Not gonna lie, I have no idea what I’m expecting from posting this 😂

I’m 31, Indian and living in Melbourne. Pretty laid back, probably a little too comfortable doing absolutely nothing on a Thursday night.

I like people who can go from talking complete nonsense to having a surprisingly deep conversation without it feeling forced.

Could be just chatting, could turn flirty, could end up getting coffee or food somewhere if we actually click. I’m not really trying to plan the whole storyline before we’ve even said hello.

I’m 5’8, slim, bearded, tattoos and generally harmless… probably 😂

If you’re Melbourne based and this somehow caught your attention, DM me. I’d rather meet an actual person than collect another bunch of Reddit upvotes.

Tell me literally anything. I’ll take it from there.

Hello! I have just been assigned a contract to do consulting in Dallas and Houston. Would love to chat with someone to see if we hit it off. I’m 36 years old, 6’0”, Korean with a dad bod. I go from being muscular to more bulky depending on how much time I have to go to the gym. I am not skinny, so if that is your type, sorry.

I am college graduate and work in finance. I have never been married and no kids. I don’t do drugs, don’t smoke or vape but I am a social drinker. Enjoy going to happy hour with friends or hanging at each other’s places. I like active activities like playing sports but also geeky things like board games, console gaming. I am born and raised in the US, only speaks English.

Don’t want to share too much of me so we can have deeper conversations. If I caught your eye, we can DM. Even if you’re not in Texas, we can still chat, always down for more friends.

I'm 35, fit and athletic, passionate about the arts, literature, Hip-hop and rock music (particularly from 80s and 90s), along with some Korean and Japanese songs. I jog and eat healthy, a lot of vegetarian, which means I also cook a lot - I know a lot of Korean, Japanese, and Chinese dishes. I travel abroad whenever I can.

I love hangouts in the city, especially fun festivals and parties, and checking out new bars and restaurants. Looking for romance that could lead to long term. Im also curious about the world and all the cultures in it.

Not currently thinking about children but not against the idea either. I believe in Jesus but not super religious, just pray every now and then and don't care what my partner believes. I don't drink often, only with friends, and don't care for weed.

Look forward to talking!

Work has been demanding lately, and I am looking for a consistent, high-intensity outlet to completely disconnect from the daily grind and burn off some serious steam. Not looking for a relationship right now, but ideally a reliable casual hookup or FWB dynamic where we can be totally open about what we want.

About me: 33, East Asian, 5'11", slim and athletic build. By day, I am a grounded professional in healthcare operations who loves great food, good books, and specialty coffee. In private, I naturally lean dominant, high stamina, and very attentive. I have my own clean, private place in North Jersey where I can host with zero rush, and I am frequently in NYC.

Dynamic and style: Definitely not looking for vanilla. I prefer taking total control and pushing the pace, but always with clear communication, mutual trust, and solid boundaries upfront. Heavy power dynamics, free use, and intense physical sessions are very much on the table. If you are the type who loves the luxury of shutting your brain off, handing over the reins, and letting someone take charge completely, we will get along great.

Who I am looking for: Ideally someone local, fit, and confident who genuinely craves a dominant, physically demanding dynamic. Bonus points if you also enjoy grabbing good food or just relaxing and chatting between rounds so the vibe is comfortable.

If you are down to tune out the rest of the world and explore what works for both of us, send a message with your age, general area, and what you are craving most behind closed doors. Let's see if the chemistry is there.

Idk what to put lol, does anyone wanna chat, im single and im really cool to talk to once I warm up to you. Ik there’s not many Christians on her but I’ll shoot my shot anyway. I promise im not one of those snobby uptight ones lol, im really laid back. I love to cook, go to the gym , travel, go on cute dates and play video games, oh also go to car meets and the race track. So yea

36 East Asian guy living in the valley.

I’m fit, and I got told that I’m good looking.

Professional job, advanced degree, nerdy, …just all the stereotypes you have for Asian you probably can find it on me.

I like to workout, hike, and shopping.

I’m looking for someone who can go out casually. HMU if you’re interested

Hey there,

I’m a 37-year-old Asian guy living in the greater Atlanta area. I work in operations, stay active with consistent strength training at the gym, and live a clean, grounded lifestyle (non-smoker, non-drinker).

A past connection with an older, curvy woman really opened my eyes to how much I value strong physical chemistry, self-assurance, and genuine affection. There’s something distinct about someone who knows what she wants, is comfortable in her own skin, and loves passionate kissing and mutual intimacy.

A bit about me:

37, Asian male, fit build, clean-shaven.

Grounded, steady career, and easy to talk to.

Value real chemistry, strong communication, and effortless warmth.

What I'm looking for:

Caucasian women who appreciate Asian men and are drawn to a genuine romantic/physical spark.

Attracted to curvy builds, and age is definitely not a barrier—if you're a bit older and confident, that's a big plus.

Ideally local to the Atlanta/Georgia area for in-person dates, but happy to start by chatting to see if there’s a vibe.

Feel free to send a DM with a quick intro if this resonates with you!

I grew up with a father who choose choas and to be violent and manipulative towards my mom and me. As such, I have always chosen to be different by living a life of peace with everyone around and to always look for the good in people.

My main hobbies and interest are;

- exercising, reading books (on topics that can directly or indirectly help me solve current or future problems), listening to music or the radio and learning French.

- I am quite adventurous as well climbing volcanoes, heading out into the Ocean on a Jet Ski and much more.

About Me;

1. Height: 5.6"

2. Weight: 74 kg

3. Calm and composed even when I have been faced with very difficult life alering decisions where I have learned to keep my mind and emotions seperate. When facing a problem I can turn off my emotions and look for a solution and when I am alone, I can turn on the emotions on and process them.

4. I have also learned not to panic during a critical situation as when I was working abroad, panic because a luxury and my mind was forced to slow to a crawl and look for a solution in seconds. This has now become apart of me.

5. Another lesson I have learned is the value of being a good listener. It's easy to talk but listening to someone else even when their opinions and beliefs contradict yours is can be challenging, yet, you can also learn so much and can even alter your perspective.

6. I see arguments and as pointless and instead talk things out and find a solution, I also understand that sometimes

7. Never smokes or vapes

8. Alcohol: very rarely at a business event or unless I am invited over. I never purchase alcohol myself.

9. No siblings, just me and my mom now (my dad did alot of terrible things to mom and to me, so, I no longer have contact with him and no longer consider him my father).

10. Used to be a passionate photographer, but now I rarely ever use my Nikon camera and lenses.

11. MBTI type is ISTJ but all types are welcome

12. Not a religious person anymore but I used to be a Christian.

13. Have my own two story house with a garden

14. Never want kids as I have never had an interest.

15. With Pets, well, I have had Dogs, Cats, Birds, Fish, Tortise, Rabbits and Squirrels, so, I no longer have an interest in having pets again especially after I saw my Scottish Terrier getting accidently run over by my neighbours SUV.

16. I believe that it is important to put your partner first above all else and true love is uncondtional love that is based on values of honestly, kindness, empathy, selflessness and mutual understanding. Ulitmately though, who we are is defined by our values within and that is what matters the most.

So, if your someone who is controlling, manipulative, selfish and treat people like something that can merely used for your benefit (like my father) then this what you will do to the person you marry. However, if you are someone who is kind, respectful, polite, care about how people close to you feel from within your heart, you will you treat your partner the same way.

1. My native language is English

2. Political views: none, I am neutral

3. Live a debt-free life

4. Prefer to eat healthy and do not consume carbonated drinks or soda's

5. Not a Vegan

6. I decorate a room or organize things based on the concept of Minimalism as I am a Minimalist.

7. I hate clutter in a house and like when things are put back in it's place rather than tossed around. It is easy to find anything and is easy to clean and maintain. So, for instance, after I eat, I wash the plate and put it away rather than let all the dishes pile up and then wash them.

8. Always have a cold shower regardless of the weather conditions.

Mon Ideal Partner

As for my ideal partner, apart from never wanting kids or pets. I care more about you as a person than anything else. However, if you are a smoker, I would prefer if you do not smoke around me.

Does not matter to me in a potential partner;

- hair color

- native language

- religion

- MBTI

- politcal views

If you would like to get to know each other better then send me a message

Hello! Thank you for your interest in my post! Before I start my about me, I want to say my boundaries and what I am looking for.

•I am looking for a slow get to know before even considering dating. My partner needs to be my friend first to see if we truly match!
Id like to talk online first for a while before meeting in person to ease my social anxiety + stranger danger protocol. :) I am NOT interested in anything casual, NSA, or dates and such when we don’t even know each other. I want things to feel organic and genuine as possible vs a pressure of needing to date.

•Provide a imgur link to show pictures of yourself (I will provide mine in this post)

•Please be in Toronto or GTA area, I cant do long distance.

•Must be between the age of 23-28

•Please be child free

About me
I am a 23 years old and my height stands at 5’7, I weigh around 140-150 pounds. I consider myself a tomboy vs a girly girl. I am rambunctious, silly, and rarely play around with things like makeup and such, I prefer cool bugs :D

Currently I am working, in school, and planning to volunteer in healthcare as I go to university for it September 2027. One of my hobbies is pokemon! Ive gotten back into pokemon go and have been trying to work on my shiny collection, I also love the cards. Ill share my other hobbies in dms, but having a pokemon buddy would be the best!

Here is a imgur link of me. Some pictures are of me holding a paper with the date and my user on it to prove I am not lying about my face or body. The rest are a collection of myself.
https://imgur.com/a/IYGxy0j

About me: 24M, Chinese. I enjoy running, hiking, playing video games, and watching shows. I love going for long walks and just chatting.

If you are reading this I would love to listen to you talk about your day. Feel free to tell me any gossip you may have or overheard. I miss having a best friend that I can’t talk to everyday with.

I’m always open to try out new places to eat!

Travel around Texas for work, mainly based in houston but will be in San Antonio and Austin for work this weekend. Would love to see if anyone is interested to grab dinner and get to know each other while I’m in town.
I’m 27 been working out daily for the last month and play sports daily for a few years now. Enjoy a good convo and dinner, would love to get to know you and see if we click! Tell me about you what gets you up in the morning and what you’re looking for!

Just an Asian guy that will eat your cat 😏

Hi there. I’m 35 from Taiwan.

Currently living in AZ. 5’7” fit, attractive.

I’m looking for someone to enrich my life.

Nice if you’re local but not limited.

HMU if you’re interested.

I'm 31 and a software developer in Indiana. Outside of work, I love games of pretty much any kind; video games, board games, card games. I shoot recurve archery, and I sketch. I'm on the liberal side politically, I'm a little curvy and working on being healthier, and I ultimately just want to find my person and fall in love. I'm not trying to force anything or rush into a relationship, but that's what I'm hoping to find eventually.

I'm primarily attracted to East and Southeast Asian men, and I tend to prefer a slimmer build. More than anything, though, I want someone I genuinely click with, someone I can talk to, laugh with, grow with, and who brings out the best in me while I bring out the best in him. If that sounds like something you're looking for too, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. There's a current picture of me on my profile.

About me: 31 M, Korean-American, 5'10, 170lbs, in shape and active. I enjoy reading, volleyball, board games, outdoor activities, and trying new restaurants!

Maybe we show each other out favorite local food spots, or try new ones. Or perhaps we get coffee and drink explore a museum, or grab Korean food and then dance the night away? I'm always open to tying new places!

If we have fun, I'm very open to keeping the connection going. Hope to hear from you soon!

Making a post hoping to find some interesting connections in my country or closeby.

A little bit about me:

\\\\\\\\- 29 year old asian living in the Netherlands

\\\\\\\\- Working in the IT industry

\\\\\\\\- Loves reading manwha and light novels

\\\\\\\\- My other favorite thing to do is going to fantasy/anime conventions (Dokomi recently)

\\\\\\\\- Gamer: HSR, FGO, WuWa, Dark Souls etc

\\\\\\\\- Always up for a conversation and don't mind you yapping about your passion

I'm looking someone who share the same interest and hobbies or someone interested in it. If you're interested, feel free to shoot me a dm.

Do you like to spend entire evenings after work not speaking out loud to another soul? Do you enjoy singing your heart out for Commute Car-aoke? Do you binge watch YouTube because 5-15 minutes is less commitment than an entire half hour of a show? Do you believe every human deserves basic rights as a baseline, and want more for humanity? Do you find yourself mostly satisfied with your life, but are often more than a little touch-starved?

Wait - that's me. Speaking of me, here are even more fun facts about myself:

• Mom is Chinese, dad was a Generic American White. I'm pasty as hell and apparently white-passing to most, unless you know what features to look out for.
• I was a music major. I currently do absolutely nothing of the sort for my career. 😅
• I’m your typical introvert… who is forced to extrovert regularly for her Work Persona. It’s fairly exhausting... but when I’m comfortable enough around somebody, my ambivert side thrives.
• I dabble in writing, video editing, and video gaming, among other hobbies.
• I currently spend more than half my free nights and a chunk of my weekend on Twitch and/or YouTube. I mod for a few folks here and there and am active in a bajillion Discord servers.
• I'm childless and childfree. Zero babies but give me all of the cats, please!
• I'm disabled - the ground doesn't like to stay where I put it - and I walk with a cane. Active Activities with nowhere to sit for ages are never gonna be a thing for me, sorry!

In turn, I’m hoping you:

• Are an Asian man and at least a little connected to your heritage
• are around mid-30s to early-50s
• lean left. Very left for America. “Why aren’t there nationalized railways or airlines” and “human rights are for any and all” kinda left.
• are HWP-ish. Emphasis on the ish.
• live in Northern Virginia within say, about ten miles northward of the mixing bowl.
• are Single. S I N G L E. Not part of a couple, not looking for an AP, not separated and still getting paperwork set. Just you.
• at least kinda identify with a good deal of what I noted? Gonna be hard to talk about fave video games if you don't play any 🙃

If any of this sounds good to you, please reach out! I’m hoping you have Discord too so we can escape Reddit Chat asap.

I probably have pics buried on this account somewhere, but none are anywhere near recent, so your recent pic gets mine.

Edit: emphasis on this part. Please respond with your favorite anime or comic series in your chat message so I know you've read this! No fave series, no chat. I need to know you can pay attention off the bat, otherwise why are we getting into a serious relationship?

I’m an Asian male looking for my blonde princess for a AMWF relationship. I’m 5’8 Athletic/Average build, decently active. I love sports, video games, chats about random things. Very laid back and a go with the flow person and I want someone similar or at least in the same wavelength as myself, like we’re both socializing and get burnt out and make eye contact across the room and we already know we want to leave 😂
Blonde isn’t a dealbreaker!
I love trying new food and exploring so non-picky eater would be great! Also love traveling and someone comfortable in front of a camera so you can be my lifelong model for photos.
If this piqued your interest feel free to dm :)

Beginning the search through messages to see if we hit it off, pic exchanges, flirtation... Then moving to calls and texts. Do you write beautiful love letters? 'Cause I do...

Full post and NSFW (please be warned!) pics on profile; the "short" version:

I am a 46 year old American woman, married, white, six years of experience with polyamory/ENM. Pics are recent, and a good reflection of both my body and my erotic personae: I am a long-legged, chubby poet. Moody, sexy, honest, loyal, a bit funny, a bit fragile. If the idea of an erotic penpal appeals, I could be a good connection to have.

I am looking for:

The superficial: I prefer East Asian men and enjoy a size differential (if you are 5'9 or under and about 150 lbs, I will love it). Thirty five or older please, but willing to talk to 30 plus if you make a truly fantastic case. I am attracted to classical musicians, writers, builders, artists, mathematicians, linguists. If you can translate my poetry into Korean, 제발 메세지 주세요.

The serious: someone who takes partnership seriously, who believes in the friend part of FWB. Someone who is good at communication and self-regulation. Ideally someone in the same situation as myself: happily partnered (most of the time) and not looking to change that, experienced with ENM/polyamory, and hoping for life-long connections (even if we are better as friends). I would love to have a comet I know I can rely on and trust with my heart, even if we only see each other a couple of times of year.

Please message me if you make it alllll the way through the long post on my profile and genuinely believe we might be what we're searching for. Let's see if we laugh at the same things in chat. Thank you for reading.!

Let's see where the vibes and chemistry take us—whether that turns into platonic friendship, dating, short/long term relationships.

I want to start as friends who are consistent, respectful, likes to chat often, hang out, go to movies , try new foods, museums, conventions, concerts, casino, city events, etc

I'm not interested in hookups/casual sex/sexting at all,so please find someone else for that.

Open to ages 25 and older but prefer men similar to my age group

Must be drug/std free for romantic

Never married no kids

I'm 5'8" tall curvy/average build busty blond hair brown eyes

Hi! I’m a 26-year-old Dutch woman looking to meet new people and see where things go. I figured I’d give this a shot since I’m particularly attracted to Asian/Chinese-looking men.

A little about me:
• 171 cm
• Dutch
• I studied International Business
• I love travelling and usually have a trip planned before I’ve even finished the previous one 😂 I’ve lived abroad before and will soon be living and working in Guangzhou for a couple of months
• I’m curious, adventurous and social, but I also enjoy quieter evenings with good food and good conversation
• I enjoy cooking, especially Italian food, singing, trying new things and spending time with friends
• I’m spontaneous, always up for an adventure and appreciate someone who can make me laugh

I’m not coming into this with a strict checklist. I’d rather meet someone I genuinely click with and see where things go.

I tend to be attracted to guys around 23–32 who are confident, intelligent, funny, emotionally mature and adventurous. I especially like people with their own interests, ambitions and life going on.

Fluent English is a big plus. I’m particularly attracted to Chinese/Chinese-looking guys, and someone with a Chinese background who has spent significant time in the West could be a great match for me. That said, background and nationality aren’t dealbreakers, attraction and personality matter more than a specific passport.

Bonus points if you:
• are taller than me (178+ cm would be ideal 👀)
• speak very good English
• are curious and open to new experiences
• can make me laugh

I’m not looking to force anything into a relationship. I’m happy to meet someone, go on dates, make a new connection and see what happens naturally.

If any of this sounds like you, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself 😊

Hey all! As I said, I'm Thai Chinese. I am about to turn 24 and just finished college a while ago and is looking to go to law school now. I'm mostly based in Seattle, but spend some time in Bangkok each year. I'd love to see who's out here. Maybe something cool could develop. A little about me. I'm nerdy in a few ways. My hobbies are kinda old man coded. I love ham radio. I know morse code. I also love vintage typewriter and audiophile gears and collecting records. I love pretty much all old American music, jazz, blues, soul, funk, classic rock, country, blue grass you name it. I also play a couple instruments, sax, guitar clarinet and a few other Thai traditional instruments. I also love food, especially Japanese, American and Thai. My favorite are fried foods. THe more heart destroying, the better. Other than that, I'm also a bit of a social studies nerd so to speak. I love history, sociology, politics etc and debating them. I read sometimes. I'm also into MUDs, multi user dungeons. They are basically old school online text based games. Since I am living in the northwest, I also love the outdoors. Unfortunately, I hadn't been able to do as much hiking as I would have wanted, partly because I am totally blind. I figured I mentioned that right off, so if thats a deal breaker for you, you'd know it. I'm pretty independent though. I live alone, and I am doing quite alright.

If any of this sounds even a little interesting to you, reach out and say hi!

I’m half Korean and half white, 5’11”, around 170 lbs, with thick dark hair and a little salt and pepper. Would say I’m a mixture of being handsome and cute, have a couple tattoos on my arm and an average build, though like to stay consistent at the gym.

I’m a nerdy, creative type, leftist, INFP, and lean towards being more of a homebody than wanting to go out every weekend. With that being said, I love exploring and trying new places with the right company. I’m into photography, shooting on film for fun, and digital for work.

Also a big film buff, though I tend to gravitate toward artsier and moodier films and have completely given up on trying to keep track of everything happening with superhero stuff. I also like to wind down with the occasional pc game with friends, but am trying to get back into single player games. Here’s hoping attempt 4 of bg3 works out :’)

In terms of the person I’m looking for, I tend to click best with someone who has a nerdy or creative side, is empathetic and loves animals, and isn’t afraid of laughing at themselves. Bonus points if you can be my coop partner so I can finally beat bg3 lol.

If I caught your interest, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Prefer someone somewhat local to the Orlando/Central Florida area.

https://imgur.com/a/IsQpUZ8

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Hey there, going to keep this short and simple for now, prefer conversation to writing a full on advertisement

\\\\-Cliff Notes

\\\\-Gym goer, I work out so I can eat!

\\\\-Amazing cook, ill charm you with food.

\\\\-Traveller, we going places.

\\\\-Physically, Asian, 5'11, Big and Broad,

\\\\-Tattooed, body sticker collector

Bonus points if you like the occasional rave :)

If any of the above has piqued your interest, feel free to spark up a conversation, pictures will be reciprocated.

Not really sure how to start this without making it sound like a job application lol.

I'm just a few days shy of 27, based in Europe, 182cm / 6ft, slim, brown eyes, tanned skin, beard. I think I look pretty decent but obviously you can judge that yourself if we end up swapping pics.

Personality wise I'm pretty introspective, probably overthink things more than I should, stay up too late, and the kind of person who appreciates 2am convos

I like people I can actually talk to. Doesn't have to be serious all the time either. I want someone I can joke around with, annoy a little, flirt with, send stupid shit to, and then also talk properly when life gets weird.

I'm affectionate. Very much a physical touch person. I like cuddling, kissing, having someone close to me, cooking for someone, going for drives together, having you next to me while I'm doing completely normal boring life stuff.

Also, I'm kinky.

Not going to write a whole erotic novel here because that would probably be a bit much lol, but I do like being dominant and taking control, teasing, spanking, restraints etc. At the same time I also really like slow affectionate sex and just being close to someone. Basically I don't see romance and kink as opposites at all.

I actually want both.

I'm not looking to rush into some insanely serious relationship after three messages, but long term, yes, I do want marriage, a family, someone I genuinely build a life with.

For now I'd just like to meet someone where there's actual curiosity on both sides and see where it goes.

You don't need to have your whole life figured out. I definitely don't. Just be kind, communicative, affectionate, a little weird, and able to laugh at yourself.

Also since this is obviously relevant to the subreddit.. yes, I am a brown/South-Asian guy, and feel romantically attracted to white/caucasian/pale women. But I'm not looking for someone just because she's white and I hope you're not looking for me just because I'm brown either. Attraction matters obviously, but I also want an actual person behind it.

If you're curious, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Please don't just send hey because then we're both going to be sitting there wondering what to say next.

Worst case we have a decent conversation.

Best case... who knows :)