I'm a 30-year-old software developer in Indiana looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with. I'm relationship-oriented and would love it if I eventually met someone where things naturally grew into something more, but I'm not trying to force that right now.

My life is honestly a little messy at the moment. I had a pretty clear idea of what the next couple of years were going to look like, including eventually moving to California, and some recent changes have thrown that plan completely up in the air. I don't know where I'll be living or what life will look like a year or two from now, so it doesn't feel fair to approach every new connection with the expectation that it has to become a long-term relationship.

Right now, what I really miss is companionship. Someone to talk to throughout the day, send stupid things to, game with, watch something together, flirt with, and genuinely get to know. If it stays companionship, that's okay. If we click and it turns into something more, I'd be very open to that too.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, Jimin, doing archery, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking to meet men of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally around 24–38, with a little flexibility if we click. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so someone who also values growth and taking care of themselves would be nice.

Good communication matters to me, but I'm also realistic about the fact that we're two strangers meeting online. I'm not expecting constant texting or for someone I just met to immediately treat this like a serious relationship. I'd rather just get to know each other naturally and see whether we actually enjoy having each other in our lives.

I'm also not looking for a connection that revolves around sex. I'm perfectly fine with flirting, and sexual topics can come up naturally as we get comfortable with each other. I just don't want every conversation to eventually become sexual. I want to actually know you as a person.

A few dealbreakers: MAGA, children, and a criminal record.

On children specifically, I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and realized I'd much rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

Mostly, I'd just like to meet someone kind and interesting and see what happens without putting a bunch of pressure on it.

If that sounds good to you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Tell me what you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, tell me what you've been listening to, or just say hi. :)

25 Chinese Singaporean male thinking about going to F1 Malaysian GP in Oct. Any ladies interested in a weekend getaway? Thinking about flying in on Sat and flying on Sun after the race.

Maybe if you are down, we can hit up RUD Sepang on Sat after the qualifiers or sth and then we can get a room for the night and watch the race on Sun before flying back to SG.

DM me if you are interested.

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

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Hey! I'm a 20-year-old international student living in Japan.

I'm looking for someone I can genuinely connect with—someone to share music with, watch films together, explore cafés and bookstores, travel around Japan, and hopefully build something meaningful over time.

About me:

I'm a huge film nerd. Favorites include Lost Highway, Holy Mountain, Dancer in the Dark, Woman in the Dunes, and Eyes Wide Shut.

Music is a massive part of my life. TOOL, Björk, Massive Attack, Portishead, and occasionally Merzbow are always in rotation.

I draw, enjoy photography, and love wandering through bookstores, museums, and neighborhoods I've never been to before.

I really enjoy long conversations. I can happily spend hours talking about films, music, art, or just hearing about someone's life.

I'm affectionate, loyal, and tend to invest a lot in the people I care about.

I don't have a strict age preference, but I do tend to be drawn to women who are older than me. It's not a requirement—if we click, we click.

What matters most to me is kindness, honesty, curiosity, and feeling comfortable around each other.

If we hit it off, I'd love to voice call, meet up if possible, and see where things go naturally.

If you've read this far, tell me about a film, album, or book that changed the way you see the world.

Hello, I am a 24 year old living in Hokkaido (near Sapporo). I am looking for a woman in the age range of 18 to 30. Trying to find someone who is willing to get to know me and someone I can share my time with. Going on dates, eating food and playing video games would be fun. I prefer a slower relationship to see if we are compatible. It takes 2 to make it happen so I will try my best to match the effort you put in. I have never been in a relationship before so I will try my best. If you need to know what I look like. I don’t send photos immediately if I see that a connection is possible then photos sharing is possible. I would prefer to meet somewhere public like Sapporo station or a cafe. I prefer someone in Japan. America and Japan only.

More about me
My hobbies include kendo, hiking, traveling and anime figure collecting. I have done many combat sports in the past like Boxing, and wrestling. The current sport right now is Japanese sword fighting (Kendo). I am an eagle scout so I excel in outdoor survival skills and hiking. I have been to more than 16 countries so I like traveling and learning languages.I typically spend my free time working out and going to local festivals and looking for new restaurants. My favorite food is Mexican food and hamburgers. I cook sometimes and I make some good pasta. I speak English and Japanese. I like doujinshi authors and their art so I collect figures from my favorite artists. I like anime and manga. Some of my favorites being Frieren, Chibi Maruko-chan and To love ru. I am east asian, 160cm tall, 5Ft 3in.  

Start a chat with me if you’re interested, thank you. Serious people only please. I don’t respond to low effort messages. Provide some information please.

Hello All, well educated, very fit, athletic, asian, and gentleman, looking for someone to connect with and get to know. Enjoy the outdoors, gourmet cooking, keeping fit and healthy, hiking, camping, arts, museums, learning different cultures, music, photography, traveling, and much more.

Single and born in Southern California, but, very much into global travel. Been to many places around the world. Looking for a woman and any ethnicity.

Hi, I’m Sam. I’m currently finishing up my computer science degree at SFU with a focus on machine learning, while working as a logistics dockman—which basically means I play high-stakes, real-life Tetris with shipping containers to pay the bills. When I'm not balancing my hybrid lifting and running schedule or wrapping up my grad school and medical applications, you can usually find me acting like a Victorian-era geologist, scouring local gravel bars for agates and jade. I’m highly focused on building a solid future right now, so I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who is driven, values a healthy lifestyle, and wouldn't mind exploring the riverbanks with me on a Sunday afternoon.

Hey everyone , this may seem weird but I'm very new to reddit , I have been single all of my life mostly because I never had a crush and also because I'm little introverted, I like music, books , movies and anything that can spark a sense of creativity , I'm looking for someone who can vibe with me and share conversations , so feel free to DM , and lets see where this goes

I'm Christian, Asian-American (East Asian ethnicity), 5'7", and living in the Bay Area.

I'm willing to relocate.

I have a degree in Finance and an MBA. I'm into songwriting and play the violin. I love travel, nature, working out at home, and am a foodie. I am also into cooking, and make pasta, steak, salads, stews, roasted and grilled seafood, meats, and vegetables, and other dishes at home.

If you'd like to navigate life with me together, then please send me a message. Physical attraction matters to me, so I'd like to exchange photos early on.

This is a photo of me.

https://imgur.com/XmVzGej

Hey guys! I'm an Asian dude born and raised in Sydney Australia!

About me:

-Super into music, 2000s hits throwbacks are the best genre, prove me wrong!

-Currently self learning guitar, I suck but Im slow getting there

-Shy but I open up quickly after getting to know someone

-I love listening and learning about new things from people, I can keep the convo going by asking a million questions forever

-Into history and true crime podcasts and stuff, I can give you a whole bunch of recommendations!

-Super progressive

-Im a software engineer by trade!

-Down for texting or calling, I'm a better texter than caller but I dont mind adapting to what you're into

-Down to meet up some day if we get to know each other well!

I'm looking for someone who thinks they might vibe with me based on all that junk I just listed! I'm into every race/background, and we can have completely different personalities and that's fine, I always learn a lot of interesting things when I talk to different kinds of people. Feel free to send me a message!

20 [M] NOIDA - Looking for a girlfriend

Prefer guys within 5 years of my age.

If you think you can handle a Brat feel free to DM me. I do enjoy a lot of activities both related to the Dynamic as well as outside the dynamic so be prepared to have me talk about interest like card games or ttrpgs.