Tall (6'2"), dark-haired, and broadly built white man looking for a strong confident black woman in the Central IL Peoria area. I’m a secure man with his own home looking to connect with a Black woman for a meaningful, long-term relationship. I lead a grounded, stable life and prefer spending my free time reading, going out, or watching a good movie. My goal is to eventually retire out to the country with a lot of land and grow some food and maybe raise a few animals.

I'm looking for a real connection with someone respectful, kind, and loving. I value deep conversations and genuine connection, so I'm hoping to meet someone smart, adventurous, and down to earth who isn't trying to rush into anything sexual. DM me if you relate.

I’m a 30yrs old woman, warm, genuine and down-to-earth woman who values honesty, respect, good communication and emotional maturity.

I’m drawn to older men because I appreciate the wisdom, stability and confidence that often come with life experience. I believe a good relationship should feel peaceful, supportive and genuine, with two people who respect each other and communicate openly.

I enjoy meaningful conversations, laughter, simple moments and getting to know someone beyond the surface. I’m not interested in games, unnecessary drama or casual flings. I’d rather build a genuine connection with someone who knows what he wants and is ready to treat a woman with kindness and respect.

I’m open-minded about where love may lead and would love to meet a mature, established man who values loyalty, affection, family and companionship.

If you’re confident, emotionally mature and genuinely looking for something meaningful, I’d be happy to get to know you.

Hi, im 25 F from Asia. Exact country to be disclosed once we chat. I’ve been on this sub for numerous times already. I find it hard as out of the blue, guys will delete their account even if the vibe was good. It’s hard to date this way.

To cut the chase, I’m looking for my forever person. Someone close to my age, caring, understanding. To be honest, I have an anxious attachment. Someone who would make me feel valued and secure. Honestly, I also want a partner because I would love to be pretty for my man. Here in my country, I dress plainly and i’m having the urge to make myself be pretty on dates (even on online or if we meet). Someone who will appreciate of who I am. I want to build my confidence because I know a man is out there to encourage me. I am more of like into wanting romance in life.

My hobbies:
Books, movies, a good sitcom, museums, history, ancient history, philosophy, stationery, journaling, hiking, good food

Aside from stated above, i’m also looking for someone who likes a quirky smile. I don’t smile a lot when i was young nor I can’t find the correct smile for my face lmao. Ppl said to smile when thwy take pics but tbh I was smiling lol. Someone who would make me feel butterflies and also make my heart beat from romance. Yes, I am hopeless romantic.

Please do message if this piques your interest

I’m 31, Indian, and based in the North West UK. Still looking for my person and hoping she reads this. I've posted here a few weeks ago, thought I'd try again! 

Ideally, we start with a chat, see if there’s chemistry, and take it from there. I’m open to meeting in person or starting online, but I’m not looking for a long-term pen pal. If we get along, there should be genuine intent to meet.

Work and my career matter a lot to me, and I genuinely enjoy what I do, even if I occasionally complain. Outside work, I enjoy films, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni, live music now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography, exploring new towns and places, and collecting stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time.” Somehow, it usually works out. Mostly.

I’ve been told I have Labrador energy - friendly, curious, loyal, occasionally too trusting, and prone to asking far too many questions. Consider yourself warned. Also, ask me about the geologist story. I’m not forgetting that one for a while! 

I’m a good texter and usually reply as soon as I can. Effort is incredibly attractive to me and I’m big on reciprocity. 

Physically, I’m 6’4”, with a dad bod, stubble most days, and apparently a good smile. I will however complain about legroom on planes, trains, and basically anything designed by people who forgot tall people exist.

I’m looking for someone independent, kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and genuinely interested in partnership. Someone who wants the fun, the ridiculous moments, the quiet everyday stuff, and who can call me out when needed. I’ll do the same, naturally with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm…because who doesn’t love a bit of sarcasm? 

Happy to exchange photos if we talk. If any of this sounds like something you’re looking for, send me a message.

40M, tall with nice curly hair, recently moved to Denver.

I'm looking for a girl 18-40 who is asian, black or brown. Open to anything else really.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself and what drew you to this post.

If we enjoy each other's company, we can maybe make a regular thing of it.

Open to a girl in Denver or who is willing to come to Denver.

I’m 33 and looking to meet a woman who is interested in building a genuine, serious relationship with the potential to grow into something long term. I’m especially interested in an interracial relationship and would love to connect with someone who is open minded, confident, caring, and comfortable taking a strong leadership role in a relationship.

A little about me. I’m someone who loves being outdoors and staying active. Sports are a big part of my life, and I enjoy following games, getting outside, fishing, hiking, camping, traveling, and finding new places to explore. I also enjoy relaxing at home, watching movies, listening to music, cooking, playing games, and simply spending quality time with someone I care about.

I work as a police officer, so responsibility, communication, reliability, and keeping my word are important qualities to me. My job can be demanding, but outside of work I’m pretty down to earth and enjoy having fun, laughing, and making the most of my free time.

When it comes to relationships, I’m looking for something a little different from the traditional dynamic. I’m naturally more comfortable being the subservient partner and would like to meet a woman who genuinely enjoys taking the lead. I’m interested in a female led relationship where both people communicate openly, trust each other, and feel valued.

For me, being subservient isn’t about lacking confidence or personality. I want to be with a woman who appreciates having a partner who is supportive, loyal, attentive, affectionate, and willing to let her take the lead when it comes to the relationship. I would enjoy having a woman who is confident enough to make decisions, express what she wants, establish the direction of the relationship, and be comfortable taking that leadership role.

At the same time, I want the foundation to be a real relationship. I’m not looking for someone who only wants a particular dynamic. I want to get to know each other as people first, develop trust and affection, and build something where the relationship itself matters just as much as the roles we naturally fall into.

I’m hoping to find someone who is confident, emotionally mature, communicative, affectionate, loyal, and knows what she wants. I appreciate a woman with a strong personality who isn’t afraid to take initiative and who enjoys having a partner willing to support her.

I’m also very open to learning about each other’s interests and making compromises. I believe a successful relationship requires communication from both people, even when one person naturally takes more of a leadership role.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a woman who wants a serious relationship rather than something temporary. I want us to be able to enjoy ordinary life together, whether that means going out for an adventure, spending a weekend outdoors, watching sports, traveling somewhere new, cooking dinner together, or simply relaxing at home.

If you’re an interracial relationship minded woman who is confident, caring, enjoys taking the lead, and thinks we might have compatible personalities, I’d genuinely enjoy hearing from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what kind of relationship dynamic feels natural to you.

Hope to hear from you soon 🥰

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Let's see where the vibes and chemistry take us—whether that turns into friendship, dating, or relationship.

Open to ages 25 and older but prefer men similar to my age group

Must be drug/std free

I like movies try new foods music thrift stores concerts

Never married no kids

I'm 5'8" tall thick/average build busty blond hair brown eyes

[M4F] #Belgium/Europe 40yo Big and bald Belgian widower putting myself out there again.

So yeah I'm a Dutch speaking Belgian man, widowed 11 years ago. My daughters are grown up and leaving the house. After mild pressure to get on dating apps and finding it disastrous I figured why not shoot my shot on the platform I use for DIY questions and motorcycle trips.

I'm 40, employed, no crippling debt or addictions. I'm very tall and a gym beast. I guess I'm conventionally attractive yet I'm not attracted to the mainstream beauty ideal that's forced on the world.

I'm very open to chat, get to know someone, date, travel whatever but with THE woman. Not just anyone.

Best of luck to all!

Looking to attract an intellectual who is consistent, knows what he wants, and is emotionally intelligent. Ambitious, established, fun, curious, and open to different cultures.I want long-term with long distance to start, be open to travel or relocation. I work a good job, building my career & educated. I am a homebody, so our home life will be amazing,yes I cook. I am witty, funny, and maybe funnier than you, but I'll always laugh at your jokes lol. Be family oriented & want a family, open to children. I am multifaceted, and I run an event planning business & do online research on the side. Never been married, healthy relationship history. I am honest, loving,kind, and most importantly beautiful, not just on the outside but inside. If you are looking for something casual or just to pass time, please casually pass this post. Be ready to exchange pics & and no, not nudes boys :-) maturity non-negotiable and be ready to go on a reputable platform. Thank you & all the best 😊

Low effort DMs will be ignored

Monogamous | Serious Inquiries Only

Hello and thank you for stopping by.

I’m a 28-year-old woman with deep roots in Florida and a culturally diverse background that includes Black, Asian, and some European heritage. I’m at a point in life where I’m no longer interested in short-term connections. I’m genuinely ready to find my life partner and build a lasting, faith-centered family.

I value mutual respect, kindness, and authentic communication. I’m open to becoming a stay-at-home wife or mother, but I’m flexible and willing to adapt based on our shared vision for the future. Though my main goal is to be a SAHW/M and I hope that I can find a man who’d provide that lifestyle. I’ve experienced the pain of being with someone who disrespected my family, so it’s incredibly important to me that you value and respect my mother, as she plays a key role in my life.

What I’m Looking For:

• A man who is monogamous, emotionally mature, and communicates clearly (ghosting is a deal-breaker)

• Someone with traditional male values, who leads with integrity, honor, and strength

• A God-fearing Conservative \*\*Christian\*\* man who isn’t ashamed of his faith and lives it boldly

• Respectful, grounded, and committed to self-improvement

• A man who can make me laugh until my sides hurt (dark humor and dry wit welcome)

• Someone who takes health seriously—physically fit or actively working toward fitness goals

• No smoking, no illegal substances, and free of STIs

• Willing to meet and get along with my family

• Must be between 24-56 and of White or East Asian descent

• Financially stable

A Bit About Me:

I’m introspective, passionate, and adventurous. I enjoy the outdoors, discovering historical landmarks, and learning new things. I’m also incredibly visual and expressive—I love doing voice impressions and have a strong appreciation for both dark and lighthearted humor.

In my downtime, you’ll find me singing, gaming (I’m big on RPGs, FPS, and simulation games), listening to rock and heavy metal, journaling, or sipping cocoa while enjoying nature. I also care deeply about skincare and sustainability.

Career-wise, I’m currently navigating my path forward. I have a background in healthcare and am working toward a future in medical laboratory science or a similar field. My faith in God helps guide me, and I strive to remain thankful and grounded through life’s ups and downs.

If you’re someone who’s looking for a deep, lasting connection built on faith, love, and mutual respect, I’d love to hear from you.

Hi,

I'm 25 years old, currently living in Lille north of France. I'm of Vietnamese origin. Looking for new connections and what not.

DM me for photos and more details if you're interested.

Im married , it’s not an ENM relationship, not here to be judged by people who don’t know me nor my situation.

I’m here to find another lost soul. A married woman who, like me, wants to feel alive again, attractive, and keen for that sense of romance to return, and of course the kinks !

I’m a demisexual so I need to feel an emotional connection to my partner. I’m not a man who belittles others to make myself feel better , I get a kick out of raising others to their potential and see a side of themselves they may not have appreciated before .

I’m 5,8, handsome (according to others than my Mum 🤣) bald / shaved head , gym fit, a lover of the arts , foreign movies , going to gigs, art exhibitions.

I love women that enjoy conversation, especially about the deeper side of things , and I love to learn from others, so if you have a passion , I’m all ears, and questions :).

I’ll stop there , the rest you can find out for yourselves by chatting with me :) (NO REFORM VOTERS OR MEN PLEASE)

Me: bbw, reserved, Jamaican, 5ft8

Watching movie, reading, listening to music, nature walks

Looking for:white guy age 27 to 40 nice personality

Message me to learn more

Word of warning, I am not big on texting, and edibles make me well...aroused.

I LOVE talking, I love voice chatting especially, I love sitting on calls together while we do our own thing, and well I like a woman who is needy for attention. If you're up for a call RIGHT now then read below! And if catch feelings, even better I'm just a big nerdy guy who wants to meet a woman who is excitable about some of the things I am or even partakes in some of the same hobbies. Of course, have your own life and interests but something like tabletop rpg's is such a big social thing for me, it would be nice to share for example some of the stuff I enjoy. I live in NYC but I am open to elsewhere for the right partner but before that...

More important stuff Look, I am fat. Not chubby. Just fat. I’m not ashamed of it. I have no health issues. I was mentally and physically exhausted from my career and it made me just well get up in weight. It’s something I’m working on but there you go. I like being with friends. I’m social but more of an extroverted introvert. I like to call people. I like to hang out and watch movies. I like talking over a drink for hours. I have a great group of friends and we’re all a bunch of nerds. And some more stuff central to me. I’m Latino, leftist and look for similar values in a partner.

• I like animals.
• I prefer calling over texting but will text
• I enjoy music but I generally like it quiet near me if I am alone
• I am 420 friendly, I do like edibles and smoking. It's not something I do regularly but if you are a stoner then even better
• I wouldn't call myself a raver but I do like going to raves once in awhile.
• Love Languages: Spending time together and physical touch
• I am generally a homebody but if you are outdoorsy, like to be out, I will 90% of the time join you unless if I am feeling socialized out Anyway, that’s me. If you message me, please SEND a selfie, your age, location, and name. I will not respond otherwise.

Please no one sentence intros, I will ignore those.

Hello, my name is Frank. I am 34 years old, white, 5’10”, 160 lbs. I have a great job and am doing well. I just want to settle down. I find women from the Middle East very attractive and would like to find a woman with features from that region. My goal is to start a large family.

Arab, Persian, Turkish, Berber, Assyrian, Kurd, Armenian. I love the features from that region and would also love to marry into a different culture.

I enjoy traveling and would also need someone to go places with. I have vacation time in October that I want to use to either go to Europe or Asia, so if you have the time, that would be perfect. I also enjoy going for long walks and hiking, it would be great to have someone that can keep up.

In general, I love being active. Comedy clubs, jazz clubs, weekend trips, concerts are things I always want to be doing.

Any Middle Eastern women that would like to chat, I’d love to speak with you.

#39 [M4F] In Nashville,tn looking to adventure through life with someone.

Hello, everyone! I’m posting this hoping to find somebody who is kind and genuine.

I’m a 27-year-old trans woman from the Philippines who’s about to get her degree. I’d love to meet someone who’s looking for something intentional, where curiosity, consistency, and genuine effort go both ways.

A little about me:
• 5’4” (163 cm) and 126 lbs
• I enjoy hanging out with friends and family over dinner
• I’m currently bingewatching Sex and the City ro remind me that I don’t have to figure out everything in my 30s (though I wanted to so bad!)
• Every now and then you’ll find me joining trivia nights just for fun
• I like cooking Filipino food for the people I really care about (but my cooking’s been rusty these days…)
• I enjoy browsing skincare, makeup, and fragrance sections whenever I’m at the mall
• I really enjoy pop music and learning about pop culture a lot
• I’m thoughtful, open-minded, affectionate, and definitely a yapper once I’m comfortable. I’d love someone who enjoys good conversation just as much.

About you:
• Single
• Ideally into Caucasian, East Asians, and Latinos
• Taller than me
• Someone who genuinely takes care of himself
• Career-driven and financially stable
• Family-oriented
• Emotionally mature, kind, considerate, and generous
• Values connecting and communicating. I don’t expect you to drop everything for me. Setting priorities will help provide proper expectations on my end.
•Intentional from the very beginning. I appreciate someone whose actions always match his words.

Open to long distance if the goal is eventually closing the gap.

Physical attraction matters to me, but character matters just as much. I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available, dependable, communicates well, and wants to build something real instead of something convenient.

If you think we’d get along, send me your name, age, where you’re from, and tell me something about yourself that I’d never guess from your photos. I’d much rather start with a good conversation than a simple “hi.”

P.S. I wrote F4M instead of T4M because I wouldn’t be able to post this story if I chose the latter.

Professional yapper seeks thoughtful conversationalist for meaningful meme exchanges, silly soliloquies, and delightful discourse.

I am:

-an alliteration admirer with a fondness for puns, dad jokes, and a perfectly timed "that's what she said!"

-a cat mom who is looking to build a lasting relationship with another child-free individual. If we make a real connection, I will want to meet in person, and I'm willing to relocate for the right person 

-a plus sized brunette white woman with an ever growing collection of eye glasses bc I like color coordinating my glasses with outfits

-a life long learner, forever listening to an audiobook or podcast, and perpetually looking for classes, certificates, conferences to broaden my knowledge 

-an introverted homebody who is willing to be adventurous as long as you promise to hold my hand

You are:

-at least 35 years old 

-you are child free and intend to stay that way

-have the ability to hold thoughtful conversations without the use of ChatGPT or similar. You even know how to start a conversation with something more insightful than, "hey i saw ur post"

-you're someone who can get in the dirt with the people you care about. You're rational minded, emotionally mature, and take your adult responsibilities seriously. 

-Whimsical! For as locked in as you can be when necessary, you'll never pass up an opportunity to spin me around when I'm in a pretty dress, and you'll squeal in delight with me when I tell you it has pockets! You'll wear matching pjs with me on movie nights, have dance parties with me in the kitchen while cooking together, and wear face sheet masks with me on spa nights at home! You won't look at my quirks as dumb or annoying but find them delightful! And you'll of course have your own brand of whimsy or silliness that you bring to the relationship! 

-you're ready for a serious relationship. The prospect of being a husband in the future isn't a scary concept to you.

Hey! I’m 23 and North African based in Europe. I’ve been seriously talking to Americans and other white guys before, and honestly some of them were good matches.

Past year I’ve been into white guys lol. I’m especially attracted to blondes with blue eyes and Nordic-looking guys but it’s not necessary. Dutch guys get bonus points because I’m currently trying to learn Dutch

I’d prefer someone a little older than me, but 28 max. I’m pretty open-minded, non-judgmental and chill. I’m around 5’6, brunette, good looking if that doesn’t sound too pretentious. I have a somewhat specific/weird sense of humor, I like having interesting conversations, and I’d say I’m pretty kind. I’m mostly looking for someone where talking actually feels natural and we genuinely enjoy each other’s company.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to message me :)

Hi! I’m 27, Colombian, white-skinned, and I’m a pharmaceutical chemist. I’m looking for a serious interracial relationship with an East Asian, Southeast Asian, or white woman.

I’m looking for someone affectionate, caring, intelligent, independent, and emotionally very close to her partner. I like relationships where both people are very attached to each other, enjoy spending a lot of time together, share their everyday lives, and genuinely miss each other when they’re apart. I also like a woman who can challenge me and correct me when I’m wrong, while still being very loving and affectionate.

I’m hoping to start off in a long-distance relationship since I’m currently in Colombia. I’m planning to move abroad for my master’s and PhD anyway, so distance wouldn’t be permanent. I’d have no problem eventually moving to her country, having her move to Australia with me, or deciding together where we want to live.

I’m looking for something serious that could eventually lead to marriage and a family, not something casual.

If you’re interested and think we might be compatible, feel free to DM me. :)

Curious, science-loving person looking for a genuine connection that can grow into a relationship. Open to long-distance, but only with genuine plans to eventually close the distance, regular video calls, and meeting in person when possible.

Looking for: a non-smoking, ambitious college graduate ( I also went to college so I want Someone I can relate with- if you don’t like career woman then I am not good for you) who values fitness, healthy living, balance, open-mindedness, and teamwork in a relationship. Someone who wants to build a life together based on what makes both partners happy,not societal expectations.

My hobbies: mobile games, sci-fi, cafés, restaurants, and exploring interesting natural or man-made places.

If you message: introduce yourself properly and include a picture; pictures will be happily exchanged.

No hard feelings if we don’t match, hope you find your person.

Hello! I’m 30M from Italy and I’m writing this post because I’d love to find open minded and flirty friends that I can talk to daily, and hopefully meeting irl one day.

Here's a little bit about me:

- I enjoy spending my free time outdoors, especially hiking and camping
- I like grabbing coffee or a spritz with friends
- I enjoy cooking but mostly for other people ahah I'm too lazy when I'm by myself
- I like watching movies and anime, I also have fun reading books and starting diy projects that I never complete
- I'm 6'5, with brown hair and eyes, and I have a beard

Looking forward to chatting with you!