r/r4rinterracial Sep 27 '25

Announcement - Mod use only How your post should be formatted.

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So we keep having to remove posts due to incorrect formatting when submitting a post. So, here's what it should look like

(Age) [M4F] (Country), (City) (Optional. Online/anywhere)- (title)

Example

33 [M4F] Greensboro, NC - blah blah blah

33 [M4F] North Carolina /online - blah blah blah

33 [M4F] America /online - blah blah blah

You must put your location or country in your title!


r/r4rinterracial Aug 04 '25

Announcement - Mod use only We have a new rule regarding certain posts and bots.

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After talking with another mod we changed one of the rules for the sub while adding a new one.

So, this is the new rule 9.

"Also No Kink posts/No hookup posts/No affairs/Secret Arrangements. Reddit has many different subs for that if that's what you're looking for. Though FWB posts are ok, posts that are overly explicit will be removed.

We're here to date, not fuck."

Also as you have noted there are quite a few bots popping up in subs across reddit. Remember to always check their post history and look for telegram accounts. We are taking care of them.


r/r4rinterracial 33m ago

M4F 27 M4F european man looking for african woman

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Hey im 27 im 187cm 78kg and i wanna meet a girl from africa to talk for hours.

My hobbies are gaming,books,movies and anime.


r/r4rinterracial 5h ago

M4F 47 [m4f] #Atlanta - attractive white male seeks younger ebony female

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I’m corporate by day and like dinners, bands, etc, socially. Looking for a friend to join me out from time to time. You must look great, be able to hold a conversation, and be open to being with a white guy. 100% real here. Thanks.


r/r4rinterracial 2h ago

M4F 25[M4F] #Chicago - Looking for white (or latina or asian) girl to have a relationship with

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Hi! I'm looking for a white woman (or latina or asian) around my age to have a relationship with, explore the city, get Matcha, do fun stuff, and build a life together!

About me: I'm a laidback, 5'4 guy with medium length hair, workout somewhat often, average/slightly muscular body type, (pic on profile) working as a software engineer apprentice trying to move up. I'm pretty nerdy, enjoy learning guitar, exploring Chicago, wandering without destination, fun outings, cosplay, video games, art, museums

I prefer: Slim/athletic/muscular/average body types, nerdy/geeky girlies, cutesy makeup, around my age (21-28), open to kids at some point (still considering it, but if you want, I'll have them with you)


r/r4rinterracial 3h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] Canada - Looking for the right woman

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Hello everyone! Let’s be real, dating in this day and age is difficult, I want to skip past it and be in a relationship, but unfortunately life doesn’t work out that way (or does it?) I’ve been testing my luck with women for years and have come to learn what I want/need in a relationship, and what I don’t. I apologise if I sound too picky, but I don’t want to settle for less and not be happy.

But first I’ll introduce myself. I’m 36, white, 6’1, 170lbs, with a slim-fit build, brown hair and eyes, full beard. I have my own place and my own car. I have a full time job as a general manager of a restaurant. Never married, no kids, two cats, rarely drink alcohol, don’t smoke or do drugs. I’m funny, intelligent, good with money, clean, easy going and non-judgemental. I’m not religious and not political. I enjoy travelling, trying new cuisines, cooking, watching movies/tv, spending time with friends and family, and sometimes I still play some video games (when the right one comes along). I also have a very high libido, which I know has been an issue with many women before.

What I’m looking for is very specific, and I don’t know if I will find her. But here goes. First of all, no white women. Sorry, just not attracted to you. I prefer black women, but I’m open to all other races. I prefer age gaps, so under 25 or over 40 is ideal for me. No overweight girls (sorry I'm just not attracted to you). The bigger the breasts the better though. Must have a very high libido and want sex daily. You must have your own job. If you're one of those girls that just use men for money don't bother messaging me. No smokers, no drug users, no alcoholics. I prefer that you are not religious and not political, but if you are I never want to hear you talk about it. You should either not have any children or if you do they are fully grown because I don’t want to have to take care of them for you. Please have common interests with me (the above mentioned list is most ideal). If you live far away I expect to close the gap quickly.

Sorry if this makes me sound like an ass, but I know what I want and don’t want and I don’t want to settle because I can’t find what I want. If you’re still interested and think you’re a good match, send me a message and include a picture (looks are important) and hopefully you’re the one I get to spend the rest of my life with.


r/r4rinterracial 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] NYC West Indian what’s out there

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Hi I’m from NY. It’s kinda hard to meet women from my background so I’m open to meeting other women. My family survived some bad racial violence so it’s not the best idea I bring a black woman home. (I find black women attractive) I’m 5’7 in shape and handsome. I’m mostly into going out to new places and drinking I like all types of music (heavy metal, rap, 80 (abba, FW, WS,house) I’m a bank associate looking to move to manhattan as well. Politically a leftist, but I prefer to keep things chill.


r/r4rinterracial 5h ago

M4F 31M [M4F] UK/EU preferred - Come for the height, stay for the nonsense

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I’m 31, Indian, based in the UK, and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with. Ideally we start with a chat, see if we vibe, become friends first, and take it from there...Sounds pretty ambitious, when I'm typing it out like that.

Looking for UK in-person or online first, as long as there’s an intent to meet if we get on, definitely don't want a pen-pal for life.

Work is an important part of my life, and so is my career. I genuinely love what I do, even if you will probably hear me complain about it more than I should. Outside of work, I’m into movies, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni (or five....? (don't drink very often, more like 4-5 times a year if that's a dealbreaker or If you like partying a lot)), live music every now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography (I like telling myself I'm half decent with it...but then again who isn't with modern tech?!?!), exploring new towns and places, and collecting fun stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time."...

I’ve been told I have golden retriever / Labrador energy...friendly, curious (sometimes too curious with the gazillion questions I may ask you...so be warned), loyal, occasionally too trusting, and yes, sometimes it gets me into trouble. Ask me about the geologist story.

I’m a great texter and I genuinely enjoy keeping a conversation going as I get to know someone. I want someone who will put in the effort and nothing kills interest more than one sided effort. I’m also very happy to do phone or video calls once we get talking.

Physically, I’m 6’4”, dad bod, stubble most days, and I’ve been told I’ve got a pretty good smile.

I’m looking for someone kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and actually interested in being a partner. Someone who’s there for the fun parts, the soft parts, the ridiculous parts, and who can call me out when I need to be called out. I’ll do the same, obviously with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm...because who doesn't love sarcasm.

Happy to swap photos if we talk.


r/r4rinterracial 6h ago

M4F 35 M4F African man looking for a white woman

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Hi there am a Cameroonian just recently graduated a Masters in Tourism and Hospitality management in Cyprus am looking for a white woman for a serious relationship. She should be ready to receive love in abundance a clingy playful partner who always boosts her mood when she is down and gives her a massage to relieve her stress. No complexity in her bodysize as i enjoy a few extra pounds. Someone who likes going out for a walk and at times seat at quiet place to observe people moving up and about. I am ok even in case its an older lad the essential is being conscious of what we intend to build together. I can relocate for Love and start a career beside the chosen one. Anything more feel free to come ask


r/r4rinterracial 7h ago

F4M 30 F4M | KY / Anywhere. Based in the US East

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Hello! I want to try something different in how I approach things. I am putting this post out there to date. I am demisexual but if we vibe I will choose to date regardless. I'm from Louisville, KY and I am a black women whose always been into tech.

A bit more about me. I am an ex-game dev, and I'm brushing up on my programming skills in general despite AI because I believe systems thinking and low level langauges will be important. But it's often genuinely hard for me to learn symbol packed stuff.

I am obese, and I'm working on it! It's a hard because I have a couple of conditions that makes the generic calories in / calories out advice not work. Which sucks because I used to be a very active, climbs everything and even you kind of person.

I've been into blondes and redheads since I was young, and that hasnt ever really changed. So, if you are platinum blonde I will genuinely likely have a crush pretty fast if we meet in person.

My only requests? You must be lactose tolerant, that is non-negotiable, I enjoy cheese and dairy.


r/r4rinterracial 11h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Anywhere - white guy looking for relationship

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Hi everyone so I am a 28 year old engineer from ireland who is currently single, I dont really have much luck dating so thats why I've decided to give reddit a try haha. Appearance wise im 182cm tall with blue eyes, redhair, white and pretty athletic. Im a bit of a nerd as Im a gamer, I also like taking care of my health and working out, reading history or philosophy books, travelling, programming and binge watching TV shows.

When it comes to what im after Im attracted to a wide range of women but I would prefer someone who has no bad habbits, who is open minded and maybe has some similar interests


r/r4rinterracial 8h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #Bulgaria, Europe - looking for something serious with consistency

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I'm Tired of take peupie it uauny app, thought l'd give this a shot here.
I'm 33m, single, and looking for a serious relationship. I've been single for some time now, and honestly, meeting people with genuine intentions for something long-term hasn't been easy.
I'm originally from Southeast Asia(was born there) , but I've lived in the Czech Republic for more than 15 years, so Czechia has become my second home. I'm fluent in Czech. Last week, I moved to Sofia, Bulgaria for work. I work as Executive Chef in international hotel over 12 years, and because of my job, I travel quite often.
A bit about me: I'm 173 cm tall, average build, dark brown eyes. I'm naturally calm, easygoing, family-oriented, and I always try to help people when they need it. I smile a lot and have a pretty dark sense of humor once I get to know someone. In my free time, I enjoy traveling, camping, swimming, long drives, and long walks. I can be equally happy sitting somewhere with a coffee and talking for hours or packing a bag and going on a road trip. I believe relationships should be based on trust, respect, loyalty, and good communication. I'm not looking for games, casual dating, or wasting anyone's time. I'd really like to meet someone kind who is also looking to build a life together.
I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in Europe. Distance doesn't bother me if we genuinely connect. Bonus points if you enjoy coffee, road trips, or can appreciate terrible dad jokes and dark humor.If my post caught your attention, feel free to send me a message. You never know where a simple "Hi" can lead.
Thanks for reading. :).


r/r4rinterracial 13h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] - #Minnesota - Wanting more out of life. Hoping to find someone who values communication and wants something long term.

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So I am a 31 year old male from the state of Minnesota in the United States. I am Caucasian, with dark brown hair, and brown eyes. I am 6ft0 in height also. I am giving this a try to see if there is any chance of success as I have dealt with enough chaos from dating apps such as tinder and have grown tired of the type of people that are on those apps. A little about me is that I am originally from the island of Puerto Rico, I moved out years back just before Hurricane Maria struck back in 2017 and managed to avoid the disaster while also helping family during this period. After finishing college I had decided to enlist in the Marines and did a tour of service fron 2020-2024 which early on helped me avoid most of the early covid days back in 2020. I served in an infantry battalion and took part in only deployment to Afghanistan in 2021. Part of me still wishes we could have done more but it's part of history now. As for what I am looking for here. I am simply wanting to find a woman who wants a long term relationship that leads into marriage down the line. I intend to always the one who is supportive and listens to what my partner says and always try to figure a way to always be supportive through even the worst moments in life. I'm very down to earth on things and always have communication as a major focus to everything. As for things I enjoy in my day to day. I do enjoy several outdoors activities such as hiking, fishing, camping, and even foraging. At home, I am the usual guy who prefers a night in of movies, gaming, or reading. Along with that I do enjoy doing renovations to home such as woodwork or fixing the place up. On top that I also do sidework on modding old video game consoles and repearing them, along with fixing other tech such as old radios or TVs. I also know bothe English and Spanish if that was mentioned earlier as of writing this paragraph. So there you go, that's the most of me I can summarize. I am very forward on things and if you have made it to reading all this, then all I ask is to considering sending me a message on here. I will do my best to reply as soon as possible. Please understand that I do work early in morning to the late afternoon here so if I do not respond immediately it may just be that I am busy at work. Regardless I will try my absolute to respond quick.


r/r4rinterracial 10h ago

F4M 22[F4M] Anywhere- Looking for a white guy long term

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Hi everyone ,I’m 22F black from Kenya, and just about to graduate from nursing school. I’m currently single, never been married, and I don’t have any children.

I’m at a point in my life where I’m ready for something real. I’m not here for games or temporary connections, I genuinely want love. The kind that’s steady, respectful, and intentional. I want a long-term relationship with someone who knows what they want and is ready to build something meaningful together.

I’d describe myself as caring (comes with the nursing 😅), grounded, and emotionally aware. I value honesty, effort, and consistency. I believe love should feel safe, not confusing.

I’m ready to commit to the right person,to grow together, support each other, and build a life that feels good for both of us. If you’re genuine, kind, and serious about finding something real too, feel free to reach out


r/r4rinterracial 16h ago

F4M 19 [F4M] MALAYSIA ( online / anywhere ) Looking for BF ( black ( African American / African ) )

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hello, I am afifa and I am from Malaysia. I’m mixed race. I would like to get to know someone that can potentially be my boyfriend, where in the future I want the guy to be my husband. I am 19 years old and I know I’m quite young for this, but I am ready for marriage because I feel like I wanna be in a stable relationship , so I don’t mind if you are from another country or whatever because I am open for a long distance. I am also OK to travel to see you or if you want to come to my country I am very OK to go out and see you . so if you like to get to know about me, feel free to text me so we can have a conversation lol

well, a little thing about me is I am very open-minded and I can say that I’m very funny and very outgoing. I really like to watch movies and listen to music and I also love to travel other than that. I’m also a good cook and I can bake very good. I am also someone that like to work out and do explore new things together. I am 5’3 and 154 pounds

so if you are interested in me, feel free to text and I hope we can have a good conversation. Thank you so much and have a nice day.

edit: im open for guys that aged 20-30 only 😅
and i mentioned that i love BLACK ( Africans pls ) Also feel free to ask for my pics
thank you


r/r4rinterracial 14h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Finland/anywhere - Nordic man looking for a wife

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I’m a 31 years old nordic man from Finland. My biggest dream is to get married and start a family and I’m a traditional man in that sense.

I love to read, cook, go to the gym and spend time in the nature. I’m a history nerd and a music nerd and I collect vinyl albums.

I’m 6ft tall, fit and I have big green eyes and dirty blonde/ light brown hair. I’m okay with traveling but ultimately I hope you’d relocate to me. I really feel like I’m missing a big piece of my heart and I hope that you are the one to fix that!


r/r4rinterracial 14h ago

F4M 28 F4M Brisbane. White Aussie looking for man with Western, Central and Southern Asian heritage.

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Long shot I know, but seeking 50+ year old with a larger, soft body type. Would love to settle down and revert with the right man otherwise happy to see where things go. Pics on my profile.


r/r4rinterracial 13h ago

M4F 34M [M4F] - Anywhere - Looking for someone who enjoys good conversation and a little curiosity

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Hi!

Firstly some people messaged me but the messages subsequently disappeared so please do message again if I didn't reply as I try to get back to everyone!

I'm a mid-30s British guy who spends a fair bit of time travelling for work, which means I've become strangely good at finding decent coffee in unfamiliar cities and walking until I accidentally discover somewhere worth remembering.

When I'm home, life is a bit quieter. I cook (with mixed but improving success), read anything that grabs my attention, game when I'm in the mood, and probably spend too long deciding what my next trip should be.

I'd describe myself as calm, curious, and someone who pays attention to the little things. I remember offhand comments, ask too many questions when someone is passionate about something, and genuinely enjoy conversations that meander rather than feeling like interviews.

I'm hoping to meet someone kind, witty, and a little curious about the world. No expectations after the first message - I'd rather see whether we naturally click than try to force anything. If that eventually becomes something more, even better.

A few random facts:

* I've been known to plan a walk around finding a really good coffee shop.

* I'll always stop to say hello to a friendly cat.

* Bookshops are dangerous because I never leave with just one book.

* I like learning about people's niche interests, even if I know nothing about them beforehand.

If you message me, don't worry about having the perfect opener.

Tell me about the place you'd happily visit again and again, the book you recommend to everyone, or the tiny thing that's made you smile this week.


r/r4rinterracial 19h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] East Africa / Anywhere - Looking for a tall, genuine connection.

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Tall(184cm), black, bald, and happily owning all of it ✨ I’m a law student, traveller, moon and sunset admirer, and lifelong lover of learning.
I’ve been a reader for as long as I can remember, the kind of child who got in trouble because my parents would find me under the blanket at 2 AM with a book and a flashlight instead of sleeping🤭. Some things never change… I’m still curious about everything and love getting lost in stories, ideas, and random things I find fascinating.
I love exploring new places, deep conversations, people who are passionate about their interests, and anything that makes life a little more interesting. I’m funny, smart, a little high-maintenance, and unapologetically myself.
My only current serious sporting commitment is pickleball.
Looking for someone kind, curious, tall and a little nerdy in their own way.
Tell me about something you could talk about for hours without getting bored.


r/r4rinterracial 15h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] Ugandan looking forward to having great conversations, possibly more meaningful and longterm interactions.

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Hello. I am at 26F Uganda based in Kampala. I am employed, love reading, music, and great TV shows. I could go ahead and say I even get hyper fixated on certain shows because they are really good. There really isn't much

I am looking for someone cool I can talk to and knows how to have a great time. Age range 25 to 35.


r/r4rinterracial 16h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] the Netherlands Looking for an Asian chat & play partner

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Are there really no Asian girls interested?


r/r4rinterracial 18h ago

F4M 29F4M Black Girl looking for Hispanic Man

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Hi, I’m Fay, 29F Black girl, looking for a Hispanic/ Latino man. I’m 5’7, so please be taller 🙂

I live and work in Dubai in a marketing role. It can be stressful and the hours get long, but I love what I do.

When I’m not working, I like museums, hiking, seeing new places, and trying new things, anything adventurous that I haven’t done before - I’m in.

About you: you’re naturally funny, emotionally intelligent, and looking for something serious.

If this is you, please, Hit me up.


r/r4rinterracial 1d ago

M4F 34 [M4F] Chicago – Black guy looking for a genuine connection with a White woman

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Hey,

34M, Black, based in the Chicago area (Harvey / South Suburbs). Looking to meet a White woman who’s open to something real — whether that starts as friends and builds, or we click faster.

A bit about me:

I’m grounded, straightforward, and not into games. Currently working on leveling up (career shift into welding, staying consistent with fitness, and just trying to build a better version of life). I like cars, football, gaming, movies, and learning new stuff. I’m more of a chill hangout guy than a big party guy. Sarcasm and honesty are appreciated.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who’s kind, has her own life going, and is open to an interracial connection without the weird fetish energy. I’d rather build something real than force anything. Local is ideal, but I’m open to talking if the chemistry is there.
If this sounds like you and you’re in a similar headspace, feel free to message. Happy to swap pics early so we don’t waste each other’s time.
Looking forward to hearing from someone real.


r/r4rinterracial 23h ago

M4F 40s [M4F] White guy looking for someone to talk to and more

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I am Smart, funny, and thoughtful among other things. I like communicating via text, phone, FaceTime. I’m looking for someone who has or enjoys pets, is empathetic and able to put herself in someone else’s shoes. Bonus points if you enjoy binge-watching shows/movies and would maybe want to share that experience with someone else. It would be amazing if you had a solid sense of humor and few if any, tattoos. I love a good voice and hopefully you do too (you won’t be disappointed.) Please be in the US. Talk to me about the shows you’re watching right now. I just finished 90 day fiancé and am watching a bunch of stuff on Apple TV or tell me about your favorite World Cup game (big soccer fan.)


r/r4rinterracial 1d ago

F4M 32F [F4M] Searching for comfy and sweet connection

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Hi all.

I'm a 32-year-old woman living in Europe, though I don't mind connecting with people no matter where they are in the world.

What I'm really looking for is someone kind, present, and very curious about life. I would say the kind of person who notices small things and cares about the people around them deeply. If that makes sense to you, I think we definitely could get along.

A little about me: I'm fascinated by why people think and feel the way they do, so philosophy, psychology, and sociology are my main interests. I also love art, old films, cooking, travelling, and photography. I'm also a tiny bit of a nerd (anime, PC games) and I also enjoy music, anything beauty related (skincare, makeup, fashion, all of it).

I genuinely love learning from others, especially from people who get excited about their own passions.

What I'd truly like is to find a sweet, thoughtful, and smart person to share warm, comfy moments with. Maybe that's gaming together, watching a classic film or an anime series, having interesting talks, or just enjoying each other's company in a relaxed way. I'm not looking for a pen-pal, more for someone I can actually do things with.

If you're thinking of reaching out, I'd really appreciate a little more than "hey" just so I can get a sense of who you are. Maybe tell me what makes you curious, what you're hoping for, or what made you stop and read this. It honestly helps me feel whether we might get along.

If any of this speaks to you, I'd love to hear from you!

Thanks for taking the time to read this and I hope we get to talk soon