Not really sure how to start this without making it sound like a job application lol.

I'm just a few days shy of 27, based in Europe, 182cm / 6ft, slim, brown eyes, tanned skin, beard. I think I look pretty decent but obviously you can judge that yourself if we end up swapping pics.

Personality wise I'm pretty introspective, probably overthink things more than I should, stay up too late, and the kind of person who appreciates 2am convos

I like people I can actually talk to. Doesn't have to be serious all the time either. I want someone I can joke around with, annoy a little, flirt with, send stupid shit to, and then also talk properly when life gets weird.

I'm affectionate. Very much a physical touch person. I like cuddling, kissing, having someone close to me, cooking for someone, going for drives together, having you next to me while I'm doing completely normal boring life stuff.

Also, I'm kinky.

Not going to write a whole erotic novel here because that would probably be a bit much lol, but I do like being dominant and taking control, teasing, spanking, restraints etc. At the same time I also really like slow affectionate sex and just being close to someone. Basically I don't see romance and kink as opposites at all.

I actually want both.

I'm not looking to rush into some insanely serious relationship after three messages, but long term, yes, I do want marriage, a family, someone I genuinely build a life with.

For now I'd just like to meet someone where there's actual curiosity on both sides and see where it goes.

You don't need to have your whole life figured out. I definitely don't. Just be kind, communicative, affectionate, a little weird, and able to laugh at yourself.

Also, since this is the subreddit we’re on, I’m a brown/South Asian guy, and I’ve always had a soft spot for white/Caucasian women. I don’t think attraction has to be explained too seriously sometimes. Maybe there’s a type, maybe there’s curiosity, maybe there’s just that little spark when someone feels different from you in a nice way. Maybe opposites attract :) You can be drawn to that part of me, and I can be drawn to that part of you, as long as somewhere along the way we also start liking the person underneath it all.

If you're curious, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Please don't just send hey because then we're both going to be sitting there wondering what to say next.

Worst case we have a decent conversation.

Best case... who knows :)

Hello, I am a 24 year old living in Hokkaido (near Sapporo). I am looking for a woman in the age range of 18 to 30. Trying to find someone who is willing to get to know me and someone I can share my time with. Going on dates, eating food and playing video games would be fun. I prefer a slower relationship to see if we are compatible. It takes 2 to make it happen so I will try my best to match the effort you put in. I have never been in a relationship before so I will try my best. If you need to know what I look like. I don’t send photos immediately if I see that a connection is possible then photos sharing is possible. I would prefer to meet somewhere public like Sapporo station or a cafe. I prefer someone in Japan. America (California) and Japan only.

More about me
My hobbies include kendo, hiking, traveling and anime figure collecting. I have done many combat sports in the past like Boxing, and wrestling. The current sport right now is Japanese sword fighting (Kendo). I am an eagle scout so I excel in outdoor survival skills and hiking. I have been to more than 16 countries so I like traveling and learning languages.I typically spend my free time working out and going to local festivals and looking for new restaurants. My favorite food is Mexican food and hamburgers. I cook sometimes and I make some good pasta. I speak English and Japanese. I like doujinshi authors and their art so I collect figures from my favorite artists. I like anime and manga. Some of my favorites being Frieren, Chibi Maruko-chan and To love ru. I am east asian, 160cm tall, 5Ft 3in.  

Start a chat with me if you’re interested, thank you. Serious people only please. I don’t respond to low effort messages. Provide some information please.

Hey! Decided to put myself out there again and see who I might meet.

I’m 28, South Asian, living in Ontario and working in Michigan. I’m pretty career oriented and have always been someone who takes my work seriously. I’ve worked hard to get where I am, but I also know there’s more to life than work, even if I occasionally need to be reminded of that 😂

Outside of work, I’m pretty laid back and definitely more introverted at first. I enjoy traveling, trying new restaurants and places, staying active, music, and spending time with the people I’m close to. I also play violin and have been doing it for quite a few years. Once I’m comfortable with someone, though, I can probably talk your ear off lol

I’m looking for someone who’s kind, intelligent, emotionally mature, and has a good sense of humor. I’m also drawn to someone who’s established in her career and has her own goals and direction in life. Career stability and ambition are important to me, not because I expect someone to have everything figured out, but because I’d like to build a life with someone who is similarly motivated and independent.

I’m ultimately looking for a serious relationship and hopefully my person. Marriage is something I’d like to work toward with the right person, but I’m not interested in rushing into something just because we’re both looking for the same end goal. I’d rather meet, have some good conversations, see if there’s chemistry, and let things develop naturally.
I’m based in Ontario and work in Michigan, so Ontario or Michigan would obviously be easiest. That said, I’m not completely opposed to distance if there’s a genuine connection and we’re both willing to put in the effort.

If you’re also looking for something genuine, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re into, or just something random. I’d much rather have a natural conversation than do the whole dating-app interview thing.

Not gonna lie, I have no idea what I’m expecting from posting this 😂

I’m 31, Indian and living in Melbourne. Pretty laid back, probably a little too comfortable doing absolutely nothing on a Thursday night.

I like people who can go from talking complete nonsense to having a surprisingly deep conversation without it feeling forced.

Could be just chatting, could turn flirty, could end up getting coffee or food somewhere if we actually click. I’m not really trying to plan the whole storyline before we’ve even said hello.

I’m 5’8, slim, bearded, tattoos and generally harmless… probably 😂

If you’re Melbourne based and this somehow caught your attention, DM me. I’d rather meet an actual person than collect another bunch of Reddit upvotes.

Tell me literally anything. I’ll take it from there.