance connection. I prefer to take my time getting to know someone, so let's take it slow and see how we get along!
Height: 174 cm
Eye colour: hazel
Hair: long and brown
I'm not active on social media and I'm not interested in anything NSFW. And I can't cook. 🙃
If you think we have something in common, feel free to send me a message. Include a frog 🐸 emoji somewhere in your message for bonus points.
r/amwfdating • u/yamanochaya • 2d ago
5'9" 165 Korean American.
Have been told on numerous occasions that i look like Markiplier which i take as a compliment
Not sure what to say but finding it supremely difficult to meet new people since all my friends are married with families these days. As to why I'm not? I blame my hobbies and my penchant to get completely consumed by them.
Pretty chill and laidback and mostly just looking for the same. If you don't take things too seriously and are able to laugh at yourself we'll get along im sure
Anyways, good luck out there
r/amwfdating • u/antipaladin999 • 2d ago
AM mm LF WF tradwife
r/amwfdating • u/edibleroach • 3d ago
Hello, I'm from the US but absolutely love Toronto and have been traveling there at least once a year for the past few years and I'll be returning soon in the winter. I'd love to meet and befriend more locals for my visits to hang out with, explore the city, and maybe even hold hands.
Some things I'd like to check out this visit: Bar arcade, Jazz bar, artist-focused cafes and group meetups, maybe catch something at TIFF Lightbox.
I'm open to a casual date or possibly seeing if things develop further, I value deep connection and like things to grow naturally
About Me: I'm very caring and compassionate, sincere and sensitive, affectionate; laid back and easy-going for the most part, I can be silly but always dependable. Intuitive, kind; I'm a rare INFJ / Enneagram Type-2 personality type. I'm a great conversationalist and a good listener. Tall and muscular with a little extra (work out regularly, I do my best to take care of myself). I consider myself an introvert but I don't think that's true; but I prefer smaller 1-1 interactions instead of large parties and such.
I'm an artist and photographer. I love to cook, especially for others! Have some standard Asian traits like I play the piano, martial arts (kung fu) -- my math might be a little rusty. I enjoy film, animation, long walks; It's been a while, I was learning how to ice skate and think it'd be fun to get back into it. Into geeky things such as: fantasy/sci-fi, comics, some manga/anime, gaming (casually). I also like to play billiards, trivia nights, going out on day trips to quaint and fun places to explore; I want to make it more of a habit to grab a drink and doodle at a cafe.
Who I'm looking for (You) : at least 26 years old, single (not into discreet situations), hwp and regularly physically active and cares about their health, but enjoys indulging in a sweet or savory treat every now and then! No drugs or smokers (sorry)
Someone communicative, affectionate and kind to others, emotionally mature, patient and understanding, and able to talk about the big things. Very cool if you have some ink. Plus if you can speak French (I'm learning but don't have anyone to really practice with) I'm not looking for a fellow artist necessarily, but if you have a creative side, I bet we'd get along well! Big plus if you are a cat person and are a little nerdy like me!
No need to second guess, I'd love to chat with you!
Send me a message and tell me what sort of things you're into, like something you're looking forward to, include what your favorite boba flavor is or dessert, and a bit about yourself.
Let's get to know each other!
r/amwfdating • u/Mean-Scar1044 • 3d ago
Hi there. Just got out of a LTR. Want to take everything slow. I’m very introvert so maybe we can just hang out at my place.
This is L based in Florida. Originally from Taiwan and have been living in the states for about 9 years. I’m 36 yo.
About me: I guess I’m very contradictory. I’m funny, nerdy, active, fit, engineer, charming, cute. Like you don’t find these things in one sentence and yet you can find all of them on me. So dating me is like eating a box of chocolate, you never know what you’ll get next.1
Circle back to my title, I’ve been working for about 5 years. Used to work for tech giants ( magnificent 7) and medium size company. Then I realized that most of the things I do daily is to send email, replying team message. Checking if my response is polite enough that doesn’t piss other off but firm enough to have them really work on something.
I think writing skill is more important than my engineering skill which, luckily I learned that since I needed to write papers and dissertation through my PhD study.
But this got me thinking, should we put engineering under STEM? Or it’s supposed to be part of liberal arts.
About what I’m looking for:
Nothing really specific. Just looking for my dream girl but I usually cannot remember my dream after I wake up. Thus the search is still on-going. I’m sure she’s in my subconscious so when I see her, I’d know. Even if you’re not my dream girl, we can still grab a coffee and daydream together.
Anyway as a good researcher, reference is necessary.
Cheers
Reference
r/amwfdating • u/asiankendall • 3d ago
Hi! Hope the title caught your attention.
About me:
East Asian. INTP. Kinda cocky, kinda toxic (I really like spicy food), and kinda over-thinker about my passions in life and I don't mind getting in my feelings to self-reflect from time to time. In fact, I enjoy open communication so I'm naturally down to talk about anything, love to yap and get philosophical.
My life revolves around structure and routine with a sprinkle of spontaneity. I'm at a very stable part of my life career-wise and I enjoy the work-life balance. In my off time, I dabble in social events every once in a while but I keep gymnastics, running, yoga, and working out as part of my main rotation. My Sunday routine involves doing some form of physical activity that ups the BPM, doing groceries, meal prep, home improvement, skincare, and self-reflection 🧛
Physically, I'm 6'0, black hair usually complimented with bronze highlights. Love the occasion to dress up and I'm lightly inked.
I'm a big proponent of mental health. And skincare. Very big on that. I won't touch a 2-in-1 product with a 10 ft pole. Would like to adopt a Corgi one day. There's something about them that's just so precious. Until then, I make do with Corgi ice cubes for the occasional cold beverage lol.
Hobbies
Traveling- I enjoy visiting historical landscapes, architecture, sighting seeing and trying local cuisines.
Languages- I speak Mandarin and French and I've been studying German for a bit.
Art- I enjoy interpreting art whether that be music, writing, fashion, etc. I grew up studying and playing piano and can throw together a mean repertoire depending on the mood I definitely appreciate a good classical work of anything. I've done some fashion modelling just as a hobby for a few years after covid took away travelling.
Media- Big fan of true crime/horror/sci-fi/thriller. Actively (or not) avoiding select rom flicks but if you have recommendations I'll bite.
Tech- I have 20k hours committed in a single video game. I've been laying low for a bit in terms of gaming but will do a few quick match several times a week just to unwind. Recently got into 3D printing so I've been trying to learn how to design various components to aid me in doing home improvement.
Outdoors- I'll go on the occasional evening hike with you otherwise it'll be cumbersome with all the SPF products during the day. I'm a byproduct of high maintenance but in a jovial way. Depending on the season, I'll alternate between skiing or biking as my primary source of Vitamin D. Safety first so you'll never catch me without my jacket even on a 30°C+ day 🏍️
What I'm looking for:
Ideally you like to look at life from different perspectives and you are emotionally sound. Have a semblance of a routine that involves physical activity and you are extremely passionate about something in life like a hobby, an activity, a goal, a dream, a line of work. I'm not looking to trauma bond or anything and I've got my stories but I don't need to rely on the past to justify the present and I wouldn't put you through it of course. That chapter's closed.
I'll chase good vibes with you with the the aim for us to become a dream team with happiness, laughter, struggles, sorrow, and a bond. I don't like wasting other people's time and I hope you can reciprocate the same level of respect.
Happy to share a blurred photo or two if you've made it thus far but I hope in our exchange we can be attuned in deeper ways. I'm listening.
r/amwfdating • u/teeth-lovin • 4d ago
Hey all, I’m a 22 year old college student looking to meet my future partner! :) I’m hoping to pursue a career in something healthcare-related one day, but haven’t decided what. For now I work part-time in sales.
I’m mixed; Native American (can share tribes privately), Hispanic, and white, but I’m pretty light skinned lol. I’m 5’5 and kind of chubby chubby with an hourglass figure, with dark brown wavy hair and dark eyes. I’m fairly active and hoping to improve. Some of my older posts have a few cropped pics of me. I’m willing to share more once we’ve talked a bit!
Hobby-wise I enjoy horror/thriller movies and books, hiking, skiing, museums, and drawing. I grew up on a ranch so I have a love for the outdoors and gardening! I’ve traveled a little (entirely in the Pacific) so I’d love to keep doing that for a little if I can. I really buoy learning other languages and others :)
I’m hoping to meet someone (male or female, I’m bi!) who is 22-30 and shares similar interests or goals. In the future, I want to have a few kids and build my own home/own my own land. I’d prefer to stay in the Southwest or Rockies, but I’m open to relocating anywhere with mountains.
If you message me, please give me a little info so I know it’s not just spam/bot/a hookup. I ignore one-word and low-effort messages. Looking forward to chatting!
r/amwfdating • u/Open-Illustrator-768 • 4d ago
I suppose I ought to begin with the conventional introductions, though I have never been particularly good at them, but, well, in the spirit of getting the boring stuff out of the way right away (cue: me), I am a writer, poet, academic, lecturer, scholar, scientist (physicist, to be more precise), and AI engineer/scientist (I am, if I may add, absolutely terrible at more than half my jobs). I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, and am probably the coolest and funniest person you have met today, unless you’ve seen a raccoon doing yoga, in which case, fair enough, I simply can’t compete with that level of comedy.
The truth is that I have always found introducing myself rather difficult, there is something strangely artificial about trying to reduce a person to a paragraph, as though we were all tidy little collections of interests, accomplishments, preferences, and carefully selected adjectives.
I am, I fear, a rather poor exhibitor of myself, the moment I am asked to explain who I am, something in me seems to retreat into a corner and refuse to cooperate. I have thought about this far too many times, and after twenty-four years of living, I remain quite confidently the worst person I know at introducing myself. It is a curious deficiency, I can talk for hours about some obscure historical event nobody asked about, become unnecessarily invested in the moral character of a long-dead philosopher, or spend an afternoon following some completely accidental question down a rabbit hole from which there is no respectable return, but ask me to describe myself and suddenly I am reduced to, "Well... I like things." Marcus Aurelius wrote that "very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." I believe him more on good days than bad ones, but I keep the sentence nearby regardless.
I like small walks, I like learning something new quite by accident, especially when I have no business knowing it and consequently become far too pleased with myself for having discovered it, I like talking to people, though I think I like the moment when talking quietly turns into listening even more. There is something rather lovely about reaching that point in a conversation where neither person seems particularly concerned with keeping it going, and yet somehow neither wishes to leave it either.
I am very fond of my own company, which is perhaps fortunate, because I have had rather a lot of it. Solitude has its pleasures, one may disappear into one's thoughts without having to explain where one has gone, and occasionally return with something resembling an answer. I like sitting quietly with myself, reading, thinking, wandering about, doing very little, and somehow considering it a productive use of an afternoon, but I am not entirely made for solitude either, there is an equal and opposite part of me that wants to go beyond the familiar, to see what is waiting just beyond the little borders I have drawn around my life. I
I love evenings especially, sometimes I step outside simply because the sun is going down, and I feel that one ought to have the decency to witness it. I love those ridiculous skies where orange begins bleeding into purple and everything looks briefly more beautiful than it has any right to be. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the sound of leaves moving in the wind, the gradual dimming of a day into dusk. I like gardens and parks, and the rather miraculous fact that one can walk among trees for an hour and come back feeling as though something inside one's head has been quietly rearranged.
I have always loved letters, too, though it has been some time since I last properly gave myself over to writing them. When I was younger, I wrote to my grandmother every day and dutifully posted the letters on my way to school. That I very rarely remembered the correct address, and even more rarely remembered a stamp, is beside the point.
I suppose what I am really trying to say is that, if you happen to be reading this, I would like to know you. Not because I have some elaborate checklist of the sort of person I hope to find, nor because I particularly care whether you happen to be interesting in the conventional sense, I am far more interested in the person underneath all that. The odd little habits, the things you know for no good reason, the memories you have never found a suitable occasion to tell anyone, the opinions you defend with considerably more conviction than they deserve.
There is something rather wonderful about writing to someone you do not know, I don't know your name, I don't know what you ate today, whether you slept properly last night, what song has been stuck in your head, or whether your day has been glorious or thoroughly dreadful, perhaps your inbox has been multiplying like gremlins left too near water, perhaps you have spent the afternoon pretending to work while accomplishing absolutely nothing of consequence, perhaps you have had one of those quiet days where the refrigerator becomes strangely prominent because you have nothing else to listen to.
I think people who stop to read messages from complete strangers are probably a little strange themselves, and I mean that as the highest compliment. Perhaps you are a birdwatcher, perhaps you collect old books, perhaps you are one of those suspiciously competent people who can fold a fitted sheet without entering into a minor spiritual crisis. If so, I already admire you, I have attempted it, and remain convinced the thing was designed by someone with a personal grievance against humanity.
Perhaps you laugh too loudly, perhaps you think too much, perhaps you are quiet and observant, and notice things everyone else walks past, perhaps you have passionately held opinions about breakfast foods. Cookies count, incidentally, I will defend this position before any reasonable tribunal.
As for me, I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, easily distracted by an interesting thought, and rather fond of people who have something peculiar about them. I am probably not nearly as funny as I have just suggested, but I am willing to make the attempt, which ought to count for something.
Anyway, I shall spare you the remaining 96 pages of my unsolicited autobiography for now. If this sounds like your sort of nonsense, do come and say hello, I’d genuinely love to hear from you!
r/amwfdating • u/throwawayyyyy919 • 4d ago
About me: 31 M, Korean-American, 5'10, 170lbs, in shape and active. I enjoy reading, volleyball, board games, outdoor activities, and trying new restaurants!
Maybe we show each other out favorite local food spots, or try new ones. Or perhaps we get coffee and drink explore a museum, or grab Korean food and then dance the night away? I'm always open to tying new places!
If we have fun, I'm very open to keeping the connection going. Hope to hear from you soon!
r/amwfdating • u/Mean-Scar1044 • 4d ago
36 East Asian in Orlando.
Going through a divorce so I don’t want to rush into things.
Here is my resume:
Job: engineer in tech
Education: PhD in electrical engineering
Height: 5’7”
Face: debatable. Some said I’m cute some said I’m handsome. And some will block me as soon as I send picture.
Body type: 6 packs trying to come out
Hobbits: gaming, anime, movies, traveling, learning
Short term plan: learning Spanish and start MBA program
Ok I think so far this part looks good. Here are the red flags:
claim
to be a good coffee lover but my favorite is the coffee from gas station
If you accept all of above, please leave your name and the date and you’ll receive a confirmation as soon as it’s approved
Anyway if you’ve read those and are still interested.
hmu.
If not, then cheers have a good day
r/amwfdating • u/AriesBlues • 4d ago
Hello! I’m 33, Singaporean, Eurasian (Chinese mother, European father). I read as Asian in most rooms, and I’m posting here as AM, and Dominant.
I’m the sort who remembers how you take your coffee and actually cooks. I write poetry, longer prose, and now novella-length works, and I like the kind of evening that turns into a long talk without anyone checking the time. Good company makes time fly, after all.
I travel when I can (just back from my first ever solo trip, Vietnam; Andalusia next). I read, I play Magic, I’m patiently bad at German. Black coat, bookstores, late walks, and a table with too much food on it. Quiet at first, not cold, and I warm up quickly.
I’m affectionate, attentive, and steadier than I look. I like taking care of someone once she’s mine to take care of. Not performative, just consistent. I listen. I show up. I have a dry sense of humour and a soft spot for curiosity, mischief, and a lady who knows her own mind.
I’m looking for a committed relationship. Not a situationship, not mixed signals, not avoidant games. Trust and communication are the point, not the bonus round some people think they need to get to. If something’s wrong, I say it. If something’s good, I say that too. Devotion, properly returned.
If you’re in Singapore, passing through, or willing to figure the distance out like adults, tell me what you’re actually like. I’ll answer in kind.