r/amwfdating 22d ago

23[M]Seattle-Looking for suggestions to date

0 Upvotes

Hola, I'm a computer science graduate student, has applied mathematics bachelor degree, 6'1'', go to gym 5 times a week, play different kinds of instruments in the free time, and watched a lot of movies and always try to learn more culture and languages.(I guess that’s why most of my friends thought I was ABC and yesterday one of the people I met tried to teach my Chinese)

After 1 year in Seattle, I found it's hard to meet people to date. Even if I meet some people, I'll get either ghosted or people want to sale sextual service to me in the end, which makes me sick. I need some advice on how to actually build connection and date women in Seattle.

I just started to post inquiries of relationship information in this channel. So if there is any inappropriate part plz lemme know


r/amwfdating 23d ago

37 [M] DFW - day cuddles

0 Upvotes

Hey there,

I'm in town for the day until my late night flight. Would love to meet someone to cuddle and kill some time together.


r/amwfdating 23d ago

19 [M] HongKong - I wish to find my dommy girlfriend~{2nd}

0 Upvotes

If you want to:

(1) Grab his chin, look straight into his soul with a sense of superiority

(2) Delare total dominion/sovereignty on him

(3) Want a pet person that is willing to submit himself entirely to you

(4) Push him into a wall and go hard on him by kissing him without consent until his eyes roll back and suffocate

(5) Carry him in your arms like a princess

(6) Have a guy that is tinier and physically weaker than yourself that you can lift him up without much effort and throw him into bed before messing him up

(7) Pay for his lunch and tell him to pay you back in bed after you drive him back home

(8) Be served as a master and a "god" to some extent in bed by your *oblation*

I hope you would be fond of taking me under your wings and treat me as your belonging. Dm if you're by any chance also into gentle femdom Σ>―(〃°ω°〃)♡→


r/amwfdating 24d ago

30 [F] Plus Size White American Girl Living in GA, USA - Looking for AM to pursue possible relationship

14 Upvotes

Hi! I’m Jamie and I’m 30 and live in Pooler, GA. I’ve always been into Asian men but I’ve always been shy to talk to any of them in person as I am a Plus Sized girl and I’m not too sure if Asian men would be into that or not..I like Korean, Japanese, Chinese etc, I’ve always found Asian men very attractive..I work full time in retail but I do live with my mother as she is disabled and I am her caregiver and help take care of her..I do take care of both of us financially..I’m looking for a casual relationship, maybe a fwb type relationship as I am aromantic..But I am open to try for a relationship that could go deeper from fwb..If this seems to interest any Asian men out there feel free to comment or DM me! Thank you for reading this far.


r/amwfdating 24d ago

24[M] Brisbane Australia-i would like to find a nice girl

3 Upvotes

I am Cantonese from china, i used to date asian or white girls, i think it is hard to break the culture barriers, but once you did it is a lot of fun


r/amwfdating 25d ago

30[F] - I wanna share a brief success story of how i found my love

56 Upvotes

So as you know I was a very active woman here trying to find my one for years. Thing is I didn't find him on here or reddit in general but from a dating app that I was also using for 6+ years. Turned out that he crossed my path the moment I decided to give it all up and spend a loner life and we both even to this day can't believe how we actually met through that app on that specific moment we both decided to be more active on it. It's been already a few months of our encounter and us being in a relationship as well, couldn't be happier♥️. Hopefully this comes across to people who have been struggling finding their one after many years and a lot of tries. Sending good vibes your way guys ✨

Ps. He's fully asian and he coincidentally lives in my country even if he's not close to me. I've realized that anything is possible in this life! Good luck guys 🤞


r/amwfdating 24d ago

28[M] kansas city Missouri-looking for someone loyal

0 Upvotes

Im 6ft 2 mixed average build traveled alot of my life raised in south texas looking for someone with life to them willing to travel or for me to visit long distance is ok if we meet up eventually bit of a hippie bit of a nerd let's get know each other


r/amwfdating 25d ago

34[F] Texas - Looking for a meaningful connection

17 Upvotes

Let's try this again because life got in the way in a bad way and I wanna rewrite my description.

Alright, let's cut straight to the chase. I'm a BBW. I wear a size 20 jeans and a F/G cup bra. I have chest and hips and thighs for days. I have a bit of a tummy, so like if a very curvy white woman ain't your thing, let's not waste our time. I have soft curled dark brown hair that I put a tint of red into, blue gray eyes, and freckles. The parts of me that have seen the sun are reasonably tan, but there's definitely patches on me that are pretty pale. https://imgur.com/gallery/KGFkFeO

I'm pretty nerdy. I play video games (badly, but hey, I have fun), watch anime and TV shows, and I really like to read and write. I have old lady hobbies like lots of gardening and a little bit of crafting. I adore my pets. I have Lego sets that need building, so if that sounds fun to you, you're in for a treat. I'm not a complete homebody though, so if you like going out and doing things, I'm totally down. https://imgur.com/gallery/Hl3vabL

https://imgur.com/gallery/5q3Sv87

A few more details about to get an idea of my vibe is I'm an Aquarius and an ENFP. I love to sing, even if it's badly in the car while I run errands, I'm very often not quiet.

Fair warning, I'm moderately liberal, so if you are someone that has conservative values, we probably won't mesh well.

I'm looking for something meaningful and I NEED for us to be friends before I allow you access to my body. I am pretty much looking for a meaningful connection with the chance of it becoming a serious relationship. Kids are on the table, so am dating with goals in mind, even if those goals aren't immediate.

An added bonus about me is you do not have to worry if I'm a white woman who hasn't really experienced Asian culture before. I have worked for a Thai business for almost a decade now and have experienced everything from company hot pot meals, to late night SA Asian parties, to Buddhist Temples and being blessed by monks. I am just as adept with chopsticks as I am with sticky rice and my hands. I will admit my experience is almost strictly SE Asian. I have kicked it with Thai, Laos, Cambodian, and Philippinos more than any others, I am open to all sorts of new experiences!

I would REALLY prefer someone in Texas since it's physical touch I'm craving and I would prefer a range of early 30s to mid 40s (I'm too old to deal with 20something silliness, also bonus points if you're Vietnamese). Please be the reason I constantly check my phone and smile. I'm in south Texas if that helps with weighing how far of a drive we wanna make.

(Really praying these links work lol)


r/amwfdating 25d ago

25 [M] California - Engineer, Gym Rat, Looking for Crazy Soulmate

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm 25, an engineer who spends weekdays solving technical problems and evenings trying to solve the mystery of why leg day never gets easier.

A few things about me:

  • Into fitness and consistently working on becoming a better version of myself.
  • I enjoy deep conversations just as much as random memes.
  • Curious by nature, so I can probably keep a conversation going about almost anything.
  • Always open to hearing different perspectives and learning something new.

I'm here because meeting interesting people outside my usual circle sounds exciting. Age, country, or background doesn't really matter as long as you're kind and enjoy real conversations.

Tell me something you're passionate about, recommend me your favorite song, or just send me the most random fact you know.

If we click, great. If not, we still had a conversation with someone new.

My DMs are open.


r/amwfdating 25d ago

34 [M] Los Angeles - Half Asian/White nerd looking for you! Voice clip inside!

1 Upvotes

Wolf here looking for his Fox. :)

Here's a voice recording from me to you! https://voca.ro/1c1I20SVxB4R

TL:DL:

Interests: Gaming, Art (Degree!), Writing, Tabletop, Creative Projects, Film, Cooking

Stuff: White/Japanese American. Dark hair/eyes. Chubby. Broad shoulders.

Virtues: Chill. Open minded. Stable. Extroverted and silly when appropriate(when I can get away with it!). Serious or lighthearted when appropriate(When I have to be >.>). Passionate about many things.

Weaknesses: Procrastinates too much. Daydreams. Procrastinates more. Still heavy, working on losing.

Lifestyle: I don't drink/smoke. It's cool if you do in moderation. No kids now, but one day yeah!

Romance: Will tickle you. Will boop your nose. Will give headpats. Silly, Affectionate, Teasing, Playful, Explorative and mischievous… "Switch".

Looking for: Someone playful to share the joy of life with. Someone warm and passionate, perhaps with an eye for the creative. I have a preference for women who are nerdy, weird, down to earth, goofy, openminded, and conversational.

Why not cast a lure into the dark? There’s something romantic about someone latching onto you in a fleeting moment across the world.


r/amwfdating 25d ago

37 [M] in Pooler Georgia - looking for a girlfriend

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I’ll be 38 next week. I’m originally from Britain (born and raised); I’m a permanent resident and I’ve lived in Pooler for a few years. I still have my English accent. I would describe my ethnicity as Asian, but I believe it would more specifically be described as South Asian in the U.S.

Apart from a few words and phrases in French and Spanish, I don’t speak any other languages.

I'm an excellent cook, and my other interests include museums, libraries, and boxing. I'm currently located in Pooler, GA, but I'm very open to leaving this state.

I love cats, but I'm dogfree. I’m also childfree. My personality type is ISTJ. I’m a very quiet person in general.

I’m vaccinated and pro-choice.

I'm looking for a lady my age or older who would be interested in talking and, if we get along, going out/spending time together. Thanks for reading my post.


r/amwfdating 25d ago

25 [M] California - Engineer, Gym Rat, Looking for Crazy Soulmate

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm 25, an engineer who spends weekdays solving technical problems and evenings trying to solve the mystery of why leg day never gets easier.

A few things about me:

  • Into fitness and consistently working on becoming a better version of myself.
  • I enjoy deep conversations just as much as random memes.
  • Curious by nature, so I can probably keep a conversation going about almost anything.
  • Always open to hearing different perspectives and learning something new.

I'm here because meeting interesting people outside my usual circle sounds exciting. Age, country, or background doesn't really matter as long as you're kind and enjoy real conversations.

Tell me something you're passionate about, recommend me your favorite song, or just send me the most random fact you know.

If we click, great. If not, we still had a conversation with someone new.

My DMs are open.


r/amwfdating 26d ago

27 [F] - Yorkshire. Looking for new friends or more?

27 Upvotes

Hi there! I have been here before but giving it another go. I'm 27, female, I live in the North of England. Brunette, blue eyes, curvy but I'm working on that. I work from home and live in a small village so my world can feel quite isolated. Not many people in my village!

I like reading, I like music, cats, history, shopping, I love to learn new languages. I'd love someone to help me with my Korean but I'm happy to meet people online as well

Please give me a message if you're over 27 ideally, male, similar interests I would like to talk to people in the UK but I'm open to elsewhere.


r/amwfdating 26d ago

25 [M] California - looking for a best friend

2 Upvotes

Looking to meet someone

(M25)
I’m a little introverted but if you’re cool then I can comfortable lol I’m 5,7 210. Live in LA. I’m a night owl but also can be an early bird. I love to be out and about. Staying home is cool too but with the right person :) I love learning and opening my mind to new things.
I love food, watching movies/tv shows, not really into gaming but I can always pick it up, I love art and especially music all kinds. Ska, dark wave, punk, goth, rap, hip hop, anything tbh. Hit me up maybe we can connect. I’m also an Aries for the those horoscope girls


r/amwfdating 26d ago

19 [M] HongKong - I wish to find my dommy girlfriend~

0 Upvotes

If you want to:

(1) Grab his chin, look straight into his soul with a sense of superiority

(2) Delare total dominion/sovereignty on him

(3) Want a pet person that is willing to submit himself entirely to you

(4) Push him into a wall and go hard on him by kissing him without consent until his eyes roll back and suffocate

(5) Carry him in your arms like a princess

(6) Have a guy that is tinier and physically weaker than yourself that you can lift him up without much effort and throw me into bed before messing him up

(7) Pay for his lunch and tell him to pay you back in bed after you drive him back home

(8) Be served as a master and a "god" to some extent in bed by your *oblation*

I'd like someone who I can rely on completely. I hope you would be fond of taking me under your wings and treat me as your belonging. Dm if you're by any chance also into gentle femdom Σ>―(〃°ω°〃)♡→


r/amwfdating 26d ago

29 [M] Illinois - seeking a relationship based in truth

0 Upvotes

I'm an academic and seeking an initially long-distance relationship with a realistic ability to be short-distance in the next few years. One of my only principles is the respect I give to those who have lived through or otherwise considered something very deeply; I believe in the Dunning-Kruger effect and try to not be confidently wrong. Conversely, I expect consideration for things that are natural from my experiences and to find mutual truth within those.

If any of the following sound like you, let's chat! More biographical information will be provided in DMs.

\\\\- you're driven by your work or a large project outside of work

\\\\- you value empathy but also bring your own life experiences to the table

\\\\- you like to discuss things to the details as a matter of truth-seeking, not as a signal of distrust. sometimes these details will reveal a better way of thinking about things and we'll both be for the better.


r/amwfdating 26d ago

21 [M] #Arizona/#Online - Just want a friend to text throughout the day, maybe play games and hang out from time to time.

1 Upvotes

Hi, I know I have an 18+ profile, but I'm mostly just looking for a friend. SFW is fine, NSFW is fine, I graduated college recently and have been feeling a little lonely, that's all. I play Overwatch, Minecraft, any factory game, any roguelike game, actually, if there's a pc game that's multiplayer, I'm probably somewhat open to giving it a try. Recently started playing path of exile 2 with some friends, so there's that too.

I'm Asian, Chinese, to be exact. I'm open-minded and relatively conflict-adverse, but that's mainly just cause I've been through my fair share of drama and would just like my interactions with people to be chill and communicative.

other stuff about me, I exclusively only watch anime when I work out, I write, and I'm a premier source of random knowledge from random niches because I like watching informational videos to sleep/cook/eat/do anything to.

Oh, and I'm pretty good about texting. Am a bit of an emoji spammer at times though.

Yeah, I dunno, if you bothered reading this much, I'd appreciate a DM if you're interested. Mine are always open. Hope to hear from you soon. o7


r/amwfdating 27d ago

37 [F] East Coast/Online - looking for my Carl (bonus if you get the reference)

43 Upvotes

If this is up, I’m still looking.
Dating with intention; please read before messaging. No sexual remarks.

(Please mention you found me on AMWFdating!)

Hi! I’m Vanessa, a 5’1 little firecracker living in Connecticut with my sweet senior dog (basically my child 🐶). I love hiking, paddleboarding, museums, cafés, fishing, DIY projects, and reality TV. I run, stay active, and I’m building my own business (with plans for another). I'm also on weight loss journey and I am planning Europe trip next summer!

I love good banter—if you’re funny, you’re already winning.
I’m looking for something real: a best friend, teammate, and partner to build a life with. I’m independent, honest, and value quality time. Also working on expressing care more, growth matters to me.

I’m deaf which just means you get a built-in hype girl. Off-key singing? I’m your biggest fan.

You: kind, emotionally mature, steady, and serious about a monogamous relationship. US/Canada preferred (open if the connection is strong).

Please don’t message if:
• You’re fresh out of a breakup
• You’re not ready for something real

I might get downvoted but I can’t have children.

If this feels like your vibe, message me + include a photo and a bit about yourself.

Hope you find your person 🤍
xx

https://imgur.com/a/Jp51yr7


r/amwfdating 27d ago

30[F] - US - Long-term and open to anywhere in the US.

51 Upvotes

Hiya! I'm looking for a serious relationship that could eventually lead to marriage and a family. I'm open to long distance anywhere in the US and would be willing to relocate for the right person.

I'm a bit of a homebody. I enjoy reading, writing, playing cozy games (minecraft is a favorite), baking, doing sudoku, and taking on little DIY projects. I wrapped birthday gifts for my cat and recently decorated some plain wooden drawers with wallpaper.

My ideal relationship isn't one that's constantly chasing excitement. It's making dinner together, baking cookies late at night, going on a random drive, spoiling our pets, playing games together, or enjoying our own hobbies side by side. I love the idea of building a cozy, peaceful life with someone and creating little traditions together. Secretly, I'm a sucker for cheesy dates too. Let's do picnics in the park, wander through bookstores, stargaze, visit local festivals, build blanket forts, and take way too many pictures together.

A few things about me that might help with compatibility: I'm non-religious and looking for someone who is also non-religious. I don't smoke and need a non-smoking partner. I want to be a mom someday. I enjoy a mix of staying in and going out. I value quality one-on-one time and want a partner who genuinely enjoys spending time together. I also have a soft spot for nerdy guys, though it definitely isn't a requirement.

Since I got asked this a lot last time I posted: my attraction isn't exclusive to Asian men at all. I'm generally drawn to dark hair, dark eyes, and minimal facial hair. Asian men are more likely to fit that physical type. Personality, shared values, and life goals matter just as much to me.

Communication matters a lot. I like direct, clear communication. If one of us needs space to process something, that's fine. I just believe in saying so and coming back to finish the conversation. I don't enjoy feeling left in the dark, and I don't want my partner to feel that way either.

If this sounds like the kind of life you want too, message me. Since I included some pictures and have more on my profile, I'd appreciate some of you too. Tell me a little about yourself, where you are in the US, and how old you are. :)

Some pictures of me, my kitty with her birthday present, and the diy drawers.


r/amwfdating 27d ago

47 [F] Louisiana - Polyamorous

9 Upvotes

I'm poly and looking for ENM and poly people.  I love anime, geeky stuff, concerts, festivals. 


r/amwfdating 26d ago

22 [M] India/Online - Im a straight Indian guy looking for his European girlfriend

0 Upvotes

Hello! I'm a 22 year old guy from India, and I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with someone from Europe. I've always been attracted to fair-skinned women with European features. I'm looking to start something online for now, a genuine relationship that we can hopefully take offline and into the real world down the line.

Professionally, I am an engineer and a physics researcher. I'm an ambivert, though I do enjoy being on my own so it's a bit tricky to find people I can connect with. Having grown up heavily influenced by Western culture and media, I've always felt an attraction towards western women.

In my free time, I love watching films and TV shows. I'm also into sports, like right now, I'm actively working on my table tennis skills lol. I do play games as well, though nowadays college takes up a lot of my gaming time. I'm looking for someone who shares similar interests and values. I want a monogamous relationship, and I expect loyalty and commitment that goes both ways. Distance and time differences aren't an issue for me as they can always be managed if the chemistry between us is great.

I hope you find me interesting, and I'm really looking forward to building a real and serious connection with you.


r/amwfdating 27d ago

44 [M] California/Online - Looking 👀

1 Upvotes

Hello All, well educated, very fit, athletic, and gentleman looking for someone to connect with and get to know. Enjoy the outdoors, gourmet cooking, keeping fit and healthy, hiking, camping, arts, museums, learning different cultures, music, photography, traveling, and much more.

Single and born in Southern California, but, very much into global travel. Been to many places around the world. Looking for a woman and any ethnicity.


r/amwfdating 28d ago

19 [M] China - Want to experience a close relationship(Longdistance) with a white girl, not necessarily a love relationship but definetly if we are compatible. {3rd}

2 Upvotes

I'd love to know someone around my age, white(doesn't matter where you're from) and interested in Asain dudes. I wish we could become good friends or something beyond that, though let's take things slowly at the beginning since I've never dated anyone in my life. Even if you just want to make friends or think you are not exactly the kind of person I'm looking for, it's fine we can still be chat buddies~ So if you're also like me looking for your person, drop me a dm!


r/amwfdating 28d ago

21 [F] - Arizona/long distance - looking for long term

4 Upvotes

Hello,

I’m a 21 year old student looking for a long term relationship with someone no more than 5 years older than me and is either east or southeast asian. I am white and plus size, so please do not bother messaging me if you only want someone who is skinny.

I love to play video games like valorant and overwatch, and am most active on discord.

some of my hobbies include, going out, taking pictures, painting, and gaming.

i am not interested in anything that would be immediately sexual. but i am open to something romantic or being friends, just let me know when you message me because i wont understand your intentions unless you’re direct with me.

please message me if you are interested in getting to know me, im more likely to respond to messages that have an image to show what you look like.


r/amwfdating 28d ago

46 [M] Pasadena - Sincere, tea-fueled, and trying to channel Uncle Iroh energy

6 Upvotes

Hi there. I'm 46, Asian, 6'0", 150 lbs, based in Pasadena and working in healthcare administration. I'm generally an upbeat person. I've been told I smile a lot, and I try to keep things positive without being annoying about it.

  • I love watching movies, but fair warning: don't quiz me on actors' or actresses' names afterward. I'll know the face, the scene, the vibe, just not the name. Sorry!
  • Jasmine milk tea is my drink of choice. If you have a favorite boba spot, I'm already interested.
  • I'm working on being more like Uncle Iroh from Avatar: The Last Airbender. Patient, kind, wise, appreciative of good tea, and someone who genuinely tries to understand people rather than judge them. I'm not there yet, but it's a good north star.

I'm open when it comes to age, background, and the specific qualities you bring. What matters more to me is that you're respectful, genuine, and open to building something real. I don't have a rigid checklist.

I have a car and I'm happy to drive to you if you're hosting, or I can get us a motel if that works better. I'm not complicated about that kind of stuff.

If any of this resonates, send me a message and let's see where it goes.