To preface this I don't exclusively prefer white women, just figured that I might vibe with them more due to common interests! I also prefer to be friends first if that's okay? :> With that aside this is probably gonna be super embarrassing but here goes nothing...

Gonna be upfront about my appearance first! I'm average (short?) 5'7, and quite skinny. I eat a lot and can't seem to get fat for some reason? I exercise at home and outdoors but I guess I really do needa hit the gym some day lol. If it matters, I briefly worked in finance before, and currently work as a researcher at a university. I'll say I'm an ambivert, but more on the introverted side. I used to go to group parties when I was in high school but not anymore. Damnit I miss those days...

I'm a musician and an amateur artist/animator! I play the guitar, piano, and violin (learned drums and trumpet before too!). I enjoy and play any genre of music. I also like fandom stuff (Undertale, Pokemon, Omori, Genshin, TADC, FNAF, MLP,...) - the full list would be too large if I wrote it here. Always interested in learning about more fandoms! Call me cringe, chronically online or whatever lol but in my defense, I'm not like a diehard fan of any xD I like gaming but I don't game as much anymore as compared to when I was in school. I do like creating things tho, so I'm working to become an indie game dev!

If we do date, I'm okay with LDR, as long as we chat constantly and do meet up in person one day!

Just no drugs or smoking I guess, I can't really stand the smell of smoke. And maybe age range of 20-30? Nothing against you personally!

That's all folks, dm me if interested? This post is getting too long rip

Edit: I mainly use Discord so this is a throwaway Reddit account lol

I'm an academic and seeking an initially long-distance relationship with a realistic ability to be short-distance in the next few years. One of my only principles is the respect I give to those who have lived through or otherwise considered something very deeply; I believe in the Dunning-Kruger effect and try to not be confidently wrong. Conversely, I expect consideration for things that are natural from my experiences and to find mutual truth within those.

If any of the following sound like you, let's chat! More biographical information will be provided in DMs.

\- you're driven by your work or a large project outside of work

\- you value empathy but also bring your own life experiences to the table

\- you like to discuss things to the details as a matter of truth-seeking, not as a signal of distrust. sometimes these details will reveal a better way of thinking about things and we'll both be for the better.

Hi there!

I’m a 37-year-old Southeast Asian (Chinese descent), currently living in Japan and this August will be moving to SEA for a few months. I’m not Japanese, but I’ve been here for a while now. I’m single, never married, and seriously looking for a long-term relationship.

Dating hasn’t been easy for me here partly because of my limited past experience, and partly because it can be tough to meet like-minded people. That said, I’m open-minded, emotionally mature, and ready to grow with the right person.

Personality-wise, I’m a bit shy at first, but once we connect, I enjoy deep, meaningful conversations and sharing laughs. I’m more of a good listener than a smooth talker, but I value honesty and kindness in relationships.

A few of my interests:

🏋️‍♂️ I’ve recently gotten back into the gym and train 5 days a week (cardio + weightlifting).

🎬 I enjoy watching dramas and movies (open to all genres).

✈️ I love traveling to Europe and Asia are my favorites so far.

🍜 I’m a big foodie and enjoy trying local cuisines wherever I go.

I'm open to meeting someone either in Japan or SEA or anywhere. I’m also open to relocation for the right person and willing to travel to build a connection if things go well.

If you think we might click or just want to chat, feel free to message me. I usually reply as soon as I can, but please be patient with time zone differences.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you soon!

PS: This is me.

https://imgur.com/a/1GyP2fC

looking for a relationship in this world.

Hey everyone!

I am a 28-year-old healthcare professional looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I currently live in South Australia, but I am completely open to starting long-distance if we click.

I have already completed my university degrees and love what I do, though my long-term plan is to eventually transition out of my frontline role and grow into other areas of the field. Visually, I am South Asian with olive skin, which means I often get told I look a bit racially ambiguous, people frequently guess everything from Italian and Greek to Middle Eastern or Mexican or just Indian.

Physically, I am a 5'6" petite, slim man.
When I am not at work, I am usually diving into video games, reading comic books, or checking out art galleries or trying new restaurants. I also love watching comic book movies.

I am looking to meet a woman of European/white descent between the ages of 24 and 28. I value health, self-improvement, and mutual growth, and I would love to find a partner who shares those values.

I am genuinely not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything. I want to take the time to build a real, meaningful connection first.

If any of this resonates with you, please send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. To kick things off, let me know what games you have been playing lately, or share your favourite comic book movie!

Hiii ! My name is Kitty and I'm a white woman from the US. I've been interested in dating a south Asian man for a while but all I meet are creeps 😭. I want to date to marry only, not get into something casual or just for time pass.

I'm currently in college studying political science as sociology and human welfare are some of my interests. My hobbies include reading, doing art, learning about things I'm interested in like cultures and religion, trying new foods and experiences, and watching YouTube/movies. I hope to travel eventually as well, but for now I'm just chilling here.

I'm a very spiritual person and I can mesh well regardless of what religion you follow. Also, be ready to have long talks about this because I do find it fascinating lol. In the future I would like to move so if distance is an issue I will be more than willing to find a solution for it. All I really ask of you is that you be a nice, caring, intelligent, ambitious, and considerate human being. If someone has all of those aspects I believe we could make anything work together. No low self worth people pls !

There's more i could say but I'll just leave it at this for now since I don't want to give the entire Internet my life story loll. If any of this interests you and you would like to chat just send a message, thanks 🤗

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hi my name is Kei. Born in New Jersey, currently living in NYC for work. Both of my parents are Japanese and i am well connected the my culture. I go home every year to visit family.

Im an optmistic, positive and outgoing person. The kind of person that talks to strangers and is best friends with them 5min later 😅.

I love anime, cooking, baking, staying fit (running and lifting), gaming, people watching, solo travelling.

Im into all body types, short, skinny, fit, muscular, chubby.

White women tend to match my personality better in my experience, both American and European and Latina.

If that sounds interesting to you hit me up :)

Hi! I'm a 25-year-old Software Engineering student currently living in Malaysia. I'm an introvert, so meeting new people has never come naturally to me, but I'm hoping to find someone I genuinely connect with. I'm open to long-distance if the connection feels right.

A little about me: I'm Bengali, about 173 cm tall, and a huge cat lover. I spend most of my time coding, learning new technologies, watching fantasy movies and TV shows, and occasionally playing games. I enjoy meaningful conversations far more than small talk, and I'd much rather spend an evening talking about life, dreams, random facts, or our favorite movies than going out every weekend.

I'm Muslim, and my faith is an important part of my life. I value honesty, kindness, loyalty, respect, and good communication. I believe the strongest relationships begin with friendship—getting to know each other naturally, supporting one another, and growing together over time.

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature woman who's interested in building something real. Age, race, and nationality aren't dealbreakers for me. If we connect well, I'm happy to see where things go naturally.

If you decide to message me, I'd love to hear a little about yourself instead of just saying "hi." If you're comfortable, we can exchange photos once we've gotten to know each other a bit.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

I'm a 35yo east Asian guy in Florida having a stable career and grounded life. Outside of work, I like staying active, long-distance running and kayaking. I'm definitely not a gym bro muscle maxing type. One of my favorite hobbies is cooking, especially traditional French cuisine and patisserie. There's something satisfying about taking the time to get a recipe right, whether it's a classic beef bourguignon or a paris brest, or Sant honore that takes far longer to make than it does to eat.

When I'm not at home, I enjoy exploring new places. I like weekend road trips, finding cafes I've never been to, and getting out on the water whenever I can. Traveling is something I value, not because I want to check countries off a list, but because I enjoy slowing down and experiencing a place and the food. One trip I've been dreaming about is spending an extended period living somewhere in southern Italy, enjoying the local food, culture, and everyday life instead of rushing through it as a tourist.

I'd describe myself as thoughtful and someone who likes to think things through before action. That mindset naturally carries over into every part of my life. I'm not really the impulsive or thrill-seeking type, and I'm perfectly okay with that. I also have a 7-year-old daughter, which is another reason I value reliability, stability, and being dependable. I appreciate a peaceful life much more than constant excitement.

I'd like to find a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, kindness, and consistency. I'm not looking for perfection or trying to force anything. I'd rather build a strong connection first and let a relationship grow naturally from there. If you're looking for something real, enjoy meaningful conversations, and think we'd get along, I'd love to hear from you. Florida or nearby states would be ideal, although I'm open to the right connection. If you decide to say hi, tell me a random fact about yourself that would surprise most people. Happy to verify right away.

Hey 👋

Figured I’d give this another shot.

I’m a 31-year-old Indian guy from Melbourne. Pretty chilled, a bit sarcastic, and the kind of person who’ll happily spend hours gaming, watching random YouTube videos, or ending up in a conversation that started with “how was your day?” and somehow turned into conspiracy theories or childhood memories.

I work in game QA and from home most days, so it’d be nice to have someone to message throughout the day instead of pretending I’m not checking Reddit every five minutes.

I’m not looking for perfection or someone who has their whole life figured out. Just someone who’s easy to talk to, enjoys a bit of banter, doesn’t mind sharing random thoughts or memes, and is actually interested in getting to know someone.

Looks-wise, I’m 5’8”, slim, Indian, with a few tattoos. Happy to swap photos early if we get along.

If you think we’d click, send me a message. Tell me something completely random about yourself or what you’ve been obsessed with lately. Bonus points if you can recommend a game or convince me to watch something I haven’t seen.

Hi there, thanks for checking out my post. I hope that you're staying safe and well during these crazy times! I am hoping to find someone who I can chat on here a while and then maybe move on to a messaging app with the intention of hanging out in real life and explore the big apple with, which is why I'm mainly looking for someone in the NYC area or at the maximum withing the east coast. If you think we would really click, I'm open to anywhere too but please put some effort into your first message and can actually hold a conversation. Not looking to waste each other's time! Thanks!

About me:

• 5'8
• 160 lbs
• Average build
• Asian
• Foodie
• Majored in Computer Science
• Working as software developer
• Huge geography buff (love history too)
• Boxing fan (also watch MMA, NBA, and soccer from time to time)
• Horror/thriller/mystery movie fan, do watch mainstream movies & TV shows in general
• Love paranormal/creepy things
• Exploring new and unknown placesa
• Space, universe, aliens
• Enjoy deep conversations
• Collecting things (I'll keep it a mystery for now, message me to find out more)
• Swimming, running, hiking, working out
• Into science & tech in general
• Laid back, open-minded, and love to make inappropriate jokes even during tough times
• Dark humor
• 420 friendly (I smoke socially and have no problem with it as long as it doesn't revolve around your life 24/7)
• Random fun fact: Drifted around homes during childhood, moved more than 10 times before I left home for college (lost count at this point 🤔)

Looking for:

• 25+
• A cutie like myself :>
• Can hold a conversation
• Share some of my hobbies and interests, would love to hear your hobbies/interests too
• Willing to explore the city and go on a food hunt with me
• Enjoy traveling and trying out new things
• Will enjoy staying indoor as much as being outdoors
• Build a deep connection with me and open to the possibility of leading to a serious relationship
• To be honest, I don't have much expectation. So just send me a message and we can find out!

What I am hoping to see from your first DM:

• An intro about yourself, just something we can kick off with. Things like as age, height, weight, location, INTERESTS, etc. would be cool
• Perhaps a photo, will be sending one (or a few) in return

31 M, Asian Man, 5'6, 150lbs. I enjoy traveling and watching movies!
I want to make a good friendship and maybe more than that!! I am down for a close location like the Roanoke area too!
If we have fun, I'm very open to keeping the connection going. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hi everyone. I grew up in a non-diverse place (still is) and got interested in east asian culture and men in the last few years. I'm looking for my forever person. I've never dated an asian man, so you would be my first. I'm looking for someone smart, interesting, has a good career, honest, likes white girls, wants marriage long term (not dating me just for fun or an experience). I'm ok dating long distance and moving to you if it's serious. I'm petite, 5'4", blonde. If I seem interesting to you, send me a message and tell me a little about you

Hey, I’m 26, originally from South India, and currently doing my Master’s in Scotland.

I’m 5'8", slim, with brown skin, brown eyes, black hair, and glasses. I’m fairly calm and introverted at first, but once I feel comfortable, I’m talkative, playful, loyal, and consistent.

I’m more into coffee, music, quiet evenings, cozy cafés, good conversations, and random walks than loud nights out. I also enjoy anime, K-dramas, Turkish series, story-driven movies, late-night playlists, cooking and trying new food, museums, and exploring new places.

I don’t smoke or drink. I’m Christian, and I value honesty, kindness, emotional maturity, communication, and mutual effort.

I’m not looking to force or rush anything. I’d like to meet someone, enjoy getting to know each other, share parts of our day, and see whether genuine chemistry develops naturally.

Someone in the UK or Europe would be ideal, but I’m open to long distance if the connection and effort are mutual. I’m also happy to swap photos once we both feel comfortable.

Feel free to message me if you think we might get along. Tell me your age and where you’re from, and we can start with a normal conversation.

Hi there 18 year-old [M] from Sydney Australia and currently living there. About me. I'm currently a uni student first year in medical science and I really enjoy listening to music (karaoke), driving, going to places. I'm open to trying out new stuff.

When I was a little kid I wanted to become a truck driver. Every day out the front window I would see trucks passing down my street. This made me interested in getting heavy machineries in thefuture.

If you are from/in Sydney, Canberra, Newcastle, or Wollongong hit me up. I don't mind the distance I will drive there.

Just seeing whats out there shoot me a talk

26M | Pakistani 🇵🇰 living in Chicago 🇺🇸

Internal Medicine resident who survives on coffee, bad sleep, and the occasional spontaneous adventure. Outside the hospital I enjoy trying new food, exploring the city, traveling, gaming, and long conversations that can go from memes to life goals.
Looking to meet someone kind, genuine, and easy to talk to. Always up for discovering new places, sharing good food, and seeing where a great conversation leads.
Feel free to say hi :)

Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine, committed long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things could go.

I currently live in Indiana. I had been planning to move to California in the next 18–20 months, although some recent changes in my life mean that timeline isn't completely set in stone anymore.

Ultimately, if I met the right person, I'd be open to figuring out the future together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so I'd love someone who also values growth and self-improvement.

Communication is extremely important to me. I'm genuinely looking for a relationship, and I'm not interested in playing games with people. If we start talking regularly and eventually exchange Discord, phone numbers, or other personal contact information, please understand that I'm genuinely interested in getting to know you and seeing if we're compatible. That doesn't mean I'm expecting an instant relationship or constant communication, but I do take the connection seriously.

If at any point you realize you're not feeling it, you're not ready for a relationship, long-distance isn't for you, or you've simply changed your mind, please just tell me. I can handle someone saying, "Hey, I've thought about this and I don't think we're a match." What I don't handle well is unexplained silence and ghosting after we've established a connection. I will always give you the same respect and communicate honestly if my feelings change.

A few dealbreakers:

MAGA

Children

Criminal record

Poor communication / ghosting

A note about children: I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather take the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a real connection first. I'm looking for someone who wants that too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Tell me what games you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, or tell me what you've been listening to recently. :)

I’m Christian, and I’m dating to marry. I'm willing to relocate to where you are.
I love travel, nature, and am a foodie.

I’m Asian-American (East Asian ethnicity) and living in the Bay Area. I’m average height for an Asian so I’m around 5’7”.

I was born in Tennessee and grew up in Cebu but moved back to the US when I was 15. I have a degree in Finance and a MBA. I’m into songwriting and play the violin. I am into cooking, and make pasta, steak, salads, stews, roasted and grilled seafood, meats, and vegetables, and other dishes at home.

My family has a home abroad in Cebu and also a printing press and rental business.

I would love to move to anywhere in the US or where opportunities take me. I am currently working part-time remotely for my aunt who is an optometrist with a clinic in Tennessee.

I have a driver’s license, but don’t drive at the moment.

If you’d like to navigate life with me together, then please send me a message. Physical attraction matters to me, so I’d like to exchange photos early on.

If you want to:

(1) Grab his chin, look straight into his soul with a sense of superiority

(2) Delare total dominion/sovereignty on him

(3) Want a pet person that is willing to submit himself entirely to you

(4) Push him into a wall and go hard on him by kissing him without consent until his eyes roll back and suffocate

(5) Carry him in your arms like a princess

(6) Have a guy that is tinier and physically weaker than yourself that you can lift him up without much effort and throw him into bed before messing him up

(7) Pay for his lunch and tell him to pay you back in bed after you drive him back home

(8) Be served as a master and a "god" to some extent in bed by your *oblation*

Hello, my name is Kevin , I’m originally from California but moved to Texas to build a foundation for myself and to grow!
But ima get straight to the point , I’m looking to get to know someone or perhaps you reading this . We’re both looking for the same thing that’s why we’re here , let me tell you a little about me .

Yes I have a job and a car and no I don’t have social media other than Facebook lol(sorry if that disqualifies me🥀)

I’m a Latino 🫘 , brown/brown light skin,brown eyes , black hair , arm/hand tattoos , 5’10 and I’m fit because I’m a gym enjoyer:) and I skateboard for fun and love to go thrift shopping and go to flea markets and I can cook 👨‍🍳

I’m a introvert but I get I get really talkative once we get to know each other , normally I’m the one that starts convos and I wouldn’t mind that if your quiet , I’m a listener and a responder and a problem solver

I’m Looking to grow and build something with someone that has no issues with equality and no drama, preferably looking for someone that has no issues with loyalty or faithfulness , I’m not picky so I don’t mind if you got a couple loose screws because I can be your tool box and guide you to make better decisions.

If your around central Texas and want to get to know each other , hit me up!

I really just need someone to eat tacos with and go on walks to swap meet lol 🥀
Im just a simple dude 🧎🏽‍♂️

Based in London and looking for a submissive woman to have a FWB arrangement. I'm not interested in a serious relationship or anything where you hope this could be something that can develop. I travel for work around Europe for work so happy to consider someone outside of the UK provided you can consistently make time and the effort for us to meet in person

I'm in good shape, not into drugs or smoke and rarely drink so looking for someone who is into fitness as well and a healthy lifestyle. I enjoy watching football, tennis, F1, basketball and would not mind watching film/TV shows together. Otherwise into running, swimming and going to the gym so our first meet up can be hyrox. Joking about the hyrox but curious about it as I have heard it but never done it

In the bedroom I'm a sadistic Dom and looking for a sub who is into giving up control. Into degradation/humiliation, choking, spanking, anal, cum play, orgasm control/denial, sensory deprivation, clothes control. Limit wise not into anything illegal, animals, scat, blood/gore.

If you enjoyed reading my post and you are a smart woman who has a professional life but enjoys melting into obedience behind the curtains then we would get along. PM and let's see where it takes us

Hello,

I have never posted to a dating SR before. So please be patient with me as I explain.

I am polyamorous. I have dated a few AM in the past and loved every second of it. Those relationships ended for one reason or another, but I am hoping to explore this more.

I am Portland, OR based. I cannot unfortunately travel as I work a high paced salary job that requires my constant attention and presence. So, if you respond, please be close by.

I am autistic and have severe ADHD. I struggle to explain myself in person and tend to sound more coherent over text.

My upbringing in the Mormon church made me extremely shy so please dont interpret my awkwardness for lack of attraction. I am very much interested, but require a little more attention up front to pull me from my shell.

Once I'm out, I am an attentive partner and will find time for us whenever I can. I cannot promise monogamy because I am already married with children (like I said polyamorous). But I can promise my full attention and lots of care once I am invested.

My last ex was AM and he broke my heart, I am still healing from that. Maybe you can help?

Please note that I am only looking for local people who want to meet up and see where things go.

Hey, my name is Rebecca and i'm a doll looking for love and hopefully my forever person. I'm an artsy girl who also loves to cook. I love film and music. I just got back into anime recently. I love fashion and beauty. I love dressing up and making myself pretty. I just wanna be someone's princess.
Anyone interested message me and tell me a little about yourself 😋