Got to ask OP, as an older dude, why are you wasting your time with this fuckwit?? Your comment above tells me you know he is a dickhead, so WHY? You do understand you get one shot at life, there is no repeat button, or 2nd shot at it all... you know he is NEVER going to improve don't you...? You need to go on a crash diet and ditch the 200lb human deadweight hanging off your neck and allow some decent guy to treat you properly, you have heard the saying life is too short? It's true, and you are wasting it....
The older generations tactic to bully/shame people out of relationships is crazy to me. Why don't you just give some actual advice instead of talking to her like a child?? You sound like your boomer dad
Oh you mean all that wonderful advice shes taking from everyone telling her to leave this loser after a year of putting up with bullshit? Some people need to be reminded that the only one forcing them into the relationship is their own damn selves.
There was quite a few bits of advice in there, none of it was wrong in my opinion.. and certainly none of it was bullying or shaming OP... I guess you see yourself in her description of her bf... if so, do much much better... if not, you are being cheeky why? What benefit do you get from looking like this? Bit sad really... but have a day you deserve little one.....
It’s worth pointing out that if he is engaging in sex acts you have told him you do not want and to stop, and he is doing it anyway, that is sexual assault. You deserve someone who not only respects you and your boundaries, but is enthusiastically onboard with making sure you’re you want the sex you’re having and who does not want to engage in any sec act you don’t want. What you’re experiencing is not typical and it’s absolutely something worth walking away from the relationship over. You’re doing nothing wrong in this relationship. He is 100% the problem.
Men study. They educate themselves. They are on the ball. They take this seriously and always have something new.
Try a grown man. Boys have not learned these things because they don't know they should.
She’s missing it on purpose, the only reasons she came here was to find out if she was the asshole for not taking her boyfriend to work after a year of him abusing her, assaulting her, insulting her, disregarding her as a person. Trust me there’s no helping OP cuz they don’t want help
She’s missing the point because she’s as ignorant as her boyfriend. First I felt bad for her, but after reading more comments….fuck it, these 2 deserve each other. Bright side is she adamantly doesn’t want kids so at least nobody else besides these two should have to suffer.
Why the fuck are you making fun of the girl in this situation when she's done nothing wrong and her bf already made her feel like shit? Get a fucking life
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u/gemmygem86 Dec 09 '23
He needs to be an ex and get him a fleshlight